Hello beautiful.., Hello .. sorry to bother you with my message.

I came across your

profile and I must say you are really beautiful. How are you doing today?

David.

I am a gentle man with so much passion in my heart. Am a creative, artistic, loving

and affectionate man in search of a woman for a serious relationship and see what
the feature holds. I am not into games and hope for the same in a potential mate
that we will be relating to each other with tender love and emotional nurturing in
the future. Enjoying the gift of Life,if you don't mind.

I have been widowed for three years now, I lost my wife in a car accident, I have a
son and a daughter love them with all my HEART Life is too short to dwell on past
mistakes or wrong choices, so I choose to be happy today...

My Queen am glad you accept my friend request and it's nice receive your message as
well,for my lovely son,he's name is Richard...and is 14 going to 15 this month and
my daughter she is benny 17y old eas july....conrectly now they are not with me due
to the death of my wife no body to do the wok, So i have to take them to there
grandmother in western part of africa ghana because her mother father is from
africa who came to the state here for schooling also that is how i meant my late
wife, so is in boding school now, but I do receive email from them each day before
they goes for school.

With the Experience you have had so far do you really believe that you can find
your soul mate through online dating? As for me I believe and also have the courage
that I will find the woman whom I which to spend the rest of my life with. I do
believe in soul mates. I have friends that have found theirs and live very happily
with them, and I have decided a while ago that I would never "settle" for anyone
less than my soul mate.

Are you married with kids before?

I am a widower. I lost my late wife 3 years ago on a car accident when coming back
from work We both had 2 wonderful kids together, I love both of my kids with all my
heart:X, both are the only family I have got... I am blessed when I see my kids ,I
do miss them both so much that is why i need someone honest and trust in our
life ..

How many guys have you chatted with online before now?
I am new to online dating, registered some weeks back but I have not logged in
since then, just decided to give it a try and I contacted you..I really do not have
so many clues on how online dating is done.

Do you believe in distance relationship?

Yes I do believe in distance relationship, because I do have the faith I will meet
the woman whom will love and cherish me as I do.

Are you willing to relocate if you find your soul mate?

To me it depends on my soul mate; if she willingly wants me relocate to her house
of living its ok with me, but if she wants to relocate to my house its ok with me
also, or if she wants us both to relocate to a new location, that again will be ok
with me.

How has your present marital life affected you so far?

Being lonely has really affected me a lot because as humans we all need someeone to
lean on in hard times and someone to talk to and share those cheerful moments
with... And my kids also has not been happy because they also need someone to love
and call a mother. I need a woman who would accept me and my kids and make us happy
and I will be so happy if she gives me the chance to do the same for her as I will
love her and lay a good foundation for her kid(s) if any

What are your hobbies ?

I enjoy swimming, traveling ,reading, walking on the beach, playing golf ,fishing
and seeing good comedies with my kids.

What is your favorite color and what it stand for ??

My favorite colors are both white and red, because the white stands for a pure
heart and the red stands for love, so when you add the both of them together you
have a pure hearted love, that is me because I do have a pure heart for love.

So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters you have?
What about your parents? Unfortunately am orphan ,my both parents are dead and I am
the only kid my parents gave birth to and my Son to me his my Father while my
daughter is my Mother ..

Do you seek for a particular age before coming into online? How old are you?
I do not seek for a particular age, because I feel age is numbers, you do not know
where love can hit you up from. It can be someone younger than you or perhaps older
than you. I'm 52 October 1st

How often do you like to go out? I mean going partying?

I do not go out often that much ever since I lost my late wife, because going out
alone seems not enjoyable to me, so the few time that I go out must be with my kids
and I will be looking forward to go out with that special lady someday wish happens
to be you my sweetheart ..

What inspires you in life?

God

Do you believe in true love?

Yes

How many relationships have you been into before you came into online dating?
I had three (3) deep relationships in my life; The first I had was when I was still
a teenager with a girl named Amber, we were both attending the same school she was
from Chicago united states, then we used to see each other everyday helping each
other with our assignment, unfortunately our final exam at high school, she told me
that her parents will be living the country for Canada and she was going with them
also, I felt like wooh!!!, that means that you are going to live me, she said she
does not know what to do, so they left I was really unhappy during that period. The
second was with my late wife and was my longest..After her death I stayed alone
were I had a very special lady Named Ana; she was from canada, I thought I was
gonna get married to her. We stayed 3 months together and I later found that she
was lieing and has cheating on me, so I had to brake up with her and it hurts so
much and so bad but I guess she doesn't deserve me or perhaps we are not made to be
Since then I have been single and I decided to come into online dating and find my
soul mate

Do you know what went wrong in your past relationship?

Cheating and lies made my last relationship ended. I am a very compressive person,
when there is something wrong with my relationship, I don�t fight, and be
hysterical, I like to talk. A better conversation is always the best solution for
everything. But of course with every experience you learn more how to deal, and
always there is something new to you discover.
What are your goals or dreams in life?
My goals and dreams in life are to be with the woman of my life whom I will call my
wife, who I will love and we will both live together and have a loving family
forever and till death do us ..

Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?

I had never smoked in my life neither used drugs, and never pretend too, its not
for me. If I drink alcohol, Well I drink socially, if I go out, i drink drinking
something light its okay with me ..

Do you like sports? And what are your favorite sports?

I have a passion for sports and my favorite sport is Golf

Do you have any favorite sport team you support in particular?

Manchester United football club that�s my team, I love their pattern of playing
when I am in town I love travelling going to watch their match together with my
kids

How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself down?

I do feel unhappy for that moment; go to quite place and listening to a cool music
that will calm me down.

What turns you off?

Anything fake, lies, deceit, cheating, quarreling and argument turns me off.

What is your favorite word?

Smiles!!!

If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?
I would change how I tend to dwell on the past...it's really dragging me down
lately.

What's the best dream you've ever had?

After my wife died in some years ago I dreamed he was alive sitting in my living
room playing with my son David and he looked up at me and smiled and said she loved
me.

So tell me what is your favorite food?

My favorite food is Mexican food .Fried Chicken with stewed,Fish,Vegetable and Rice
..

What�s your favorite drink?

My favorite drinks Red Wines, but I prefer Champagne more likely

What motivates you?

I'm motivated by life itself, because life is what you made it.

What attracts you to a man?

Trustfulness and respect. It really makes me get closer to a lady is the person
inside, I do considers that more important because beauty fades with time but the
person inside appreciates with time.
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I go for the inner beauty, it radiates and it speaks for itself over time and for
women like you who are family oriented is an added advantage to me.

What are your likes and dislikes?

I like real things; I like honesty, truthful, caring ,supportive and obedient
person I dislikes dramas, cheating, lies, disrespect and racist..I want someone
that will love me for me, regardless of age, distance, language barrier, cultural
differences and all that. Because I do believe love knows no barriers and is the
conqueror of it all and all things.

So what do you expect from me?

I want you to treat me right, be truthful and honest with me, because I do believe
in the gospel truth and that is I want a long term relationship with someone
real.......I am in search of true love and happiness with the right lady. I desire
to shower the real lady with lots of love, respect, loyalty, supportive , happiness
and care.

Are you a left or right handed person?

I am a right handed person

Do you have any tattoos and body piercings?

I don't have any tatoo, but I do have my left ear pieced and some times I do wear
earings...lol

Can you drive a vehicle? Do you have a car?

I have 2 cars that I drive when I am back in town..But love to get a new one for
myself and the lady who happens to be the apple of my eyes and that I believe I
will accomplish very soon.

Who is your mentor?

My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice, caring and understanding dad, who loves
and take good care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a self
discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones, but I
do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was really the best dad in
the world. he always tells me that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown, so
for you to be successful in life you have to face some challenges.

what are some of the places you have visited?

have been out of the States several times on different occasion, maybe on a work
trip, or vacation trip. My work has took me to places like, Italy, Spain, Malaysia,
England etc.. while on vacation trip I and my daughter and my son have been to,
Ajax of Netherlands, Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia, Greece, Bermuda, Paris of
France, Rio De Janeiro of Brazil, and Dubai, and I would love my next vacation trip
to be with that special someone.

What is your biggest fear?

My biggest fear is loosing anyone and I don�t want to loose anyone close to me
again.

What has been the best decision you've ever made?

Sending my dear kids away for education abroad has been my best decision! I never
thought I would be able to cope but I realized their study comes first

Describe the perfect vacation you have had?

Flying to Paris, then taking a train through France, Switzerland, Italy,
Yugoslavia, and Greece. Then spending 1 month on a Greek Island together with my
kids.. I had the time of my life and these are my fondest memories. I will do it
again with you honey ..

What 3 physical features do you get compliments on most?

My Eyes, Smiles, skin/complexion, and sometimes my voice too. People like it for
some reason.
What languages can you speak?
Which would you like to learn? I speak English fluently and understand little
Italian, hoping to learn more Italian and spanish if I do have the chance to.

What are the five most important things in your life?

God, Family, health, Living to help others without asking for anything in return.
Finally living long enough to tell you that I think you are great. Remember this. I
live to help and if you ever need my help, it's there for the asking Good luck and
much wisdom.

What do you spend most of your money on?

Investing on business, going shopping and spending vacation abroad with my kids ..

What would you cook for a date at home?

Smiles!!! That is going to be a secrete because I will be making her favorite
meal...Even if I do not know how to, before then I must get instructions from good
quality chefs and also read cooking books, to meet up to perfection the day I will
cook the meal.

What are your favorite movies?

The Avengers, patriot, Romeo and Juliet, Pearl Harbor, Fly Boys, Titanic, Superman
so many of them but this few I have just listed are my top list.

What are your favorite TV Shows?

