School Violence

Nowadays, lots of students spend more time at school than home, and they meet their friends more
frequently than their parents. By that, students will have more opportunities to built relationship with
their friends. However, sometimes students will face to some problems between their friendship and
they might fight with each other. So we call it school violence. First of all, about the reason of violence.
Firstly, about the parents and school. Parents spend too much time to work and they don't give a time to
talk with their children about their sadness so that students can't have a person who they believe to
share their feelings. They will feel very lonely and maybe they can use the violence to relive their feeling.
But if parents spend too much time to take care of children, it also will cause the violence because
students can't have a social collisions and they always think they are right and everyone need to listen to
them like their parents. Moreover, the schools in this time are trying to keep up with the others about
the ranks so they don't focus on educate their students emotion, especially, the secondary school
because this is time that students will change a lot both the physical and mental health. If the students is
normal, it's OK but when the students have some appearances which are different from their
classmates. They will make fun of them or isolate them. Secondly, the internet. There are lots of social
network on the internet like: facebook, twitter, instagram, zalo. Students now use them to backbite
their friends and when the other students see it they will pass on this news. And then they will fight if
they can't find a common voice. Lots of students also be addicted to video games or movies that have
the violent content and these things will encourage them to fight with other students. In addition, some
students will have lovers through some text applications and it make the other student fight with them
because of their jealousy. Thirdly, students always want to become the winner and everyone need to
listen to them.

And how about the feeling of the victims of school violence. It will be very terrible. Because I have been
the victim of school violence. While I was being 7 years old, I had chicken pox and I stopped studying
about 1 month when I came back , my classmate kept a distance with me and sometimes they make fun
of me. No one help to get out of this problem even my teacher because these students stayed at her
home and every months they gave to our teacher lots of money so my teacher never took care of me
and helped me. I felt really lonely, I also wanted to change my class but I couldn't. in this moment, I also
scared when I remember about it.

So how to reduce violence? Parents need to take care of their kids but also need to give more individual
time for their kids. School need to organize more class to educate their students. Some operator of
social network need to make more strict rules for teenager. And with students, they need to learn to
listen to other people and know how to communicate with others. That's my opinion. Thanks for your
listening!