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GAQ0010.1177/0533316415579335Group AnalysisBeck: Group Analysis in China
Article group
analysis
Werner Beck
The Setting
This is a clinical report about an experiential group process of 56
sessions over a period of two years from 2011 to 2013 in Shanghai/
China in the course of a training in psychodynamic psychotherapy.
The participants had started with two years of training in individual
psychodynamic psychotherapy. The candidates who had succeeded
in concluding this training got the chance to continue with two years
of training in psychodynamic group psychotherapy. During these
two years, the candidates passed four blocks of eight days each,
where they had two experiential groups, a seminar-group, a supervi-
sion-group and two lectures each day. I conducted two groups: an
experiential group and a supervision-group. I spoke in English,
which was translated into Chinese by a very experienced Chinese
interpreter (a female senior physician and psychotherapist of the
hosting institution).
As a group analyst, trained by S.H. Foulkes himself, I worked with
a group analytic approach. In this article I want to report only about
my experiential group, consisting of 14 Chinese psychologists and
psychiatrists (nine women and five men between 30 and 50 years of
age). The participants came from clinics, mental health centres and
psychological counselling services throughout China.
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kill you!.’ This stirred up lots of excitement. The men finally reacted
by a rather intellectual debate about the group’s norms and standards,
and about limits and boundaries. This ended with the fantasy that ‘all
fathers should be killed’. Now especially the women defended the
fathers and declared their love for them. This provoked several men to
declare, that they too loved their fathers but that, at the same time,
they were afraid of their fathers’ often drastic and violent punish-
ments. The only way to win over the fathers’ esteem seemed to be by
a high level of achievement and sustained effort. The women on the
other hand, stated that they could only ‘seduce’ their fathers by tears.
My attempts to refer these tears to the group situation and to their
efforts to overcome these strong feelings, were not picked up by them.
I suppose, to begin with, this murderous hatred against the paternal
authorities had to do with the political situation in the country, which
seems to be mirrored in the rigorous style of upbringing in China. But
at the same time, they possibly experienced me being rigorous in my
reaction to the one who announced not to come regularly.
Now the men started to argue about who was ‘the boss’ of the group.
After a while the women complained about too much confrontation in
the group, especially by the men. They missed a greater degree of com-
passion and containment. This was followed by a long silence. Then, a
man expressed his sexual fantasies concerning the women of the group,
and the drastic punishments he had received by his father for playing
doctor’s games as a boy. The women were upset and full of indignation
by the man’s way of changing the topic. The man with the sexual fanta-
sies defended himself: free associations, he stated, were the most impor-
tant activity in such a group. And this was exactly what he was doing.
Towards the end of the first training block, a woman expressed in
tears her guilty feelings about her mother’s suicide: she thought that
she had not taken enough care of her mother. Some of the women
asked themselves, whether one could ever take enough care of one’s
parents, or be at their service. This was accompanied by lots of tears by
the women. At the end of the session the question was raised, whether
within the group, one should act primarily for oneself or for others.
I had tried several times to compare group phenomena with meta-
phors of the old Chinese culture (like Tao or yin and yang): hoping to
facilitate understanding. They reacted with irritation and amusement.
Later on, my interpreter informed me that they were ashamed to hear
a foreigner talk about their old culture, without them knowing much
of it, as they all were children of the Cultural Revolution, and it was
a taboo to talk about the old culture or the Cultural Revolution.
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Continuing
At the beginning of the second training block two men did not show
up: one who had insisted on being absent several times, and one who
had not yet said a word. A new man was included in the group and
was welcomed with very ambivalent feelings. A report followed
about a man’s friend, who had committed suicide by jumping off a
skyscraper’s roof. The question was raised by this man, as to whether
he had taken sufficient care of his friend. Touched strongly by this
report, a long silence followed and a gloomy atmosphere arose.
Thinking of the two members the group had lost, I asked about their
feelings right now and the question of taking care of each other here
in the group. This was rejected, and the group reproached me for
pushing the group.
For the next session the man whose friend had committed suicide
did not show up. The group reacted with worried fantasies, wonder-
ing whether he himself was this friend he had talked about. Now they
talked about fatal casualties in their families and about sad losses in
their lives. Again the question arose as to whether they had taken
enough care of their group mate.
He came to the next session with sunglasses and reported that he
had gone to a clinic because of severe eye pain. As the doctors there
could not give him a clear diagnosis, he was in panic concerning the
diagnosis. This caused fears, tears and strong compassion in the
group, and again lots of associations of dangerous diseases and trau-
matic events in their lives.
