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Communication Skills
1.1 Introduction
Communication is an integral part of a human being’s existence. According
to some estimates, communication takes up nearly three-fourths of an active
human being’s life. When compared to all other professions, it is assumed
that in possessing the skills of communication, a journalist is at the apex.
Not only to succeed in this field, but even to survive, a journalist should be
an expert communicator. In this unit, you will be introduced to the concept of
communication and its process. You will also study the different barriers
that you normally face while communicating.
Objectives:
After studying this unit, you should be able to:
explain the definition and purpose of communication.
describe the process of communication
identify and overcome the barriers of communication
discuss the importance of verbal and non-verbal communication
For example, if you replied to the letter that you would be interested in
covering the news that has been planned, the editor may be happy for you.
He might understand that you have agreed to do the assignment which in
turn would help you to have a better chance of upgrading your knowledge in
your work area. Before receiving your consent, he thought of you as an
employee who has basic knowledge of the job that is assigned to you. Now
he knows that you are interested not only in upgrading your knowledge but
are also interested in involving yourself to see the growth of the company
you are working in. Such change in his understanding is the result of your
letter. He may also send you a message of congratulation!
Therefore, we can say that the primary goal or purpose of communication is
to ‘effect change’ or to bring about change. Communication also leads to
some ‘new action’. In this example you acted as sending your consent and
the editor acted by sending a message of congratulation.
Self Assessment Questions
1. _________ linked people together in an organization to achieve a
common purpose.
2. Communication facilitates ________ and __________ of performance.
3. Say whether True or False:
a) Communication helps officials to motivate the employees.
b) An organization cannot function as an open system by
communicating effectively with the environment.
c) Communication links people together to strengthen relationships.
g) Head shaking: This is the repeated turning of the head to the left and to
the right, which means disapproval or negation in many cultures.
h) Pointing by chin: This gesture is often used when one’s hands are
engaged in doing something else. This indicates a particular direction
when the head is turned in the corresponding direction and the chin is
slightly jerked up and in the pointed direction.
ii) Object communication such as clothing, hairstyles or even architecture;
symbols and info-graphics. The most common form of object communication
is clothing. People wear clothes that highlight their personality. However,
this may lead to a form of stereotyping because in the cases of youngsters,
the preference is to wear the clothes they consider attractive. A good
example of clothing as object communication is the uniform.
iii) Prosodic features of speech such as intonation and stress. A segment
in spoken language is an individual consonant, vowel, tone, or stress that
makes up a word. An utterance is made up of both segments and supra-
segmental features. These are broadly divided up into Prosody and Para-
linguistics. Prosody refers to pitch, loudness, duration, intonation and tempo.
Para-linguistics, which is much more difficult to measure, refers to
expression of voice quality, emotion, speaking style and speech clarity.
These features of the speech are responsible for the different meanings an
individual can construe from a simple sentence.
iv) Other paralinguistic features of speech such as voice quality, emotion
and speaking style. The study of nonverbal cues of voice is called ‘Vocalic.’
Things such as tone, pitch, accent, and volume can all give off nonverbal
cues. We can learn about the speaker’s personality, mood, and culture with
the information given by his/her voice.
v) Touches also add to the non-verbal communication. ‘Haptics’ is the study
of touching as nonverbal communication. Touches that can be defined as
communication include: Handshakes, holding hands, kissing (cheek, lips,
hand), back slap, "high-five", shoulder pat, brushing arm, etc. Each of these
give off nonverbal messages, as to the touching person's intentions/feelings.
They also cause feelings in the receiver, whether positive or negative.
Moreover, they indicate the relation between the receiver and sender of the
message.
1.6 Summary
We have seen that Communication is a natural activity in any society. It links
people together for achieving common goals. It brings about changes and
leads to action. Historically, the Greek Philosopher, Aristotle is said to have
developed the first model of communication.
1.8 Answers
Self Assessment Questions
1. communication
2. control and evaluation
3. a) True b) False c) True
4. inter-personal communication
5. Transmitter or sender
6. channel
7. i) c ii) e iii) a iv) b v) d
8. language 9. environment 10. Channel
11. C 12. A 13. B 14. A 15. D 16. B
Terminal Questions
1. Communication, when effective, helps establish and execute the goals
of an organisation. It helps the officials to be good leaders, in motivating
their subordinates to perform effectively. It also facilitates control and
evaluation of performance.
2. The purpose of communication is to effect change. It also leads to a
new action.
3. During any communication event, there is a source which starts the
process of communication. It could also be a ‘sender’ who encodes the
message. The message, through a channel or medium, reaches the
receiver, who decodes it. The receiver may react to the message by
giving a ‘feedback.’
4. In the process of communication, any hindrance in the stages of
encoding, transferring and decoding may be called ‘barrier’ of
communication.
REMEDIAL ENGLISH
Nouns: The word that identifies the ‘who’, ‘where’ and ‘what’ in a language
is a noun. Nouns name persons, places, things and feelings.
Kinds of Nouns
1. Proper Noun: They are the names of a particular place, person or thing.
They name specific or one-of-a-kind items. Proper nouns always begin
with capital letters. E.g.: France, Tim, the Ganges, the Eiffel Tower
2. Common Noun: They are the names given to every person, place or
thing of the same class. They identify the general variety. Common
nouns require capitalization only if they start the sentence or are part of
a title. E.g.: student, city, river, dog.
3. Collective Noun: They are the names given when a number of persons
or things are taken together as a whole. E.g.: crowd, flock, swarm.
4. Abstract Noun: We cannot see them as the other nouns. They are the
names given to qualities, actions and states of being that cannot be felt,
seen or heard. E.g.: beauty, charity, laughter, childhood.
Exercise 1: Pick out the nouns in the following sentences:
1. The shopman hasn’t opened his shop today.
2. After the rains, the grass and plants have started growing well.
3. Children are fond of toys and sweets.
4. This is silk. See how shiny and soft it is!
5. Lots of tea is grown in China.
6. Don’t you think that all religions, more or less say the same thing?
Gender in Nouns
1. A noun that denotes a male is Masculine Gender.
E.g.: father, boy, hero.
2. A noun that denotes a female is Feminine Gender.
E.g.: mother, girl, heroine.
3. A noun that does not denote either male or female, but can fit into one of
the two categories, is Common Gender.
E.g.: baby, parent, student, teacher.
4. A noun that denotes neither male nor female is Neuter Gender.
E.g.: tree, jewel, building, meadow.
ii) The non-count meaning is abstract and general. E.g.: She succeeded
in the examination with little difficulty. (Here, ‘difficulty’ refers to the
general idea of the exam being difficult.). I dislike idle talk. (‘Talk’
refers to talking in general.)
Conversion and Usage of Singular and Plural Nouns
1. The most common way of converting a singular noun to its plural form
is by adding –s. day-days, girl, girls.
2. Nouns ending in -ch, –o, –sh, –ss, –x form their plural by adding –es.
Church – churches, hero-heroes, brush- brushes, kiss-kisses, tax-taxes
3. Nouns ending in –y with a preceding consonant form their plural by
dropping the –y and adding –ies. E.g.: baby-babies, story-stories.
4. Twelve nouns ending in –f or –fe drop –f/fe and add –ves to form
plural.
They are: calf, half, knife, leaf, life, loaf, self, sheaf, shelf, thief, wife,
wolf, loaf, knife. (calves, halves, knives, leaves, lives, loaves, selves)
Exceptions: However, nouns hoof, scarf and wharf take either –s or –
ves. hoofs or hooves, scarf or scarves, wharfs or wharves. Also, the
other nouns ending in –f/ef add –s to form plural. cliff-cliffs,
handkerchief – handkerchiefs.
5. Instruments having two parts are always used in plural.
E.g.: scissors, tongs, trousers, nuptials.
6. Some plural words are more commonly used in singular.
E.g.: Mathematics, Statistics (as a subject), Politics, News, Measles.
7. Normally compound nouns take the plural of the last noun.
E.g.: boyfriends, travel agents.
8. Nouns of words of foreign origin follow the rule of the original language
to form plurals. E.g.: phenomenon-phenomena, radius-radii.
9. Certain nouns have different forms in their plural, depending on the
context of usage. E.g.: die – dies (device that shapes materials by
stamping, cutting or punching), dice (small cubes used in games)
brother – brethren (members of community); brothers (siblings).
10. Abstract and Material Nouns are not used in plural, except in cases,
where they are used as Common Noun. E.g.: advice-advice, courage-
courage
NOTE: If the noun begins with a consonant sound. (E.g.: university), then
we use ‘a’. If the noun begins with a vowel sound (E.g.: hour), then we use
‘an’. We say "university" with a "y" sound at the beginning as though it were
spelt "youniversity". So, "a university" IS correct. We say "hour" with a silent
‘h’ as though it were spelt "our". Therefore, "an hour" IS correct.
‘A’ or ‘An’ is used –
1. before nouns that introduce something or someone you have not
mentioned before. E.g.: I saw an elephant this morning.
2. before singular countable nouns. E..g.: I stepped in a puddle.
3. when talking about one’s profession. E.g.: I am an English teacher.
4. before Mr/Mrs/Miss + name to imply that he is a stranger to the speaker.
E.g.: A Mr Smith is outside your office.
5. before a proper noun to make it a common noun. E.g.: Amit is a
Shakespeare.
6. before certain uncountable nouns preceded by nouns + of. E.g.: a drop
of water, a piece of advice
7. after the words many, rather, such, quite in certain structures. E.g.: Such
a show cannot be arranged now.
‘A’ or ‘An’ is not used
1. before names of meals. E.g.: Let us have lunch at 12.30 p.m.
Exception: ‘a’ is used before names of meals when they are preceded
by adjectives. E.g.: She gave me a sumptuous dinner yesterday.
Articles are not used
1. with non countable nouns referring to something in general. E.g.:
Coffee is his favourite drink.
2. before names of languages and nationalities. E.g.: English, Indian
3. before names of academic subjects. E.g.: History, Biology
4. before names of cities, towns, states. E.g.: Miami, Seoul
5. before names of streets. E.g.: M.G. Road
6. before names of lakes and bays. E.g.: Lake Titicaca
Exception: ‘the’ is used with group of lakes. E.g.: the Great Lakes.
7. before names of mountains. E.g.: Mount Everest
Exception: ‘the’ is used with mountain ranges. E.g.: the Andes
8. before names of continents. E.g.: Asia, Australia
Exercise 2:
1. Mother helps my brother in doing his homework.
2. The maid-servant is chasing the she-buffalo.
3. A lioness and a tigress are chasing the stag.
4. A Queen’s daughter is a princess and her son is a prince.
5. Aunt is teaching Uncle how to cook.
Exercise 3:
1. The men and their wives went to the places of worship.
2. The singers can play the pianos.
3. The rings are made of gold.
4. The women know very little but understand more.
5. The dentists pull off the teeth.
Exercise 4:
And they lived happily ever after, say _the_ fairy tales. Have you ever
wondered if they really did? They could have in fairy tales but in reality, we
are still chasing happiness and it only gets more elusive by the day.
Mankind has been united in the conviction that happiness is _a_ very
desirable state. We are driven by the need to be happy behind everything
we do. When young, we study well to get good grades so we can be happy
with _the accolades. We grow up; get jobs to earn money, security, status –
all for happiness. And then inevitably get into relationships/ marriage all
again for – happiness.
We chase money, health, growth, fame, power, property and relationships,
not for what they are, but because we think they could lead to happiness.
Yet, you will acknowledge that this is fleeting happiness. Getting into _a__
foreign university is what you always wanted, but leaving your girl friend
behind, that totally kills it. Losing weight may transform your life but it means
never having ‘Death by chocolate’ again. Promotions mean no holidays, and
high-end cars mean gallons of petrol. No matter what or how much you
have, nothing seems quite enough. Is there _an__ irrefutable, permanent
and absolute happiness? Or better, what makes people happy? _A_ good
bank account, _a__ good cook, and _a__ good digestion, said Jean
Jacques Rousseau.
2.1 Introduction
Nidhi was gushing with enthusiasm when she was discussing with me the
new layout she had planned and designed for her magazine. She was the
subeditor of the upcoming youth magazine. Previously the entire
management had come to a consensus about changing the existing layout
for better marketing reasons. She was well prepared with her power point
presentation regarding the layout she had designed. She presented her
idea to a gamut of professionals in the field. The entire top management
was awe-struck at the effectiveness of the presentation and the passion with
which Nidhi presented her design. They decided to go ahead with the
changes suggested by her.
What do the two situations convey to you? In both instances, you can
observe there are two things happening. Nidhi initially talks to an individual,
me, in this case, on a personal one to one basis and that too very informally.
Next, she addresses a group. Talking to groups is a different ball game
altogether. But one thing is common to both – talking to an individual
informally or addressing an audience. Both fall under the category of face to
face communication.
In this unit, we are going to discuss about Oral Communication. Oral
communication can occur between individuals or before large audiences as
in a meeting. It can be formal or informal and it can be planned or casual.
Very often oral presentations are accompanied by some visual aids to
support and clarify what is being stated. We will learn some basic principles
of Oral Presentations and Visual Aids used in oral presentations.
Objectives :
After studying this unit, you should be able to:
discuss the merits and demerits of oral communication
use some polite expressions/phrases in appropriate contexts, while
making effective one-to-one communication
little attention to your oral skills because learning to speak well will improve
your personal and professional life considerably. You should remember that
even if the listener cannot see you (in telephone conversation), it is easy to
deduce your personality with the help of the quality of your voice – its tone
will indicate your age, sex, intelligence, if you are stressed, if you are
confident or not; even your geographical origin is distinguished by noting the
accent you use while speaking.
Self Assessment Questions
1. What is the main advantage of Oral communication?
2. Why should we pay attention to learn oral skills?
3. What helps the listener deduce the personality of the speaker in a
telephone conversation?
4. How is the geographical origin of the speaker understood in oral
communication?
develop certain skills of acquiring this technique for finding out the
necessary information/enquiry by asking relevant questions.
For examples of asking the way or direction and giving directions, let’s
go though the following table of expressions.
(i) Tourist: (ii) Excuse me, (iii) Excuse me, but (iv) Excuse me,
Excuse me, can please could you I’m trying to find please could
you tell me where tell me the way to the Town Hall… you tell me how
GANDHI street the station? to get to the
is, please? Town Centre?
(attention, asking
for information)
You: Take the Turn round and turn Take the third on First right,
second on the left at the traffic the right and go second left. You
left. And then lights. straight on. can’t miss it.
ask again (giving
Information)
Tourist: Is it far? Will it take me a Should I take a Is it too far to
(additional long time to get bus? walk?
information) there?
You: No, its only No, it’s no distance No, you can walk it No, its only a
about five at all! in under five couple of
minutes walk minutes. hundred
(responding). meters.
Tourist: Thanks Thank you. Thank you very Thanks, very
a lot! (gratitude) much. much.
You: Not at all. That’s O K. That’s quite alright. It’s my pleasure.
(responding)
Giving Directions
Study the map carefully and fill in the blanks in the worksheet
j) If you need to phone the caller back, agree when you’ll do it- and make
sure you do!
k) When you end the call, summarize any action that has been agreed
upon and check if the caller is happy with the outcome. It’s courteous to
thank them for calling.
Initiating a call: Whenever you dial a number and someone picks up the
phone at the other end, you should follow these rules:
a) Ask the person who picks up the phone at the other end , • Are you
3467983? / Mr. ---- or Is that 3467983?
b) If he says it is the right number, it’d be a good idea to go ahead and ask
him if it’s really the place (office, house, etc.) that you want.
Eg: • Is that the XYZ Co.? • Is that the News Desk?
c) Then you should announce your identity. If the person on the other end
has not recognized you, tell him who you are and where you’re calling
from – that is, the place, office etc. you’re calling from.
d) After announcing your identity, you can straightaway ask him if you
could speak to the person whom you want – without asking him who he
is. Of course, if you recognize his voice, and if he’s the person you want
to speak to, you can straight away launch into a conversation.
e) If the person who picks up the phone at the other end voluntarily
announces his identity, and if he’s not the person you want to speak to,
tell him you’d like to speak to the specific person – or ask him if you
could speak to that person.
f) Suppose you are told about the unavailability of the person you want,
you can ask the person who has picked up the phone who he is – before
you start telling him anything else.
Eg: • Who’s this speaking? • May I know who is speaking, please?
But remember one thing: In general, nobody likes to tell you who they
are if you don’t tell them who you are first. So the best policy is to
announce your identity first, before asking for the identity of the person
at the other end.
g) Once you get the person you want on the phone, and once you’re sure
that he’s the person you want, you can state the purpose of your call.
But don’t just rush into explaining the purpose all of a sudden. Instead,
start by preparing the ground – by telling him that you’re now going to
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state the purpose. For example, if you’re calling him to tell him
something about a meeting, you can begin by saying something like this:
• I’m calling you about tomorrow’s meeting. Or it’s about tomorrow’s
meeting.
h) In the same way, before you speak to him about anything important,
start by telling him that you’re going to speak to him about a particular
topic. In this way, you must always build an expectation in him about
what you’re going to say – before you actually say it. This step is very
important if your telephone communication is to be really effective.
i) Before you actually ring off, say something appropriate that’d indicate to
the person at the other end that you’re going to ring off. Depending on
the context, word groups like the following would help you do this:
• Bye, then. • I’ll get back to you soon. • Well, that’s settled, then.
• Thanks a lot. Goodbye. • Until tomorrow, then. Goodbye.
j) Be prepared to take a message: Be thorough when you take a message.
Include-
1. the caller’s name
2. the caller’s phone number
3. if offered, the caller’s firm or department
4. the date and time of message
5. a message, if the caller chooses to leave one
6. your name.
Do not screen calls: If the required person is in, please forward
the call immediately. Do not ask, “Who’s calling?”
Use the caller’s name: There is no sweeter music to a person’s
ear than the sound of their own name.
When placing a call, always allow a minute for the person
required to answer (Ten rings is equivalent to one minute)
Take time for a good closing: Let the caller hang up first; then
replace your handset gently.
A: Hold the line A: I’ll just see if A: Hang on a A: I’ll find out, If
please she is in. moment she’s at home.
