WEDDING ORGANIZATION (Program)

Names of the bride

and groom

WEDDING ARRANGEMENTS
CONTENT

CIVIL CEREMONY AND WEDDING SPEECH.

PHOTOGRAPHY, WEDDING RECEPTION AND PROGRAM

WEDDING ORGANIZATION
Responsibilities
wedding party director
wedding speech president
General Coordinator of the wedding party
Sound and Music
Transportation of the bride and groom
Photographs

Food service
Menu
Chefs
Waiters
Arrangement and decoration
Votes

GUEST LIST
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CIVIL CEREMONY:

DATE: DAY of MONTH of 200_

PLACE: ADDRESS

HOUR: __ :00 hrs.

WITNESSES: Boyfriend: NAMES

Bride: NAMES

GUESTS: Family and friends

BIBLICAL SPEECH
PLACE: Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses,
Cong. ___________, ADDRESS

DATE: DAY of MONTH of 200_

HOUR: __:00 hrs.

PRESIDENT: NAME
SUBSTITUTE: NAME

__:00 hrs. Canticle (initial): TOPIC (No.___)

INITIAL PRAYER: NAME

__:00 hrs. Speech: “ An honorable marriage in the sight of God ”

SPEAKER: NAME

__:00 hrs. Canticle (final): TOPIC (No. __)

FINAL PRAYER:

SEQUENCE PHOTOGRAPHY:
RESPONSIBLE: NAME
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STUDIO PHOTOGRAPHY:

RESPONSIBLE: NAME

PLACE: PHOTOGRAPHIC STUDIO DIRECTION

DATE: DAY of MONTH of 200_

HOUR: __:00 hrs.

WEDDING RECEPTION:
PLACE: ADDRESS
DATE: DAY of MONTH of 200_
SCHEDULE: __:00 hrs. At __:00 hrs.

“ CIVIL CEREMONY PROGRAM

and BIBLICAL DISCOURSE
DAY of MONTH of 200_

__:00 HRS. WELCOME AND CIVIL CEREMONY

__:00 HRS. SONG ___ AND INITIAL PRAYER
__:05 HRS. SPEECH: “AN HONORABLE MARRIAGE IN
THE SIGHT OF GOD”
__:45 HRS. CANTICLE No. ___ AND FINAL PRAYER
__:50 HRS.. CONGRATULATIONS TO THE BRIDE AND
BRIDE
__:20 HRS. PRAYER FOR SNACK
__:30 HRS. SNACK
__:00 HRS. THE PROGRAM CONCLUDES
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“ WEDDING BANQUET PROGRAM”

DAY of MONTH of 200_

__:00 HRS. INSTRUMENTAL MUSIC

__:00 HRS. WELCOME AND PRESENTATION OF THE
BRIDE AND BRIDE
__:05 HRS. BRIDE AND BRIDE DANCE
__:15 HRS. CONGRATULATIONS, PHOTOS WITH THE
BRIDE AND BRIDE AND DANCE
__:55 HRS.. PRAYER FOR DINNER
__:00 HRS. DINNER
__:00 HRS. DANCE
__:30 HRS. THE PROGRAM CONCLUDES
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RESPONSIBILITIES

ASSIGNMENT RESPONSIBLE PHONE

President of Civil: NAME

President of Dicruso: NAME
Assistant: NAME Banquet
Director: NAME
Assistant: NAME
Chief coordinator: NAME
Assistant: NAME
Civil Snack: NAME
Sound and music Civil and Speech: NAME
Assistant: NAME
Video and Photographs: NAME
Arrangement and decoration: NAME
Assistant NAME
Banquet Cake: NAME
Banquet Entry: NAME
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PRESIDENT OF CIVIL AND BIBLICAL SPEECH

We ask you to please preside over the Civil Ceremony and the Wedding Speech in the
respective place, on the __ day of the MONTH of 200_ on NAME Street No. Cabbage.
_____, CITY. and ROOM DIRECTION, respectively

You will be provided with a schedule regarding times and how arrangements will be made
that day. You must have it at least one week prior to the event date.
If any questions or concerns arise at the moment, you may consult with the Banquet
Director, NAME or, failing that, with a server.