Merlin, Smallville, One Trill Hill, Everybody Hates Chris, Ellen De Generes, Oprah,
TSCC, Heroes, Jerry Springer, Keeping up with the Kadershians�etc.

What brand of music do you like?

I love blues, 80s, 90s, Rnb, Jazz, Hip Hop, Gospel Jams, RocknRoll.

Do you have a favorite mucisian in particular?

hmmm, Phil Collins is a nice who inspires me in terms of music for that he is my
number one mucisian

What about your favorite music band?

Mine is ABBA

Do you think you can be trusted by your man?

Yes I can be trusted, because I am ready to open up my mind and my heart and also
lay down my life for the woman I love.

What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help
you succeed in future relationships?
Love, Trust, Understanding.

So tell me when travelling do you travel alone or you like travelling with a
Companion?
I love travelling with my kids because they are my family that I have now

Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle?
Yes I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love your
partner very much.

On a serious note; have you ever thought of leaving your country in search of the
man you want to be with in the future?
Yes that is why I am here on online dating so that I can find a woman from another
country I learn from her culture and also she learns from my culture.

How do you normally spend your leisure time?

Listening to music, Cuddling up reading a magazine or watching TV, Cooking.

How much do you enjoy walking in the park?

I enjoy it a lot; feel the fresh air of the nature, viewing the beautiful green
trees.

If you are at a loose end what are some of the following things you do?
I will have hope and never to give up.

What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their
relationships?
Not trusting, understanding and trying to find time and share things with each
others.

If you could wake up tomorrow with any superpower, what would it be?
Hmm, that would be the power of clark kent also known as superman, I wanna be the
one to save the day.

Describe some of the most important things in your life?

My kids happiness and me having a complete family is the most important thing I
pray for in my life.

Do You like to re-marry again?

I can remarry again when she love me and love my kids so much that she care about
the family been together as one big family with so much

If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your
mistakes?
I will admit my self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because I am a
God fearing man, and I do abide to the truth.

If you see somebody you don't know who needs help, would you be of any support?
Yes I would help in anyway, because God in heaven says it is good to help those
that are in need, and he loves a cheerful giver.

In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money
than the man?
A good relationship where two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for
each other and they respect one another, I don�t think that there will be problem
about that, to me is no problem as far as they both love their selves.

Are you financially stable?

Yes of course I am financially stable, I do receive a high income there is no need
for me to be afraid of any financial situation.

What is Your best Moment?

My best moment was the day I went to the hospital when my wife was giving birth and
I heard the voice of my son crying and then I knew I'm a father with so much joy in
my heart.

Your worse moment in life? Was when my late wife had an accident and rushed to the
hospital and before getting there to meet her she was dead..And since then I have
made my promise to take good care of Angelina and to put smile on her face.

Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner?
Yes..Holding her close and make her feel the warmth of my body while kissing her.

What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help
you succeed in future relationships?
Love, trust, understanding..

Have you ever thought of leaving your country in search of the man you want to be
with in the future? Yeah and that was why I came into online dating..I am glad I
have met a real lady I am talking with and I hope that can fall out to be the type
of lady I am searching for.

What's Your Favorite Sexual Fantasy? I love to have sex out in the rain on a hot
summer day so the rain can cool our hot sweaty bodies, or in a beach....or to have
sex in an elevator, or in the stairs of a very high building....like in the movie 9
1/2 weeks of love something like this. ( with Mickey Rourke, kim Basinger.

What is your favorite Positiong in Sex?

Have you talked about your feelings with someone else? Yes and you are the only
person whom I am sharing my feelings with.

How big is your extended family? What are the holidays like for you and your
family?:
As far as family, I have my parents, one older brother who is married and has an 11
year old son. We rotate among our homes as to where we celebrate holidays. There is
always food, talk, laughter, and often, playing
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When do you feel most afraid?:

I feel most afraid when my physical safety is threatened - ie: hiking in the
wilderness and fearing a grizzly bear might attack, etc.
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Why did you join eHarmony?:

I am hoping to meet someone with whom I want to share the rest of my life - the
good times and the bad times.
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Does life look good to you right now? Describe your current emotional health.:
Life looks very good to me right now. I have been blessed with a good job, good
health, and a great church. All that is missing is someone to share my life with.
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Describe your spirituality.:

I have been a Christian since age 10, growing up on a Southern catholic church. I
have tried to live as the Lord wants me to live, but certainly have lots of room to
grow, especially in my prayer and bible reading. My relationship with the Lord
could be a lot closer, but most people that know me would consider me as
"religious" and know that I have pretty conservative values.
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How would you describe your childhood relationship with your mother and/or father?:
Growing up, I was a very compliant child. I am a firstborn, so my parents were
pretty strict. However, I always respected my parents, doing as they asked, not
talking back or arguing. I was a pretty quiet and sensitive child. I was and
continue to be very close to my mother. Both of my parents are remarried. I have an
ok relationship with my father and my stepfather. I'm close to them in different
ways, but not nearly as close as to my mother
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Besides love, what one trait have you noticed in couples that have maintained a
successful relationship for many years?:
Communication is very much apart of it but also acceptance of each others faults
and looking beyond them with much love.
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Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could share
with you.:
The sharing of the love of Jesus Christ with others and love of music.
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If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?:
That had more confidence in myself, although I've always accomplished any thing
I've set my mind to do.
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If you could accomplish only one thing during the rest of your life, what would it
be?:
I think it is important to be satisfied with the life that you have and make the
most of it. So the accomplishment would be appreciating each and every day as a
gift.
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Looking back at your life, describe one particular event that you wish you had
handled differently.:
Generally I find that although we all like to be Monday morning quarterbacks in
reality if we had a chance to turn back the clock for the most part we would make
the same decisions. Every decision whether good or bad brings us to the place we
are today.
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Does life look good to you right now? Describe your current emotional health.
As I look around there are so many people with incredibly difficult burdens to bear
I feel thankful for what I have and who I am.
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What interest you the most?:

LIFE, AND BEING ABLE TO HELP OTHERS OUT N O MATTER WHAT THE NEED,TO BE THERE WITH A
HELPING HAND. REPROOF THEIR HOUSE, WORK ON THERE CAR , OR JUST TO HELP FOLD
LAUNDRY. BUT MY HOBBIES ARE ANYTHING OUTDOORS.
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What are you looking for in a relationship partner?

BEING HONEST,OPEN,CARING,FAITHFUL, EASY GOING WITH A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR..ALSO
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HAND.WELL IT TAKES MORE THAN LOVE IN A RELATIONSHIP!.
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Describe some personal habits that are important to you.:

PERSONAL HYGIENE, PICKING UP AFTER MYSELF. DRESSING FOR THE OCCASION.
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When do you feel most afraid?:

I am most afraid when things are beyond my control and I can do nothing to stop
something from happening. I am a nurse. When things are going bad, I cannot stop
it, or when it may involve me or a loved one, I can become fearful of the "what
if's".
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CHATTING TIPS

Are you a jealous person?

My favorite food is spicy cajun food, chinese, seafood.

1.whats your Favorite Color?
my is Black or White?
why did you prefer those colors?
I prefer those colors because I love nature and both of the things of nature
consist of these 2 colors
a true partner are like siblings God forgot to give us

what about your favorite food?

2. Describe your spirituality? What is your religion

I�m Roman Catholic.
I�m a fifth-generation massgoing Roman Catholic.
I attend Catholic mass and help/hang out in my parish but I practise
EHarmonyBlogism, which is a mixture of Liberal Protestantism, Humanism and
Catholicism.
and my spirituality is deeply rooted in the Bible.
3. Describe your ideal man/woman.
I'm looking for a long and lasting relationship with someone who is very
caring, honest, and most of all understanding. A woman who has a smile for me if I
am feeling a little down, A woman who has a sense of self, and does not let small
imperfections rule their lives, A woman who has a love of kids, A woman who has the
same respect for me that I have for her, A woman who is passionate and most of all
Someone who makes you comfortable and at ease with yourself in all aspects of who
you are and accepts it..... and still allows you to be you....
Someone that loves to Laugh, Someone that doesn't have a bad temper, Someone
that can sit and hold hands if there comes a disagreement, A woman that can cuddle
all night. Someone who will let me know their feelings.. Someone who loves God more
than life, Then loves me right after that, Someone who puts others above
themselves, Someone who can communicate to the very depths of their core, Someone
who can be sill and fun and serious and strong, Someone who can lead me in our
spiritual walk and whom I can also spur on

4. What is the most important thing you�ve learned from a past relationship?
I have learnt that you have to accept people for who they are and you can't
change them. If you find out some behavior is bothering you..You need be honest and
let them know that their behavior is bothering you. Otherwise, the problem usually
doesn't get better it normally gets worst. However, if they choose not to make any
adjustments in their behavior you can either accept it or you leave them alone. I
live by the golden rule. I treat people the way I would like them to treat me. If
they don't treat me well I say to myself that is their issue not mine.I am not
going change who I am because someone didn't treat me fairly. I will never blame
other people for something that someone else did to me
One of the most important thing I have understand about life is to Learn from
your mistakes and move on
i've learned to take time to think and not just react.
never take for granted the next day..be happy...love God..love each one that
comes to your life..and hope that tomorrow you will have the opportunity to be
happy.. and healthy

5. What is the one thing you DO NOT tolerate in a relationship?

For me Secretiveness.. I live my life fairly openly. Lying and cheating, for
these two things destroy a relationship juts like a fire burn a wood faster
How about taking a blanket and lying outside looking at the stars, sharing
dreams and snugglign closely

6. What's the nature of your Job?

so tell me about your kid(s) Do you like kids?
For me i have a daughter, her name is Sandra and she means the world to me,
but she don't live with me due to the nature of my job
She live with her maternal grandmother in Africa. Her late mother is an
African-American woman