B: Would you tell B: Could you take B: Would you ask B: Can you tell
her I rang? a message? her to call back? her to ring me
when she gets
back?
2.4 Summary
In every area of work, communication stands a prime position. Most of the
communication in our life is oral communication. This is because, we learn
to speak first and then to write. While communicating with the people, polite
phrases and expressions have to be used in their appropriate contexts. We
have learnt the language that has to be used while giving orders to our
subordinates or taking orders from our seniors; giving or asking for
directions, which are the most common oral skills that an individual has to
learn and use in a day to day life.
2.6 Answers
Self Assessment Questions
1. immediate feedback
2. because it will improve the personal and professional life
3. Quality /tone of the voice of the speaker
4. With the help of his accent
5. i) and ii) are informal ; iii) and iv) are formal
Terminal Questions
i) b ii) b iii) c iv) a
REMEDIAL ENGLISH
Pronoun is used as a proxy to the proper
noun to avoid repetition of the nouns.
Suresh said that Suresh bought a new bike.
In this case repetition of the proper noun
‘Suresh’ becomes redundant. It could be
replaced by the pronoun ‘he.’ Suresh said
that he bought a new bike.
You may come across usage of pronouns
that are quite confusing.
I hit myself with the ball.
I myself hit the ball.
Both the sentences have the pronoun ‘myself’ but they mean different. The
first sentence uses reflexive pronoun, whereas the second sentence uses
emphatic pronoun.
Reflexive Pronouns: Here the action reflects back on the noun. When the
subject and object refer to the same person, reflexive pronoun is used.
I must blame myself for this.
Behave yourself.
He killed himself.
Emphatic Pronouns: They are used to emphasize the subject of the
sentence.
I myself will take you there
You yourself are to be blamed
Exercise 1: Pick out the Pronouns from the sentences given below:
i) I am afraid you may have to wait.
ii) Lubna come in. She was quite good looking.
iii) Have you been to Tokyo? Yes, it was very crowded.
iv) It is good to go to bed early and rise early.
v) One should be practical.
vi) Her parents are in Singapore and so are mine.
vii) She stretched herself flat on the sofa.
viii) These are not mine but those are.
ix) Someone should take up the responsibility.
x) Ting and Tang are jealous of each other.
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xi) Look at the man in the car. He is the person who helped me in my
difficulties.
xii) Who is the woman at the gate?
Prepositions
Prepositions are the words, which tell us
about the relations of the nouns, pronouns,
and adjectives in a sentence. Their position
is before (pre) the noun. Hence, they are
said to govern the noun. The noun, which
follows is said to be the object of the
preposition.
Relations Expressed by Prepositions
1. Preposition of Time: on, in, at, for, before, after, until, till, between, by,
upto. E.g.: She was healthy till yesterday.
2. Preposition of Place: to, at, from, away, on, onto, of, in, into, out, upon,
inside, within, by, over, above, on top of, behind, in front of, below,
beneath, across, through, all over, throughout, between, among. E.g.:
Where do you come from?
3. Preposition of Method and Manner: by, with. E.g.: The boys skipped
going to school, with audacity.
4. Preposition of Reason and Purpose: with, of, for. E.g.: I rented a
house for my holidays
5. Preposition of Possession: of, with, by. E.g.: The tomb of Akbar is in
Sikandarabad.
6. Preposition of Direction and Motions: into, towards, up, round,
across. E.g.: They climbed into the lorry.
7. Preposition of Contrast: despite. E.g.: Despite his mistakes, he is a
sincere worker.
Have these prepositions confused you? Check out their proper usage.
beside, besides
a) The house is beside the river. (by the side of)
b) Besides being good at Tennis, he is also an excellent player of Golf.
(in addition to/moreover)
since, for
a) He has been absent since Monday last. (point of time)
b) He was absent for four days. (length or period of time)
between, among
a) I have to choose between the two pictures.(two persons/things)
b) This is the custom among the tribes. (more than two)
by, with
a) He was killed by a servant. (doer of the action)
b) He was killed with a knife. (instrument of action)
in, at
He lives at Juhu in Mumbai. (‘at’ - smaller area/ ‘in’- bigger area)
in, into
a) He is in bed (indicates rest or motion inside anything)
b) He fell into the well (motion towards the inside of anything)
on, upon
a) He sat on a chair (things at rest)
b) He lives on his maternal uncle (denoting support)
c) I wrote books on philosophy (denoting concern)
d) He jumped upon the horse. (Things in motion)
in, within
a) The loan will be repaid in a year. (end of a period of time)
b) The loan will be paid within a year (any time before the specified
period.)
over, above
a) They saw the peaks towering above them (higher)
b) We hung the picture over the fire place (vertically above)
Exercise 2: Use the suitable preposition in the blanks:
1. It is almost time. Hurry up! The train will leave _______ five minutes.
2. _______ the end of April, we go ________ holidays.
3. My father leaves me ______ school ___ his way to office
______scooter.
4. Beautiful resorts are coming up _________ the sea.
5. You can hang grandfather’s portrait ____________ the shelves.
Exercise 2:
1. in
2. by; for
3. at; on; by
4. near
5. above
6. off
7. across; with
8. inside; on
9. into
10. with
11. without
12. for
13. against; from; of
14. of
15. around; in
16. in; for
17. of; for; from
18. for; since
3.1 Introduction
In the previous unit, we have learnt the techniques of oral communication.
The success of oral communication depends largely on the listening
capacity of the listener. In this unit, you will be introduced to one of the
fascinating areas of language learning and that is ‘listening’. This is a skill,
which is not given its due importance in our language learning. We take it for
granted that naturally all listen to language automatically and therefore,
there is no need of developing listening as a skill of language. However, this
is not true. Here, you will identify different hindrances to listening and hence
learn to avoid them. You will also learn different strategies that you can use
and practise while listening, to make communication process easy and
productive.
Objectives:
After studying this unit, you should be able to:
identify the difference between hearing and listening.
describe different types of listening
list different barriers of listening
apply appropriate strategies to be an effective listener
explain semantic markers
truth of what is being said. We also judge what they say against our values,
assessing them as good or bad, worthy or unworthy. Evaluative listening is
particularly relevant when the other person is trying to persuade us, perhaps
to change our behavior and maybe even to change our beliefs.
4. Appreciative listening:
In appreciative listening, the main intention is to seek certain information,
which will be appreciated. For example, the information that helps meet our
goals and needs are looked for. We use appreciative listening when we are
listening to good music, poetry or maybe even the stirring words of a great
leader.
5. Empathetic listening:
When we listen empathetically, we seek to understand the beliefs, moods,
emotions and goals of other people. This requires excellent discrimination
and close attention to the nuances of emotional signals.
In order to get others to expose these deep emotions to us, we also need to
demonstrate our empathy in our demeanor towards them, asking sensitively
and in a way that encourages self-disclosure.
6. Therapeutic listening:
In therapeutic listening, the listener has a purpose of not only empathizing
with the speaker, but also to use this deep connection in order to help the
speaker understand, change or develop in some way.
This not only happens when you go to see a therapist but also in many
social situations, where friends and family seek to both diagnose problems
from listening and also to help the speaker cure of those problems. This also
happens in work situations, where Managers, HR personnel Trainers and
Coaches seek to help employees learn and develop.
7. Dialogic listening:
The word 'dialogue' stems from the Greek words 'dia', meaning 'through'
and 'logos' meaning 'words'. Thus dialogic listening means learning through
conversation. It is an engaged interchange of ideas and information in which
we actively seek to learn more about the person and how they think.
Dialogic listening is sometimes known as 'relational listening' because with
the help of exchange of ideas while listening, we also indirectly create a
relation.
focusing too much on the facts, the listener may miss the message that
the speaker is intending to convey.
9. Many formal speeches are not carefully outlined and organized. As a
result, many listeners try to mentally outline the presentation instead of
paying attention to what is being said.
10. When the subject is technical or complicated, many people stop
listening altogether. The listeners decide beforehand that since the
subject is not familiar, they will not be able to understand what the
speaker is trying to say.
Self Assessment Questions
12. Turning one’s attention to other important things instead of listening to
the speaker at a point of time is considered a good habit of listening.
(True/False)
13. Paying attention to the presentation of the speaker instead of the
subject is a barrier of listening. (True/False)
14. A technical or complicated subject is not at all a barrier for effective
listening. (True/False)
15. Too much attention to the facts told by the speaker may result in
missing the underlying message. (True/False)
16. A good listener should always jump to conclusion at the beginning of
the speech without waiting for the speaker to complete the facts and
messages that he intends to pass on to the listener. (True/False)
(you) cares about the speaker in general. When people don’t feel that
you care about them, they don’t trust you and the communication
process quickly breaks down. Therefore, it is important to use verbal and
non-verbal clues that you are listening, including eye contact, gestures,
and acknowledging statements.
2. Concentration requires willingness and practice. Practising active
listening helps with concentration but there are other elements that
contribute to your ability to concentrate on what someone is saying.
Assuming you’re attending an invited lecture on a topic of current
interest, you have to concentrate on the speaker’s words completely
without being distracted by any other sound or event. It is important to
position yourself in a way that maintains eye contact with the speaker.
3. It is important to refrain from formulating an immediate response. You
won’t be able to fully concentrate on forming a genuine understanding of
what the speaker is trying to say if you are too busy thinking about what
you are going to say in response to them whenever it is your turn to talk.
4. Preparation can have a huge impact on the outcome of a dialogue or
any form of communication. To prepare for an interaction where
effective listening will be important, it is essential to keep in mind the
purpose of the exchange. What decisions need to be made and how the
collaboration between sender and receiver relates are important factors
to keep in mind. It is also helpful to approach the situation with the
attitude of really caring to know the truth. The dialogue should be viewed
as an opportunity to uncover the truth and make progress, rather than as
a challenge or conflict.
5. A willingness to accept revisions will keep the communication process
running smoothly. Often people are so busy trying to defend their
positions that they fail to really stop and think whether they could be
improved upon or viewed in a different way. This is what is often referred
to as “spending 90 seconds expressing an opinion and 900 seconds
blindly defending it.” Every complaint that you receive, should enable
you to find ways of improving the unaccepted behavior rather than
defending yourself and finding reasons and explanations for such
behaviour.
following a celebrity death it's a seller’s market. But some Internet users
angered by the commercialism are sending hate e-mail to the souvenir
sellers.
There are even public messages left in eBay auction files that say, "Don't
bid; have respect for the Kennedy family." Golledge has received several
hate e-mails but feels their criticism is unjust. "It's a separate thing. It's
business; it's not a negative thing against JFK Jr. at all." This seller has six
different Internet addresses to be sold as a set for one hundred twenty
thousand dollars. Another address has already sold for two hundred
thousand.
Heidi Golledge says, "There's never really been a time in history that I could
see that you could purchase something for seventy dollars and an hour later
it's worth two hundred thousand. If you could show me a stock like that on
the Internet I'd be happy to buy it." Investing in a tragedy, emotionally or
financially, for some it's paying off.
a) Commercialism
b) Prices
c) Hate e-mail
d) Auctions
B. Number the items below in the correct order in which they occurred
in time.
i) Auctioneers know about the craving for celebrity memorabilia
ii) There has been criticism of this commercialism about celebrities
iii) JFK Jr., his wife, and her sister were all killed in an airplane
accident.
iv) Many souvenirs of the Kennedys are now up for sale on Internet
online auctions.
(for answers, refer to section 3.9)
Source: http://www.world-english.org/listening-news.htm
The semantic markers are used according to the functions they perform:
1. They indicate how ideas are being developed. They can also be used to
list the ideas, such as, first, secondly, finally, to begin with, first and
foremost, next, etc.
2. Markers for illustrations and examples such as, for instance, for
example, let’s take for example, etc.
3. They introduce an idea that runs against what has been said earlier,
such as, but, nevertheless, yet, although, by contrast, on the other hand,
however, in spite of, etc.
4. They are used to show a cause and effect relationship between one
idea and another. They include, so, therefore, because, since, thus,
hence, consequently.
5. They show the speaker's intention to sum up his message. Some of
these phrases are to summarize, in other words, it amounts to, etc.
6. They indicate the relative importance of different items, e.g., it is worth
noting, it is important to note that, the next crucial point is, etc.
7. They are used to rephrase what has already been said. These are in
other words, put differently, that is to say, let me put it like this, etc.
8. They express a time relationship, e.g., then, next, after, while, when,
previously.
Activity 2 : Listening to the radio news as well as other programmes has to
be very carefully practised. Most precisely because everything would
happen within a fraction of a second and there is no visual impact as on TV.
Given below is a news text from a news broadcast on Air on 23rd June 1985.
Ask your friend to read it only once. Listen carefully to the news item. Take
outline notes as you listen to the news.
NEWS ITEM
“This is All India Radio” The news read by Spoorthi Sinha. Headlines.
“An Air India Jumbo jet has crashed into the Atlantic Ocean, off the Ireland
coast. All the three hundred and twenty five passengers and crew are
feared killed. A judicial enquiry has been ordered. The president and the
Prime Minister have expressed grief and shock.
The Sri Lankan President says he will consider decentralisation of powers if
Tamil Militants give up separatist activities.
A central Intelligence Directorate is to be set up soon to deal with economic
offences.
The Southern Command has lifted the Murugappa Gold Cup in Hockey.
An Air India Jumbo Jet “Kanishka” with 325 people on board crashed into
the Atlantic Ocean, off the coast of Ireland, this morning, The crash occurred
40 minutes before it was to land at the Heathrow Airport, in London for
refuelling. Agency reports from London say that there are no signs of
survivors. According to PTI, 33 bodies have been recovered so far. The
18. When a client has called you to complain about the service of your
office, you should thank him for calling. (True/False)
19. A sincere apology from you will usually diffuse a lot of frustration that
the client has. (True/False)
20. As a professional and a practiced listener, you should stay the course
and remain calm and level headed even when the client is using harsh
or vulgar language. (True/False)
3.7 Summary
“We have two ears and one mouth and should use them in that proportion."
-Epictetus.
The communication process is a unique sharing of thoughts and feelings
that defines us as humans. It can be visualized as a dynamic circle because
of the constant changing relationships among its various parts – the source,
idea, message, medium, receiver and response. This process occurs within
a communication environment. Most people can hear, but a good listener is
hard to find. Without effective listeners, the dynamic circle of communication
is broken. Hearing is a passive, generally involuntary process, in which the
brain receives and interprets sounds from the external environment. In
contrast, listening is an active, voluntary process, in which the listener
deliberately pays attention to, interprets the meaning of, and responds to a
message.
There are many types of listening such as Discriminative, Comprehensive,
Evaluative, Appreciative, Empathetic, Therapeutic and Dialogic. Listening
skills are not innate in human beings. One needs exhaustive practice to be
a good listener. There are barriers, which hinder the listening process.
Interruption, faking attention, becoming emotional during conversation,
jumping to conclusions even before dialogue is completed and becoming
distracted are all causes of incomplete listening.
Even though one is not a born ‘perfect listener,’ one can train himself to be a
very good listener, which is the foremost quality to become a successful
professional. The strategies that one has to develop in order to be a good
listener are – Provide clues that one is actively involved, concentrate while
someone is talking, refrain from formulating an immediate response, try to
prepare beforehand, be prepared to accept revisions and be sure that the
environment is conducive to listening. The best way of making your task of
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3.9 Answers
Self Assessment Questions
1. 1) True 8) Discriminative 15) True
2) False 9) Appreciative 16) False
3) False 10) Dialogic 17) False
4) True 11) Therapeutic 18) True
5) True 12) False 19) True
6) Critical 13) True 20) True
7) Comprehensive 14) False
Activity 1:
A. Select the appropriate answer
1. c 2. a 3. b 4. a
B. Number the items below in the correct order in which they occurred
in time.
1-iii 2-iv 3-i 4-ii
Activity 2:
1. Crashing of Air India Jumbo Jet
2. Grief and shock
3. Kanishka
4. 325 people and crew
5. 33
6. The wreckage has been sighted spread over a 7- kilometre area about
30 kilometres west of Cork in Southern Ireland.
Terminal Questions
1. Hearing is a passive process, which involves a mere detection of sounds
around us. Listening is an active process, where the conscious desire is
to determine the meaning of what is heard.
2. Listening can be categorized as, discriminative, comprehensive,
evaluative, appreciative, empathetic, therapeutic and dialogic.
3. The reasons or hindrances, which are responsible for the failure of a
person to listen effectively, are called barriers to listening.
REMEDIAL ENGLISH
Verbs
A verb indicates the action done by the subject. E.g.: He arrived late.
Verbs can be categorized into two groups:
1. Main verb: This tells us of what exactly happens. They are also called
the ‘action words.’ E.g.: Srinivas went to his village. The word ‘went’
tells us what the subject ‘Srinivas’ has done.
2. Auxiliary verbs: They indicate the number and tense in the sentence.
They are also called ‘helping verbs’ or ‘linking verbs.’ E.g.: Mohan did
not go with him. The helping verb ‘did’ decides the time of action. So the
main verb will be in the original form of ‘go’.
Verb – Tenses
Tense refers to the time of action. With the change of tense, the form of the
main verb also changes.
Present Tense: Simple Present, Present Continuous, Present Perfect,
Present Perfect Continuous
1. Simple Present: (Subject + V1 (present )
E.g.: While Maya was watching the movie, Mark was playing hockey.
It expresses an action that was in progress at a point of time in the
past, having begun before that point and probably continuing after it.
E.g.: I was watching cricket at 8.00 in the morning.
3. Past Perfect: (Subject + {had} + V3 {past participle})
a) It is used to indicate an action that happened before another action
in the past. Usually two actions are mentioned in the sentence.
E.g.: Ram had gone to the store and brought some groceries.
(Past Per.) (Sim. Past)
4. Past Perfect Continuous: (Subject + {had} + been +V1 + ing)
a) It is used to convey an action which happened in the past and
continued for certain time.
E.g.: Ramu had been working at the university before he retired.
Exercise 2: Use the right past tense form of verb in the following gaps:
1. The postman _____ at the door when I ______ mother. (knock, help)
2. Uncle _________ a letter, _______ it and ________ it to me.
Afterwards, I _______ to the post office. (write, seal, give, go)
3. Yesterday I ________ an old friend of mine after a long time. (see)
4. ‘How did you learn to sing so sweetly’. My mother _________ me.
