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3) Work and educational background-occupation, career/life highlights so far.
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4) Personal- hobbies, interests, and some other personal information the person would like to share.
For example: family, travel etc.
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5) Dream Job: ___________________________________________________________

6) Success I have had is… OR Something special or unique about me:

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Two expectations you have for the workshop:

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Understanding Change

Voluntary:
The changes you choose to make and are prepared for.

Involuntary:
The ones that happen and are beyond your control.

During Change
When change occurs, it can be important to focus on the positive below are some ways to embrace change

 Identify the healthy part of the change you are going through
 Use your internal strength, to guide and support you
 You have a change muscle, so let it get stronger
 Turn to your change support team for encouragement

Importance of Change Management

Learning about change management is important for individuals for several reasons, even if they are not
directly responsible for leading organizational change initiatives. Here are some key benefits of understanding
change management as an individual:

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Adaptability: Change is a constant in today's fast-paced world. By understanding change management
concepts and principles, individuals can become more adaptable and better equipped to navigate personal and
professional changes. This adaptability can lead to greater resilience and less stress when facing unexpected or
planned changes in life.

Career Development: Many employers value employees who can effectively manage change. Learning about
change management can enhance an individual's skill set and make them more attractive to employers. It can
also open opportunities for roles related to change management or project management.
Improved Communication: Change management emphasizes effective communication. Learning how to
communicate change, address concerns, and engage with stakeholders can improve an individual's
interpersonal and leadership skills. These skills are valuable in various aspects of life, including personal
relationships and community involvement.

Team Collaboration: Change often involves working with others to achieve common goals. Understanding
change management can help individuals work more effectively within teams and contribute to the success of
collective efforts.

Personal Growth: Managing change often requires personal growth and self-awareness. Individuals who learn
about change management may gain insights into their own reactions to change, allowing them to develop
strategies for personal growth and self-improvement.

Problem-Solving Skills: Change management involves problem-solving and critical thinking. These skills can be
applied to a wide range of situations, from personal challenges to professional projects, making individuals
more effective at finding solutions and making decisions.

Leadership Potential: Even if an individual is not in a formal leadership role, understanding change
management can enhance their leadership potential. Leadership often involves guiding others through change
and inspiring confidence in a shared vision.

Reduced Stress: Change can be stressful, but understanding how to manage it can reduce anxiety and
uncertainty. Individuals who are familiar with change management principles may experience less stress when
confronted with changes in their personal or professional lives.

Resilience: Learning about change management can help individuals build resilience, which is the ability to
bounce back from adversity. Resilience is a valuable trait in both personal and professional contexts.
In summary, learning about change management can benefit individuals by equipping them with valuable skills
and insights that are applicable in various aspects of life. Whether dealing with personal changes, navigating a
career, or contributing to a team or organization, understanding how change works and how to manage it
effectively can lead to personal growth, improved adaptability, and enhanced problem-solving abilities.

Three Stages of Transition

The Bridges transition model consists of three stages that a person experiences during change. Here are the
three stages:

1. Endings- Acknowledging that change and loss that has occurred

2. Neutral Zone- Letting go of the old and setting up for new beginnings

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3. Moving Forward- New understandings, values, and attitudes to move through the change

Next, we will review that emotions that can come up during change by looking at the roller coaster of change.

The Rollercoaster of Change

How do we recognize your place on the rollercoaster?

One of the dangers is that once we are caught up in the moment of the transition, we may miss the signs of
the emotions that arise like threat, anxiety, etc., and “react” or cope by complaining or attempting to force
things back to the way they were.

The best way to recognize what we are going through is to know how it affects us mentally and physically.
Be aware of the first signs of the emotions. When we feel sick to our stomach or have a sudden headache or
develop trouble sleeping, we need to look at what is causing these symptoms. Are we really just getting
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another cold or the beginning of the flu, or have our emotions
begun taking us on a rollercoaster ride?

Most people do go through all the different emotions, but many don’t recognize what is actually happening to
them. Each stage usually builds on the one before. If we were more in touch with ourselves, we would feel it.

1. The beginning anxiety—the first impact on our self.

2. Next would be the greater realization of what has begun—it’s an unknown territory in which fear
arises - “What’s going on? What’s happening? I don’t get it.”
3. Then guilt and depression, wherein the understandings of our belief systems have been
challenged. We may not want to face the fact that we caused it, or we realize we did cause it and
have the horrible feeling that we could have prevented the situation. “Why didn’t I change, or at
least do something different? You want me to change? Why can’t the rest of the world change?
Did I really do that to myself?”
4. Disillusionment: “Nothing works the way I need or want it to.” You could want to give up and end
up saying, “I’m out of here.”
5. Eventually hostility or anger: “You can’t make me change! I’ll make it work my way!” or “Why is
everyone out to get me?” The hostility can be directed at the self or at others.

6. We can experience happiness for a short time, but not enough for it to really register that we
have been happy. True lasting happiness won’t occur until our life is heading back onto a positive
path towards being employed once again.
7. It’s not until acceptance begins to occur that we will change. We come to realize we have no control
over certain events. We can’t go back and change them, and we begin to understand the situation
needs action. When that happens, we can move forward and could see ourselves with a better
brighter future.
8. A person can also go through multiple transitions at the same time and these could have a
cumulative impact. Everything seems to be happening at once, which is more negative evidence to
add to the emotional stress.

What Stage/Phase are you in?