Guidelines for the President

Responsibilities:

1. Master of ceremonies
2. Authorized Program Supervisor
3. Established schedule supervisor

DAY OF MONTH PROGRAM of 200_

Schedul Activity Observations
e
__:00 hrs. Welcome Thank the guests for their presence
and introduce the Civil Registry
Officer, Eng. who will carry out the
civil ceremony.
__:30 hrs End of Civil Ceremony Ask the guests to go to the Kingdom
Hall where the wedding speech will
be given. Mention the address of the
Kingdom Hall, and guide those who
do not know it.

__:00 hrs. Biblical Discourse Thank for Assistance and Introduce

the Initial Song and Prayer ___ Song
and Prayer NAME

__:00 hrs. Speech: “An honorable marriage in the Speaker Bro. NAME
sight of God”
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Farewell with Canticle # ___ and
prayer, Bro.__ Mention that a snack
was prepared at the Family's house.
APEIDOS, for those who wish to
join us

__:00 hrs. Congratulations to the Bride and Groom Instrumental music will be heard on
the piano.

__:00 hrs. Prayer for snack, Bro. NAME Canapes, soft drinks and white wine
will be served at your discretion.

__:00 hrs. The program concludes In the conclusion we can include

some farewell words, both from the
couple.
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BANQUET DIRECTOR:

In you I am supporting the organization of this event and together with the general
coordinator of the event and his assistants we ask you to please ensure that things are carried
out as planned.

Below are some important aspects which I would like to put to your care and attention:

 Get ready for the Civil and Marriage Speech with enough time in advance to ensure that
everyone is in position and ready to carry out their assignments.
 Please verify that the cooks and waiters, as well as those in charge of the sound, have
everything necessary to do their work and that they are prepared before their
interventions.
 Answer any questions from the cooks, waiters, or president regarding the program to be
followed. You will consult with a server if you think it is necessary to do so.
 The president may consult with you regarding the way in which something that is not
contemplated has to be done.
 During the reception, no one should request music of personal taste unless through you
and your consent. Perhaps a close family member can be accommodated by making a
reasonable request.
 The dance must be kept under close surveillance. If someone is dancing in an improper
or questionable manner, you can, together with another elder, point this out to them. It
will also be ensured that no alcoholic beverages are circulated. There will also be no
words for any family member or brother. The only one who will have the floor will be
the President of the Program (NAME).
 We ask you to ensure that no one unrelated to the occasion enters the audience. All
guests must bring their invitation , if you forget the invitation and it is on the list you
can pass . Also in the event that someone brings an invitation and is not on the list,
but indicates who they are replacing, you must assess the situation and make the
decision in this regard . Under no circumstances will access be allowed to strangers or
expelled people . If necessary, you will have the power to ask someone to leave the party
if their behavior disturbs or harms others. (if necessary, the guards in the event room can
help)
 We would appreciate it if you would please ensure that no more people enter than those
who were duly invited.

DAY OF MONTH PROGRAM of 200_

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Schedul Activity Observations
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__:00 hrs. Studio Photography

__:00 hrs Location photography

__:00 hrs. Arrival of the bride and groom at the The scheduled time may fluctuate
TO Banquet venue between those mentioned
__:00 hrs.

__:00 hrs. Instrumental music The Musical Group will play

previously selected instrumental
music for half an hour,

__:00 hrs.. Entry of the Bride and Groom to the The President will give a few words
Banquet of welcome and introduce the bride
and groom, who will descend the
stairs and walk around the dance
floor. The _________________
Melody will be used

__:05 hrs. Bride and Groom's Dance There will be two songs that the
bride and groom will dance, then
family and guests will be invited to
the dance floor.
__:55 hrs. Prayer for dinner, NAME Musicians and waiters should be
asked not to wander around during
the prayer.
__:00 hrs. Dinner Immediately after the prayer is over,
dinner should be served. The menu is
specified ahead.

__:00 hrs. Dance

__:00 hrs. End of the Banquet

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BANQUET COORDINATOR:

 The Banquet Coordinator and his assistants will dedicate themselves to doing work
prior to the wedding in order to prepare and remind the staff involved in the development
of the activities regarding them.
 We ask that you please monitor and check that all staff are aware of their assignment and
that they have all the facilities to carry out their valuable work. Calling or checking in
person ( minimum three days in advance ) with those involved will be one of the best
ways to keep them aware of the details and will ensure the completion of their duties.
 We will send you the accounts payable and the cash so you can take care of it with the
different suppliers of the event.
 Please make sure there is Toilet Paper and soap in the Restrooms (If any of this is
missing, please contact the Salon Manager to provide it).
 They will have a copy of this manual to be aware of those in charge and what each person
will do. (The terms in which something can or should be done may vary, if in their
judgment and convenience they judge that it will be a better method)

Thank you very much for cooperating with a server to hold this event. We hope that
Jehovah's blessing is with the spirit they manifest.
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SOUND AND MUSIC

Manager: NAME
Auxiliary: NAME

We thank you in advance for the generous effort and dedication in carrying out this work.
We know it always adds a nice touch to an event like this.