(teach)
5. Yesterday, Ritu and Chintu _________ tennis. (play). They began at
10 o’clock and finished at 11.30. So at 10.30 they ________ tennis.
(play)
Future Tense: Simple Future, Future Continuous, Future Perfect, Future
Perfect Continuous
1. Simple Future: (Subject + will/shall + V1)
a) It is used to express the speaker’s opinions/ assumptions about the
future.
E.g.: They will wait for us.
It is used for future habitual actions.
E.g.: Birds will build nests.
It is used in sentences containing clauses of condition, time and
purpose.
E.g.: If I drop this glass, it will break.
Answers:
Exercise 1:
1. Grow
2. is raining
3. have been living
4. has cleaned
5. is building
Exercise 2:
1. knocked; was helping
2. wrote; sealed; gave; went
3. saw
4. taught
5. had played; had been playing
Exercise 3:
1. will like
2. is writing; would complete
3. going to invite
4. will be watching
5. will you be doing
Exercise 4:
1. doesn’t she? 2. hidn’t he? 3. have I? 4. aren’t they? 5. do they?
4.1 Introduction
Several skills are required for effective communication. We have already
dealt with the oral and listening skills. To gain and master these skills, you
need to acquire knowledge and wisdom, which depends on your extensive
reading habits. The more you read, the more words will you learn, which will
be helpful in making sentence variations and good oration. It will also widen
your thinking horizon, helps you analyze situations and give you insight into
varied experiences. Therefore, it is the primary skill that helps us acquire
knowledge about everything in this world. Those who cannot read or write
are prone to exploitation and suffering. Hence, it is important for all human
beings to read and learn. In this unit, we will learn about the various aspects
of reading, as a skill.
Objectives
After studying this unit, you should be able to:
define and explain the meaning of reading
list the purposes of reading
select and use different types of reading for different purposes.
describe and use SQ3R technique of reading
enables the individuals and the organisations not to do things right but to
do right things.
b) As they went on describing the school, it seemed to me that it must be
the greatest place on earth. Not even heaven presented more
attractions for me at that time than did the Hampton Normal and
Agricultural Institute on Virginia. I wanted to go to that school, although I
had no idea where it was, or how many miles away, or how I was going
to reach it. I was on fire constantly with one ambition, and that was to go
to Hampton. This thought was with me day and night.
c) Asthma, a condition that affects the lungs, is a disease that many
people, the majority of whom are children, have. Asthma is most
commonly thought to be hereditary. One known cause for an attack is an
allergic reaction, but stress and vigorous activity are thought to be
causes as well. This disease can be fatal if it is not taken care of
immediately, but with the medical technology of today, mild asthma is
more of a nuisance than a life threatening disease. Although not proven,
asthma is thought to be hereditary. The majority of asthmatics tend to
have asthmatics in the family. In most cases, asthma usually is present
at birth, although some cases have developed after age forty.
d) ‘Without presumption, sir. I feel that if you were to give me another
chance I should work to your satisfaction. I should endeavour-‘
Mr. Ferguson stared at him in dumb horror. He had a momentary vision
of a sleepless night spent in listening to a nicely-polished speech for the
defence. He was seized with a mad desire for flight. He could not leave
the building, but he must get away somewhere and think.
He dashed from the room and raced up the dark stairs. And as he
arrived at the next floor his eye was caught by a thin pencil of light which
proceeded form a door on the left.
e) Red Dawn: It sounds like a paperback thriller from the Cold War. In fact
it is the air raid siren in Sderot and the Israeli towns and villages like it
around the Gaza Strip. It is supposed to warn the local people of a
Qassam rocket attack by Palestinian militants. If the system works, they
have nine seconds to run for cover. But sometimes there is nowhere to
run.
In a kindergarten in the middle of Sderot, the mere mention of Red
Dawn makes one little girl burst into tears. This kindergarten has lost two
leaps. He turned out to be a German named Luz Long. I was told that
Hitler had kept him hidden away, evidently hoping he would win the jump. I
supposed that if Long won, it would add some new support to the Nazis’
Aryan-superiority theory. After all, I am a Negro. A little hot under the collar
about Hitler’s ways, I was determined to go out there and really show Der
Fuhrer and his master race who was superior and who wasn’t.
An angry athlete is an athlete who will make mistakes, as any coach will tell
you. I was no exception. On the first of my three qualifying jumps, I leaped
from several inches beyond the take-off board for a no-jump. On the
second jump, I was even worse. “Did I come 3,000 miles for this?” I thought
bitterly. “To fall in the trials and make a fool of myself?” Then Luz Long
approached me and encouraged me to do my best with a calm mind. I
obeyed him and got qualified for the finals. The next day in the finals I won
the Olympic Gold Medal defeating my nearest rival Luz Long. Long was the
first one who came to congratulate me just in front of Hitler. You could melt
down all the gold medals and cups I have, and they wouldn’t be a plating on
the 24 carat friendship I felt for Luz Long at that moment.
Read the article and answer the questions that follow:
1. What preparations did Jesse Owens do for the Olympic games?
2. Why was everyone sure that Jesse Owens would get the gold medal in
the long jump event?
3. What did Jesse Owens expect to get from the 1936 Olympic Games?
4. What mistake did Jesse Owens make?
5. Why did he make that mistake?
6. Give the words from the passage that means the same as-
i) to turn from something solid to liquid
ii) to do something unexpected which surprises someone.
4.4.3 Extensive Reading
Does reading give us pleasure? As we have already mentioned our way of
reading is influenced by the purpose of our reading. Most of us have the
habit of reading especially when we are free or have a lot of leisure time.
We might get hold of a novel, a comic strip, a magazine etc. When we read
for the pure pleasure of reading we call it extensive reading. But, we should
not give it a lesser priority because it is extensive reading. It is enjoyable as
between reading and speaking. This makes reading difficult and may cause
problems in understanding the matter. But there are situations when we
have to read things aloud, like the notices and circulars, when others don’t
have access to it. You need to read the instructions aloud to students or
employees so that there is no confusion later. Besides these extra-ordinary
situations, most of the time the natural way of reading is silent reading which
is ideal and helps comprehension.
4.6 Summary
In this unit, we have discussed what reading is, and the various purposes of
reading. You have learnt the different types of reading like, Scanning,
Skimming, Intensive, Extensive and SQ3R method of reading. You have to
interact with the given piece of writing/information and derive meaning out of
it. For this, a basic knowledge of the language system, vocabulary, grammar
and some background knowledge of the topic is required. You should also
vary your speed of reading according to your purpose of reading. We have
given you examples of how you can practise the different skills of reading in
your day-to-day life. It is up to you to exercise your knowledge on reading
skills and systematically put the same to practice.
4.8 Answers
Self Assessment Questions
1. According to Webster, Reading is a Psycho-linguistic guessing game.
2. The first level is the literal response to the matter that is read.
3. False
4. SQ3R
5. main ideas
6. recalling
7. Reviewing means checking whether the earlier stages of reading were
followed promptly and efficiently.
Activity – 1
1-c, 2-a, 3-e, 4-d, 5-f, 6-b
Activity – 2
1. Jesse Owens trained, sweated and disciplined for six years inorder to
compete in the Olympics
2. In the previous year, he had set the world record of 26 feet 8.5inches.
Hence people expected him to win the long jump event.
3. He expected to get one or two gold medals, especially in the long jump
event.
4. He leaped from several inches beyond the take-off board for a no-jump.
5. He was angry and could not concentrate. So he made the mistake.
6. i) melt ii) startled
Activity – 3
i) Formal vi) Success
ii) Ideal vii) Education
iii) Outsiders viii) Mortgaging
iv) Emotionally ix) Course
v) Admission x) Foundation
Activity – 4
At a time when orphanages and old age homes have become the icons of
civilization, grandparents seldom exert any influence on grandchildren. (M)
After the end of the Second World War, the concept of nuclear family
became quite widespread and acceptable. (M) The moulding of the
behavioural patters of future citizens became by and large the responsibility
of the parents. (S)Psychologists are of the opinion that 50% of an
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individual’s traits are genetic in nature and that the other 50% are influenced
by the environment. (S) Here also, the parents, especially the mother, has
an important role to play. (M)
Terminal Questions
1. ‘S’ refers to Survey which means to quickly glance through the title page,
preface, chapter headings of a text.
2. When one reads for the necessary background information about one’s
institution where he is working, it is called internal information.
Reading for the information of what is going on in your field, but outside
your own work place is called External Information.
3. Reviewing is checking whether the earlier stages of reading, i.e.survey,
questioning, reading and recalling have been followed promptly and
efficiently.
Remedial English
Adjectives
Any word that adds more meaning to the Noun is called an Adjective. It
qualifies a noun.
Eg.: Ankur is a good player.
Kinds of Adjectives:
1. Adjectives of quality (They answer the question – What kind?)
Pankaj is a fantastic player.
2. Adjectives of quantity (They answer the question – How much?)
She drank a little water.
3. Adjectives of number (They answer the question – How many?)
The teacher met fifty students.
4. Adjectives of demonstration (They answer the question Which?)
This story is very interesting.
Give the papers to those girls.
5. Possessive Adjectives (They answer the question Whose?)
My son is in school.
It is their car.
6. Interrogative Adjectives
Which fool did this?
What kind of sweet should I order?
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7. Adjective of Distribution
Each person has to sign on every paper.
Neither Srinivas nor Mohan went to the cinema.
8. Proper Adjectives
Malaya rubber is noted for its quality
(Rubber produced in Malaya (describes rubber)
Japanese style of flower arrangement is called Ikhbana.
(the style used by Japanese).
9. Participial Adjectives : This can be either present participle or part
participle. Present. Present participle refers to Verb+ing – Write+ing =
Writing, Sing+ing = Singing
Past participle refers to verb form liked, written, walked, sung etc.
The smiling child is happy. Smiling describes child. (The child who is
smiling) – Participal
Don’t buy stolen goods. Stolen describes goods which means goods
which are stolen.
Correct Use of some adjectives:
a) Little (practically no chance) Deepak has little chance of being
elected.
A little (some chance) There is a little hope of his
success.
The little (whatever available) I shall give him the little money I
have.
b) Few (practically none) Few people are good.
A few (a small number) I have a few friends in my office.
The few (whatever available) I will pack the few things I have.
c) First (first in order) Yuri Gagarin was the first man to
go into space.
Foremost (leading, eminent) Einstein was the foremost scientist
of his day.
d) Elder - eldest (of the same family) She is my eldest sister.
Older - oldest (of age) He is the oldest man in the village.
e) Nearest (in space) The nearest bus stop is two
kilometers away.
Next (in position) She sits next to her friend.
Adverbs
Adverbs add more meaning to the verb, adjective, or another adverb in a
sentence. It ‘modifies’ that word. E.g.: Radha sings melodiously.
Formation of adverbs:
1. By adding –ly, to an adjective: beautifully, strongly.
2. By adding -wise, -ways, -wards: otherwise, sideways, upwards.
3. By combining a prefix and a noun: asleep, ahead, away, besides.
4. By combining a prefix and an adjective: alone, around, below.
5. Two adverbs joined by conjunction: by and by, over and above, now
and then.
Types of adverbs: Adverbs tell us about the time, place, manner, quantity,
reason, and frequency of an action. They are recognized by asking certain
questions to the verb. We can use a few questions to find them.
1. Adverb of time: It answers the question ‘when’.
He left immediately. ( When did he leave? – immediately.)
2. Adverb of place: It answers the question ‘where’.
She lives here. (Where does she leave? -here)
Useage of adverbs:
An adverb is often placed as near as possible to the word it modifies
(verb).
He writes carefully.
If the verb is in the simple tense form, the adverb is usually placed
between the subject and the verb it modifies.
He often visits his home town.
(Sub.) (Adv.) (V)
If the verb is in the form of ‘to be’ (is, am, was, are, were) the adverb
comes after the verb.
She is a very sober girl.
If the verb is compound, the adverb comes after the auxiliary.
He will always return home in time.
If the sentence is negative, the adverb of frequency follows ‘not’.
They are not generally selfish.
If the sentence is interrogative the adverb takes position immediately
after the subject.
Has he ever spoken to you?
In case of infinitives (to + simple form of verb + do), adverb should not be
placed in between ‘to’ and ‘do’.
He refused to do the task quickly.
(Inf.) (Adv.)
Use of ‘hard’, ‘hardly’ - ‘Hard’ as an adverb usually follows the verb.
He works hard to make both ends meet.
Answers
Exercise 1:
1. careful 2. Shallow 3. Long, white, broad
4. Interesting, Gemini 5. broken
Exercise 2:
1. precisely 2. Quickly 3. Recently
4. most 5. more
5.1 Introduction
In the previous unit you have learnt the skills of reading; the other basic
forms of communication, oral skills and listening skills are already dealt with.
Now we have come to a juncture where advanced form is necessary to
communicate, in a more formal setting. Writing is one such skill, which can
be mastered, if right skills are learnt and practised. Faced with an intense or
complicated writing task, you may often struggle to write. However, the best
style of writing is clear and simple English, contrary to the belief that the
writing overflowing with difficult sounding words will be more effective! More
than being methodical – typing neatly, following all structural formats, etc.,
you should also know to use the right word at the right time. In this unit, we
shall learn how to put sentences together, to form a paragraph, in a
coherent and logical manner in order to express our ideas effectively.
Paragraphs are like gift boxes. They have three parts: a topic sentence
(which is like the box), detail sentences (which are like the things present
inside the box), and the conclusion or closing sentence (which is like a
bow that ties the whole thing together).
Objectives:
After studying this unit, you should be able to:
define paragraphs
explain the qualities of a good paragraph
classify the types of paragraphs and write a paragraph
use appropriate words in describing any facts or figures
explain the description of any process given as a figure
read the facts and figures in the records and describe them with precise
words
5.2 Paragraph
The smallest unit of prose composition is the paragraph. A paragraph may
be defined as a group of sentences relating to a single topic, or developing a
single central idea. Just as a sentence contains one main thought, in the
same way a paragraph contains one main topic or theme. All the sentences
should be so grouped that they must serve to develop the main theme.
Letters, essays, stories, etc., are divided into paragraphs with each
paragraph developing a single idea. A good paragraph is like a strong chain,
it has no loose or weak links.
A paragraph may be long or short, but it is best to keep the paragraph just
as long or short as is necessary for the development of a particular theme.
Moreover, you are allowed to vary the length of the paragraphs because a
short paragraph after a long one gives variety and relief to the eye as well
as the mind.
5.2.1 Qualities of a good paragraph
A good paragraph, like a good sentence must possess the following:
1. Unity
2. Order
3. Variety
1. Unity: A good paragraph NEVER contains more than one main topic or
theme. A good paragraph is one whose theme can be expressed in one
sentence, which is called Topic Sentence.
2. Order: In a good paragraph the sentences are always arranged in a
logical manner. The events are given in a particular order – the order in
which they occur. A well written paragraph shows clear thinking and
from Turkey, from China, from U.S.A. and from Egypt. I have also some rare
stamps which were issued in Afghanistan and Tibet. How pretty they are!
How I like to enjoy the pictures of natural scenery, crowns, arms, shields,
historical monuments, lovely knights and ladies printed on these stamps!
Stamp Collecting is really a very useful and instructive hobby.
2. Where There is a Will There’s a Way
If you have the determination to do something you can find a way to do it.
There is usually nothing that is impossible to do. If you fail to do a thing it is
mainly because you have not the will to do it. Many men who have become
famous as scholars, statesman, inventors, had to struggle against
seemingly insufferable difficulties to win success. Napoleon, who rightly
believed that nothing, would be impossible, ordered the army to march into
Italy. “Sir, the Alps,” said the general. “There shall be no Alps,” the Emperor
asserted. And no Alps came in his way. To determine to succeed is a sure
way to success. What seems impossible will turn out to be possible, if you
carry on with determination.
3. Smoking
A bad habit is often harmful but not every bad habit is as harmful as
smoking. Besides being expensive, smoking does injury to one’s health. A
smoker gets nothing but smoke for his money. In the long run he may get
something worse- a dreadful disease called lung cancer. But habit, they say,
is second nature; most smokers remain smokers for life. And even when
they know that smoking can cause disease or even early death, they
continue smoking. Can anything be more unreasonable than that?
Self Assessment Questions
1. Define a paragraph.
2. _____ sentence expresses the theme of a good paragraph.
3. What steps do you follow while writing a paragraph?
4. What do you mean by editing paragraphs?
Use this space to describe one of the above shapes and see whether others
can listen to your description and draw that shape more or less accurately.
This is a challenging task but with every exercise you will be able to express
and describe the shapes and things more accurately. Make use of the
vocabulary guide profusely.
Your description
Discussion
Now go through your description of the shape and see what element in your
description is faulty or incomplete. Using the vocabulary guide provided,
improve your own description so that when you describe that to your friend
orally, he should be able to draw the shape that you have in mind. Once
again you check and find out what detail is missing in your description till
you get an accurate/complete description. Isn’t that mind-boggling?
Example
When your pet comes to stay at the Happy Stay Vacation Home, he will get
a daily grooming and exercise ritual designed by a local veterinarian to keep
him happy and healthy. Each morning, our canine guests are gently woken
by your choice of music, radio station, or even a tape of your own voice!
After a quick mouthwash and a bacon-flavored doggie biscuit, your pooch
will be taken out in our spacious recreation area for a breath of fresh air and
a few minutes of healthy exercise with an imported Italian doggie ball or a
favourite toy he has brought with him....
(Source: http://jerz.setonhill.edu/writing/technical/process.htm)
they are poured into round baskets which are piled up into the oil-press.
________, the oil-press is sealed and a lever is inserted in its hole. ______ ,
the oil press is worked round by hand. _______ , the oil is collected.
Questions:
i) About how many people work for medical department?
ii) About how many people work in the political field?
iii) About how many people work for the armed forces (Navy, Air Force,
and Army)?
iv) Which job listed has the most workers?
v) About how many people have opted to work as teachers?
vi) Which is the department that is least opted by people?