7. What is the most romantic place that you've been on a date?

A great date for me is a day of nature, walking outdoors, sitting by a lake,
talking and learning about each other, a picnic for lunch, a meal cooked together
for dinner, eaten over candlelight, and just relaxing away from the world so that
no one can invade the experience.
THINGS THAT I AM PASSIONATE ABOUT
about freedom, about the look in a child's eye as he tells his parents the
funfair is in town, about rights, of everyone, young or old, black or white, about
right and wrong, about politics, about religion, about gods, and goddesses, about
the future, the past and the present unfolding. About the lady I was holding and
the lady I will hold tomorrow. About memories, about love and about pain.
I am passionate about life and plan to use it, to the fullest.
Favorite Hobbies
Some things I like to do.... I love to be near the water, and the outdoors,
whether it be the ocean, a lake, or even the river, the peacefulness of watching
the ripples, the crashing waves, or even the complete stillness entrances me. Fall
is my favorite season with all of the beautiful colors of leaves and the crisp
fresh air. I also enjoy spring when God brings all of the dead back to life. I
love to go to new places and do new things too, although I haven't got to do that
as much as I would like

8. What is your favorite ice cream flavor and why?

9. What do you think are the three best traits you have to offer a partner?
Complete honesty and loyalty, caring and attentive, and conflict resolution.
Life is to short to spend being angry at the one you love.

10. How do you act when you're angry?

When i am angry, I get frustrated a LOT but not angry. I tend to hold it in for
awhile until I can process it and am not explosive. I do not yell and scream.
When I get angry I become quiet. Somewhat withdrawn. I go inside myself and ask
did I cause this? If so how can I remedy this? I ask for a little space to find the
answers. Then I go back to the person and ask if we can talk and find a common
ground

11. Where did you get that fantastic smile?

What do you like to do in your free time?
Dining Out Entertaining
Beach Parks
Karaoke/Sing-along Symphony
Intimate Conversations Investing
Listening to/Playing Music
Traveling/Weekend Trips/Adventure Travel

What types of food do you enjoy?

Barbecue
Seafood
Fast Food/Pizza

American
What are your favorite types of music?
I like Classical, Country, Easy Listening, R&B, Blues Latin World Music, Gospel
music
What do you like to read?
I like reading all kinda book especially poetry
What are your favorite physical activities?
I like Basketball, Running, soccer, Tennis, and most of all I like Jogging and
physical exercises
Basketball Jogging/Running
Biking
Football - American Soccer
Tennis

Q: What do you value the most?

Honor
Power
Material things
Prestige

12. If I were gonna take you out for a romantic evening, where would you prefer?
Oh, I would prefer to go to a nice restaurant, have a nice dinner, and talk for
a long, long time and look at each other's eyes and see what we can find in there.
Tell each otherwhat we think and what we feel in our hearts

13. What is your favorite thing to do with a partner for fun?

14. If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?

15. How long have you played guitar?(Ask about something in their profile.)
 (Compliment something in their photograph.)

16. When are we going to meet to find out whether we would ever want to kiss each
other?
Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could
share with you.
I love books and movies, I am a writer and I have been to film school. Even if
we don't share the same taste in books and movies, I would hope that we are both
passionate about them.
If you could do something totally out of character and remain anonymous what
would you do?

17. What would you do on the first day you gonna see me?
Tonight you can do anything you want, no penalties, no reprisals, and the cost
is unimportant. What are you going to do?

18. How would you spend a romantic evening with someone you have been dating for
more than one year?
If I were dating someone for more than one year, a romantic evening will be
whitewater rafting while singing karaoke.

19. What do you most like to do on a day off?

20. What do you find physically attractive?

21. If you were taken by your date to a party where you knew no one,
how would you respond?

22. What is your greaatest fear about Someone you love and is not close to you?
I don't have that fear... I know if someone loves you will be right next to
you, not necessarily in person, you can still feel their support, company with
details, communication etc. If that person is not responding and shows more absence
and silence, no communcation... that person is not for you. You better let go and
move on... I flip the page and start a new chapter.

23. If you had three wishes, what would they be?

24. Does being in love inspire you to want to be a better person?

25. Can you love and be in love with someone you don't find physically attractive?

26. Do you have someone that you just can't stop thinking about throughout your
days? Always on your mind no matter what you do?and who is that person

27. When was the last time someone held you tight and told you, "Everything is
going to be all right"? Who was it and why?

28. How far are you willing to go to prove your love?

29. If you felt like you were falling in love with someone, would you tell them, or
would you hold back your feelings for fear of rejection?

30. If you could do something totally out of character and remain anonymous what
would you do?
Leave work for a month to go travel.

31. What is your opinion of committed long distance relationships?

Long distance relationship are difficult, but though they can work if two
people involve really care and love each other.

32. Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could
share with you?
I love books and movies, I am a writer and I have been to film school. Even if
we don't share the same taste in books and movies, I would hope that we are both
passionate about them.

33. What have you learned from past relationships?

I have come to know myself better as a man of God living in an unGodly world. I
believe the word of God to be true. We must be equally yoked. Oil and water will
never mix. She must know who I am to her. If this is clear...both parties will be
much more comfortable. The idea is to communicate it to other person. Each heart
must be honest about if we are called together to be best friends, good buddies,
cheerleaders. From my past relationships...I have learned to "listen well, respect
each other and open communication

34. What made you smile today?

Today I listen to my favorite CD with me and listened to upbeat music all the
way to work. It was a great way to start the day. It was a little difficult to
dance in the Cabin, but I managed!

35. Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could
share with you.:
It would have to be travel. I really enjoy immersing myself in different
cultures/environments. I am interested in how other people live, think, relax and
work. I find it fascinating to spend time with people who are different from me.
That covers foreign travel, but I also like getting away on the weekends to
different cities/states, really for the same reasons. A trip to San Francisco is
very different from a trip to Montana.

36. If you could accomplish only one thing during the rest of your life, what would
it be?

37. If you had three wishes, what would they be?

the basics: my child growing up in good health and happiness, my loved ones
being healthy and happy.... and sunshine in peoples hearts every day
Wow, three wishes... 1. Retire with ample financial resources 2. Travel the
world! -with someone special :) 3. Take up vocal or music lessions
1) To have someone with whom to share my life. 2) To be able to live close to
my family (they live far away). 3) To be as young as I feel.
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39. What is your all time favorite TV show? Mork and Mindy, Wonderyears, CSI, My so
Called Life, Sex and The City?
This one is kind of hard because I don't watch a lot of tv, but I did love a
show when I was growing up called "Here Come the Brides". Do you remember that one?
It took place in Seattle long ago. There was a town with a majority men population
who were all lumber jacks. So since they needed women in their lives, a bunch of
ladies from the East Coast were brought there to the wild west to live. The
majority of the shows were about how these lumberjacks and these ladies got along.
With today's standards, it would probably be viewed as very sexist and that's
probably why we don't see them as reruns anywhere. But I liked it because the 3
main lumberjack characters were cute, and one of them was Bobby Sherman!!!!! (the
heart throb of that time)

40. How often do you go out during the week and what sort of things do you like to
do? Dinners? Movies? Drinks? Something else all together? Do you normally go out
large groups or with just a few friends?
 I rarely go out during the week. Normally, I will go out on the weekends but it
really depends on my work schedule.ie paper work thats need to be done.etc We
sometimes have study groups on the weekends if we have midterms or finals. If I go
out with friends it would be just a few close friends. I am picky about eating out
and only really enjoy one place in Tampa. I cook organic or natural foods. I don't
like canned or frozen foods.

Do you believe that dreams can be messages from a �higher level??

Would you rather have a great friend you could share everything with or a great
lover you can�t really talk to?

Would you ever start a relationship with someone who was still living with an ex
for financial reasons?
Would you date someone significantly (9 years or over) older than you?
Generally, in life, what makes you happy?

1. Which is your favourite colour: Red, Black, Blue, Green or Yellow?

2. Your first initial?
3. Your month of birth?
4. Which colour do you like more, Black or White?
5. The name of a person - non-family member - that is the same sex as you?
6. Your favourite number?
7. Do you like California or Florida more?
8. Do you like a lake or the ocean more?
9. Write down a wish (a realistic one)
When you are done, scroll down. Don't cheat!

Do you like kissing in public?

When is your birthday?

my is march 10

Do you have any pet?

whats the name of your pet and how old is your pet?

What would you like me to call you as, other than your name?
Did you grow up here?

We are all human, do you judge someone for a past indiscretion?

What looks sexy on a woman or a man?
Would you rather have your dream job or your soul mate for the rest of your
life?
Do you consider yourself sexually open minded?
Should your mate also become your best friend?
Have you ever had a true one-night stand?

What would you cook if you were having friends or family over for dinner?

What music do you listen to the most?

Ever been in true love?
Do you like to read?
If so...favorite book(s)?
How often do you really "go out"?
Have you ever lost anyone you loved?
What is your zodiac sign?
Have any nick names?
If so, what?
Name a couple of T.V. shows you watch a lot?
 Name a movie or movies you can watch over and over?
Do you have tattoos?
What turns you off?
What is your favorite curse word?

Do you like to travel and where have you been?

What place would you like to visit that you haven't been to yet?

What sound or noise do you love?

If Heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say when you arrive at the
Pearly Gates?

Tell me three words your friends would use to describe you.

Who do you live with?

What do you do for school

Which do you prefer giving or receiving?

Do you play any instruments?

About Me

82 Interesting Questions To Ask A Girl

Posted on July 25, 2012 by amber lewis

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So I totally stole this from a website and changed it to be for a girl because the
girl questions were lame. Anyway, here we go.

