Well, first of all walk upright, hold your head up, and

hold your shoulders back.

Next, SLOW DOWN your movements and make

slower, calculated gestures.

Then, make eye contact and keep it when you see

women. Don’t look away until they do and kind of squint

while raising an eyebrow.

I’ve done a lot of work in this area, and I’ve found

that by SLOWING DOWN, I create mystery and intrigue. I

literally practice slowing down my walk, my gestures, how

fast I turn my head, how fast I talk, and even how fast I

blink.

Also, start taking up more space and opening up your

physiology. If you’re seated, keep your legs and arms

uncrossed. Keep your legs far apart and your shoulders

back. Don’t lean forward; lean back.

This might sound a little far out to some people, but

these LITTLE details make all the difference when dealing

with a woman.
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It’s amazing how fast most women can detect

insecurity, neediness, and low self-esteem.

I personally believe that when a man is self-confident

(or more specifically, a woman BELIEVES that he is),

women are attracted to him on an UNCONSCIOUS level.

What I mean is that I think this behavior activates a part of

a woman’s brain that can’t help but feel an attraction.

If you’d like a model of confidence, watch some

James Bond movies. You’ll notice that James almost

never smiles, and I can’t remember when I’ve ever seen

him laugh.

But James is the sex symbol of masculine adventure.

Does he do the things that I mentioned above? Of

course. That’s where I learned a lot of them. Ha!

Another way to demonstrate and project confidence is

to PAUSE while you’re talking. Pausing on purpose creates

suspense and tension.

It’s great. If you combine pauses with serious looks,