(Source: http://www.wtamu.edu)
When you see any record, graph or chart, you should be able to decipher
the meaning or the terms that are given in them. The charts or records have
to be observed carefully before you conclude any aspects of them. Once
you know to point out the key details of the graph or record, it is easy to
describe it in your own words. The next step will be in describing the pattern
or the trends of the graph. As we already know graph is not static, it shows
some change from the original pattern. The figure gives us the clue as to
the changing trend of the data that is supplied in the graph. There are
certain words or adjectives that will help you to describe the changes that
you see in a graph. They are:
i) for upward trends: rise, increase, peak
ii) downward trends: drop, fall, decline, dip
iii) any trend that is steady: gradual, sharp, considerable, comparative
iv) any trend that is constant: stable, same.
Exercise 4:
Look at the graph given below and read the questions. Answer them as you
have tried in the previous two exercises. This gives you the basic data that
you need to collect from any given graph. Now try to analyse the graph by
writing a paragraph on the same.
This graph shows the profit a toy manufacturing unit made over the last four
months of the year.
Given below are questions that help you collect the data. If you are able to
get the answers to these questions, half your work is done! The correct
answers mean you have been successful in collecting the data that you
require.
a) About how much was the profit in the month of October?
b) Which month had the lowest profit?
c) What is the difference between the profits of November and December?
Paragraph: The line graph shows the profit that a toy manufacturing
company has made over the months of September through December. The
month of September shows Rs. 5,000 profit, which is the lowest point. So
the company saw the least profit in the month of September. At the same
time, the month of October has recorded the highest profit made by the
company showing Rs. 23,000 mark. Again the profit dipped to Rs. 15,000 in
the month of November and showed a convenient rise to reach Rs. 20,000
in the month of December.
Exercise 5:
Given below is the histogram giving the mortality rates for coronary heart
disease in men by number of cigarettes smoked in the age group 35-44. It is
taken from. Medically Speaking: English for the Medical Profession., P.L.
Sandler (P. 61). Go through the paragraph that follows. It has been built up
from the data of the histogram.
Paragraph: The histogram shows the relative mortality rates between non-
smokers and cigarette smokers. The figures are death rates per 100,000
men a year, and among the smokers they are based on the average daily
consumption of cigarettes. Thus it can be seen that the mortality rate among
those who did not smoke was 18 per 100,000 per year, whereas for those
who smoked less than ten cigarettes a day the rate was 41 per 100,000 per
year. For those who smoked between ten and twenty a day the rate was 73
per 100,000 a year, whereas for those smoking twenty-one to thirty-nine
cigarettes a day it was 88 per 100,000 a year. Those who smoked more
than forty a day had a mortality rate of 94 per 100,000 per year.
5.6 Summary
In this unit, you learnt the importance of the conciseness of a paragraph.
You also understood how to write a compact paragraph. You practised
reading the graph and learnt to comprehend the given contents. With the
help of the given clues or data, you also learnt to develop the same into a
paragraph. This kind of static and process description will help in filling the
forms that you come across in your daily administration. It will enable you to
choose the essential data from any records and build up the same.
5.8 Answers
Self Assessment Questions
1. A paragraph is a group of sentences relating to a single topic. In other
words, it develops a single central idea.
2. Topic Sentence
3. The four steps that have to be followed while writing a paragraph are:
Prewriting, Writing, Editing and Publishing
4. The editing stage is when you check your paragraph for mistakes and
correct them
Exercise 1
From September to the beginning of November olive gathering starts : In the
beginning, trees are shaken. Then, olives are sorted out first, the ones for
making oil are picked and they are brought to the oil-mill. There, they are
poured into round baskets, which are piled up into the oil-press. Later, the
oil-press is sealed and a lever is inserted in its hole. After that , the oil press
is worked round by hand. In this way, the oil is collected.
Exercise 2
A. Answer the following questions:
1. Programme manager
2. 23E/556
3. 6.5 metres
4. Warehouse
5. The inspection was held on 15th January 2009
B. Say whether the following sentences are true or false
1. False
2. True
3. True
4. False
5. True
Exercise 3:
i) 225000 ii) 40000 iii) 375000 iv) Marketing v) 325000 vi) politics
Exercise 4:
a) About 23,000 Rs. b) September c) 5,000 Rs
Terminal Questions
1. The parts of a paragraph are:
Topic Sentence, Supporting Details and Closing Sentence (Give your
own example and explain the three points given above)
2. Explaining any object which is stationary is called Static description.
3. To maintain the quality and safety of the portable fire extinguishers,
water jacket type testing of hydrostatic pressure testing must be utilized.
All critical components of the fire extinguisher must be tested to ensure
proper function. First, the extinguisher valve is removed and the threads
and interior of the cylinder are checked for corrosion, pitting, and any
other abnormalities. If the cylinder passes the visual inspection, it is
placed into a steel chamber, which is then filled with water at normal
pressure. A glass burette attached to the side of the steel chamber will
read zero, indicating normal or zero pressure of the chamber water.
Water is then applied at high pressure to the interior of the extinguisher's
cylinder. As the pressure increases, the cylinder will expand and push
water from the steel chamber through a small hole and into the glass
burette. After the pressure is released, the cylinder will contract and the
water will move from the burette back to the steel chamber. Depending
on the results, the tester will either pass or fail the cylinder.
Practice Exercises
You have the freedom to write your own paragraphs in varied ways, here’s a
sample of how paragraphs on these topics can be written:
1. Empty Vessels Make the Most Noise
A humble man often tells you that he knows very little when in reality he
may know a lot. A braggart does the opposite-he boasts of his
knowledge when in reality he knows nothing much about the topic. The
former is like a vessel full of grain; if you tap it hardly produces any
sound at all. The latter is like an empty vessel- it needs very little tapping
to produce big noises. Empty headed people always think a world of
themselves!
2. A Stitch in Time Saves Nine
A small tear becomes a big hole, in just the same way as a small illness
grows into a big disease or a small quarrel among children leads to a
major feud between families. For diseases, prevention is better than
cure; so too for tears or holes in one’s clothes. A good mother does not
allow the tear that appears on her child’s clothes to become big; she
stitches it or darns it in time to save much greater work later and to keep
the clothes as good as new. Her stitch in time thus saves many stitches
and a lot of unnecessary labour. Good neighbours do much the same;
they do not allow children’s quarrels to grow big and become family
quarrels. They help the children to forget and forgive and to live happily
together. Timely actions always save situations from becoming worse.
3. Rome Was Not Built in a Day
Rome, the greatest city of the ancient world was not built in a short time.
It took several years to build Rome and to bring it to the state of glory.
And it is the same with any great achievement. When we wish to
achieve something, we cannot expect success in a moment. We should
not be impatient. We must stick to the work till it is finished. We must
bear in mind a saying similar to the above: ‘If at first you don’t succeed,
try, try and try again. An important task cannot be done without patience
and perseverance.
Remedial English
Conjunctions
A Conjunction is a word, which connects words, phrases, clauses or
sentences. There are two classes of conjunctions. They are:
1. Co-ordinate conjunctions
2. Subordinate conjunctions.
Co-ordinate conjunctions join two ideas or sentences, which are of
importance. They also join two words of equal grammatical rank. The chief
co-ordinate conjunctions are – and, but, for, nor, or, otherwise, so, else,
either -------- or, neither ------- nor, yet, only, both ------- and, however.
At 10, she went to bed, and fell asleep.
Yesterday was sunny but cold.
He was angry for he had missed the bus.
Neither owls nor bats come out during the day.
Turn down the heat or the cake will burn.
You can go to Tokyo either by land or by sea.
Don’t drive so fast, otherwise you will crash.
English examination was easy; however, biology was difficult.
It rained and so the match was cancelled.
She worked hard yet failed to pass.
I would like to be there, only I would be out of station.
She plays both the piano and the violin.
Exercise 1: Use correct coordinating conjunctions in the blanks.
1. You sang well ____ you need a little more practice.
2. She opened the door ___ walked in.
3. The river was not deep enough, ____ they returned home.
4. He _____ remembers your name _____ your face.
5. Father doesn’t want to send me to Australia, _____ I am continuing my
studies here.
Subordinate Conjunctions: are the conjunctions that connect the in
complete idea to the main.
The patient had died before the doctor arrived.
Before the doctor arrived – incomplete idea.
The patient had died - main idea.
Before – subordinating conjunction.
Although your ideas are well organized, you need to improve your
pronunciation.
Even though I have been learning painting for over ten years, I
have not been able to achieve perfection.
7. Idea expressing result is associated with conjunctions – so --- that.
The athlete ran so fast that he reached the winning line in 30 seconds.
8. Idea of purpose is expressed with conjunctions - so that, in order that
People work hard so that they can earn money for a dignified living.
We eat in order that we may live.
9. Comparison is linked with – than, as---as
Your essay is better than mine. (is)
I think the Pacific ocean is as deep as the Atlantic Ocean. (is)
Exercise 2: Spot the coordinating conjunctions in the sentences
below:
1. The bird perched on the branch of a tree and ate up the worm.
2. Food was very well prepared but it was not hot enough.
3. My grandmother has no teeth, so she cannot chew carrots.
4. Keep off the grass otherwise; the gardener will shout at you.
5. When my parents are away, I prepare my own food or eat out.
Interjections
A word, which expresses a sudden and intense feeling of surprise, joy, fear,
sadness is interjection. The exclamation mark put after it indicates. (Ah!
Hurrah! Well! Dear! Oh!) Interjection is not grammatically connected with
the rest of the sentence.
Hurrah! We have won the match.
Answers
Exercise 1:
1. but 2. and 3. so 4. neither-nor 5. so
Exercise 2:
1. and 2. But 3. So 4. Otherwise 5. when
6.1 Introduction
In the previous unit, you learnt to write paragraphs with short and lucid
sentences. The flow of ideas should be easy and connected with linkers.
This also holds well with the letter writing skills that you will be learning in
this unit. To make your writing task easy, you should learn to put yourself in
the shoes of the reader of your letter. When writing a letter or report, think of
your readers’ likely response to the contents, the style and the tone. If your
readers are laymen, the technical jargon that you use may not be
understood at all. At the same time, if the readers are experts who
understand technical language, you should not go on explaining the terms in
detail. While concentrating on the style of writing, use formal tone for the
business letter and try not to impress your readers with complicated words.
The simpler you write, the better it is understood. Or it may just not serve
the purpose and land unread in the trash bin. Now we don’t want that to
happen, do we?!
Objectives:
After studying this unit, you should be able to:
discuss the principles and structure of a business letter
distinguish between letters and use effective language and style for
different letters.
following sentences that help you word your business letter in a polite
manner.
Thank you very much for your letter of / dated …
We are glad to note that you are now in a position to pay our bill.
We appreciate your writing to us so promptly.
We regret to inform you that we cannot meet your order immediately.
We are sorry that you did not receive your order in time.
2. Conciseness: While writing a business letter it is important that your
letter be concise and direct. Avoid verbose language and long winded
sentences to state simple matters. In the present times, people are very
busy and will be easily irritated to read unnecessarily lengthy letters. So
you should focus directly on the message to be told.
3. Clarity and Precision: Whenever you write a letter, be clear about what
you want to say and say it clearly. Use short, simple words and
language to relate whatever you want to tell in the letter. Use concrete
words – two words in English will have similar meaning – in such cases,
use the word which is commonly understood. E.g.: if you use the word
‘house’ and it conveys the meaning that you intend, don’t use the word
‘residence’, which will make the message more complicated. Avoid long
winded sentences (running into five lines and more). Spare your reader
the tedious task of understanding your letter and try to make smaller
sentences. To make your letter clear, break it into different paragraphs
when you have to discuss more than one main point. Finally, you have
to understand that writing a good business letter involves a lot of
practice, which will gradually enable you to be an effective writer.
6.2.3 Structure of a business letter
We have discussed in detail about the language that you should adopt while
writing a letter. Now, let us come to the arrangement of a business letter.
To make your letter effective, remember that your presentation of the letter
also has to be effective. Usually, the letter is drafted in two styles – Blocked
and Semi Blocked.
Blocked – Every line in this style begins flush with the left hand margin.
Paragraphs are differentiated by leaving a blank space in between them.
Semi blocked – The first line of each paragraph is indented in this style of
writing letters.
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Sirs or Dear Madam only if you do not know the name of the person. In
government departments, letters that are addressed by name is known
as ‘demi-official letters.’ They are written to draw the attention of the
concerned officer so that prompt action is taken. Sales and circulars
are addressed as ‘Dear Customer’, ‘Dear Reader’, ‘Dear Subscriber’
etc. Salutation is written two line space after the last line of the
address.
6. Subject: This indicates to the reader of the letter what the letter is
about. It saves the time of the reader. The subject of the letter is
written two line-spaces after the salutation.
7. Body: This contains the text of the letter that you write. You should
organize the body of the letter into paragraphs depending upon the
matter of your communication. In the opening paragraph, indicate
reference to any previously corresponded letters. If it is the first letter,
then write the intention of writing the letter. The second paragraph
should contain the main message and the following paragraphs,
further details if any. Finally, while concluding, you should clearly state
any action that you would take or expect the reader to take.
8. Conclusion: The conclusion is also known as ‘complimentary close.’
You should always end the business letter with a firm or positive note.
Don’t be vague in your closings such as, ‘Thanking you …’ ‘Hoping to
hear from you’ etc. The close should agree with the salutation that you
have written. The following examples will help you decide the correct
conclusion.
Salutation Conclusion
Dear Mr. Rahul (address by Yours sincerely
name)
Dear Sir / Dear Madam /Sir Yours faithfully / Yours obediently / Yours
respectfully / Yours truly
Dear Member / Customer / Yours sincerely
Subscriber
( XXX)
Symposium Convenor
Check out this sample covering letter, which may help you to make a start in
writing impressive covering letters!
Smitha P
Shri Vilas
R.D. Road
Jamshedpur.
May 1, 2009
The Editor
‘News Today’
Patna
Bihar
Dear Sir,
Subject: Application for the position of Sub Editor
I am mailing in response to your advertisement in ‘The Hindu’, dated 29
April, 2009 for the position of Sub editor, in your esteemed
Organisation. I have attached my bio data for your consideration
I have obtained my Masters in Journalism from the Manipal
University of Jaipur and also a Diploma in Creative Writing from
National College, New Delhi. I am working as a trainee from the last
six months in The Business India, Ranchi.
I look forward to working with you on your new project.
Yours sincerely,
Smitha. P
your accomplishments and experiences all into one document. Your focus
should be on the requirements of the employer. Therefore, your resume
should contain,
Your aims, goals, work experiences, achievements, qualifications
Your projects or researches if done.
Your skill sets
Your objectives
References
Your experience in the previous company
Your strengths and weaknesses depending on what is the requirement
of the job. Be careful while writing the weaknesses; they should appear
as if in the long run they are, after all, your strengths!
Your detailed contact information where the employer can reach you
Any other information that you fee can be relevant for you to portray
yourself to get the job based on your experience and qualification.
All these matters that are the requirements of the vacancy you are applying
to should be written in a precise and concise manner. Remember that no
employer has enough time to go through extensive and detailed resumes.
So your resume should be easy to read and should impress the employer at
the first glance.
Structure of Resume (Ref.: Katharine Hansen)
1. The ‘one-page resume’ rule is now outdated. Try to keep your resume
very compact and to the minimum required pages. The language should
be very official and not general.
2. Include and highlight all important words, so that they stand out and your
resume gets recognized among others.
3. Avoid using the personal pronouns – I, You, Me.
4. List your job information in order of importance. In listing your jobs,
what's generally most important is your title/position. So list in this
preferred order: Title/position, name of employer, City/State of
employer, dates of employment.
5. List your jobs in reverse chronological order. Your present job being the
first, the previous being second and so on.
6. Education also follows the principle that you followed while listing jobs.
Thus the preferred order for listing your education is: Masters,
Graduation, Pre-University Exams.
7. Avoid mentioning the reasons for leaving previous job(s), names of
former supervisors, specific street addresses or phone numbers of
former employers, salary information, the title "Resume," or any
information that could be perceived as controversial, such as religion,
church affiliations, or political affiliations.
8. Don’t list references right on your resume. References belong in a later
stage of the job search. Provide them only when they are specifically
requested.
9. Proof read carefully. Misspellings and typos are deadly on a resume.
Grammatical and other mistakes are to be totally avoided since that
shows the incompetence of the candidate.
1. Fax
Fax from: Beacon Towers
22 Alma Street
Sampangi Park 575222
Fax: 650 325 8723
Fax to: Sanjay Memon, Manasvi Inc.
Fax no: 235 266 3122
Date: 17 December 2001
Subject: Remittance of draft for Registration of classes
No. of pages including this one: 1
From: Ashish Jain, Registration Manager
Refer to our telephonic conversation on 15 December. The bank draft for
Rupees Seventeen thousand has not yet been received. Please send by return
post or by courier.
Ashish Jain
2. Telegram:
Training Manager
Beacon Consultants
10, Janpath
New Delhi – 110001
Sixty five copies of Registration form Books sent today by courier.
Buvan Patel
Manager Logistics
Not to be telegraphed:
Bhuvan Patel, Manager Logistics
Accord Company Pvt. Ltd.
24, Akashganga Marg
Kolkatta – 432001
3. E-Mail
6.6 Summary
Writing effectively is an art that needs to be practiced to be perfect. The
language used, structure and tone-all reflect the character of the person
writing. It is the same with the writing of letters, be it a formal or informal
letter. The letters written by you in any position of your career reveals the
character of your organization. There are different circumstances that come
across when a business letter is written. It may be a letter of booking a
room, a complaint letter, an apology letter, business proposal, invitations,
accepting the invitation or declining it, a covering letter for a job, a fax, press
release, e-mail so on. Though there are many styles and structure of writing
such letters, one should follow what is widely practised in the world of
business. A successful business letter is one which is courteous, clear and
concise. The readers’ interest is of prime consideration while writing a letter.
This would ensure quick transmission of message and evoke the desired
response.
6.8 Answers
Self Assessment Questions
1. True 5. Reference
2. False 6. Grammatical
3. True 7. Telegraphic messages
4. True 8. Apology
Terminal Questions
1. Write short and simple sentences. Verbose language should be avoided.
Focus directly on the message that needs to be informed.
