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High Seas. UD 3 - Social Skills
High Seas. UD 3 - Social Skills
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The cognitive components are those related to people's mental processes and the way in
which they intervene in the development of social skills.
Cognitive abilities are necessary to learn social skills, as reflected in Walter Mishel's
social learning theory. The process by which certain thoughts or erroneous beliefs can
prevent them from developing properly is included in the cognitive model of Ellis and
Beck.
Walter Mishel's social learning theory.
The theory that best explains the influence of cognitive aspects on the learning of social
skills is Walter Mishel's social learning theory .
According to this theory there are 5 variables or components: competencies, coding
strategies, expectations, subjective assessment of the situation and self-regulatory
mechanisms and plans.
Behavior Competence. It involves the ability to build or generate cognitive and behavioral
potential strategies of a social nature. It includes knowledge of appropriate social skills, knowing
what and how to do at all times, and recognizing signals from our social partners.
Coding and categorization strategies. They basically refer to the way in which the
person perceives, thinks and interprets the world around them. This requires adequate
social perception.
Expectations. They refer to what the person foresees about the possible consequences
of their behavior, that is, the results they can achieve in each situation.
Subjective assessment of the situation. It refers to the value that the person gives to
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Self-regulatory mechanisms and plans. They consist of the development, by the
individual, of a series of rules that guide their behavior when there are no significant
external pressures.
Adaptation mechanisms.
Their purpose is to search for adaptive strategies in the face of stressful events. Some of
the most common are the following:
▪ Affiliation. The person seeks help and support from others.
▪ Altruism. It consists of facing emotional conflicts by dedicating oneself to meeting
the needs of others.
▪ Anticipation. Anticipate the consequences of certain threats and anticipate
alternative solutions.
▪ Sublimation. The person channels potentially maladaptive feelings or impulses into
socially acceptable behaviors.
▪ Sense of humor. It is based on coping with the situation by emphasizing the funny
and ironic aspects of stressful situations.
▪ Deletion. It consists of intentionally avoiding thinking about the problems or
feelings that cause discomfort.
Avoidance or denial mechanisms.
Stressful situations are faced by inhibiting the situation, that is, avoiding them so that they
do not cause discomfort.
▪ Denial . Refusing to recognize reality or the problem, which means rejecting those
unpleasant or unacceptable aspects.
▪ Projection . The person incorrectly attributes other feelings or
own thoughts that are unacceptable to you.
▪ Rationalization . It consists of looking for reassuring but covert explanations to
cover up reality.
▪ Relative inattention . It is based on erasing from the experience those elements that
could be disturbing if one became aware of them.
Reality distortion mechanisms.
They consist of distorting reality to adapt it to a tolerable situation. Some of these
mechanisms are:
▪ Idealization . It consists of attributing exaggeratedly positive qualities to others.
▪ Devaluation . They attribute exaggeratedly negative qualities to others.
▪ Omnipotence . The person acts in the face of conflict as if he were superior to
others.
▪ Fancy . The person faces the stressful situation by creating
of fantasies that replace the resolution of the problem.
• The lack of learning. Social skills are learned through imitation and reinforcement
processes, through the behavioral models of reference figures. When you grow up
in an environment poor in this type of stimuli, with the absence of valid models
and lack of reinforcements, your repertoire of behaviors and skills will be very
limited.
• The difficulty of putting them into practice. In other situations, the person knows
what the appropriate behavior is and has certain skills in their repertoire, however,
they do not put them into practice because some behavioral factors condition their
execution.
3.3.2. Manifestations of deficit in social skills.
Difficulties in interacting appropriately are revealed through behaviors that demonstrate
this difficulty. The most common are:
▪ Shyness. Sensation that predisposes one to feel insecurity or shame in social
situations. It entails exaggerated nervousness and an excessive concern for social
evaluation. Some of the underlying fears of shyness are:
▫ Fear of giving an inappropriate response.
▫ Fear of being criticized.
▫ Fear of rejection.
▫ Fear of revealing feelings eitherintimate convictions.
Shyness is related to low self-esteem and is one of the main causes of social
anxiety and isolation.
▪ Blocking. It is a kind of manifestation of shyness or stress in communication,
characterized by the impossibility of speaking or expressing oneself in a situation
that is experienced as stressful. Blocking can also occur in written language.
▪ Overadaptation. It is a resource for people with passive behaviors and low self-
esteem that consists of acting according to other people's desires and not their own.
It supposes a renunciation of one's own and different thinking and acting.
▪ Aggression. It means acting in an authoritarian manner, without taking into account
the needs of others, to make clear the position of superiority or power. The insults,
slamming doors or the tone of voice illustrate the inability of these people to
defend their ideas on an equal footing.
▪ Social anxiety. It consists of the fear or fear that arises in a person in interaction
situations. Anxiety is one of the most important factors in the lack of social
competence.
It can show a wide range of behaviors, from a more or less correct interrelation in
coping with situations, to the emission of ineffective or null responses. In the
second case it can become a highly disturbing disorder.
Anxiety is reflected in the activation of characteristic physiological components
that are very difficult to control: stuttering, blushing, sweating, stereotyped
movements, increased pulse, stomach pain, etc.
▪ Social phobia. It is considered as such when the level of anxiety is so high that it
seriously interferes with the person's daily life. People with social phobia tend to
avoid social relationships. Its characteristics are similar to those of anxiety but
much more pronounced: nervousness when speaking, exacerbation of
physiological components (blushing, sweating...), fear of making a fool of
yourself, of being the object of attention, etc.
▪ Isolation. Difficulty relating and anxiety cause the person to become inhibited from
social relationships and actively avoid them. This avoidance results in a decrease
in experiences that could be highly rewarding, from a social point of view, and
activates the feedback cycle of isolation:
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