1. What did you think of me when you first saw me?

Um, I can�t see you because this is online. :/

2. How would you describe your version of a perfect home?

A house on a nice beach with beautiful water. I think it would be amazing to have a
little waterfall into a pool which then ran out to the ocean in a small stream. I�d
love a jacuzzi. I would like my house to have windows and plants. Maybe a courtyard
with some plants like a little jungle. I would want a kitchen with a wooden table
and wooden chairs. I like the pine look. I would like a kitchen with marble floors,
blue tiled counters, and wooden cabinets. A couch in the front room with a TV. A
bedroom with a big bed and curtains that can be pulled around it. I�d like a
bathroom with all the basics and a bathtub that has massaging jets. That would be
amazing. But that�s probably never gonna happen. :P

3. Have you been in love before?

Yes

4. Who was your hottest boyfriend?

This guy in my history class was so hot. His name was Chris. I�ve never been so
forward with a guy before. We started dating after the first month of being in that
class together.

5. What qualities in me attract you most?

That you�re reading my blog?

6. Is there anything you would like change about me?

Don�t know, we haven�t met.

7. What�s your thought on marriage, do you believe in it and do you ever want to be
married?
Marriage is wonderful. It�s a relationship of mutual respect, commitment, and love.
To me love means caring so much for another that you would sacrifice anything for
the other and satisfy any need that they have.

8. Are you open to a live-in relationship?

Um, no. Live-in usually leads to sex and nobody is having sex with me without the
commitment, end of story.

9. Does your boss like you or does he take you for granted?
My boss loves me. :)

10. If you could go on a dream holiday, where would it be?

Hawaii! I would love to go!

11. What is the wildest thing you have ever done?

Streaked in public in my underwear. Yeah, that was a one time thing for me. My
schools does this. It was freeing and exciting. I just felt awkward because people
had cameras?

12. Who is the one person you hate in your family?

I don�t really hate anyone in my family. I think hate is a strong word. People
upset me, but I don�t hold grudges.

13. What is the one most embarrassing thing you have ever done?
Played the penis game in a park. The park was rather empty but it was still
awkward. If you don�t know what I�m talking about then watch 500 Days of Summer.

14. Describe your first date? What did you do, where did you go? Did you love him?
My first date was in jr high and his parents drove us to a park after school. That
was awkward. We walked around the park and talked. Then we went to see a movie. We
watched O Brother, Where Art Thou? and it was hilarious. I definitely recommend
that movie. He put his arm around me during the movie. He was a bit of a gentleman
to me. Yeah, I loved him or I thought I did. We didn�t last obviously. He had
somethings that got in the way of us.

15. If you were lucky enough to win the lottery, what would you do?
I would donate a good portion to charities and my church. Then I would evenly
divide it between friends and family. Whatever little bit was left over I would use
to buy a house. I don�t need all that money and I don�t want to make people angry
so hording it isn�t a good idea. And owning a house would be nice.

16. If you were caught in a fire and had to choose between saving your dog and new
TV, what would you choose?
My dog. It would be horrible to lose a pet for a TV. :(

17. Who do you talk to more when in a problem, your mother or father?
My mom for sure.

18. If you came across a genie who offered to make three of your wishes come true,
what would those wishes be?
I guess they typical rules for a genie are that you can�t make anyone call in love
with you, you can�t wish for more wishes, and you can�t bring anyone back to life.
So with those in consideration? I would wish for everyone to have their needs met
forever. Keyword is need. This would end wars and save many lives. This would
include food, water, energy, clothes and such. I would wish to be able to read
minds at will. And I would wish that I had my dream house on Hawaii. Hehe

19. Do you have any addictions?

People. That sounds awkward. I love people and I could never be away from them for
long so it sounds like an addiction to me.

20. What are your fetishes?

Oh well? I have some that would sure surprise you. BUT! I wouldn�t reveal them
online. :P

21. What do you hate most about yourself?

I hate how weak I am. Not in the physical sense, but I have a hard time motivating
myself and I don�t have the greatest will power.

22. Do you believe that ghosts exist in the real world?

Yep. Although I�d probably want to call them spirits. Do I believe that when people
die they can wander the Earth? Nope.

23. Do you get scared of the dark?

Yeah, it�s freaky when you hear something or you start imagining things in the
dark.

24. c
My mom. She�s an amazing woman.

25. Are you fond of children?

Children are great. They remind us of what�s important and they�re also adorable.

26. What was the worst date you have been on?
This guy took me to watch a NASCAR race. I�ve never been so freakin? bored before.
That was the first and last date.

27. Do you believe in God?

Yep. I didn�t a few years ago. Now He is a big part of my life. I may not be the
best example of Him, but I try. I still mess up because I�m human but that�s my
fault and not God�s fault.

28. What do you want to change about yourself?

I�d like to better stand up for myself and to be more outgoing.