2. With the help of reference, the letter can be traced at a later date.
3. Small messages can be sent through fax, email or telegram.
REMEDIAL ENGLISH
Sentence
A group of words that makes a complete sense or gives complete meaning
is called a sentence. It expresses the thought of the person who speaks or
writes the sentence. Traditionally, a sentence is considered as a largest
grammatical unit. A sentence also consists of the choice of right words,
proper arrangement of those words according to the prescribed grammatical
rules. It is also imperative that a sentence has a verb in it to consider it as a
sentence.
Kinds of Sentences
From the point of view of expression of thoughts, the sentences are divided
into four kinds.
1. Declarative Sentences: Look at the sentences below.
Tsunami hit the southeast coast of India.
Press is considered the fourth pillar of democracy.
They state or assert certain facts. So they are called declarative
sentences. A declarative sentence makes a statement. It begins with a
capital letter and ends with a period (full stop).
Subject Verb
The action of the sentence is expressed by the verb – ‘discovered.’
The noun ‘Christopher Columbus’ is doing the action of discovering.
Hence ‘Christopher Columbus’ is the Subject in the sentence.
Subject Verb
The verb ‘are’ in this sentence does not express action.
Instead, it tells us about the ‘being’ or ‘existence’ of Himalayas.
The noun ‘Himalayas’ is doing the existence or being. So it is the subject.
Subject Predicate
In this sentence, ‘Shakespeare’ is the noun or the doer of the action.
‘Advised’ is the verb, which expresses the action done by Shakespeare. So
‘advised’ is the predicate.
Clauses
Words and phrases can be put together to make a clause. A group of
related words that contain both a subject and a predicate and that functions
as a part of a sentence is a clause. A clause is different from a phrase
because a phrase is a group of related words which lacks either a subject or
a predicate or both. Look at the following sentence
My grandfather snores when he sleeps
In the above example there are two clauses. Only one of them (My
grandfather snores) is a sentence. i.e. which can stand on its own to make
a complete sense. In other words, it is independent of other words. So it is
a Principal clause. It is also called Independent clause.
The other clause of the above sentence, ‘when he sleeps’, gives an
incomplete thought or idea, one that cannot stand by itself, one that needs
some more words to make it meaningful. The word ‘when’ changes the
meaning, making the thought incomplete. After reading this clause, we are
left hanging.
The clause raises a question what will happen when he sleeps…?
So, the second clause which depends on the first to give meaning to it is
called a Dependent Clause or Subordinate Clause
Subject - Verb Agreement
The subject and verb agreement is an important aspect of the English
language. It is very important that the verb and subject agree in number
and person.
The two smart girls in the class were chosen to win the award.
In the given example, there are three ways in which the subject (girls) is
shown to be plural:
1. the adjective ‘two’.
2. the plural marker ‘s’ attached to the subject
‘girl’.
3. the verb ‘to be’ in its plural form ‘were’.
* While trying to determine whether a verb should
be in singular or plural form, find the subject and
ignore all the words coming after it. If the subject is singular, then the verb
is singular or vice versa.
The problems with the student have not yet been resolved.
In this example, the subject is ‘problems’ which is in the plural form. So the
verb should be in the plural form. Hence we use the verb ‘have’ (plural
form).
1. When two subjects are joined by ‘and’, the verb is plural.
John and Jinny are friends.
Exceptions:
When two singular nouns are joined by ‘and’, but refer to the same
person, then the verb is singular.
E.g.: 1. the secretary and treasurer is on leave. (article ‘the’ is
used only once.)
2. The secretary and the treasurer are on leave. (article
‘the’ is used twice).
When two different singular nouns express one unit, the verb is in
singular. E.g.: Rice and curry is my staple diet.
When two singular subjects are practically synonymous, the verb is
in singular. E.g.: Peace and Prosperity is the need of the day.
When two singular subjects are joined by ‘and’ which are preceded
by ‘each’ or ‘every’, the verb is in singular. E.g.: Every man,
woman and child has been rescued.
2. The nouns that end in –s (certain countries, fields of study, activities,
diseases) take a singular verb.
The United States doesn’t have a cricket team.
Mathematics was my favorite subject in school.
The aerobics class is held every Tuesday.
Measles is a serious childhood disease.
Answers
Exercise 1: Identify the type of sentence
1. Imperative 4. Exclamatory
2. Assertive 5. Assertive
3. Interrogative
Exercise 2: Complete the following with appropriate predicate
1. were kept as centre piece in the bouquet.
2. proved to be the best what he could get for his agency.
3. is one of the excellent journalists in the industry today.
4. is delivered as a complimentary copy.
5. are creative in our own fields.
Exercise 3:
1. those problems 2. cultures 3. has 4. is 5. wants
7.1 Introduction
In the earlier units, we have learnt the importance of communication in an
organisation. Besides the informal communication that regularly takes place
in an organisation, the formal communication needs attention. It is this
formal communication, in the medium of documents like memo, circular,
notice and report that plays a crucial role in the effective communication in
an organisation, which aids the smooth functioning of the organisation. In
this unit, we would learn to write the organisational documents.
Objectives:
After studying this unit, you should be able to:
write memos with proper language, component and format.
Describe and draft appropriate circulars and notices.
7.2 MEMO
The term ‘memo’ comes from the Latin word ‘memorandum,’ which means
“a thing which must be remembered.” The plural form is memoranda. The
document that you use to communicate within the organization is called as
memorandum. It has to stay within the organization. So, it is also called
‘inter office memorandum.’ When you need to convey information and
decisions or to make short requests with the members of your department,
upper management, employees at another branch in another city, etc., the
5. Don't be trite: Try to avoid statements that are out of date and do not
mean anything in the present context. One commonplace expression
that you can avoid is “Please don’t hesitate to call.” Normally this phrase
gets no results and turns people off. A more sincere ending could be, "If
you need help, I'm available. Give me a call."
6. Don't give too many ‘whys’. Though it is important to explain why you
want something done, don't overdo it. One expert cautions that a reader
can probably only absorb no more than six or seven reasons at once. If
you must cite more whys, put them on a separate sheet of paper, and
staple the sheets together. This way, the basic memo message doesn't
get lost in a sea of details.
7. Check before you send the memo. It is a human tendency to commit
mistakes especially in names, dates, or numbers. But such mistakes
may cost you dearly. You should remember that memo establishes
accountability. It is a record of facts and decisions, which can be
referred in future if there is a need to find out who went wrong and at
what stage.
8. Close with a call to action. Many memos don't close with anything,
leaving the reader hanging. If you want a response by Friday at 3 p.m.,
say so.
7.2.2 Components of a Memo
The following are the components that make up a memo.
1. Header: This should appear at the top of a memo. This compact block
of information contains
a) Date – Remember to write the date in words (12th December 2006)
b) Name of the receiver(s) – In general, the title such as Professor or
Mr. is omitted. However, it is left to your discretion to follow the style
that your organization prefers. Do not use a salutation (Dear …) or
a closing (Sincerely…)
c) Name of the sender(s) – Write your initials after your name on the
"From" line.
d) Subject of the memo – Be specific when you write the subject. You
should not be too vague (e.g. Purchase). This example is unclear
because it could be a purchase of anything. Take another example,
‘Purchase of hose pipes for the month of March 2007’. This is
However, in a memo, the paragraphs are not indented. The example given
below will be able to help you to write a memo.
NOTICE
We regret to inform you that due to unexpected problems with some of our
equipment, we are unable to carry out routine operations till December 7.
However the office will function during the weekend. We are making special
arrangements to meet your emergency needs. You may contact the
undersigned for help. Kindly excuse the inconvenience caused due to this
unforeseen emergency.
Manager
Manipal Branch
Copy to:
Head Office, Bombay
All Branches in Karnataka
8. At the topmost line of the circular, one must write the ___.
9. A circular or notice may by issued by only ____
10. A ____ is a document that can be used as an evident in legal cases.
7.4 Summary
Effective communication is the base for any organization to be a success
story. This communication depends upon the persons involved and the type
of communication.
We have learnt in this unit that there are certain types of documents used in
organizations for communication. Some are written on a prescribed format
for example a memo, and some are not. A memo is for internal
communication between colleagues, superiors and subordinates and it is
usually sent to a person who is expected to take some responsive action.
We then learnt about circulars, which are also documents for internal
communication. Circulars are sent to groups of staff. We found out that
some notices are meant for staff and others are meant for clients and the
general public. There are notices, which are sent to individuals also. All
these documents are written according to certain conventions and rules.
7.6 Answers
1) True 2) False 3) False 4) False 5) True 6) circular; notice
7) circular 8) date 9) officers designated for the purpose 10) notice
TQs
1. Concise.... personal....simple language... avoid confusing words.... don’t
be trite.... Don't give too many ‘whys’.... check before you send the
memo....close with a call for action.
2. Notice sent to individuals under special circumstances. Reason...staff
suspected of major misconduct. It mentions allegations against the staff
concerned, asks for a written explanation within a specified time. States
what action would be taken if there were no reply to the show cause
notice.
REMEDIAL ENGLISH
Simple Sentences:
A simple sentence can be of one word or quite long. The most natural
sentence structure is the simple sentence. It remains by far the most
common sentence in the spoken language of people of all ages. In written
work, simple sentences can be very effective for grabbing a reader’s
attention, or for summing up an argument. However, one has to be careful
in using the simple sentence. Too many simple sentences could project the
written matter as immature and childish.
A simple sentence is not dependent and can stand alone to give complete
meaning. We can also call a simple sentence a Main Clause.
Ecologists oppose the use of nuclear power.
The circumstances make the matter serious.
The island was filled with many trails winding through the thick
underbrush, a small lake, and dangerous wild pigs.
Complex Sentences:
When we are adding a clause in order to develop some aspect of what we
are saying, we use a subordinating conjunction. As you know, the part of a
sentence that begins with a subordinating conjunction is a subordinate
clause. (See unit 6 for Phrases and Clauses)
Sentences containing a main clause, and one or more subordinate clauses
are often called complex sentences.
There are three main kinds of subordinate clause.
i) Noun Clauses
ii) Adjective Clauses
iii) Adverbial Clauses
When the telegram came, everyone was excited.
When the telegram came – adverbial clause, beginning with the
subordinating conjunction ‘when’ ---- Subordinate clause
everyone was excited – main clause.
So, the sentence above has a subordinate clause and a main clause. So
the sentence is a Complex sentence. More examples of complex
sentence:
Compound Sentences:
When we are simply linking clauses, we use co-ordinating conjunction. The
sentence then becomes compound sentence.
The doctor diagnosed accurately and the patient improved.
Here both are main clauses – ‘The doctor diagnosed accurately’. ‘The
Patient improved’ are joined by the co-ordinating conjunction ‘and.’
Simple sentences that are related may be joined with a comma and a
coordinating conjunction. A coordinating conjunction shows the relationship
between the two original simple sentences, which when joined are more
accurately described as two ‘independent clauses.’ The main coordinating
conjunctions and their meanings are given in the following table:
In the above sentence, the tiger is subject and it is the performer. The deer
is the object, and it is affected by the action – ‘is chasing’ is the transitive
verb. When the subject of the sentence is doing something (here ‘is
chasing’) or active, we take the verb is active too. So we say is chasing is
the active verb and the sentence is in the active voice.
However, sometimes we may want to focus on the person or thing affected
by an action (object) of an active form of the verb. In that case, we make the
affected person or thing subject and make the verb passive.
My grandfather built this house. (active voice)
This house was built by my grandfather. (passive voice)
In the passive form, this house is inactive, it only suffers the action. So the
verb is said to be in the passive voice. (passive means not active)
Exercise 2: Say whether the sentences below are in the passive or
active form of the verb:
1. Somebody must finish the work.
2. Money was hidden under the tree by the miser.
3. The patient will be taken to the hospital tomorrow.
4. They took photographs by the seashore.
5. Your remark irritated me.
Direct and Indirect Speech
In our daily communication, we come across various types of conversations.
Of these, there are two ways of what one person has related to the other.
They are-
1. Direct Speech: This refers to the relating of the spoken words of one
person to the other, verbatim. We can recognize a direct speech with
the help of the punctuations. It is written within the inverted commas. A
coma or colon is placed immediately before the spoken words.
2. Indirect Speech: This is also called as ‘Reported Speech’ because it
refers to the meaning of the word spoken by one person though the
exact spoken words are not used.
The teacher said that I was improving.
He thought she was greatly worried
Like this, you usually use a report structure when you say what someone
thinks. A report structure consists of two parts. The first is the reporting
part, and the second, reported part.
Mother told her daughter that all pupils were intelligent.
Mother told her – reporting part
that all pupils at her schools were intelligent – reported part.
You usually put the reporting part first. This is to make it clear that you are
reporting rather than you are speaking directly yourself. In a reported
statement, you begin your reported clause with the conjunction that.
We shall learn how to report a) statements b) questions c) commands and
exclamations.
a) Reporting statements:
There are certain rules that you should follow while converting the direct
speech into indirect speech. It should be noted that if the reporting verb is in
the present tense, then there is no change in the tense in the speech.
However, if the reporting verb is in the past tense, the tense in the speech
changes, but the meaning should remain the same.
In the reporting verb,
– ‘said’ is used when there is no object.
– ‘told’ is used if there is an object.
Many other verbs can be used to make the sentence more interesting and
informative. They can be used suitably in relation to the tone of the spoken
words. Given below is the list of such verbs.
Accused, admitted, advised, alleged, agreed, apologized, begged,
boasted, complained, denied, explained, implied, invited, offered,
ordered, promised, replied, suggested and thought.
Instead of ‘said to’, you can say told but not told to.
My friend said to me, “you can ask me if you want help.’
My friend told me that I could ask him if I wanted help.
While reporting the direct speech into indirect, some of the words
are transformed as follows:
Direct Speech Indirect Speech
this that
these those
now then
here there
today that day
tomorrow the next day / the day after
yesterday the previous day / the day before
last night the night before / the previous night
ago before
must had to
Apart from word – changes, tense changes also take place as follows:
Direct Speech Indirect speech
Simple Present Simple Past
Rachel said, “ I sing songs.” Rachel said that she sang songs.
Present Continuous Past Continuous
Rachel said, “I am singing songs.” Rachel said that she was singing
songs.
Present Perfect Past Perfect
Rachel said, “I have sung songs.” Rachel said that she had sung
songs.
Present Perfect Continuous Past Perfect Continuous
Rachel said, “I have been singing Rachel said that she had been
songs.” singing songs.”
Simple Past Past Perfect
Rachel said, “I sang songs.” Rachel said that she had sung
songs.
Exercise – 3
Rebecca is in front of the class holding a presentation on London. As
Rebecca is rather shy, she speaks with a very low voice. Your classmate
Neil does not understand her, so you have to repeat every sentence to him.
Complete the sentences in reported speech (no change of tense
required). Note the change of pronouns and verbs.
Rebecca (R): I want to tell you something about my holiday in London.
Neil: What does she say?
You: She says that ––––––––––––––––––––– .
R: I went to London in July.
You: She says that ––––––––––––––––––––––––––– .
R: My parents went with me.
You: She says that –––––––––––––––––––––––––––.
R: We spent three days in London.
You: She says that –––––––––––––––––––––––––––.
R: London is a multicultural place.
You: She says that ––––––––––––––––––––––––––– .
R: I saw people of all colours.
You: She says that ––––––––––––––––––––––––––– .
R: My parents and I visited the Tower.
You: She says that –––––––––––––––––––––––––––.
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Unit 1 Personality
Structure
1.1 Introduction
Objectives
1.2 Personality – an Explanation
1.3 Categories of Personality
1.4 Self Image
1.5 Improving the level of self-acceptance
1.6 Factors affecting Personality Development
1.7 Defence Mechanism
1.8 Personality characteristics in Organisation
1.9 Factors that determine our Attitude
1.10 Summary
1.11 Terminal Questions
1.12 Answers
1.1 Introduction
Our own experience is enough to tell us two things about human beings.
First, they are all unique. Each possesses a set of traits and characters
which cannot be completely duplicated by any other person. Second, these
traits remain stable over time. For comfortable interactions with each other,
it is better to first understand the meaning of personality and its types. Then
we can inculcate those traits in ourselves which paves our way to be a
successful individual in the society.
Objectives:
After studying this unit, the students should be able to:
understand the term personality
explain the determinants of Personality
discuss the various theories of personality.
defence Mechanism
Jung explains that at the base, the personality has four dimensions –
thinking, feeling, sensation and intuition.
a) Thinking: It includes logical, reasoning, rational and analytical.
b) Feeling: Refers to the interpretations of a thing or event on a subjective
scale (emotional effect)
c) Sensation: It deals with perception of a thing in general sense (factual
and concrete)
d) Intuition: It is based on unconscious inner perception of the
potentialities or events or things.
2. Type A / B Personalities
Meyer Friedman, an American cardiologist, noticed in the 1940's that the
chairs in his waiting room got worn out from the edges. They hypothesized
that his patients were driven, impatient people, who sat on the edge of their
seats when waiting. They labelled these people "Type A" personalities. Type
A personalities are workaholics, always busy, driven, somewhat impatient,
and so on.
Type B personalities, on the other hand are laid back and easy going. "Type
A personality" has found its way into general communication.
Type A Personalities:
i. Are always moving, walking, and eating rapidly:
ii. Feel impatient with the rate at which most events take place;
iii. Strive to think or do two or more things simultaneously;
iv. Cannot cope with leisure time; and
v. Are obsessed with numbers, measuring their success in terms of how
much of everything they acquire.
Type B Personality:
i. Never suffer from a sense of time urgency with its accompanying
impatience;
ii. Feel no need to display or discuss either their achievements or
accomplishments unless such exposure is demanded by the situation;
iii. Play for fun and relaxation, rather than to exhibit their superiority at
any cost; and
iv. Can relax without guilt.
3. Agreeableness – Disagreeableness
Agreeableness reflects individual differences in concern with cooperation
and social harmony. Agreeable individuals value getting along with others.