Anxiety – Can I cope?
Happiness – At last something’s going to change.
Denial – Change? What Change?
Fear – What impact will this have? How will it affect me?
Threat – This is bigger than I thought!
Guilt – Did I really do that?
Disillusionment – I’m off…this isn’t for me!
Depression – Who am I?
Hostility – I’ll make it work if it kills me!
Gradual Acceptance – I can see myself in the future.
Moving Forward – This can work and be good.

Navigating the Ride

The ADKAR model is a framework for change management developed by Jeff Hiatt, the founder of Prosci, a
leading change management research and advisory company (https://www.prosci.com/resources?
resource=.articles&topic=.discover-and-apply-adkar) .
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The ADKAR model is designed to help individuals and organizations understand and navigate the process of
change. ADKAR stands for Awareness, Desire, Knowledge, Ability, and Reinforcement, which are the five key
elements necessary for successful change.

Here's a brief overview of each element in the ADKAR model:

1. Awareness: This is the first step in the change process. People need to be aware of why the change is
necessary and what it entails. Awareness involves communicating the reasons for change, its potential
benefits, and the consequences of not changing.
2. Desire: Once individuals are aware of the change, they need to develop a desire or motivation to
support and participate in it. This step involves addressing any resistance to change and helping
individuals understand how the change will personally benefit them.
3. Knowledge: After developing the desire for change, people need to acquire the knowledge and skills
required to implement the change successfully. This often involves training and education to ensure
individuals have the necessary information and tools.
4. Ability: Knowledge alone is not enough; individuals must have the ability to apply what they've learned
effectively. This stage involves providing resources and support to help people apply their knowledge
in their work or daily activities.
5. Reinforcement: Change is an ongoing process, and it's essential to reinforce the new behaviors and
practices to ensure they become the new norm. This can involve recognizing and rewarding those who
embrace the change, continually monitoring progress, and adjusting as needed.

The ADKAR model is a useful tool for change management because it breaks down the change process into
manageable steps and highlights the importance of addressing individual and organizational factors that can
either facilitate or hinder successful change. By focusing on each of these five elements, organizations can
improve their chances of successfully implementing and sustaining change initiatives.

Scenario Activity: Transitioning from Office Work to Remote Work

Let's review a career change scenario using the ADKAR model. In this scenario, we'll explore how an individual
transitions from working in an office to working from home.

A=Awareness: Sarah is a marketing manager at a traditional office-based company. Due to changing

circumstances, the company is adopting a remote work policy, and Sarah's role is transitioning to a remote
work setup. Initially, Sarah becomes aware of this change through a company-wide announcement.

Summary
Recognize that a change is happening or will happen.
Understand the reasons behind the change.
Grasp the implications of the change for oneself and the organization.

D=Desire: At first, Sarah feels some resistance to the idea of working from home. She's comfortable with her
office routine and is concerned about potential challenges like distractions and isolation. However, as she
reflects on the benefits, such as increased flexibility and reduced commute time, she starts developing a desire
to make remote work successful.

Summary
Develop a personal motivation to support the change.
Understand the benefits and advantages of the change.
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Overcome resistance by addressing concerns and objections.
Connect the change to personal values and goals.

K=Knowledge: To address her concerns and build confidence, Sarah seeks out resources and information
about remote work best practices. She attends webinars, reads articles, and engages in discussions with
colleagues who have experience with remote work. She gains knowledge about setting up a home office, time
management, and communication tools.

Summary
Acquire the necessary information and education about the change.
Learn about the new processes, tools, or systems involved.
Understand the specific steps and actions required for the change.
Identify available resources for learning and skill development.

A=Ability: Sarah begins implementing what she's learned. She sets up a dedicated home office space,
establishes a daily routine, and starts using collaboration and communication tools effectively. She practices
time management techniques and learns how to balance work and personal life while working remotely.

Summary
Apply the knowledge gained to effectively carry out the change.
Develop the required skills and competencies.
Practice and gain confidence in the new way of doing things.
Overcome any obstacles or challenges that may arise during the change process.
Collaborate with others to achieve the desired outcomes.

R=Reinforcement: As Sarah adapts to her new remote work environment, she experiences positive outcomes.
She realizes that she can be just as productive, if not more so, from home. Her manager provides positive
feedback on her performance, and she begins to see the benefits of remote work, such as a better work-life
balance and reduced stress from commuting.

Summary
Celebrate achievements and successes related to the change.
Provide continuous feedback on performance.
Recognize and reward yourself and team members for their contributions.
Monitor and assess the long-term impact of the change.
Adjust and refine the change strategy based on feedback and results.
Ensure that the change becomes a part of the organization's culture and practices.

Outcome: Over time, Sarah successfully transitions to remote work, embracing the change and thriving in her
new work environment. Her awareness, desire, knowledge, ability, and reinforcement lead to a smooth and
successful career change from working in the office to working from home.

This scenario illustrates how the ADKAR model can be applied to an individual's career change journey, helping
them navigate the transition from one work environment to another with awareness, motivation, knowledge,
skill development, and ongoing reinforcement of positive outcomes.

Endings
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Meaning of Ending: a bringing or coming to an end; termination; close: the final or concluding part;
conclusion: a story with a happy ending.

What was the last change you remember?

Session B
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Importance of Resiliency

Resiliency is important for several reasons:

Coping with adversity: Life is full of challenges, setbacks, and unexpected events. Resilience allows individuals
to effectively cope with these difficulties, bounce back from failure, and navigate through tough times. It
provides the emotional and mental strength needed to face adversity head-on, persevere, and maintain a
positive outlook.