 Please make sure that you have the necessary equipment because two songs will be sung
in the Kingdom Hall, the initial # ___ and the final # ___.

 On the other hand, please install and test the sound equipment with enough time in
advance to avoid calibrating and testing at the last minute. It is expected that they can
start playing background music at __:00 hrs. At least one wireless microphone must also
be ready for the bride and groom.

 The music that will be played during the civilian snack should be soft background music
that allows conversation between the guests.

 The music at the Wedding Banquet will be previously selected by the groom. However,
we ask you to ensure that it is your own, pleasant and danceable. I will appreciate it if you
can establish good and friendly communication with the Musical Group that will play the
music so that the lyrics of the songs are always clean. Please exercise a lot of balance and
do not give in to any request that someone makes for a piece that is dubious or in bad
taste. These can be done through the banquet director or someone designated by him (or
his assistant). Please also see that during the meal, there is background music.

 It will be ensured that __:00 hrs. And until dinner time, soundtrack music is played,
during dinner, some background music, and then for dancing, cumbias, norteñas, salsas,
merengues, polkas, and only after 11:30 p.m. Moderate disco music.

 We ask you to verify that this list includes the special melodies to which the couple will
dance as a waltz. (Thank you for loving me and From This Moment On)

For your valuable participation and service we give you a special thank you.
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TRANSPORTATION OF THE BRIDE AND BRIDE

Name: ___________________________

The car will be fixed at _:00 hrs. at the flower shop of the person in charge's choice.

DAY of MONTH of 200_

__:00 hrs. The groom will be picked up at his house.

__:00 hrs. You will arrive at the bride's house for the Civil Ceremony
__:00 hrs. The bride and groom will be taken to the Kingdom Hall for the
Biblical Discourse
__:00 Transfer of the bride and groom to the family house._____________

DAY MONTH 200_

__:00. Pick up the groom at his house

__:00. Pick up the bride at Estudio _______
__:00. Photography at ________(ADDRESS)
__:00. Transfer to locations for photos.
__:00 hrs. Be in the Banquet Hall.
__:00 hrs. Transfer to the NAME House

We greatly appreciate your cooperation in this matter. Thank you so much.

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FEAST

Responsible: - Banquets NAME.

MENU

SET MENU

The waiters are provided by the banquet provider.

Verify that the banquet provider arrives on time.

Dinner will be served at __:00 hrs. Please take this into account when serving. Please make
sure that all plates and cutlery are collected from the tables once dessert has been
consumed, after dinner only glasses, ice and soft drinks should remain.

The waiters will be in charge of serving both drinks and dinner. The order to serve will be as
follows:

 BEFORE DINNER (__:00 hrs.)

APPETIZER
 FOR DINNER (__:00 hrs.)
Servers must put enough ice, soft drinks and bread on each table for dinner.
 DINNER (__:00 HRS).-

WAITERS

A total of (No.) dishes will be served distributed on the different tables.

 Verify that the APPETIZER (NAME) (one per table) is placed on the tables for the
arrival time of the guests.
 When guests arrive, individually at each table, soft drinks and ice will be served at their
discretion.
 Waiters should not be on the dance floor when the bride and groom enter.
 Before starting the dinner service, bread will be placed on the tables (one bread basket per
table), coolers (one per table) and soft drinks on the tables (at discretion).

IMPORTANT.- You should not do this during or after the prayer. Special care should
be taken that they do not serve things or wander around the room during prayer.
 Once the prayer for the food is finished, they will immediately begin to serve the dishes
to all the diners. IMPORTANT.- They should not go out with candles or lit lights to
serve food, nor make a fuss, they should limit themselves to serving food. Care must
be taken to ensure that the Musical Group does not cause such a situation.