They are therefore considerate, friendly, generous, helpful, and willing to
4. Conscientiousness
Conscientiousness concerns the way in which we control, regulate, and
direct our impulses. Impulses are not inherently bad; occasionally time
constraints require a snap decision, and acting on our first impulse can be
an effective response. Also, in times of play rather than work, acting
spontaneously and impulsively can be fun. Impulsive individuals can be
seen by others as colourful, fun-to-be-with, and zany. Conscientiousness
includes the factor known as Need for Achievement (NAch).
5. Neuroticism
Neuroticism, also known inversely as Emotional Stability, refers to the
tendency to experience negative emotions. Those who score high on
Neuroticism may experience primarily one specific negative feeling such as
anxiety, anger, or depression, but are likely to experience several of these
emotions. People high in Neuroticism are emotionally reactive. They
respond emotionally to events that would not affect most people, and their
reactions tend to be more intense than normal. They are more likely to
interpret ordinary situations as threatening, and minor frustrations as
hopelessly difficult. Their negative emotional reactions tend to persist for
unusually long periods of time, which means they are often in a bad mood.
These problems in emotional regulation can diminish a neurotic's ability to
think clearly, make decisions, and cope effectively with stress.
At the other end of the scale, individuals who score low in Neuroticism are
less easily upset and are less emotionally reactive. They tend to be calm,
emotionally stable, and free from persistent negative feelings. Freedom from
negative feelings does not mean that low scorers experience a lot of positive
feelings; frequency of positive emotions is a component of the Extraversion
domain.
6. Openness to Experience
Openness to Experience describes a dimension of personality that
distinguishes imaginative, creative people from down-to-earth, conventional
people. Open people are intellectually curious, appreciative of art, and
sensitive to beauty. They tend to be, compared to closed people, more
aware of their feelings. They therefore tend to hold unconventional and
individualistic beliefs, although their actions may be conforming
(see agreeableness). People with low scores on openness to experience
tend to have narrow, common interests. They prefer the plain,
straightforward, and obvious over the complex, ambiguous, and subtle.
They may regard the arts and sciences with suspicion, regarding these
endeavours as abstruse or of no practical use. Closed people prefer
familiarity over novelty; they are conservative and resistant to change.
Self-image is:
How you regard yourself.
The mental picture of how you believe you appear to others.
How you picture your physical self.
How you believe others see you physically.
Your idea (positive or negative, rational or irrational) of how you present
yourself to others and how you are subsequently judged by them.
A personal assessment of your character, personality, skills, abilities,
and other attributes.
A powerful internal mechanism influencing how you feel about yourself.
An accumulation of scripts you have been given (consciously or
otherwise) and have learned well throughout
what? My need for external approval was a bottomless pit. I could never get
enough.
Unfortunately, we can lose favour with the people we are trying to impress,
our performance may suffer or our looks fade. And even sizeable assets can
take a beating on the stock market.
The only true source of approval is found within. The more we accept
ourselves, the more easily we will believe praise when it comes from
external sources.
The questionnaire below will help you determine your OWN level of self-
acceptance.
Scoring
Now add up all your points as shown below.
question 1: a-1, b-2, c-3, d-4
questions 2 through 9: a-4, b-3, c-2, d-1
questions 10 through 18: a-1, b-2, c-3, d-4
Results
1 – 18 Poor
You rely heavily on other people’s opinions and find it hard to assert yourself
in your professional or personal life. You are so anxious to please others
that you often ignore your own needs and wants. You are also prone to
19 – 36 Fair
Although you make sure that you honour your commitments to others, you
are often self-critical and overly demanding of yourself. You are quick to
blame yourself when things go wrong. Learn to be more tolerant of your own
mistakes and pay less attention to what others may think. You do manage to
find time for what’s important in your life, which gives you a feeling of
satisfaction.
37 – 54 Good
You know who you are and what you need to be happy and usually are
willing to take the time to do something that will fulfill you. You are always
trying to improve yourself and surround yourself with supportive friends or
family. You see your strengths but may need to learn to work with your
weaknesses. For example, you may have a short attention span and work
best in spurts. By recognizing this and giving yourself frequent breaks, you
will be more productive.
55 – 72 Excellent
Congratulations! You have a deeply developed sense of self and are self-
nurturing. You respect your own feelings as well as those of others and
have no qualms about turning to friends or family when you are in need of
comfort. You are patient with yourself. If you feel a resistance to doing
something, you get to the root of your feelings instead of forcing yourself to
go ahead. You lead a healthy, well-balanced life.
Journal
So often we act according to logic or what we feel we “should” do and ignore
our feelings. Journaling will help you get in touch with your emotion and give
you a safe place to let things out. By regularly listening to yourself in this
way, you will feel freer to be yourself and more self-accepting.
Remember that someone meeting you for the first time sees the WHOLE
person and he or she is unlikely to be focused on your flaws. Also you
cannot realize the effect of your dazzling smile or the warmth in your eyes.
Valuing and honouring your true self will increase your self-confidence.
When you are confident in who you are and what you can do, you are more
likely to take the steps you need to achieve a fulfilling life.
work done with electrical stimulation of the brain (ESB) and split-
brain psychology. Preliminary results from the electrical stimulation
of the brain (ESB) research indicate that a better understanding of
human personality and behaviour might come from a closer study of
the brain. Work with ESB on human subjects is just beginning. There
seem to be definite areas in the human brain that are associated
with pain and pleasure. This being true, it may be possible physically
to manipulate personality through ESB.
3. Family Factors: While the culture generally prescribes and limits what a
person can be taught, it is the family, and later the social group, which
selects, interprets and dispenses the culture. Thus, the family probably
has the most significant impact on early personality development. A
1. Locus of Control
2. Machiavellianism
3. Self-esteem
4. Self-efficacy
5. Self-monitoring
6. Positive / Negative Affect
7. Risk Taking
1. Locus of Control
Some people believe they are masters of their own fate. Other people see
themselves as pawns of fate, believing that what happens to them in their
lives is due to luck or chance. An individual's generalized belief about
internal (self) versus external (situation or others) control is called locus of
control.
a. Internals: Those who believe they control their destinies have been
labelled internals. Internals (those with an internal locus of control) have
been found to have higher job satisfaction, to be more likely to assume
managerial positions, and to prefer participative management styles. In
addition, internals have been shown to display higher work motivation, hold
stronger beliefs that effort leads to performance, receive higher salaries and
display less anxiety than externals (those with an external locus of control).
satisfied with their jobs, have higher absenteeism rates, are more alienated
from the work setting, and are less involved on their jobs than internals. Why
are externals more dissatisfied? The answer is probably because they
perceive themselves as having little control over those organizational
outcomes that are important to them. Knowing about locus of control can
prove valuable insights to managers. Because internals believe that they
control what happens to them, they will want to exercise control in their work
environment. Allowing internals considerable voice in how work is performed
is important. Internals will not react well to being closely supervised.
Externals, in contrast, may prefer a more structured work setting, and they
may be more reluctant to participate in decision-making.
2. Machiavellianism
Niccolo Machiavelli was a sixteenth century Italian statesman. He wrote
"The Prince", a guide for acquiring and using power. The primary method for
achieving power that he suggested was manipulation of others.
Machiavellianism then is a personality characteristic indicating one's
willingness to do whatever it takes to get one's way. An individual high in
Machiavellianism is pragmatic, maintains emotional distance and believes
that ends can justify means. "If it works, use it", is consistent with a high-
Mach perspective.
High-Machs believe that any means justify the desired ends. They believe
that manipulations of others are fine if it helps achieve a goal. Thus, high-
Machs are likely to justify their manipulative behaviour as ethical. They are
emotionally detached from other people and are oriented towards objective
aspects of situations.
3. Self-esteem
Self-esteem is an individual's general feeling of self-worth. Individuals with
high self-esteem have positive feelings about themselves, perceive
themselves to have strength as well as weaknesses, and believe their
strengths are more important than their weaknesses. Individuals with low
self-esteem view themselves negatively. They are more strongly affected by
what other people think of them, and they compliment individuals who give
them positive feedback while cutting down people who give them negative
feedback.
4. Self Efficacy
Self-efficacy refers to an individual's belief that he or she is capable of
performing a task. The higher your self-efficacy, the more confidence you
have in your ability to succeed in a task. So, in difficult situations, we find
that people with low self-efficacy are more likely to slacken their effort or
give up altogether, whereas those with high self- efficacy will try harder to
master the challenge. In addition, individuals high in self-efficacy seem to
respond to negative feedback with increased effort and motivation; those
low in self-efficacy are likely to reduce their effort when given negative
feedback.
Individuals with high self-efficacy believe that they have the ability to get
things done, that they are capable of putting forth the effort to accomplish
the task, and that they can overcome any obstacles to their success. There
are four sources of self-efficacy:
Prior experiences.
Behaviour models - witnessing the success of others.
Persuasion from other people and
Assessment of current physical and emotional capabilities.
5. Self-monitoring
A characteristic with great potential for affecting behaviour in organizations
is self-monitoring. Self-monitoring refers to an individual's ability to adjust his
or her behaviour to external situational factors.
If you have a negative outlook on life because of your environment, can you
change your attitude? Most of our attitude is shaped during our formative
years.
Thomas Edison's teachers called him "too stupid to learn." He made 3,000
mistakes on his way to inventing the light bulb. During his life, he held 1,093
patents.
"I think success has no rule, but you can learn a great deal from failures."
(Jean Kerr)
You won't win if you don't begin! You must think… RMA and try again if
things go wrong.
You have to love yourself before anyone else can love you. Loving yourself
is a step toward being positive about yourself and others around you.
Be your own best friend. Give yourself a pat on your back when you deserve
it, and encourage yourself when you're upset.
If you have the RMA, and a positive self-image, you'll be able to accomplish
almost anything in life.
Trust can defined, though, in its most basic form, as an understanding that
one person has with another person that neither will intentionally hurt the
other. Trusting someone is having confidence in them, to be able to depend
on them. You rely on and believe in that person due to their position,
previous performance or experiences with them. In essence, then, trust is
simply a relationship that is shared with another, a mutual bond between the
two individuals in which all doubt is removed. Trust, in its highest level, is
called trustworthiness.
Let's think back to when you were a child and when you tried to walk for the
first time… you fell down. You quit and said, "Well, that's failure. It's not
going to work!"
Just think, you wouldn't be here now. Suppose that the first time you made
an error in a simple math problem… you just quit. You would never be able
to change money or go shopping or do anything…. right?
Whatever mistakes you have made in the past, they have been a vital part
of your education and simply mean that you should dust yourself off and
begin again, not just quit and give up because you made a mistake and it
didn't work. Every mistake that you ever made in your whole life has led you
to your current state of understanding. Bless your mistakes, give thanks for
them, dust yourself off and go on again. You will probably make more
mistakes during your life, but you learn from every single one and no
mistake is ever fatal unless you make it so.
You are not a lousy person just because you make a mistake.
"He who never made a mistake never made a discovery." (Samuel Smiles)
Hope is a feeling that what is wanted will happen. Hope can be defined as
faith directed toward the future. Hope is reaching out for something to come.
Happiness is our key to the future. The three major ingredients are hope,
faith and love.
1.10 Summary
Personality of a person describes consistent emotional, thought, and
behavior patterns in a person. This unit identifies different categories of
personality – Extrovert, introvert, Type A and Type B, Agreeableness –
Disagreeableness, Conscientiousness, Neuroticism and Openness to
Experience. The concept of ‘Self-Image’ is explained. The unit also has
helped you to recognise various factors that affect personality development
and their roles that contribute to personality development. You have been
familiarised with the personality characteristics that you find in an
organisation. These aspects of personality will help you to shape up the
desired attitude that you want to inculcate, thereby improvise on your
personality style.
1.12 Answers
A. Self Assessment Questions
1. Heredity
2. Socialization process
3. locus of control
4. Machiavellianism
5. self-esteem
6. The four sources of self-efficacy are:
a) prior experiences
b) behaviour models –witnessing the success of others.
c) persuasion from other people
d) assessment of current physical and emotional capabilities
B. Terminal Questions
1. Refer 1.3
2. Refer 1.3
3. Refer 1.5
2.1 Introduction
Tick, tick, tick ...No, it's not the beginning to 60 MINUTES. It's time moving
on. Time management is a skill few people master, but it is one that most
people need.
Did you catch that? Time really can't be managed. You can't slow it down or
speed it up or manufacture it. It just IS. Time Management is Managing
Yourself.
Objectives:
After learning this unit, you will be able to:
manage time effortlessly.
identify and focus on the activities that give you the greatest returns in a
short time.
function effectively, even under intense pressure.
identify your personal attitudes toward time management.
discuss key steps in planning/prioritizing your work.
The various applications of Time Management cover almost all areas of our
life, some examples are:
Children use time tables in schools
Executives use diaries and planners
While it is true that many methods of managing time are available, all
underdeveloped personalities are bad time managers. Good time-managers
are people who are always on time. They do things on time and are
respected and promoted to the best positions in life.
You Need Time to get What You Want Out of Life – You need time to
do almost anything worthwhile in life. Waiting for more free time is a
losing game that almost never results in getting time for what you want.
You need to learn how to make time for the things that are important to
you. Even if you can only afford to give a small amount of time each
week to your goals, you'd be surprised at how much progress you can
make.
You can Accomplish more with Less Effort – When you become
more productive using improved time management skills and tools, you
can accomplish more with less effort. Reducing wasted time and effort
gives you even more productive time throughout the day. Both of these
allow you to make time for a wide range of activities that bring more
balance and fulfillment to your life.
Too Many Choices – In this day and age, there are so many ways you
can spend your time that you need some sort of plan to make intelligent
choices.
Time management helps you make conscious choices so you can spend
more of your time doing things that are important and valuable to you.
By applying the time management tips and skills in this section you can
optimize your effort to ensure that you concentrate as much of your time and
energy as possible on the high payoff tasks. This ensures that you achieve
the greatest benefit possible with the limited amount of time available to you.
ABC Analysis
A technique that has been used in business management for a long time is
the categorization of large data into groups. These groups are often marked
A, B, and C – hence the name. Activities that are perceived as having
highest priority are assigned an A, those with lowest priority are
labeled C. ABC analysis can incorporate more than three groups.
POSEC Method
POSEC is an acronym for Prioritize by Organizing, Streamlining,
Economizing and Contributing.
2.4.1 Interruptions
Interruptions are a normal part of work life, especially if you are a smart and
talented student or manager. It’s natural for your college mates or
colleagues and staff to want to talk to you if you can help them with their
work. That being said, interruptions can also be a tremendous drain and
time waster. The key to handle interruptions effectively is to ensure that you
are making the best use of your time in each case.
An ancient sage was teaching his disciples the art of archery. He put a
wooden bird as a target and asked them to aim at the eye of the bird. The
first disciple was asked to describe what he saw. He said, “I see the trees,
the branches, the leaves, the sky, the bird and its eyes.
The sage asked this disciple to wait. Then he asked the second disciple the
same question and he replied, “I only see the eye of the bird.” The sage
said, “Very good, then shoot.” The arrow went straight and hit the eye of the
bird.
2.4.3 Procrastination
Procrastination is the deferment or avoidance of an action or task to a later
time. For the person procrastinating this may result in stress, a sense of
guilt, the loss of productivity, the creation of crisis, and the chagrin of others
for not fulfilling one’s responsibilities or commitments. While it is normal for
individuals to procrastinate to some degree, it becomes a problem when it
impedes normal functioning.
You can also use these lists to keep you focused on what really needs to be
done, and keep you away from un-important tasks that have no value. The
result - more time to do what you want!
Dispose off all items you decide are not worth doing. Instead of re-writing
your list each morning an alternative method is to spend the last 15 minutes
of your day on your list, so that you can start immediately the next day.
They are:
Identify values
Set Goals
Plan Weekly
Plan Daily
Plan your week instead of your day. Each Sunday, look at your roles and
goals from your mission statement, and assign activities throughout your
week which fulfil these roles and goals. Double and triple them up.
Summary of Activities
At the end of the week, summarize your activities on the chart below. Once
you evaluate where your time goes, print a copy of the Planned Weekly
Schedule and fill it in with your course schedule, study time and other
activities. Try to follow your schedule to improve your time use.
SUMMARY OF ACTIVITIES
Activity Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun Total Percent*
Class & Lab
Study
School Related Clubs &
Organizations
Total
Work
Social &
Recreational
Personal
TV & Stereo
Total
Eating, Bathing,
Exercise, etc.
Health-related
Sleep
Total
Travel
Out-of-school
Commitments
Other
Total Hours 24 24 24 24 24 24 24 168 100
That is what differentiates a desire from a goal. Goals are dreams with a
deadline and an action plan. Goals can be worthy. It is passion, not wishing
that turns dreams into reality.
If you ask most people what is their one major objective in life, they would
probably give you a vague answer, such as , “ I want to be successful, be
happy, make a good living,” and that is it. They are all wishes and none of
them are clear goals. Goals should be SMART.
S – Specific: For example, “I want to lose weight.” This is wishful
thinking. It becomes a goal when I pin myself down to “I will lose 10lbs in
90 days.”
M – Measurable: If we cannot measure it, we cannot accomplish.
Measurement is a way of monitoring our progress.
A – Achievable: Achievable means that it should be out of reach
enough to be out of sight, otherwise it becomes disheartening.
R – Realistic: A person who wants to lose 50lbs in 30days is being
unrealistic.
T – Time Bound: There should be a starting date and a finishing date.
Identify "Best Time" for Studying: Everyone has high and low periods
of attention and concentration. Are you a "morning person" or a "night
person". Use your power times to study; use the down times for chores
and errands.
Study Difficult Subjects First: When you are fresh, you can process
information more quickly and save time as a result.
Make Sure you Have Time to Sleep and Eat Properly: Sleep is often
an activity (or lack of activity) that students use as their time
management "bank." When they need a few extra hours for studying or
socializing, they withdraw a few hours of sleep. Doing this makes the
time they spend studying less effective because they will need a couple
hours of clock time to get an hour of productive time. This is not a good
way to manage yourself in relation to time.
2.6 Summary
I would like to summarize this whole unit by a short story on “How to
manage time effectively?”