Mental and emotional well-being: Resilience plays a crucial role in promoting mental and emotional well-
being. When faced with stress, trauma, or difficult circumstances, resilient individuals are better equipped to
manage their emotions, regulate stress levels, and maintain a sense of balance and stability. It helps prevent or
mitigate the negative effects of stress, anxiety, and depression.

Personal growth and development: Resilience fosters personal growth and development by encouraging
individuals to learn from their experiences, adapt to change, and develop new skills and perspectives. It allows
people to see setbacks and failures as opportunities for growth, to persevere in the face of challenges, and to
embrace change and uncertainty as catalysts for self-improvement.

Building strong relationships: Resilient individuals tend to have stronger social connections and support
networks. They are better able to establish and maintain healthy relationships, seek help when needed, and
provide support to others. Resilience helps in fostering empathy, compassion, and effective communication, all
of which are vital for building and sustaining meaningful connections with others.

Professional success: Resilience is highly valued in the workplace. It enables individuals to adapt to changing
work environments, handle work-related stress, and maintain productivity and focus. Resilient employees are
more likely to exhibit perseverance, problem-solving skills, and a positive attitude, which can contribute to
their professional success and career advancement.

Community and societal resilience: Resilient communities are better equipped to withstand and recover from
disasters, crises, or social challenges. They possess the collective ability to come together, support one
another, and rebuild after adversity. Community resilience helps in fostering a sense of belonging, social
cohesion, and collective action, ultimately contributing to the overall well-being and sustainability of societies.

Overall, resilience is crucial for individual well-being, personal growth, professional success, and community
resilience. It empowers individuals to navigate life's challenges effectively, adapt to change, and thrive in the
face of adversity.

Benefits to Resiliency

Resiliency, or the ability to bounce back and adapt in the face of challenges, is a valuable trait that brings
several benefits. Here are some of the advantages of cultivating resiliency:

Stress management: Resilient individuals are better equipped to cope with stress and manage adversity. They
have developed effective coping mechanisms and can handle setbacks and pressure with greater ease,

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reducing the negative impact on their mental and physical well-being.

Emotional well-being: Resilience promotes emotional well-being by fostering a positive outlook and emotional
stability. Resilient people are more likely to experience lower levels of anxiety, depression, and other mental
health issues, as they possess the skills to navigate difficult emotions and maintain a balanced mindset.

Problem-solving skills: Resilient individuals tend to be better problem solvers. They approach challenges as
opportunities for growth, exhibit creativity in finding solutions, and remain persistent in their efforts. This
ability to find innovative solutions enables them to overcome obstacles more effectively.

Adaptability and flexibility: Resilient people are adaptable and flexible in the face of change. They can adjust
their goals, plans, and strategies as needed, which is particularly valuable in today's fast-paced and
unpredictable world. Resilience enables individuals to embrace change and navigate transitions with greater
ease.

Improved relationships: Resilient individuals often have stronger and more positive relationships. Their ability
to manage stress, handle conflicts constructively, and remain calm in difficult situations allows for healthier
and more supportive connections with others. They can also provide emotional support to friends, family, and
colleagues, fostering stronger bonds.

Enhanced self-confidence: Resilience contributes to increased self-confidence and self-esteem. When

individuals successfully overcome challenges, they gain a sense of accomplishment and belief in their abilities.
This self-assurance empowers them to take on new challenges and pursue their goals with determination.

Professional success: Resilience is highly valued in the workplace. Resilient employees are more productive,
adaptable, and better equipped to handle job-related stress. They display a strong work ethic, perseverance,
and the ability to bounce back from setbacks, making them valuable assets to organizations.

Physical health benefits: Resilience is linked to better physical health outcomes. Resilient individuals are more
likely to engage in healthy behaviors such as regular exercise, good nutrition, and adequate sleep. They also
tend to have lower rates of stress-related illnesses and better overall well-being.
These are just some of the many benefits of developing and cultivating resiliency in various aspects of life.
Resilience enables individuals to navigate obstacles, bounce back from adversity, and thrive in the face of
challenges.

Developing Resiliency
Developing resilience is a process that can be cultivated and strengthened over time. Here are some strategies
to enhance resilience:

Build self-awareness: Start by developing a deeper understanding of yourself, your strengths, and your areas
for growth. Reflect on your values, beliefs, and attitudes towards challenges and setbacks. Self-awareness
allows you to recognize your emotions, thoughts, and reactions, which is the first step in building resilience.
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Foster a positive mindset: Cultivate a positive outlook by reframing negative thoughts and focusing on
solutions rather than dwelling on problems. Practice gratitude and optimism, seeking the silver lining in
difficult situations. Embrace change as an opportunity for growth and personal development.