 Please ensure that all plates and cutlery are removed once dinner is over, including
dessert. Only glasses, ice and soft drinks may remain.
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Thank you very much for your valuable collaboration through your service. Without a doubt
it is one of the most appreciated features of this celebration.
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Guidelines for the entrance attendant

Manager: NAME

Responsibilities:

1. Welcome, Order.
2. Location of places.
3. Access door.

1.- Welcome-Order:

to) It would be appropriate to greet the guests friendly, since the first impression
begins the enjoyment of the event.
b) Only immediate family (parents and grandparents) will have assigned spots.
These will be on a table near the bride and groom's table.
c) If someone does not bring their invitation, and is on the list, they will be able
to pass. If you bring an invitation, but it is not on the list, you must indicate
who you are substituting, and the Banquet Director will weigh the situation
and make a decision.
d) Great care must be taken not to let anyone pass if they do not have an
invitation and do not appear on the list.
and) Any problem can be consulted with the General Coordinator of the Event,
NAME or the Wedding Director, NAME, who in turn will determine if it is
a matter where the groom's intervention is required or not.

Who is in charge?
At the banquet at Cana there was a "banquet leader" (John 2:9). Likewise,
in the current receptions a qualified and responsible brother could be
authorized to supervise the details .
Being familiar with the wishes of the newlyweds, he can give instructions
to the musicians, waiters, or others, or he can consult with the couple and
then carry out what they have agreed upon. That could include super
understanding the ushers . Together they could help the guests and deal
with any 'party crashers'. Related to the issue of control, notice in an
illustration from Jesus what happened to a guest who clearly showed
disrespect at a wedding banquet. (Matthew 22:11-13)

ADDITIONAL INFORMATION:
24.- IT WOULD NEVER BE APPROPRIATE FOR YOU TO ACCOMPANY
TO BOYFRIENDS, PEOPLE EXPELLED OR WHOSE
SCANDALOUS WAY OF LIVING THIS SERIOUSLY
IN CONFLICT WITH BIBLICAL PRINCIPLES.
WS. l5/APR./84 PAGE. 15

Mary, Jesus and their disciples did not enter the banquet at Cana without
invitation ; " they were invited " (John 2:1, 2). Christ said, "When someone invites
you to a wedding banquet [...]" (Luke 14:8, 9, 16, 17). In the illustration of the
wedding of the king's son, Jesus also spoke of "the guests" (Matthew 22:3, 9, 10).
Additionally, when a guest showed disrespect , the ushers were instructed to throw
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him out. In another parable, five virgins who wanted to participate in a wedding
banquet were not even allowed past the gate (Matthew 22:11-13; 25:10-12).

So it shouldn't seem strange that only people who have been invited and
are dressed appropriately are allowed into a reception. And it is
understandable that the host's generosity does not have to extend to people
whose primary interest is food and pleasure. (Philippians 3:18, 19;
Ecclesiastes 5:11)
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NAMES GUESTS
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A COUPLE
Wedding vows :
MONTH of 200_

Boyfriend:

I BOYFRIEND accept you BRIDE to be

my wife in marriage, to love and care for you tenderly
in accordance with divine law as outlined in the Holy
Scriptures for Christian husbands, while we both live
together on Earth according to the marital arrangement
of God".

Bride:
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I BRIDE accept you BRIDEGROOM to

be my husband in marriage, to love you, care for you
tenderly and respect you deeply, in accordance with
divine law as outlined in the Holy Scriptures for
Christian wives, as long as we both live together on
Earth in accordance with God's marital arrangement."
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“TWENTY-FOUR QUESTIONS A CHRISTIAN SHOULD KNOW

CONCERNING A CHRISTIAN WEDDING”

