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Controlling Narcissist & Set Boundaries
Controlling Narcissist & Set Boundaries
Setting Healthy Boundaries | Responding to Their Behavior | Finding Help & Support | Video | Expert
Q&A | Tips | Warnings
Someone with narcissistic traits may try to control others using manipulation, threats,
flattery, and similar strategies. If you have someone like this in your life, you might be
thinking that it’d be nice to turn the tables and control this person instead. While it’s not
healthy to try to control another person for any reason, there are strategies you can use to
improve your interactions with someone who behaves in a narcissistic way. In this article,
we’ll show you how to set boundaries, address negative behavior, and get support while
you deal with a narcissistic personality in your life.
Question
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Tips
It can be difficult to be around someone with narcissistic traits since they may
blame, criticize, or use other tactics to chip away at your self-esteem. Work on
building up your self-esteem to make it easier to endure their behavior.[23]
In certain cases, you may need to consider leaving the person for the sake of your
own safety and mental health.
It’s important to remember that not everyone with diagnosed NPD is an abuser or
toxic person—and many people are abusive and manipulative without having
NPD. Rather than worry about the person’s potential NPD diagnosis, focus on
their behavior and your own responses to protect yourself and your mental health.
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Warnings
Trying to control a person with narcissistic traits may not work since they are often
very controlling themselves. Instead, focus on yourself and your reactions, such
as by being more assertive.
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