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Cultivate strong relationships: Foster and maintain supportive relationships with family, friends, colleagues, or
mentors. Seek social support when facing challenges, as having a strong support network can provide
encouragement, guidance, and perspective. Actively contribute to building a supportive community around
you.
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Practice self-care: Prioritize self-care activities that promote physical, mental, and emotional well-being.
Engage in regular exercise, get sufficient sleep, eat a balanced diet, and engage in activities that bring you joy
and relaxation. Taking care of yourself allows you to better cope with stress and challenges.
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Develop problem-solving skills: Enhance your problem-solving abilities by breaking down challenges into
manageable steps, brainstorming potential solutions, and taking proactive action. Develop a problem-solving
mindset that focuses on finding solutions rather than dwelling on obstacles.
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Cultivate adaptability: Embrace change and practice adaptability. Recognize that life is full of uncertainties
and setbacks and view them as opportunities for growth and learning. Be open to new perspectives, be willing
to adjust your goals and plans, and develop flexibility in your thinking and approach.
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Practice resilience-building activities: Engage in activities that specifically target resilience-building, such as
journaling, mindfulness, meditation, or seeking professional guidance through therapy or coaching. These
activities can help you develop emotional regulation skills, enhance self-reflection, and strengthen your
resilience toolkit.
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Remember, building resilience is a continuous process that requires patience, effort, and practice. It is normal
to face challenges and setbacks along the way, but the key is to learn from them, adapt, and continue moving
forward with a resilient mindset.
Here are a few personal activities that can help individuals learn and practice resilience:
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Journaling: Set aside time each day to engage in reflective journaling. Write about your thoughts, emotions,
and experiences related to challenges and setbacks you have faced. Explore your coping mechanisms,
strengths, and areas for growth. Journaling allows for self-reflection, increased self-awareness, and the
opportunity to identify patterns and develop insights that contribute to resilience.
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Mindfulness and meditation: Practice mindfulness and meditation regularly to develop emotional regulation,
increase self-awareness, and cultivate a sense of calm and clarity. Mindfulness exercises can help individuals
stay present, observe their thoughts and emotions without judgment, and respond to challenges with greater
intention and resilience.

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Goal setting and planning: Engage in goal setting and create action plans to achieve those goals. Break down
larger goals into smaller, manageable steps, and identify potential obstacles and strategies to overcome them.
By setting clear objectives and developing a roadmap, individuals can cultivate a sense of purpose, motivation,
and resilience in pursuit of their goals.
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Seeking challenges and stepping out of comfort zones: Actively seek out challenges and opportunities to step
out of your comfort zone. This can involve trying new activities, learning new skills, or taking on projects that
push your limits. By intentionally embracing discomfort and facing new experiences, you can develop
resilience, adaptability, and a growth mindset.
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Building a support network: Cultivate and nurture a support network of trusted friends, family members,
mentors, or support groups. Surrounding yourself with supportive individuals who provide encouragement,
guidance, and understanding can significantly contribute to resilience. Engage in meaningful conversations,
seek advice, and share experiences with your support network to strengthen your resilience and provide
support to others in return.

Remember, practicing resilience is an ongoing process that requires consistent effort and self-reflection. These
personal activities can help you develop the necessary skills, mindset, and support system to navigate
challenges, bounce back from setbacks, and thrive in the face of adversity.

Factors Influencing Resiliency

Several factors can influence an individual's level of resilience. These factors can vary from person to person
and can interact in complex ways. Here are some key factors that can influence resilience:

Personal characteristics and temperament: Certain personal traits and characteristics can contribute to
resilience. These include a positive outlook, self-confidence, optimism, perseverance, adaptability, and the
ability to regulate emotions effectively. Individuals who possess these traits may be more resilient in the face
of challenges.

Supportive relationships: The presence of supportive relationships, such as family, friends, mentors, or a
strong social network, can significantly influence resilience. Having reliable and caring individuals who provide
emotional support, encouragement, and guidance can help individuals cope with stress, bounce back from
setbacks, and maintain a sense of belonging and connectedness.

Social and community support: Resilience can be fostered by supportive communities, schools, or workplaces.
Access to resources, opportunities, and a sense of community belonging can enhance an individual's ability to
cope with adversity. Social support networks, community engagement, and access to healthcare and social
services play crucial roles in building resilience.

Adequate resources and opportunities: Access to resources, such as education, healthcare, employment, and
financial stability, can impact resilience. Having the necessary resources to meet basic needs and pursue
personal goals can provide individuals with a sense of security and confidence, enabling them to navigate
challenges more effectively.

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Previous life experiences: Past experiences and exposures to adversity can shape an individual's resilience.
Overcoming previous challenges and successfully adapting to difficult circumstances can strengthen resilience
and provide individuals with a belief in their ability to handle future difficulties. However, adverse experiences
without adequate support can also have negative effects on resilience.

Cognitive and problem-solving skills: Effective problem-solving skills, cognitive flexibility, and the ability to
reframe perspectives can contribute to resilience. These skills allow individuals to assess situations, identify
available resources and options, and develop effective coping strategies to navigate challenges and setbacks.

Cultural and societal factors: Cultural and societal beliefs, values, and norms can influence resilience. Cultural
factors, such as collective identity, traditions, and belief systems, can provide individuals with a sense of
meaning, purpose, and support during difficult times. Societal factors, including access to justice, equity, and
social support systems, also play a role in shaping resilience at a broader level.
It is important to note that resilience is a complex and multifaceted concept, and the interplay of these factors
can vary across individuals and contexts. Developing resilience involves understanding and leveraging these
factors to promote personal growth, adaptability, and well-being in the face of adversity.

Challenges to Resiliency

There are various challenges that can hinder the development and expression of resilience. These barriers can
differ for individuals and can arise from personal, social, or environmental factors. Here are some common
challenges to resiliency:

Lack of social support: A lack of supportive relationships and social connections can impede resilience.
Without a strong support network, individuals may struggle to find the emotional support, encouragement,
and guidance needed to navigate through challenges effectively.

Adverse childhood experiences: Traumatic or adverse experiences during childhood, such as abuse, neglect,
or exposure to violence, can significantly impact resilience. These experiences can create emotional wounds,
impair coping mechanisms, and make it more challenging to bounce back from adversity later in life.

Limited access to resources: Inequality and limited access to essential resources like education, healthcare,
employment opportunities, or social services can pose significant barriers to resilience. Without these
resources, individuals may face additional stressors and have fewer options available to them when
confronting adversity.