1.- THROW RICE AT THE BRIDE AND BRIDE. WS. l/OCT/61 PAGE 607
2.- WEDDING RINGS . WS. 15/JUN/69 PAGE 378
3.- WEDDING ANNIVERSARY. WS. l/OCT/61 PAGE 607
4.- TOASTING IN MEETINGS IS IT CORRECT? WS. l/MAR/68 PAGE 157
5.- CONTRACTED A CIVIL MARRIAGE, EXPECT SEVERAL
DAYS FOR WEDDING BANQUET IS IT CORRECT? WS. 15/APR/84 PAGE 1
6.- HANG OR STICK MONEY TO THE BRIDE WS. 15/JUN/65 PAGE
382
7.- HOW TO REDUCE PROBLEMS WITH MUSIC. WS. 15/APR/84 PAGE 21
8.- WHERE LEGAL RECOGNITION IS NOT OBTAINED,
SO WHAT? WS. 15/AU/77 PAGE 502
9.- LADIES OR CHAMBERLANES. WS. 15/JUN/69 PAGE- 380
10.- DECLARATION OF PROMISE OF FIDELITY. WS. 15/AU/77 PAGE 504
11.- HUSBAND ASKS CHRISTIAN WIFE TO GO TO
WEDDING OF WORLDLY RELATIVES. WS. 15/JUN/65 PAGE 382
12.- PARTY OR RAIN OF WEDDING GIFTS,
IS IT ADMISSIBLE? GS. 8/SEP/77 PAGE 27
13.- SON MARRIES MUNDANO (A), WHICH IS
THE POSITION OF THE PARENTS? WS. 15/JUN/6S PAGE 382
14.- JEHOVAH DOES NOT APPROVE OF MARRIAGE WITH
MUNDANE. WS. l/FEB/62 PAGE 92
15.- THROW THE BRIDE'S CORSAGE TO HER
COMPANIONS, IS IT CORRECT? WS. l/NOV/64 PAGE 671
16.- WHO CAN GIVE A MARRIAGE SPEECH. KMS INFORMATOR FEB. 82
17.- WHAT TO DO FOR SOCIAL MEETINGS,
OR WEDDINGS DO NOT DEGENERATE?
PAGE 73
18.- WHAT SHOULD BE CONSIDERED WHEN CHOOSING SOMEONE
TO HELP THE COUPLE DIRECT THE MATTERS. WS. 15/APR/84 PAGE. 18
19.- BREAKS HIS MARRIAGE COMMITMENT,
AFFECTS HIM? WS. 15/JAN/76 PAGE. C3
twenty.- YOU CAN BE GIVED A MARRIAGE SPEECH
IF YOU DON'T MARRY IN THE LORD? INFORMER C/D FEB. 82
21.- MARRIAGE IS RECOMMENDED AFTER THE
FLOWER OF YOUTH. WS. l/JUL/75 PAGE. 415
22.- PLAY THE WEDDING MARCH GO WHITE
AND WEARING A VEIL IS IT CORRECT? WS. l/OCT/61 PAGE 607-15/JUN/69
23.- MARRIAGE VOWS,
WHICH ARE RECOMMENDED? WS. 15/APR/84 PAGE. 1
24.- IT WOULD NEVER BE APPROPRIATE FOR YOU TO ACCOMPANY
TO BOYFRIENDS, PEOPLE EXPELLED OR WHOSE
SCANDALOUS WAY OF LIVING THIS SERIOUSLY
IN CONFLICT WITH BIBLICAL PRINCIPLES. WS. l5/APR/84 PAGE 15

(THE AMERICAN VERSION OF THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT PROVERBS 15:28 "A
RIGHTEOUS MAN STUDIES WHAT HE SHOULD ANSWER.)
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1.- "THROW RICE AT THE BRIDE AND BRIDE"

A: The Encyclopedia Britannica, 1952 edition, volume 4, page 122, states: Its purpose is to wish
that the betrothal be fruitful. Some others say that they ensure fertility for the couple or
keep bad influences away from the couple.

Since this is of pagan origin and in effect an invocation of magic, the performance of a
rite in hopes of beneficial results should be avoided by Christians.

WS 1/OCT/61 PAGE. 607 WS. 1/JUN/69 PAGE. 378

2.- "WEDDING RINGS"

A: Although the Bible does not directly mention wedding rings, it is clear that Jehovah's
servants could wear rings. (JOB 42:11, 12 LUKE 15:22)

A wedding ring does not guarantee anything, it simply serves as public notification of
one's marital status. It is not incorrect that a Christian makes his marital status manifest
by putting a ring on his right or left hand.

However, this is not needed where it is not a legal requirement so that the couple can
decide what to do according to their financial situation and personal preferences.

WS 15/JUN/69 PAGE. 378-379

3.- "WEDDING ANNIVERSARY"

A: The Bible says nothing in support of celebrating one's wedding anniversary, to make
it obligatory. Marriage is something that spouses must remember every day in terms of
the obligations it imposes. Of course the wedding day is a joyful occasion, which Jesus
recognized by his presence at the wedding feast at Cana. When a successful marriage is
achieved, it is only natural for the spouses to carefully remember such a happy event
annually. In fact, doing so can strengthen the bond; it is up to those concerned to decide
what arrangements should be made to mark the anniversary and how extensive. they
must be, observing and following the rule of 1 Corinthians 10: 31.
WS l/OCT/61 PAGE. 574

4.- TOASTING IN MEETINGS, IS IT CORRECT?

