Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All

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It’s amazing how fast most women can detect

insecurity, neediness, and low self-esteem.

I personally believe that when a man is self-confident

(or more specifically, a woman BELIEVES that he is),

women are attracted to him on an UNCONSCIOUS level.

What I mean is that I think this behavior activates a part of

a woman’s brain that can’t help but feel an attraction.

If you’d like a model of confidence, watch some

James Bond movies. You’ll notice that James almost

never smiles, and I can’t remember when I’ve ever seen

him laugh.

But James is the sex symbol of masculine adventure.

Does he do the things that I mentioned above? Of

course. That’s where I learned a lot of them. Ha!

Another way to demonstrate and project confidence is

to PAUSE while you’re talking. Pausing on purpose creates

suspense and tension.

It’s great. If you combine pauses with serious looks,

you will create an air of power and confidence.

For example, you might say, “Well, if I were you, I’d

just tell her what you think” like so... “Well... (pause) if I
were you... (pause and look into eyes with serious look)

I’d just tell her what you think.”

This creates what’s known as a ‘subtext’ to the

communication. On the surface you’re talking about the

normal conversation. But underneath, you’re

communicating suspense, confidence, and mystery.

If you learn how to mix a seductive voice tone and

body language with regular conversation, you’ll find that

you can get women turned on talking about random

things like the weather.

Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All

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Pause often. It will do wonders for your

communication style.

Signs That A Woman Is Interested

I’ve read all the books that say, “If a woman tilts her