Negative thought patterns: Pervasive negative thought patterns, such as pessimism, self-doubt, or learned
helplessness, can hinder resilience. These patterns of thinking can limit individuals' ability to see possibilities,
problem-solve effectively, and maintain a positive outlook during challenging times.
Lack of coping skills: Insufficient or ineffective coping skills can impede resilience. If individuals lack healthy
coping mechanisms to manage stress, regulate emotions, and problem-solve, they may struggle to bounce
back from setbacks and maintain their well-being.

Environmental factors: Challenging environmental conditions, such as poverty, violence, or unstable living
situations, can undermine resilience. These factors can create chronic stress, limit access to supportive
environments, and make it more difficult to develop and maintain resilience.

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Overcoming these barriers requires a combination of individual, community, and systemic efforts. Building
awareness, fostering supportive environments, providing access to resources and opportunities, and
promoting resilience-focused interventions can help individuals overcome these barriers and enhance their
ability to bounce back from adversity.

Tips for Improving our Resiliency

Here are several tips for building and enhancing resilience:

Cultivate a positive mindset: Foster optimism, gratitude, and a belief in your ability to overcome challenges.
Focus on the positives, reframe negative thoughts, and find meaning and lessons in difficult experiences.

Practice self-care: Prioritize self-care activities that support your physical, mental, and emotional well-being.
Get enough sleep, eat nutritious food, engage in regular exercise, and engage in activities that bring you joy
and relaxation.

Build a strong support network: Surround yourself with supportive and positive people who lift you up,
provide encouragement, and offer a listening ear. Seek and nurture relationships that provide emotional
support and understanding.

Develop problem-solving skills: Enhance your problem-solving abilities by breaking challenges into
manageable steps, brainstorming solutions, and taking action. Focus on finding practical solutions and being
adaptable in the face of obstacles.

Foster flexibility and adaptability: Embrace change and uncertainty as opportunities for growth. Practice
flexibility in your thinking and approach and be open to new perspectives and possibilities.

Practice self-compassion: Be kind and compassionate towards yourself during challenging times. Treat
yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer to a friend. Practice self-compassion by
acknowledging your efforts and progress and forgiving yourself for any setbacks.

Cultivate emotional regulation: Learn to manage and regulate your emotions effectively. Practice mindfulness,
deep breathing exercises, or other techniques that help you stay calm and centered in the face of stress or
adversity.

Set realistic goals: Set clear and attainable goals that align with your values and aspirations. Break larger goals
into smaller, achievable steps, and celebrate progress along the way. Setting realistic goals helps maintain
motivation and a sense of accomplishment.

Seek and accept help: Don't be afraid to ask for help when needed. Reach out to trusted individuals,
professionals, or support services when facing significant challenges. Recognize that seeking support is a sign
of strength, not weakness.

Cultivate a growth mindset: Embrace a growth mindset, viewing failures and setbacks as opportunities for
learning and growth. Believe in your ability to develop new skills, adapt, and bounce back stronger from
challenges.

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Remember, resilience is a journey, and it takes time and practice. Incorporating these tips into your daily life
can help you build resilience and thrive in the face of adversity.

Resources for Resiliency

There are various resources available to support and enhance resilience. Here are a few types of resources you
can explore:
Books and Publications: There are numerous books and publications focused on resilience, personal
development, and mental well-being. Some highly recommended titles include "Option B" by Sheryl Sandberg
and Adam Grant, "The Resilience Factor" by Karen Reivich and Andrew Shatte, and "Grit: The Power of Passion
and Perseverance" by Angela Duckworth.

Online Courses and Workshops: Many online platforms offer courses and workshops specifically designed to
build resilience. Websites like Coursera, Udemy, and LinkedIn Learning provide a wide range of courses on
resilience, emotional intelligence, stress management, and related topics.

Mental Health and Well-being Apps: Numerous mobile apps are available that focus on mental health,
mindfulness, stress reduction, and resilience. Examples include Headspace, Calm, and Happify. These apps
often offer guided meditations, stress management techniques, and other resources to enhance resilience.

Resilience-Building Programs: Look for resilience-building programs and workshops offered by local
organizations, community centers, or counseling centers. These programs often include group activities,
discussions, and practical strategies to enhance resilience.

Professional Guidance: Seeking support from mental health professionals, such as psychologists or counselors,
can be highly beneficial. They can provide personalized guidance, therapy, and techniques tailored to your
specific needs and circumstances.

Online Communities and Support Groups: Joining online communities or support groups focused on resilience
and personal growth can provide a sense of belonging, encouragement, and the opportunity to connect with
others who are on a similar journey.

Research and Educational Websites: Explore reputable websites and resources that provide information and
research on resilience. Examples include the American Psychological Association (APA) website, the Mayo
Clinic, and the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH).

Why Resilience Matters

Identifying the WHY gives you a deeper understanding.
When you develop Resilience, then…
• Personal triggers do not take you out
• Determination becomes second nature
• Pressure becomes a motivator
• Adversity is a learning opportunity
• The challenge zone is a welcomed place

Wrap Up and Sharing.

List at least three reasons why resiliency is important to you.

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Which resiliency challenge and tip do you need to work on?
What was a highlight or important new skill you learned today?

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Importance of Self-Care
Self-care is important for a variety of reasons, and its significance extends to your physical, mental, and
emotional well-being. Here are some key reasons why self-care is essential:

Stress Reduction: Self-care activities, such as meditation, exercise, or engaging in hobbies, can help reduce
stress levels. Managing stress is crucial because chronic stress can have negative effects on both your physical
and mental health.