A: There is nothing wrong with a Christian wishing a friend happiness and good health.
But why are the glasses of those who toast raised and clinked? Is it an imitation of some
pagan custom?
The Encyclopedia Britannica, edition II, volume 13, page 121, states: 'The custom of
drinking to the health of the living most probably derives from the ancient religious rite
of toasting the gods and the dead.
"At meals the Greeks and Romans poured libations to their gods, and at ceremonial
banquets they toasted them and the dead." Surely, the faithful Christian would not
participate in a pagan sacrifice, understanding that "he cannot be drinking the cup of
Jehovah and the cup of demons. (1 Corinthians 10:21)
See Awake 8/Jan/85 page. 27. "Hitting the cups"

5.- YOU CONTRACTED A CIVIL MARRIAGE, WAITING SEVERAL

DAYS FOR THE WEDDING BANQUET, IS IT CORRECT?
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A: It is not appropriate, since allowing a long interval to pass could be a cause of
stumbling for those in the community, whether during said period the couple lives as
husband and wife or withdraws from doing so. (2 Corinthians 6:3).
It is better to hold the wedding or banquet shortly after the civil marriage and the biblical
discourse.
WS 15/APR/84 PAGE l3

6.- HANG OR STICK MONEY TO THE BRIDE?"

A: In worldly receptions, honor and special attention are often given to the bride, toasting
her, lining up to kiss her, and in some places they even hit or hang money on her to dance
with her. Should Christians practice this? No! Stop and think, for example, about what 1
Corinthians 11:3,8,9 says. and Romans 1:24-25. Is it in harmony with God's principles to
highly honor a creature like this, exalting a woman, God's creation? What will you do?
Will you participate with the crowd or abstain? Furthermore, this practice of pinning
money to the bride's dress with a pin to dance to a piece of music, could serve as a basis
for guests to flaunt their money, to get special seats near the newlyweds.
WS 15/JUN/65 PAGE. 382 WS. 15/APR/84 PAGE. 21

7.- "HOW TO REDUCE PROBLEMS WITH MUSIC"

A: It is clear that the music at wedding receptions must be carefully planned and
understood, especially if there is a musical group, the groom or chosen brother must
explain to the musicians the kind of music that can be played and what cannot. (Exodus
32:17- 18) That without the approval of the groom or the reception director, no special
piece of music requested by the guests can be played.

If you have chosen to use tapes or records, use an adult who is not easily swayed by what
is popular with immature youth.
(l Corinthians 13:11 Hebrews 5:14)
WS. 15/APR/94 PAGE. 21

8.- WHERE LEGAL RECOGNITION IS NOT OBTAINED, SO WHAT?

A: They could sign a similar statement solemnly pledging fidelity and present it to the
congregation. The Congregation will consider signing such a written declaration
pledging fidelity to be attesting to God that the signer will be as faithful to his or her
existing declaration or marital relationship as he or she would be if the union were
validated by civil authorities. .
WS 15/AUG/77 PAGE 502-503

9.- LADIES OR CHAMBERLANES

If the groom and his entourage (chamberlains) enter the room in a certain way, whether
someone will give the bride, whether there will be a lady or companion of the bride or a
friend of the groom or others participating in the ceremony are minor technicalities
( Psalms 45:14- John 3:29)
Something that deserves attention from the bride and groom is to be punctual at the time
of the ceremony. thus displaying his principled love and consideration for those who
attend, as idolizing women is often exhibited by the fact that the bride is purposely late.
WS 15/JUN/69 PAGE 380

10.-”DECLARATION OF PLEDGE OF FIDELITY”

A: "I , I declare here that I have accepted as my

spouse in marital relationship: that I have done everything that has been in my power to
obtain legal recognition of this relationship through the corresponding public authorities
and it is for this reason of not having been able to achieve it that I therefore make this
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declaration in which I solemnly promise fidelity in this marital relationship. I recognize
this relationship as an obligatory bond before Jehovah God and before every person, to
which I must adhere and honor in full harmony with the principles of the word of God. I
will continue trying the means of obtaining legal recognition from civil authorities of this
relationship, and if at some future time there is a change in circumstances.

