Name: Aisyah Amani binti Mohd Khairul

Email: m-12455344@moe-dl.edu.my

My Experience of Overcoming Conflict

Conflicts often arise unexpectedly in our lives, which starts from different opinions,
perspectives, views and values. I still can remember an incident that reshaped my understanding of
interpersonal views, particularly within my circle of family, friends, and neighbours. This experience
not only changed my beliefs but also taught me valuable lessons in empathy and communication,
especially wide way communication. It all began with a seemingly not a harmful discussion among
close friends about a flyer pinned to the hallway notice board. The flyer advertised a Video Editing
Contest, which spark an excitement between us.
As we gathered around, examining the details that had been laid out, each of us began
formulating ideas on participating and the potential of winning the competition. The initial enthusiasm
soon gave way to different views on how to approach the contest, which igniting a little conflict
among us. It quickly escalated into a heated debate. Some of us favoured a collaborative approach,
pooling our skills to create a standout entry. While others, driven by individual idea, for working
independently to showcase personal creativity. Tensions escalated as each side passionately defended
their stance, highlighting the differences in our approaches to teamwork and competition.
As the discussion intensified, I found myself caught in the middle, between loyalty to my
friends and personal beliefs about the most effective strategy to win in this competition. The conflict
not only strained our friendships but also revealed underlying insecurities and aspirations that had
previously remained unspoken. It became evident that beyond the surface disagreement over contest
strategy lay deeper concerns about recognition, validation, and personal growth.
Looking through the conflicting emotions and viewpoints was challenging, yet it offered a
profound opportunity for personal introspection. I realized that conflicts, however uncomfortable,
serve as it spark for growth and self-discovery. In retrospect, the experience forced me to confront my
own biases and preconceptions about collaboration versus individualism, challenging me to reassess
the value of teamwork and compromise in achieving shared goals.
Amidst the discord, a pivotal moment of clarity emerged when I recognized the importance of
effective communication and empathy in resolving conflicts. I learned that listening attentively to
each perspective, without judgment or haste to assert my own viewpoint, fostered a more inclusive
and constructive dialogue.
By acknowledging the validity of differing opinions and seeking common ground, I began to
appreciate the diversity of thought within my social circle. Over time, the initial conflict evolved into
a transformative journey of reconciliation and mutual understanding. Through open and honest
conversations with my friends, we gradually bridged our differences, reaffirming the strength of our
bond and collective aspirations.
Me and my friends learned to leverage our individual strengths while embracing the power of
collaboration, ultimately enhancing our ability to navigate future challenges as an effective unit.
Beyond my immediate circle of friends, the experience also influenced my interactions with family
members and neighbours. I became more attuned to recognizing potential sources of conflict and
proactive in addressing underlying tensions before they escalated.
 By cultivating a mindset of empathy and respect for different viewpoints, I take a stronger,
more resilient relationships based on mutual trust and understanding. In conclusion, while conflicts
may initially rise discomfort, they possess immense transformative potential. My experience with the
Video Editing Contest not only tested my judgements but also extended my appreciation for the
complexities of human relationships. It taught me a valuable lesson in empathy, communication, and
conflict resolution, shaping my outlook on interpersonal dynamics and reinforcing the importance of
mutual respect and cooperation.
As I continue to navigate life's challenges, I carry forward these lessons as guiding principles,
confident in their capacity to foster positive change and enrich the fabric of my relationships. My love
for a better relationship with my close friends grows even healthier with a better understanding
towards mutual respect and acknowledging the possible conflict that will happen between us and take
it into a positive manner in a way that will make us grow stronger together. I wish and pray, that my
relationship, especially with my friends will bloom through ease and hard time of our life.