Improved Mental Health: Taking time for yourself and engaging in self-care practices can enhance your mental
health. It can reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression, increase self-esteem, and improve overall
emotional well-being.
Enhanced Physical Health: Self-care includes activities like regular exercise, eating a balanced diet, and getting
enough sleep, all of which are vital for maintaining good physical health. Prioritizing these aspects can reduce
the risk of various health issues.

Increased Productivity: When you take care of yourself, you are better equipped to handle daily tasks and
challenges. A well-rested and healthy mind and body are more productive and efficient.

Better Relationships: Self-care helps you recharge and de-stress, making you more patient and understanding
in your relationships. It also allows you to set boundaries and communicate your needs effectively.

Prevention of Burnout: Engaging in self-care can prevent burnout, especially in demanding or high-stress jobs.
Taking regular breaks, setting limits, and practicing work-life balance are essential for preventing burnout.

Boosted Self-Esteem: When you prioritize self-care, you send a message to yourself that you are worth taking
care of. This can boost your self-esteem and self-worth.

Increased Resilience: Self-care practices can enhance your ability to cope with life's challenges and setbacks.
They provide you with the emotional and physical resources needed to bounce back from difficult situations.
Long-Term Health Benefits: Engaging in self-care can have long-term health benefits. By maintaining healthy
habits and reducing stress, you may reduce your risk of chronic illnesses and increase your life expectancy.

Quality of Life: Ultimately, self-care improves your overall quality of life. It allows you to enjoy life more fully,
savor the present moment, and find joy in everyday experiences.

Modeling Behavior: Demonstrating self-care to those around you, such as children or friends, can encourage
them to prioritize their own well-being and engage in self-care practices.

Self-Compassion: Self-care is an expression of self-compassion, which involves treating yourself with the same
kindness and understanding that you would offer to a friend. It helps you become more forgiving and
accepting of yourself.

In summary, self-care is essential because it promotes physical and mental health, reduces stress, enhances
relationships, and improves your overall quality of life. It's not a selfish act but a necessary one to ensure that
you have the physical and emotional resources to meet the demands of daily life and to thrive.

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Activity: Creating a Self-Care Plan

Creating a self-care plan involves tailoring activities and
practices to meet your specific needs and priorities. Here's a
template to help you develop your own self-care plan:

Self-Care Plan

1. Identify Your Self-Care Goals:

 Physical Self-Care Goals: Improve physical fitness, eat a
balanced diet, get enough sleep.
 Emotional Self-Care Goals: Manage stress, practice self-
compassion, express emotions.
 Mental Self-Care Goals: Develop mindfulness, read more, challenge negative thoughts.
 Social Self-Care Goals: Strengthen relationships, make new friends, set emotional boundaries.
2. Choose Self-Care Activities: List specific activities for each category that align with your goals.
 Physical Self-Care Activities: Exercise (e.g., yoga, jogging, swimming), Healthy meal planning and
cooking, and Regular check-ups and health screenings
 Emotional Self-Care Activities: Daily journaling, Meditation and deep breathing exercises, and Seeking
therapy or counseling when needed
 Mental Self-Care Activities: Reading for pleasure, Mindfulness meditation, and Cognitive-behavioral
exercises, Spiritual Connection
 Social Self-Care Activities: Scheduled phone calls or outings with friends, Joining clubs or groups that
interest you, and Setting aside time for family
 Spiritual professional financial recreational

3. Create a Weekly or Monthly Schedule:

 Allocate specific time slots for self-care activities in your calendar. Be realistic about the time you can
commit.
 Example Schedule:
 Monday: 7-7:30 AM - Morning meditation
 Tuesday: 5-6 PM - Yoga class
 Wednesday: 12-1 PM - Lunchtime walk
 Thursday: 8-8:30 PM - Reading a book
 Friday: 6-6:30 PM - Journaling

4. Set Boundaries:
 Communicate your self-care boundaries to others, whether at work or in your personal life. Let them
know when you are unavailable.

5. Monitor Your Progress:

 Regularly evaluate how well you're sticking to your self-care plan and achieving your goals. Adjust your
plan as needed.

6. Self-Compassion:
 Practice self-compassion throughout your self-care journey. Be patient with yourself and acknowledge
your efforts, even when things don't go as planned.

7. Seek Support:
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 Don't hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or professionals for support or guidance when needed.

8. Celebrate Achievements:
 Acknowledge and celebrate your successes and milestones in self-care. This can motivate you to
continue and reinforce positive habits.

9. Be Flexible:
 Life is dynamic, and circumstances change. Be adaptable and open to modifying your self-care plan as
your needs evolve.

Remember that your self-care plan is highly personal. Tailor it to suit your preferences, lifestyle, and goals.
Consistency and self-compassion are key to making self-care an integral part of your life, promoting your
physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