11.-HUSBAND ASKS CHRISTIAN WIFE TO GO TO THE WEDDING

OF WORLDLY RELATIVES. SHOULD I GO?
A: (1 Corinthians 8:9-13 and 2 Corinthians 6:14-17) It would be to your benefit to
explain your position to your husband. If other members of the congregation found out
that you had attended a worldly, religious wedding and reception, what effect would it
have on them? Is there a possibility of causing some to stumble by what appears to be a
compromise of faith? Will respect for you as a servant of God be undermined? The
decision is yours . At the same time, parents would not allow their minor children to
make the final decision regarding participating in or attending the wedding of a worldly
acquaintance, but rather parents would assume their God-given responsibilities and make
the decision for their children, determining which will contribute more to your spiritual
well-being.
Ws 15/Jun/65 Page 382 Ws l/Apr/68 Page 223 Ws 15/Apr/75 Page. 255

12.- "PARTY OR RAIN OF WEDDING GIFTS, IS IT ADMITTABLE?

A: In no way is it necessary to do this. How sad it would be if a Christian invited to a

shower thought he couldn't accept the invitation because he couldn't give an expensive
gift or no gift at all. Would true Christians want to put a person in such a situation.
Furthermore, a gift is supposed to be a spontaneous expression of affection.
Christians must be well aware of Jesus' advice that gifts should not be given to glorify
the giver, so if someone brought no gift, another only a very small one, and still another
an expensive gift, heartless comparisons could be made of the gifts. gifts and those who
made them.
Ws 15/Jun/65 Page 382

13.- "SON MARRIES MUNDANO (A) WHAT IS THE POSITION OF

THE PARENTS?

A: As long as the children are under the jurisdiction of the parents, the parents should not
agree to marry a person who is not dedicated to God. If the boy or girl insists on
marrying an unbeliever, he or she would have to do so when he or she reaches the age of
majority. legal age on their own, without parental sanction or approval. (1 Corinthians
6:14; 1 Corinthians 7:39) If children reach legal age and want their parents to participate
in their marriage under the auspices and building of a false religious organization, should
the parents agree to participate perhaps giving the father to the daughter ? Parents want
to be loving and tender with their children, but at the same time, they do not want to be
inconsistent, teaching their children one thing and then later in life participating in what
they advised against. This is not the way to elevate true worship in the minds of one's
children, as to whether parents will attend such a wedding as quiet observers or not is a
personal decision .
Ws 15/Jun/65 Page 382

15.-"THROWING A BRIDE'S CORSAGE TO YOUR COMPANIONS, IS

IT CORRECT?
R; The fact that the bride throws her bouquet of flowers to her companions is nothing
other than a Pagan practice. It has overtones of superstition, such as, for example, that it
is said that the one who captures her is marked to be the next of the girls to marry.
Therefore it could not be considered holy conduct and should therefore be eliminated
from Christian weddings.
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Ws l/Nov/64 Page. 671

16.-WHO CAN GIVE A MARRIAGE SPEECH?

A: Any symbolized publisher. However, considering that marriage is a very serious

commitment and that it entails a great obligation between two people before the Chief
Master, it is preferable that the speech presented after the civil ceremony be given by an
elder, a man who is spoken of. good in the congregation
Informant February C/d 82

17.- WHAT TO DO SO SOCIAL MEETINGS OR WEDDINGS DO NOT

DEGENERATE?

A: Sensual dancing and loud, noisy music should be avoided, and a reasonable time
should be set for the party or wedding to end. The conversation should always be
edifying in harmony with Biblical principles.
Ws l/Feb/69 Page 73-76

18.-WHAT SHOULD BE CONSIDERED WHEN CHOOSING SOMEONE

TO HELP THE COUPLE DIRECT THE MATTERS?

R: Would you entrust some worldly person who is neither your spiritual brother nor your
relative to address your guests or would you allow him to be the focus of attention?
Sometimes the bride's parents help the couple pay for the wedding reception, so they may
feel that they should call the shots regarding the invitation list, the type of food and drink
to be served, or the wedding program. the same. However, the groom is biblically the
head of the newly formed family. (Ephesians 5:22,23) Therefore, although he must
lovingly consider his bride's wishes on that special day, as well as the wishes of their
respective families, it is necessary that he first accept the responsibilities of what will be
done. and what will not be done.
Ws 15/Apr/84 Page 18

l9.-"BREAKS HIS COMMITMENT TO MARRIAGE

AFFECTS HIM?

