Sexual pleasuring techniques a man may enjoy

A woman who lies fairly inert during sexual pleasuring, communicates a lack of cooperation and
causes a man to feel sexually unappreciated. Both social and sexual interaction rely on the active
interest of the participants. In women’s eyes men can seem impossible to please. But men wonder
why women do not provide them with the sexual interaction they hope for. i Men’s erotic fantasies
involve exploring sex play in which a woman takes an active sexual interest by responding when her
lover stimulates her.
A woman can stimulate a man by licking and sucking gently on his nipples. Have your lover enter
your vagina from behind (as he supports his weight on his arms) and tell him to keep his hips still. In
this position you can gyrate your hips to stimulate his penis. See if you can make him come just by
moving your hips! Tightening your pelvic muscles rhythmically helps.
The facts of male sexuality are evident from observing the real world but they are also supported by
research findings. Frequencies of sexual activity vary but the vast majority of men (92%) orgasm
quickly and easily through masturbation as well as through intercourse (100% with their wives).
Research focuses more on attitudes towards sexual pleasuring (such as women’s willingness to
provide fellatio) rather than on whether men achieve orgasm (which is perhaps assumed given men’s
responsiveness!).
If your man loses his erection, have him lie on top of you. Feel around his penis and testicles. Once
his penis hardens slightly, hold it firmly in your hand and use a gentle pumping action to increase his
erection. Once erect, guide his penis into your vagina. Move your hips to help stimulate his penis. If
he moves his weight onto his arms, you can keep moving your hips or alternate with tightening your
pelvic muscles to give him more sensation. Reach down and feel around the base of his penis and his
testicles. Admire his hardness and hold his buttocks firmly to pull him deeper inside.
For a little variety, plan the occasional session in front of the TV. Using porn movies, to supplement
sex, adds a little spice for both lovers. A man also enjoys a woman who uses language that is sexually
explicit. Exaggerate if necessary as you describe the things you would like him to do to you!
Offer fellatio whenever you can. I like to offer in the bath or at the start of a sex session. Likewise
stimulation of the male G-spot works best in the bath. You need to lubricate a finger and probe gently
into his anus. Make sure you ask him for directions. This is an excellent lesson in appreciating how
difficult it is give and respond to feedback when penetrating a lover.
iWhen she fails to be interested in sexual relations with her husband, when she is less interested than he is, when she refuses to
have intercourse as frequently as he would like it, when she refuses to allow the variety in pre-coital techniques that the male
would like to have, or when she accedes to such techniques without evidencing an interest equal to that of the male, she is
encouraging him to find extra-marital relations. (Alfred Kinsey)