Kiss 5 1 3 Make out 2 1 Get a rose at Rose Ceremony 10 1 Get a rose pre-ceremony 15 1 Enter the hot tub 4 Dance 5 1 give Bachelor a gift 7 lern to get over fears 5 steal bachelor away from another woman 3 2 actually say "can I steal you away" 1 take a helicopter 5 ride or drive in a sports car 3 1 paricipate in extreme sports 3 experience local culture (destination dates) 4 refer to your sexual anatomy 10 say "is the perfect place to fall in love" 5 tell bachelor you see a future with him 5 tell bachelor about family 5 tell bachelor about an ex 5 tell bachelor he's attractive 5 tell bachelor you're in love / falling for him 7 1 cry, having tears in your eyes or on your cheeks 2 1 1 cry, having a mega sobbing meltdown 4 1 1 fight with another contestant 5 be obviously drunk 5 say "vulnerable" 3 say "I love you" 5 swear (maximum of 5 per episode) 1 1 tattle (lästern) 3 1 get naked 5 require medical attention 10 say "for the right reasons" 5 get caught with secret boyfriend 20 wear an ugly accessory 3 1 exploit your child's existence for personal gain 5 be called "good mom" material 3 be told the Bachelor sees a future with you 3 have the Bachelor express confusion about why you aren't liked by other contestants 3 have Bachelor question your intelligence 3 be called "intense" by the Bachelor 3
go on a solo date -10 1
leave the show voluntarily -20 get sent home pre-ceremony -15 get sent home at Rose Ceremony -10 1 total