A: Betrothal was considered so seriously among the Hebrews that a betrothed woman
was referred to as the man's wife, although, of course, he could not have relations with
her until they were actually married. (Gen 29:21; Matt. l:18,19). (See "How to achieve
happiness". P. 25 & 27)
The betrothed woman had a different position from that of an unbetrothed virgin (Exo.
22:16,17 Deut. 22:23,29) This highlights the importance of the condition of being
committed . (Matthew 5:37) Substantiate his word.
Where there is no valid reason, commitment. Or rather, the unilateral breaking of the
commitment would indicate instability and lack of maturity . A person of this kind could
not be placed before the congregation as an example of Christian maturity (See Awake
2/22/89 Page. 22, )
If a male from the Christian congregation did this, he would not qualify for
responsibilities in the congregation . (Timothy 3:10) If you don't know what he thinks
and intends to do and he can't keep his word, his word regarding marriage, can he do it in
other matters? Needs to grow to maturity
Ws l/Feb/69 Page 95 Ws 15/Jan/76 Page 63

20.- CAN YOU BE GIVED A MARRIAGE SPEECH IF YOU DO NOT

MARRY IN THE LORD?
A: Since the instruction is to marry 'only in the Lord or with symbolized persons' (1 Cor
7:39) the Elders will want to present talks only to those who meet this requirement and
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refrain from presenting them to dedicated publishers who marry unrelated persons.
believers.
C/D February 82 Informant

21.- MARRIAGE IS RECOMMENDED PAST THE FLOWER OF YOUTH.

A: Often those who marry young have been unduly influenced by romanticism and their
still-developing physical desire. In many cases they have not yet developed the qualities
that contribute to a happy marriage, such as self-control (2 Peter 1:5-8 Galatians 5:22,23)
(See Awake 1/22/84 Page. 12-19) “Teenage marriage" Pleasurable or painful?
So if a person marries as soon as his sexual desire blossoms or becomes strong it may
well be that a wave of passion is the dominant influence in determining when to marry
and whom to marry, but when one has passed the period of the first wave of desire, one
is in a position to more objectively evaluate his feelings and situation in life and since he
has demonstrated self-control regarding physical desire he can display this quality and
other excellent qualities in marriage.
Ws 1/Jul/75 Page 415

22.-PLAYING THE WEDDING MARCH, IS IT CORRECT?

A: No! because popular wedding marches have pagan or mythological backgrounds.

Ws l/Oct/61 Page 607
WHAT ABOUT WEARING WHITE AND WEARING A VEIL?
A: Its meaning varies, in some countries white means virginity or it is simply a tradition
of pristine beauty with no particular meaning. A Christian should not think that a white
wedding dress is essential . Nor is it universally prohibited, however, would it be
reasonable to purchase a dress so expensive that it would cause a financial burden to
themselves or others? And what about the bride's entourage, if there is one? Will they
feel forced to buy expensive clothes because of the sumptuousness of the wedding dress?
The issue of clothing can be resolved by purchasing or renting clothing, or by wearing
the dress of a dear friend or relative (Ws 15/Jun/69 Page. 379)
As for the veil , the scriptures do not disapprove of a woman covering her head in the
presence of her future husband, so there is no objection to wearing a bridal veil as an
attractive item.

23.- MARRIAGE VOWS, WHICH ARE RECOMMENDED?

A: "I accept you to be my wife in marriage, to love and care for you tenderly in
accordance with divine law as outlined in the holy scriptures for Christian husbands, as
long as we both live together on earth according to the arrangement marital of God
I accept you to be my husband in marriage, to love you, care for you tenderly and respect
you deeply, in accordance with divine law as outlined in the Holy Scriptures for
Christian wives, as long as we both live together on earth according to the "God's marital
arrangement"
Ws l5/Apr/84 Page. 14

24.- It would never be appropriate for people who have been expelled or whose scandalous way
of life is seriously in conflict with biblical principles to accompany the bride and groom.

Initial song: ___ THEME

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LETTER .
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Final song: ___ THEME
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LETTER

List of melodies that can play

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Activity Time to Who will do it

complete
Prepare invitations _ days

Names on name cards at tables _ day

Wedding table arrangement _ day

Seating guests at tables _ day

List of ushers _ day

cake knife _day

Ask about ice containers _ day

Assign kitchen helpers _ day

Find someone who cuts the cake _ day

Deliver invitations _ days

Wedding planning allowances _ days

Chants _ day

Get Waltz music on compaq _ day

Civil _ day

Set date and time for Civil _ day

Check paperwork for civil wedding _ day

Grooms clothing _ day

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