Example Self-care activities

Self-care activities can vary widely depending on individual preferences and needs. Here's a list of several self-
care activities you can consider incorporating into your routine:
 Mindfulness Meditation: Practicing mindfulness meditation can help you reduce stress, improve focus,
and enhance your overall well-being.
 Exercise: Regular physical activity, whether it's walking, jogging, yoga, or going to the gym, can boost
your mood, reduce anxiety, and improve your physical health.
 Journaling: Writing in a journal allows you to process your thoughts and emotions, gain clarity, and track
your personal growth.
 Reading: Reading for pleasure can be a relaxing way to escape into a different world, learn something
new, or gain perspective.
 Creative Hobbies: Engage in creative activities like painting, drawing, knitting, or playing a musical
instrument to express yourself and unwind.
 Bath or Spa Time: Take a long bath, enjoy a spa day at home, or treat yourself to a professional spa
treatment.
 Nature Walks: Spending time in nature can have a calming and rejuvenating effect. Go for a walk, hike,
or simply sit in a park.
 Digital Detox: Unplug from screens and technology for a set period to reduce digital overload and
promote in-person connections.
 Yoga: Yoga combines physical postures, breathing exercises, and meditation to promote relaxation,
flexibility, and mindfulness.
 Healthy Eating: Nourish your body with a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains.
Cooking a nutritious meal can be a form of self-care.
 Socializing: Spend quality time with friends and loved ones to foster positive social connections and
emotional support.
 Volunteering: Helping others can be a form of self-care, as it can bring a sense of purpose and
fulfillment.
 Deep Breathing Exercises: Practice deep breathing techniques to reduce stress and promote relaxation.
Techniques like diaphragmatic breathing can be effective.
 Aromatherapy: Use essential oils or scented candles to create a calming and soothing atmosphere.
 Gardening: Caring for plants and being in a garden can be therapeutic and grounding.
 Listening to Music: Listen to your favorite music or explore new genres to uplift your mood and relax.

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 Set Boundaries: Learn to say no when necessary and establish healthy boundaries to protect your time
and energy.
 Self-Compassion: Practice self-compassion by treating yourself with kindness and understanding,
especially during challenging times.
 Therapy or Counseling: Seeking professional help from a therapist or counselor can provide valuable
support for your mental and emotional well-being.
 Spending Time with Pets: If you have pets, spending time with them can be incredibly comforting and
reduce stress.
 Travel: Plan a getaway or day trip to explore new places and break from your routine.
 Hiking: If you enjoy the outdoors, hiking can be a physically invigorating and mentally refreshing activity.
 Pamper Yourself: Treat yourself to a favorite meal, dessert, or purchase something you've been wanting.
 Reading Inspirational Quotes: Reading motivational or inspirational quotes can provide a mental boost.
 Gratitude Practice: Regularly acknowledge and express gratitude for the positive aspects of your life.

Remember that self-care is personal, and what works best for you may differ from others. The key is to find
activities that resonate with you and make them a consistent part of your routine to support your physical,
mental, and emotional well-being.

Techniques for Developing Self-Care

Developing self-care is an important and ongoing process. It involves identifying your needs and priorities and
then incorporating self-care practices into your daily or weekly routine.

Here are steps to help you develop self-care:

1. Self-Reflection:
 Take time to reflect on your physical, mental, and emotional needs. What areas of your life require
more attention and care?
 Identify stressors and sources of tension in your life.
2. Set Clear Goals:
 Define specific goals for your self-care. For example, you might want to reduce stress, improve your
physical fitness, or enhance your emotional well-being.

3. Create a Self-Care Plan:

 Develop a personalized self-care plan that outlines the activities and practices you want to
incorporate into your routine.
 Make sure your plan includes a balance of different types of self-care, such as physical, emotional,
mental, and social.
4. Prioritize Self-Care:
 Recognize that self-care is essential and not something you should do only when you have spare time.
 Schedule self-care activities into your calendar just as you would other important commitments.

5. Start Small:
 Begin with manageable self-care practices that are easy to incorporate into your daily routine.
Gradually build on these.
 For example, you might start with 10 minutes of meditation each morning or a short daily walk.
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6. Experiment and Explore:
 Be open to trying different self-care activities to see what works best for you.
 Experiment with mindfulness, yoga, journaling, creative hobbies, or any activities that resonate with
you.
7. Practice Mindfulness:
 Cultivate mindfulness to stay present in the moment and pay attention to your needs.
 Mindfulness can help you recognize when you're feeling stressed or overwhelmed, allowing you to
respond with self-care.
8. Set Boundaries:
 Establish healthy boundaries to protect your time and energy. Learn to say no when necessary to
avoid overcommitting yourself.
 Setting boundaries is a vital aspect of self-care, especially in preventing burnout.
9. Seek Support:
 Don't be afraid to ask for help or seek support from friends, family, or a therapist when needed.
Talking to someone can be a valuable form of emotional self-care.
10. Practice Consistency:
 Consistency is key to developing self-care as a habit. Stick to your self-care plan even when you don't
feel like it.
 Over time, self-care will become more natural and integrated into your life.
11. Adjust and Adapt:
 Be flexible with your self-care plan. Life can be unpredictable, so adjust your self-care practices as
needed to meet changing circumstances.
12. Celebrate Progress:
 Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements in self-care. Recognize the positive impact it has on
your well-being.
 Celebrating milestones can motivate you to continue prioritizing self-care.

Remember that self-care is a personal journey, and what works for one person may not work for another. It's
essential to tailor your self-care practices to your unique needs and preferences. The key is to make self-care a
consistent part of your life to promote your physical, mental, emotional, and overall well-being.