29. What is your biggest dream in life?

To run my own a company and have a family with a wonderful wife and kids. I think
I�d like two or three kids.

30. Describe the greatest adventure you have ever been on?
There was this one time I went on a road trip with some college friends. We went up
and down the west coast. It was pretty fun.

31. Name an expensive thing that you bought and now regret buying.
There was a purse I got that was expensive. A week later I hated it. :/

32. Has a guy ever asked you to marry him?

Yes! Ha ha! It was a friend of mine and he was drunk. He wasn�t serious.

33. Do you have any wild fantasies?

Yep, but again? keeping my lips shut.

34. If you had to choose between me and your best friend, who would you choose?
Well, I don�t know you. So I�m going with best friend.
35. What is the one thing you are most ashamed of doing to a friend?
Kissing.

36. Would you go out of your way to help a friend?

Yep, I�ve helped out many of friends who needed a hand with something.

37. How much money do you hope to make in life?

I don�t know?

38. What�s your favorite sports car?

I don�t know much about cars.

39. Do you lie often?

Nope

40. Who is your favorite actor?

I�ve actually had a bit of a crush on Leonardo DiCaprio for a while.

41. If you could go on a date with your favorite actor, where would you take him?
To the beach at sunset. I know, what a surprise. Ha ha!

42. Do you keep secrets?

Yes, everyone does.

43. What is your favorite childhood memory?

My mom would take me to the park to ride bikes together and get ice cream. Those
were always great times.

44. Would you ever go hunting for sport?

Never been hunting. I don�t think I could kill an animal. I think shooting would be
fun though.

45. What pet would you have if given a chance to keep one?
I think a dolphin would be a lot of fun. Of course it would have to be trained and
I would need a place to keep him. It would be cool to ride the dolphin and hang out
together in the water.

46. Have you ever cheated on someone before?

No, I think cheaters are horrible. I would never be able to live with myself.

47. Which cartoon did you like the most?

Power Puff Girls. Ha ha!

48. How old were you when you had your first crush?
Elementary school. There was this boy in one of my classes that I really liked. His
name was Ethan.

49. Have you ever kissed a girl?

Yeah, once in high school. One of my friends was curious and talked me into it.
I�ve never kissed another girl since and I wouldn�t now.

50. Do you think you are happy with your life?

Yep.

51. If you were stranded on an island, how would you escape?

On a boat somehow. :P

52. Do you believe there are aliens out there?

I don�t see why there can�t be.

53. Do you believe in the concept of life after death?

Yes.

54. Do you still think about your first love?

Not unless someone brings it up.

55. Were you ever drunk at college?

Yes and it was the worst experience ever. Never doing that again.

56. At what age did you start drinking?

21

57. Have you ever tried to steal?

Yep, when I was a little. I grabbed a candy at the checkout line. My mom caught me
and had me take it back to the cashier. It was so embarrassing.

58. What was the wildest dare ever given to you?

I�m not repeating it because it was vulgar and I didn�t do it.

59. How old were you when you went on your first date?
12 years old.

60. Do you ever want to win a Nobel prize of any sort?

Nobel prize of a spot? What does that mean?

61. Describe me.

You�re at a computer reading my blog. Good?

62. How would you describe me to your mother?

You�re one of my readers.

63. What animal is your favorite?

Cats. I love cats but not like the crazy eharmony cat lady.

64. Do you still ever watch cartoons?

Sometimes but not really.

65. Do you pray?

Yep.

66. Do you ever read the bible?

Yes, reading my way through it right now.

67. What was High School like for you?

It was really cool. I had a lot of good friends and had some good memories. Of
course there were bad times as well but in the end they weren�t a big deal.

68. Would you ever consider putting your parents in an old age home?
Yeah, I don�t get why that�s such a terrible thing. I think I would manage there
well when I�m old.

69. Have you ever been arrested?

Nope.

70. Do you shy away from real love?

I love real love so no.
71. What was the strangest punishment your parents ever gave you?
I don�t know? I think they were all pretty standard. I guess no sitting for a
while.

72. Do you like going for parties?

Drinking parties? Not so much anymore. Other parties? Sure.

73. Do you think my friends are hot?

I�ve never met your friends.

74. Are you Eco conscious?

It�s very difficult, but I am when I can be.

75. Are you ever jealous of me?

I don�t know you but if I didn�t I don�t think I would be jealous anyway.

76. Have you ever been jealous of your closest friends?

Yes.

77. Do you like experimenting with new things in life?

This is something I definitely try to do.

78. What super power do you dream of having?

Mind reading. Hands down.

79. Which famous person would you like to be?

Scarlett Johansson. She�s very beautiful yet classy which I love to see in other
women.

80. Do you believe that there is only one love for everyone?
Yes, but I also believe that people can mistake love with other things.

81. Have your friends said good things about me?

Um, they don�t know you.

82. Did you ever have a crush on your best friend�s boyfriends?
Yep