The women raised the question of what to do with strong feelings
and fears: to contain them and keep them in check (what their parents
had expected), or to show and express their feelings? They wondered
what I would like them to do. In China, women were allowed to weep
and express strong feelings, but not the men. In the group, the men
were attacked by the women for holding back so strongly and for hid-
ing behind this stance. In tears, some of the women talked about their
harsh and uncomprehending fathers, admitting that they missed and,
at the same time, hated their fathers. The men conceded that they
hesitated to show feelings and had difficulties in doing so. They were
asked by the women whether they were willing to drop this facade.
Both men and women agreed that their parents had expected restraint
and containment, and that they did not like this inaccessible posture.
They were astonished to agree to such an extent, which led to an
almost euphoric mood where, in the end, men and women held hands
with each other laughing. I was deeply impressed by the openness of
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them through lots of service and obligation. The men hurried to state
that they too had to fulfil lots of obligations and duties: to compen-
sate for the ‘privilege’ of being a man. This caused a long and very
sincere discussion on what it meant to be a woman or a man given
that their roles in their families were very fixed and did not allow for
much variation. They agreed that a woman could prove her woman-
hood by becoming a mother, and a man by becoming a soldier. Many
of them felt insecure in their roles as men or women. One woman was
afraid not to comply with the group, as she had been pampered by her
parents and grandparents as the only child. She felt deeply indebted
to her parents: as if she could never compensate for what she had
received. Several other group members expressed the feeling that
they were obliged to make their parents happy. One man reported that
he had wanted to get his father’s attention all his life, and that nowa-
days he was not very eager to become a real grown up man because
he did not know what it means to be a grown up man. Lots of feed-
back followed on how they experienced each other as male or female.
Towards the end of this day, I was informed of my brother’s sud-
den death.
losses of close relatives and finally about me, as if I had passed away
myself: with gratitude and high esteem.
The Termination
In the last block they imagined how it would be without the group.
This led to the fantasy, as to whether they still needed water wings or
could already swim without support. They told me that the last time I
had left, they felt as if I had died. They wondered whether they would
be able to master the situation after I had left them alone. This session
ended in a long and heavy silence.
Then a woman expressed her fear of uttering an opinion of her
own, because she could be attacked for that, and she felt hurt easily.
‘Like a mimosa,’ I threw in. They did not know this plant and asked
for a description, which I gave. The man with the fantasies of killing
all fathers imagined, laughing, how he would seize this plant in his
fist and damage it. I was shocked and angrily asked, ‘damage your
group mate?’ Now he stated, that he had never said anything like that.
‘But the mimosa was standing for your group mate,’ I insisted. He
repeated that he had never said anything like this, and that it was my
fantasy. Angrily I called that a denial. At this point, several group
members were shocked by my anger and how I got into such a quar-
rel. They saw me losing my temper and were disappointed that I lost
my patience. ‘The end of the idealization!’ one man said. They saw
me now as ‘just a man!’ They experienced this as a sign of the rapid
approach of the end of the training, which was associated with pain
and grief. But they were angry as well, that nothing could be done to
prevent it. And they felt that they had not received enough to stand-
alone. To care for them in the future, I recommended that they look
for diligent supervision for their group work. At once, they wished to
do this with me via Skype. But in looking at this possibility, it proved
to be a completely new project intermingled with old transferencial
phantasies.
Another woman reported a dream: nails were sticking in her head
and face, which she had to remove, causing severe pain. But after all
nails had been removed, she felt great relief. In great empathy, the
others told her that they could feel her pain as well and then her relief.
‘The end of all pains?’ somebody asked. To expect this from the
group was in vain, they saw. But they valued this dream as a hopeful
group dream. I think the nails in her face stood for all the pains they
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My Conclusions
In the beginning of the training I was surprised at the strong and open
aggression of the men against paternal authority (kill the fathers!),
whilst the women broke into tears and opened up for catharsis. I felt
that there were remarkable differences between the retentive men and
the cathartic women. These differences seemed to be ‘typical
Chinese’. The strength of the taboo against aggression regarding par-
ents, and especially the dead parents, impressed me. This seemed to
be very Chinese too. In the course of the group process, some of these
taboos did alleviate. After some sincere arguments between the men
and the women, the men opened up much more and became very
cooperative and compassionate. The group dream of the collapsing
house symbolically showed the loosing of fixed structures. A strong
wish for closeness developed between the men and the women. The
dream of the nails in the woman’s face showed the immense pain and
suffering they had sustained growing up as women in this culture,
and also the fear losing one’s face, and the hope that all this could be
cured. The dream of the little girl running away showed the wish to
free oneself. But the outcome of this dream showed their need to be
taken care of and the conviction that it was too early to look after
themselves all alone, which I think is very realistic in the context of
this relatively short training. But, at the same time, I was very
impressed as to how much could change in the course of only 56 ses-
sions despite the fact of the very different foundation matrix in the
Chinese cultural context. This experience seems to prove that it
makes sense to apply the group analytic approach even in such a dif-
ferent culture.