Personal Challenges to Improving Self-Care

List three challenges you have with improving Self-Care?
1. __________________________________ 2. __________________________________
3. __________________________________

Several factors can hold us back from prioritizing self-care, even though it's essential for our well-being.
Recognizing these challenges can help you address and overcome them:
Lack of Time: Many people feel overwhelmed by busy schedules and responsibilities, which can make it
challenging to find time for self-care. However, it's crucial to realize that self-care doesn't always require a
significant time commitment. Even small, regular self-care practices can be beneficial.
Guilt: Some individuals feel guilty or selfish when taking time for themselves. They may believe that they should
always be focusing on others or work. Overcoming this guilt involves understanding that self-care is not selfish; it's
necessary for your overall well-being and, by extension, your ability to help others.
Perfectionism: Perfectionists may struggle with self-care because they feel they need to excel at it or do it
perfectly. This mindset can lead to procrastination or avoidance. Remember that self-care doesn't need to be
perfect, and it's okay to start small and make gradual improvements.
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Prioritizing Others: Many people prioritize the needs of others over their own, especially caregivers or
parents. While it's admirable to support others, neglecting your own self-care can lead to burnout and
diminished capacity to help those you care for. Recognize that taking care of yourself allows you to be more
effective in supporting others.
Lack of Awareness: Some individuals may not fully understand the importance of self-care or may not
recognize the signs of burnout or stress. Raising awareness about the benefits of self-care and the
consequences of neglecting it can be a crucial step in overcoming this barrier.
Fear of Change: Incorporating self-care into your routine often requires change, and change can be scary or
uncomfortable. It's essential to recognize that change is a part of personal growth and that embracing self-
care can lead to positive transformations.
Negative Self-Talk: Negative self-talk and low self-esteem can lead to the belief that you don't deserve self-
care or that you're not worth it. Developing self-compassion and challenging these negative thoughts can help
overcome this barrier.
Overcommitment: People who overcommit to work, social obligations, or other responsibilities may find it
difficult to make time for self-care. Learning to set boundaries and say no when necessary is crucial in this
situation.
Financial Constraints: Some self-care activities may require financial resources, such as gym memberships or
therapy sessions. While budget constraints can be a barrier, there are also many affordable or free self-care
practices available, such as meditation or walking in nature.
Cultural or Societal Norms: Cultural or societal expectations can influence our attitudes toward self-care.
Some cultures may prioritize hard work and sacrifice over self-care. Recognize that self-care is a universal need
and find ways to integrate it into your life while respecting your cultural values.

Overcoming these challenges to self-care often requires a combination of self-awareness, mindset shifts, and
practical strategies. It's important to prioritize self-care as an essential aspect of maintaining your physical,
mental, and emotional well-being. Start with small, manageable steps and gradually build self-care into your
daily or weekly routine to make it a lasting habit.

Tips for Improving Self-Care

Improving self-care involves making intentional choices to prioritize your well-being. Here are several tips to
help you enhance your self-care practices:
1. Set Clear Intentions: Define your self-care goals and priorities. What aspects of your physical, mental,
and emotional well-being do you want to improve or maintain?
2. Create a Self-Care Plan: Develop a personalized self-care plan that includes specific activities, schedules,
and goals. Having a plan helps you stay organized and committed.
3. Start Small: If you're new to self-care or revamping your routine, begin with small, manageable changes.
Gradually build on these as you become more comfortable.
4. Prioritize Self-Care Time: Treat self-care time as non-negotiable. Schedule it in your calendar, and don't
allow other commitments to take precedence.
5. Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries to protect your time and energy. Learn to say no when
necessary and communicate your limits to others.
6. Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind and forgiving to yourself. Understand that it's okay to have setbacks
or challenges in your self-care journey.
7. Mindful Awareness: Develop mindfulness by being present in the moment. Pay attention to your
thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations without judgment.

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8. Reflect Regularly: Take time to reflect on your self-care practices. Assess what's working well and what
needs adjustment or improvement.
9. Variety and Balance: Include a variety of self-care activities in your routine to address different aspects of
well-being. Strive for balance between physical, mental, emotional, and social self-care.
10. Consistency: Consistency is key to making self-care a habit. Commit to regular self-care practices, even
on days when you don't feel like it.
11. Learn to Relax: Develop relaxation techniques that work for you, such as deep breathing, progressive
muscle relaxation, or guided imagery.
12. Seek Support: Don't hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for emotional support and
guidance in your self-care journey.
13. Digital Detox: Set aside designated times to disconnect from screens and technology to reduce
information overload and promote in-person connections.
14. Healthy Nutrition: Prioritize a balanced diet with nutritious foods that fuel your body and mind.
15. Hydration: Stay well-hydrated by drinking an adequate amount of water throughout the day.
16. Quality Sleep: Ensure you get enough restful sleep, as it plays a crucial role in physical and mental well-
being.
17. Physical Activity: Incorporate regular exercise or physical activity into your routine to boost your mood
and energy levels.
18. Express Yourself: Find healthy ways to express your emotions, whether through journaling, talking with
a trusted friend, or engaging in creative activities.
19. Stay Organized: Reduce stress by staying organized and managing your time effectively.
20. Positive Affirmations: Use positive affirmations to boost your self-esteem and challenge negative self-
talk.
21. Celebrate Achievements: Acknowledge and celebrate your successes in self-care, no matter how small
they may seem.
22. Self-Reflection: Regularly assess your self-care practices and adjust as needed to align with your evolving
needs and goals.
23. Be Flexible: Life is dynamic, and circumstances change. Be flexible and adaptable in your self-care
routine.
24. Avoid Overcommitment: Be mindful of overcommitting to work or other obligations, which can lead to
burnout.
25. Treat Yourself: Occasionally, indulge in activities or treats that bring you joy and relaxation as a form of
self-reward.

Remember that self-care is an ongoing process, and it's essential to tailor your self-care practices to your
unique needs and circumstances. Regularly assess and adjust your self-care plan to ensure it remains effective
in supporting your well-being.

Wrap Up and Sharing.

List at least three reasons why Self-Care is important?
Which Self-Care challenge and tip do you need to work on?

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What was a highlight or important new skill you learned today?

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