There was a little girl named Annie. She was hard working, intelligent and
was always ready to learn something new. Ms Miller, her music teacher at
school, encouraged her to learn playing the piano. Annie was a fast learner
and quickly followed the music lessons at school. Ms Miller advised Annie to
practice the lessons again at home. Soon Annie's exams approached and
she slowly lost her focus on the piano. Ms Miller was concerned and spoke
to Annie about the same. Annie said,"Ms Miller, I really want to play the
piano, but I am very short on time. There is homework to finish, and the
exams are about to start as well. I am unable to find an hour to practice the
piano everyday". Looking at Annie's worried face, Ms Miller replied,"Annie, I
understand your problem. You have a lot to achieve in one day, and finding
an hour at a stretch, to practice piano everyday will indeed be difficult. But if
you practice for 10 minutes in morning before leaving for school, 10 minutes
after coming back, then 15 minutes after finishing the homework, another 10
minutes before starting your dinner and final 15 minutes before going off to
sleep, you will definitely make it". Annie wasn't sure, but she tried following
what her teacher said. To her own surprise, she was playing piano even
during her exams and yet doing everything else in time. So when Annie
thanked her, Ms Miller replied,"If you will look for time in plenty, it will just
slip like sand from your hand, but if you can find small intervals in between,
you will never run short of it." Annie now plays several instruments as she
learnt to find time in between her busy time table.
2.8 Answers
A. Self Assessment Questions
1. money
2. Time management is a set of skills, tools, and systems that help you use
your time to accomplish what you want in an efficient way.
3. i) False ii) True iii) True iv) False
4. i) 80:20 rule ii) A ; C iii) POSEC
B. Terminal Questions
1. Refer 2.3
2. Refer 2.3.1
3. Refer 2.5.5
Unit 3 Leadership
Structure
3.1 Introduction
Objectives
3.2 Leadership – Explanation
3.3 Role & Functions of a Good Leader
3.4 Criticality of Team Leadership
3.5 Research of different kinds of leaders
3.6 Methods of developing effective leaders
3.7 Leadership styles
3.8 Leader’s Three top mistakes
3.9 Challenges of faced by a Leader
3.10 Summary
3.11 Terminal questions
3.11 Answers
3.1 Introduction
We have already learnt the concept of personality in the previous chapter.
One of the most important aspects of enhancing one’s personality so as to
command respect from associates, is the leadership quality. Earlier, it was
believed that ‘leadership’ is in-built. But, now it can be developed; Infosys
Leadership Institute, created in early 2001 is a proof for the changed belief.
It is an institute that would help promising employees at all levels to develop
into efficient and able leaders.
Objectives:
After learning this unit, you will be able to:
define the role and functions of a good leader
understand the importance of team-leadership
Leadership is required because someone has to point the way, and that
same person has to ensure that everyone concerned gets there.
Organizational effectiveness depends on the quality of leadership.
Good leaders are made not born. If you have the desire and willpower, you
can become an effective leader. Good leaders develop through a never
ending process of self-study, education, training, and experience.
Know Yourself:
As a leader you will start with certain abilities and by experience you will
have developed certain skills. To improve your leadership qualities your first
step is an analytical one – know yourself. Check each of the ten qualities
and skills listed below and see how to measure up to them.
1. Ability to work with people
2. Ability to gain respect and support of people
3. Decisiveness
4. Enthusiasm
5. Imagination ( vision)
6. Ability to inspire others with your enthusiasm and vision
7. Willingness to work hard
8. Analytical ability
9. Integrity
10. Ability to change leadership style to suit occassion
Assess you strengths and weaknesses under each heading. Analyse the
occasions when you have succeeded or failed and why. Try to assess how
you exercised these abilities or skills and answer these questions:
a) Was it directive?
b) Was it supportive?
c) Was it appropriate to the situation ?
d) Did it work ? And if so, why ? And if not, why not?
If following this analysis, you know your strengths, you can develop them,
and if you know what works in particular circumstances you have a good
idea of the approach you should adopt in similar situations ( as long as they
are similar) If you are aware of your weaknesses you can do your best to
manage them, remembering, however, that there is no point in trying to
invent an entirely new persona.
Robert Browning
1. The Task
What needs to be done and why?
What results have to be achieved?
What problems have to be overcome?
Is the solution to these problems straightforward or is there a
measure of ambiguity?
But be prepared to flex your styles in accordance with the changing needs
of the task and the group and the variety of individual needs present among
the members of your team.
1. The Opportunist
Opportunists see the world and other people as opportunities to be
exploited. They treat other people as objects or as competitors, who are
also out for themselves. Opportunists tend to regard their own bad
behaviour as legitimate in the cut and thrust of an eye-for-an-eye world.
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They reject feedback, deflect blame and retaliate harshly. Such leaders are
mercifully rare - only 5% of respondents profiled as Opportunists. And they
don't remain managers for long, because their style of self-promotion and
rule breaking is the exact opposite of the kind most people want to work
with.
2. The Diplomat
Diplomats seek to please higher-status colleagues and look to control their
own behaviour rather than influence events or other people. In a support
role, the Diplomat has a lot to offer. They are social glue to their colleagues
and ensure that others' needs are met, which is probably why the majority of
Diplomats work at the most junior levels of management. In top leadership
roles they are much more problematic because they try to ignore conflict,
find it virtually impossible to give challenging feedback to others and avoid
initiating change.
3. The Expert
By far, the most common action logic, Experts try to exercise control by
perfecting their knowledge, and are great individual contributors because of
their pursuit of improvement, efficiency and perfection. However, as leaders
they can be problematic, because they are often so sure that they are right.
Experts view collaboration as a waste of time and frequently treat the
opinion of people less expert than themselves with contempt.
4. The Achiever
Achievers have a more complex view of the world than the Expert - their
focus is on deliverables and the plans and tactics necessary to ensure
success. They know that creative transformation and conflict resolution
requires sensitivity to relationships and the ability to influence others.
Achievers can also lead a team to implement new strategies while balancing
immediate and long-term objectives. The downside is that their approach is
5. The Individualist
Individualists put personalities and ways of relating into perspective, and
communicate well with people of other action logics. Unlike Achievers, they
are aware of the possible conflict between their principles and actions,
between an organisation's values and its implementation. Individualists also
tend to ignore rules they regard as irrelevant, which often makes them a
source of irritation to both colleagues and bosses.
6. The Strategist
Unlike Individualists, Strategists focus on organisational constraints and
perceptions, which they treat as discussable and transformable. Whereas
the Individualist masters communication, the Strategist is concerned with
the organisational impact of actions and agreements. The Strategist can
create shared visions across different action logics, and is good at handling
conflict and dealing with resistance to change.
7. The Alchemist
The very few leaders identified as Alchemists have the ability to renew or
even re-invent themselves and their organisations in historically significant
ways. They can talk with both kings and commoners, and deal with
immediate priorities without losing sight of long-term goals. Alchemists are
typically charismatic individuals, who focus intensely on the truth. They have
the ability to seize unique moments in the history of their organisations, and
create symbols and metaphors that speak to people's hearts and minds.
found in leaders, who will succeed in bringing out the best from their
subordinates.
1. Setting Proper Objectives: This is a very effective technique, which
enables a leader to establish specific as well as challenging goals. They
are clear in defining their goals, which provide the right direction to their
subordinates. They also help their followers if they encounter any
problems.
2. Providing Meaningful and Interesting Work: It is common that the
subordinates have inherent desire for higher achievements. So it is the
duty of the leader to provide interesting and challenging work to his
followers. Not only that, he should also reward them for the work well
done. Eventually, as they gain experience and become proficient, they
should be given higher responsibilities.
3. Aim at Improving Communication Skills: The leader should be an
effective and efficient communicator. He should be clear and specific,
without being ambiguous, while giving instructions or directions to his
followers. He should try to remove or avoid all barriers of
communication to achieve this. He should be a good listener, thereby
showing concern to employee problems and address them
appropriately. At the same time a good leader should also give correct
feedback to his follower, so that necessary improvements can be made
by the follower.
4. Use Effective Performance Appraisal for Subordinates: The leader
should be able to appraise his followers effectively. The actual
performance should be compared to the one which is desired. The
appraisal should reward the subordinate and help him to enhance his
performance. Not only that, the leader should also guide the follower in
areas of concern to achieve improvement.
Authoritarian or autocratic
Participative or democratic
Delegative or Free Reign
Although good leaders use all three styles, with one of them normally
dominate, bad leaders tend to stick with one style.
Authoritarian (Autocratic)
This style is used when the leader tells her employees what she wants done
and how she wants it done, without getting the advice of her followers.
Some of the appropriate conditions to use it are:
when you have all the information to solve the problem
you are short on time
your employees are well motivated.
Some people tend to think of this style as a vehicle for yelling, using
demeaning language, and leading by threats and abusing their power. This
is not the authoritarian style; rather it is an abusive, unprofessional style
called bossing people around. It has no place in a leaders repertoire.
Participative (Democratic)
This type of style involves the leader including one or more employees in
the decision making process (determining what to do and how to do it).
However, the leader maintains the final decision making authority. Using this
style is not a sign of weakness; rather it is a sign of strength that your
employees will respect.
This is normally used when you have part of the information, and your
employees have other parts. Note that a leader is not expected to know
everything – this is why you employ knowledgeable and skilful employees.
Using this style is of mutual benefit -- it allows them to become a part of the
team and allows you to make better decisions.
This is not a style to use so that you can blame others when things go
wrong, rather this is a style to be used when you have the full trust and
confidence in the people below you. Do not be afraid to use it, however, use
it wisely!
3.7.1 Forces
A good leader uses all three styles, depending on what forces are involved
between the followers, the leader, and the situation. Some examples
include:
Using an authoritarian style on a new employee, who is just learning the
job. The leader is competent and a good coach. The employee is
motivated to learn a new skill. The situation is a new environment for the
employee.
Using a participative style with a team of workers, who know their job.
The leader knows the problem, but does not have all the information.
The employees know their jobs and want to become a part of the team.
Using a delegative style with a worker, who knows more about the job
than you. You cannot do everything! The employee needs to take
ownership of her job. Also, the situation might call for you to be at other
places, doing other things.
Using all three: Telling your employees that a procedure is not working
correctly and a new one must be established (authoritarian). Asking for
their ideas and input on creating a new procedure (participative).
Delegating tasks in order to implement the new procedure (delegative).
Negative leaders act domineering and superior with people. They believe
the only way to get things done is through penalties, such as loss of job,
days off without pay, reprimand employees in front of others, etc. They
believe their authority is increased by freighting everyone into higher lever of
productivity. Yet what always happens when this approach is used wrongly
is that morale falls; which of course leads to lower productivity.
Also note that most leaders do not strictly use one or the other approach,
but are somewhere on a continuum ranging from extremely positive to
extremely negative. People who continuously work out of the negative are
bosses, while those who primarily work out of the positive are considered
real leaders.
There is evidence that leaders who are considerate in their leadership style
are higher performers and are more satisfied with their job (Schriesheim,
1982).
Also notice that consideration and structure are independent of each other,
thus they should not be viewed on opposite ends of a continuum. For
example, a leader who becomes more considerate, does not necessarily
mean that she has become less structured.
When a leader spends more time managing than leading, morale suffers
among the troops. Most people would prefer a goal to shoot for and some
freedom to figure out how to reach that goal. "We all crave at least a partial
sense of control,"
In a study several years ago, two teams of leaders were given a difficult
problem to solve. The complex problem involved mental gymnastics, difficult
decisions, and intense concentration. Both teams participated in the project
in a room where distracting sounds were piped in through speakers. The
music, noise, and voices were enough to drive you to distraction, which, of
course, was the point.
Team A couldn't do anything about the distracting sounds. They just had to
put up with them. Team B was told that by pushing a button they could
silence the distractions for five minutes. The only catch was that they could
only use the button once each hour. Each team was then scored on various
phases of their group task.
Not too surprisingly, Team B consistently outscored Team A. The kicker is,
Team B never pushed the button. Team B at least thought they had control
over their environment. Just knowing that they had a little freedom within
their boundaries boosted their confidence level.
When leaders micromanage, they take away that sense of control vital to
team dynamics and problem-solving. Former U.S. President Dwight D.
Eisenhower summed this up when he said, "Pull the string, and it will follow
wherever you wish. Push it, and it will go nowhere at all."
swings away from the rest in direct response to the force of the first ball. It's
called "Newton's Cradle."
The next mistake is a bit more subtle and difficult to detect. It is called , "The
Newton's Cradle approach to leadership."
Let's say that you are the person at the top of the leadership chain in your
organization. You are the crossbeam. Those steel spheres hanging beneath
the crossbeam are the people who work closely with you. The plastic
connectors are the individual relationships you make with those people.
You, the leader, pull one of your team members away from the others and
get him pumped up about a change that needs to be made. That's like
pulling one of the steel balls and holding it there. Then when you let him go,
you expect him to return to the rest of the team, where they will all function
with superb team dynamics, solving the current problems, achieving team
goals, and making changes.
What really happens – "The leader lets that team member go, and he just
bangs against the other team member closest to him, and that one bangs
quickly into the team member next to him, and so on. So all that really
happens is that this one team member bangs into the others, and they
swing back and forth, bumping into each other."
we get our jobs down to a science and there are no new challenges, we get
bored or lose interest."
A leader may know what motivates him, but he forgets that the same things
motivate those who work for him.
It means we have to risk other people's failure. It means we have to bite our
lips and let some people toddle out into the unknown world. Yet they'll thank
you for allowing them to tackle a new challenge, even if they stumble a few
times.
Like a parent who prays harder when the teenager begins to drive, a leader
must accept that new challenges are frightening to us but freeing to others.
Organisational Politics:
Organisational politics is one of the biggest problems that a developing
leader has to face. People confuse ‘politics’ with the inevitable complexity
that results from moving upwards in an organisation. When a transition is
made from a functional role to management, one has to work harder to
differentiate the relevant person t deal with from the one who would support
you.
Establishing new networks, both internally and across the wider industry,
can create anxiety and uncertainty. The need to think on a more macro level
creates a further mental challenge: making those big strategic decisions
requires a very different use of time to hitting the targets and ticking the
boxes of a more functional role.
The fact is that many aspects of a more senior role are hard to define. Ibarra
says: “A lot of things can seem unclear. Much of the transition to leadership
is about learning to be proactive and strategic. Doing the ‘substance’ like
you used to do is no longer your role - you need to be looking at the bigger
picture. The trouble with that is that some leaders - and some people around
them – might view that, naively, as not ‘work’.”
For many leaders, networking is one of the hardest skills to master. Being
wellconnected and having the ability to use those connections to your and
your company’s advantage is not only a daunting challenge, but a severe
demand on a leader’s time. Given the challenges involved in moving to a
new and more complex role, it is not surprising that the majority of
managers surveyed said that they would have made the transition with
greater ease had they had more prior understanding of the mental shifts
involved.
The mental transition into leadership often lags the physical one. That’s why
so many people struggle. They are taking an old mindset into a totally
different role. It’s not just a question of adding new competencies - going
into leadership is actually about using your old competencies less and less.
While selecting leaders for higher positions, the companies rightly figure out
the intellectual capacity of the individual that fits into the role. But an
estimated 50% of new leaders don’t survive in their new roles for more than
two years. This is because they are under prepared for the ‘social journey’
involved.
Leadership in Context
Promotion into a leadership position can be rewarding and fulfilling, but it
can also be stressful. The importance of ‘home networks’ to balance the
stresses of work and career transition can be seen clearly in the important
supporting role played by family and friends.
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Company Support
Nowadays, progressive-looking companies see coaching and integrating
new leaders into the organisation as vital in keeping and nurturing their best
talent. Spotting future leaders early, helping them gain the right experience
and mentally preparing them for the leap into leadership are among the
areas that employers have attempted to improve.
3.10 Summary
Leadership is that quality of an individual that helps him to nurture a group
of other individuals under him, to recognise a goal and go ahead to achieve
it. We all possess the capacity for leadership, but only those who cultivate
it will ever become truly effective leaders. You are introduced to the
functions of a true leader like, primary function, including qualities like
visionary, executive, planner, expert policy maker, and controller of
relationships to lead the team harmoniously. The other functions that make
an individual an effective leader are, exemplary behaviour, symbol of unity,
3.12 Answers
A. Self- Assessment Questions
1. i) know yourself. ii) aggressions iii) cohesive and coherent.
iv) quality v) self-study, education, training, and experience.
2. i) Achievers ii) Alchemists iii) Strategists
B. Terminal Questions
1. Refer 3.6
2. Refer 3.5
3. Refer 3.8
4.1 Introduction
A person influences (or at
least attempts to influence)
other persons with whom he
or she interacts. In some
roles, e.g. Managerial and
helping roles, ‘influence’ is a
central function. One of the
main functions of a manager
is to influence others for the
achievements of work
objectives. Another managerial function is to help one’s subordinates to
develop, Even more directly involved in influencing others are teachers,
trainers, consultants and counselors. The process of helping someone to
learn and change is essentially the process influencing the individual’s
ideas, values, attitudes and behaviour.
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Those in influencing roles not only solve problems and help others, but they
also have an impact on others’ ability to solve future problems . They can
develop others or they can make them dependent, limiting their autonomy.
Their habitual ways of interacting with their employees, participants,
trainees, or clients can be called Interpersonal styles.
Objectives:
After studying this unit, you will be able to:
identify your ‘self’
improve your inter-personal behaviour, thereby enhance your inter-
personal relationship
understand an individual with the help of transactional analysis
develop open self personality
Johari Window : The Johari Window, named after the first names of its
inventors, Joseph Luft and Harry Ingham, is
one of the most useful models describing the
process of human interaction. A four paned
"window," as illustrated above, divides
personal awareness into four different types,
as represented by its four quadrants: open,
hidden, blind, and unknown. The lines
dividing the four panes are like window
shades, which can move as an interaction
progresses.
In this model, each person is represented by his own window. Let's describe
each of them:
1. The "open" quadrant represents things that both one knows about
oneself, and that the others know about the individual. For example,
I know my name, and so do you, and if you have explored some of my
website, you know some of my interests. The knowledge that the
window represents, can include not only factual information, but the
feelings, motives, behaviours, wants, needs and desires of an individual;
indeed, any information describing who he is. When you first meet a new
person, the size of the opening of this first quadrant is not very large,
since there has been little time to exchange information. As the process
of getting to know one another continues, the window shades move
down or to the right, placing more information into the open window, as
described below.
2. The "blind" quadrant represents things that the others know about an
individual, but that the individual is unaware of. So, for example, we
could be eating at a restaurant, and you may have unknowingly gotten
some food on your face. This information is in your blind quadrant
because others can see it, but you cannot. If the others now tell you that
you have something on your face, then the window shade moves to the
right, enlarging the open quadrant's area. Now, you may also have blind
spots with respect to many other much more complex things. For
example, perhaps in your ongoing conversation with your friends, you
may notice that eye contact seems to be lacking. Your friends may not
say anything, since they may not want to embarrass you, or they may
draw their own inferences that perhaps you are being insincere. Then
the problem is, how can you get this information out in the open, since it
may be affecting the level of trust that is developing between you and
your friends? How can you learn more about yourself? Unfortunately,
there is no readily available answer.
3. The "hidden" quadrant represents things that you know about yourself,
that others do not know. So, for example, you have not told your friends,
nor mentioned anytime during your conversations, what one of your
favourite ice cream flavours is. This information is in your "hidden"
quadrant. As soon as you tell them that you love "Barrista’s" chocolate
flavoured ice cream, you are effectively pulling the window shade down,
moving the information in your hidden quadrant and enlarging the open
quadrant's area. Again, there are vast amounts of information, virtually
your whole life's story, that has yet to be revealed to others. As you get
to know and trust each other, you will then feel more comfortable
disclosing more intimate details about yourself. This process is called:
"Self-disclosure."
4. The "unknown" quadrant represents things that neither you know about
yourself, nor others know about you. For example, you may disclose a
dream that you had, and as both your friend and you attempt to
understand its significance, a new awareness may emerge, known to
neither of you before the conversation took place. Being placed in new
situations often reveals new information not previously known to self or
others. Thus, a novel situation can trigger new awareness and personal
growth. The process of moving previously unknown information into the
open quadrant, thus enlarging its area, has been likened to Maslow's
concept of self-actualization. The process can also be viewed as a
game, where the open quadrant is synonymous with the win-win
situation.
Much, much more has been written on the Johari window model of
human interaction. The process of enlarging the open quadrant is called
self-disclosure, a give and take process between you and the people
you interact with. Typically, as you share something about yourself
(moving information from your hidden quadrant into the open) and
simultaneously, if the other party is interested in getting to know you,
they will reciprocate, by similarly disclosing information in their hidden
quadrant. Thus, an interaction between two parties can be modelled
dynamically as two active Johari windows. However, self-disclosure
has its own dangers. We are often better off not telling secrets regarding
our, mental health problems or large-scale failures. Be forewarned that
most secrets get passed along to at least two more parties. People also
misjudge how others respond to secrets. Sometimes you get negative
feedback.
As one’s level of confidence and self esteem develops, one may actively
invite others to comment on one's blind spots. A teacher may seek
feedback from students on the quality of a particular lecture, with the
desire of improving the presentation. Active listening skills are helpful in
this endeavour. On the other hand, we all have defences, protecting the
parts of ourselves that we feel vulnerable. Remember, the blind
quadrant contains behaviour, feelings and motivations not accessible to
the person, but which others can see. Feelings of inadequacy,
incompetence, impotence, unworthiness, rejection, guilt, dependency,
ambivalence for loved ones, needs to control and manipulate, are all
difficult to face, and yet can be seen by others. Fortunately, Nature has
provided us with a variety of defence mechanisms to cope with such
events, such as denial, ignoring, rationalizing, etc.
And let's not forget the parable of the blind men and the elephant. Our
society is constructed so that many of us get very specialized, knowing
only a small academic field very well, while being virtually ignorant of all
others. This specialization is blinding many of us to what is happening in
the world today. According to R. Buckminister Fuller, this system of
education was done on purpose, to channel the most intelligent people
into specialties, enabling them to be more easily controlled.
Prescription Style: People with this style are critical of the behavior of
others and develop rules and regulations to impose them on others.
Managers using this style make quick judgments and insist that certain
norms be followed by all their subordinates. A consultant may advise the
clients and prescribe solutions to their problems, rather than help them to
work out alternative solutions for their problems.
Task Obsessive Style: People with this style are most concerned with the
task. Matters not directly related to the task are ignored. They are not
concerned with feelings and, in fact, fail to recognize them, since they do not
perceive them as related to the task. They attempt to function like
computers. A task–obsessive individual is insensitive to the emotional
needs, personal problems, and apprehensions of the others.
Bohemian Style: The creative child is active in this style. The person has
lots of ideas and is impatient with current practices. The person is less
concerned with how the new ideas work than with the ideas themselves.
Such people are non conformists and enjoy experimenting with new
approaches, primarily foe fun. They rarely allow one idea or practice to
stabilize before going on to another.
Innovative People: People with this style have enthusiasm about new
ideas and new approaches and take others along with them. However, they
pay enough attention to nurturing an idea, so that it results in concrete
action and becomes internalized in the system. Such people are innovators.
Aggressive Style: People with this style are fighters. They show their
aggression toward others. They may fight for their subordinates, clients, or
participants, or for their ideas and suggestions, hoping that this will help
them to achieve their desired results. Their aggressiveness, however,
makes people avoid them and not take them seriously.
Sulking Style: People with this style keep their negative feeling to
themselves, find it difficult to share them, and avoid meeting people if they
have not been able to fulfil their part of the contract. Instead of confronting
problems, a person in this style avoids them and feels bad about the
situation, but does not express these feelings openly.
When Jane Jaryd started a new job in a publishing company she was
desperate to make a good impression from the outset, so on her very first
day she brought in a tin of biscuits and passed them around to everyone.
But the gesture backfired. Instead of the acceptance she craved, Jane was
treated with suspicion. Why was she trying so hard? What did she want from
them?
One colleague later told her: 'My first impression was that you were just far
too pushy with your biscuits. I wasn't sure about you at all.'
'We have evolved as social animals as part of a tribe,' explains Andy Smith,
training director of Coaching Leaders and author of ‘Achieve your Goals:
Strategies to Transform your Life.’ From early in our evolution, being popular
will probably have meant better nutrition, getting into fewer fights and
winning more mates (in the biological sense). 'How we were treated in that
tribe was important, so many of us do have a need to be popular.'
While helping in small errands and doing minor chores for colleagues or
peers, might win you immediate popularity, it won't guarantee the ingrained,
long-term popularity that many of us crave. To be genuinely liked and
respected by your colleagues and team your actions must go far deeper
than well intentioned gestures. To win this kind of esteem requires a
fundamental understanding of human relationships, a sincere interest in
your fellow worker, a sense of fair play and, most important of all, an ability
to see the other person's point of view.
'Popularity is about being able to relate to lots of different situations all of the
time,' says Roy Gaynor, managing director of the consultancies Navisys
Transformation and Navisys Academy. 'You've got to be able to show that
you can step into the other person's world.'
A desire to be popular may not be part of the typical make-up of leaders but
few can deny that the effects of being liked by your team and colleagues
can be both career- and business-enhancing. It is easier to influence and
persuade people who like, respect and trust you and it is easier to motivate
them if you have a connection. And with the bottom line in mind, people are
more likely to buy from someone that they like.
In his book Life's a Game so Fix the Odds, Hesketh recalls how he
repeatedly missed out on business from one potential client - even though
he was offering a better service at a better price - simply because the
contact 'didn't particularly like him'. His replacement, however, sealed a deal
within a month. 'People buy people first,' he writes in his book.
In Life's a Game so Fix the Odds, Philip Hesketh says you should listen with
'rapt attention' – the highest form of flattery. You should listen to truly
understand how others feel about what they're saying. This helps you see
things from their point of view. They will like you more and at the same time,
you too would learn in the exchange.
Managers can earn social kudos by the bucket load simply by taking a
genuine interest in their team. For example, as well as work-related matters
such as career aspirations and motivations, make a note of the name of
each member's partner and what they like to do at weekends.'
5. Criticise Carefully
We assume that as long as the criticism we give to people is constructive, it
will have the desired effect of improving performance rather than upsetting
the individual concerned. However, even constructive criticism can be
damaging. Instead, regularly tell people what you think they are good at
and 'leave out the "but" and "however".' This is how you have to prepare
them. Then when you do come to offer something a little more critical they
are much more likely to take it.
When you face and resolve the problem yourself, you feel wonderful. You
are in control of your life. You not only conquer the opposition, you conquer
your fear. Few accomplishments are more satisfying than confronting
someone who is difficult to face and handling the conflict
Write down a Plan or List of Points You Need to Make to Support Your
Goal:
Facts, Reasons and explanations you may need the other person to
understand.
List the points in order of priority or importance.
For example, to get Joe to understand why he must pay you, you might
make these points:
E. Etc.
Effective Communication
It is apparent that meaningful communication does not take place
automatically in interpersonal relationships. But there are a number of
factors, which appear to foster effective communication – ranging from an
awareness of one’s own stimulus value to active listening. Here we shall
simply mention three interrelated factors which seem to be of key
importance.
Revising Freud's concept of the human psyche as composed of the id, ego,
and super-ego, Berne postulated instead three "ego states" – the Parent,
Adult and Child states – which were largely shaped through childhood
experiences.
Within each of these are sub-divisions. Thus parental figures are often either
nurturing (permission giving, security giving) or criticizing(comparing to
family traditions and ideals in generally negative ways), childhood
behaviours are either natural (free) or adapted to others. Each of these
tends to draw an individual to certain patterns of behaviour, feelings and
ways of thinking, which may be beneficial (positive) or dysfunctional/
counterproductive (negative).
Ego states also do not correspond directly to thinking, feeling, and judging,
as these behaviours are present in every ego state.There is no "universal"
ego state; each state is individually and visibly manifested for each person.
For example, a child ego state is individual to the specific human being, that
is, it is drawn from the ego state they created as a child, not some
'generalised childlike' state.
Each person involved in transactions with others has three ego states:
1. The Parent regulates behaviour ( through prescriptions and sanctions)
and nurtures ( by providing support)
2. The Adult collects information and processes it.
3. The Child has several functions primarily with
a) Creativity, curiosity and fun
b) Reactions to others ( including rebellion)
c) Adjusting to others’ demands or sulking .
life position takes. (1) I’m OK, You’re OK : (2) I’m not OK , you’re OK (3) I’m
OK, you’re not OK: and (4) I’m not OK, you’re not OK.
Since individuals interact with one another, their ego states affect each set
of transactions. Unproductive or counterproductive transactions are
considered to be signs of ego state problems. Analysing these transactions,
according to the person's individual developmental history, would enable the
person to "get better". Virtually everyone has something problematic about
their ego states and that negative behaviour would not be addressed by
"treating" only the problematic individual.
Example 2
A: "Would you like to come and watch a film with me?" (Child to Child)
B: "I'd love to - what shall we go and see?" (Child to Child)
Example 3
A: "Is your room tidy yet?" (Parent to Child)
B: "Will you stop hassling me? I'll do it eventually!" (Child to Parent)
2. Crossed Transactions
Communication failures are typically caused by a 'crossed transaction'
where partners address ego states other than that their partner is in.
Consider the above examples jumbled up a bit.
Example 1a:
A: "Have you been able to write that report?" (Adult to Adult)
Example 2a:
A: "Is your room tidy yet?" (Parent to Child)
is a more positive crossed transaction. However there is the risk that "A" will
feel aggrieved that "B" is acting responsibly and not playing his role, and the
conversation will develop into:
A: "I need you to stay late at the office with me." (adult words)
Each culture, country and people in the world has a Mythos, that is, a
legend explaining its origins, core beliefs and purpose. According to TA, so
do individual people. A person begins writing their own life story (script) very
young, as they try to make sense of the world and their place within it.
Although it is revised throughout life, the core story is selected and decided
upon typically by age 7. As adults it passes out of awareness. A life script
might be "to be hurt many times, and suffer and make others feel bad when
I die", and could result in a person indeed setting themselves up for this, by
adopting behaviours in childhood that produce exactly this effect. Or it could
as easily be positive.
Discounting means to take something as worth less than it is. Thus to give
a substitute reaction which does not originate as a here-and-now Adult
attempt to solve the actual problem, or to not choose to see evidence that
would contradict one's script. Types of discount can also include: passivity
(doing nothing), over-adaptation, agitation, incapacitation, anger and
violence.
In addition, there is the so-called episcript, "You should (or deserve to)
have this happen in your life, so it doesn't have to happen to me."
Against these, a child is often told other things they must do. There are six
of these 'drivers':
Be perfect!
Please (me/others)!
Try Hard!
Be Strong!
Hurry Up!
Be Careful!
Thus, in creating their script, a child will often attempt to juggle these,
example: "It's okay for me to go on living (ignore don't exist) so long as I try
hard".
Broadly, scripts can fall into Tragic, Heroic or Banal (or Non-Winner)
varieties, depending on their rules.
For instance, two people may have a daily two stroke ritual, where, the first
time they meet each day, each one greets the other with a "Hi". Others may
have a four stroke ritual, such as:
A: Hi!
The next time they meet in the day, they may not exchange any strokes at
all, or may just acknowledge each other's presence with a curt nod.
Pastimes
A pastime is a series of transactions that is complementary (reciprocal),
semi-ritualistic, and is mainly intended as a time-structuring activity.
Pastimes have no covert purpose and can usually be carried out only
between people on the same wavelength. They are usually shallow and
harmless. Pastimes are a type of small talk.
Analysis of a Game
One important aspect of a game is its number of players. Games may be
two handed (that is, played by two players), three handed (that is, played by
three players), or many handed. Three other quantitative variables are often
useful to consider for games:
Flexibility: The ability of the players to change the currency of the
game (that is, the tools they use to play it). In a flexible game, players
may shift from words, to money, to parts of the body.
Tenacity: The persistence with which people play and stick to their
games and their resistance to breaking it.
Intensity: Easy games are games played in a relaxed way. Hard
games are games played in a tense and aggressive way.
Third Degree Games are games that could lead to drastic harm to one
or more of the parties concerned.
Rackets
A racket is the dual strategy of getting "permitted feelings" and covering up
those which we truly feel, as being "not allowed".
More technically, a racket feeling is "a familiar set of emotions, learned and
enhanced during childhood, experienced in many different stress situations,
and maladaptive as an adult means of problem solving".
Examples of racket and racket feelings: "Why do I meet good guys who turn
out to be so hurtful", or "He always takes advantage of my goodwill". The
racket is then a set of behaviours and chosen strategies learned and
practised in childhood, which in fact help to cause these feelings to be
experienced. Typically, this happens despite their own surface protestations
and hurt feelings, out of awareness and in a way that is perceived as
someone else's fault. One covert pay-off for this racket and its feelings,
In other words, rackets and games are devices used by a person to create a
circumstance, where they can legitimately feel the racket feelings, thus
abiding by and reinforcing their childhood script. They are always a
substitute for a more genuine and full adult emotion and response, which
would be a more appropriate response to the here-and-now situation.
The first such game theorized was ‘Why don't you/Yes, But…’ in which one
player (White) would pose a problem as if seeking help, and the other
player(s) (Black) would offer solutions. White would point out a flaw in every
Black player's solution (the "Yes, but" response), until they all give up in
frustration. The secondary gain for White is that he can claim to have
justified his problem as insoluble and thus avoid the hard work of internal
change; and for Black, to either feel the frustrated martyr ("I was only trying
to help") or a superior being, disrespected ("the patient was uncooperative").
State the other’s idea in your own words to check out if you have
properly understood. This is called paraphrasing.
Examples:
Avoid generalizations – “ You are always picking on me!”
Instead say – “ I feel threatened by you”
Avoid name calling – “ You idiot”
Instead say – “ I am angry with you”
Avoid assumptions – “ You enjoy putting people down”
Instead say – “ What you just said hurt me”
Avoid questions – “ Is it safe to drive so fast?”
Instead say – “ I am afraid og going this fast”
Avoid sarcasm – “ Who need friends like you?”
Instead say – What you just did was not helpful”
Avoid commands – “ Shut up!”
Instead say – I’m so angry I can’t think”
Avoid Silence
Avoid “ Why “ questions – “ why did you say that “?
Instead say – “ I would like you to clarify to me what you said just now”
The recipient has a chance to say what he thinks and feels about the
feedback.
"I think one lesson I have learned is that there is no substitute for
paying attention." – Diane Sawyer
4.7 Summary
In dealing with the various aspects of communication we are also dealing
with coping behaviours and styles in interpersonal relationships. For better
or worse, our interpersonal style does affect our ability to transmit and
receive information, and hence, it will affect the quality of relationships we
are able to achieve.
Life is an Echo
A little boy got angry with his mother and shouted at her, “I hate you, I hate
you.” Because of fear of reprimand, he ran out of the house. He went up to
the valley and shouted “I hate you, I hate you.” and back came the echo, “I
hate you, I hate you,” This was the first time in his life he had heard an echo.
He was scared, went to his mother for protection and said there was a bad
boy in the valley who shouted, “I hate you, I hate you.” The mother
understood and she asked her son to go back and shout, “I love you, I love
you.” The little boy went and shouted, “I love you, I love you,” and back
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came the echo: That taught the little boy a lesson – which our life is like an
echo: We get back, what we give.
4.9 Answers
A. Self Assessment Questions
1. i) Interpersonal styles
ii) Joseph Luft and Harry Ingham
iii) open, hidden, blind, unknown
iv) unknown
v) confidence and self-esteem
2. i) supportive coaches ii) task-obsessive
iii) Bohemian style iv) confronting v) Resilient style
3. i) True ii) False iii) False iv) True v) False
vi) False vii) False viii) True ix) True x) True
4. 1-c; 2-d; 3-a; 4-e; 5-b 5. 1-j ; 2-I ; 3-h; 4-g; 5-f; 6-e; 7-d; 8-c; 9-b; 10-a
B. Terminal Questions
1. Refer 4.5.3 2. Refer 4.5.4 3. 3. Refer 4.6
4. Refer 4.2 5. Refer 4.4