THE IRON RULES OF TOMASSI

Rule 1 – Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which
you are operating. Always control the frame, but resist giving impression that you are controlling the
frame.

Rule 2 – Never, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve
slept with or explain any details of your sexual experience with them to a current lover

Rule 3 – Women will break rules for Alpha but will make hoops for Beta. Genuine desire is very
important for any kind of relationship.

Rule 4 – Never live with women you are not married to or not planning to get married in the next six
months

Rule 5 – Never allow women to be control of the birth

Rule 6 – Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in a way that a man expects to be loved.
Accurately describes a pervasive nihilism that men must either confront or be driven insane in in
denial for the rest of their lives when they come to terms with the disillusionment

Rule 7 – Moving ahead will have a much higher value than getting back into a broken relationship

Rule 8 – Let the women decide why she wouldn’t fuck you, never do it for her

Rule 9 – Never self-deprecate under any circumstances. This is a kiss of death that you self-initiate
and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as
a complete douche, there is no going back to the confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a
woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own violation, never when they are begged
for – women despite the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity. Even if you don’t
consider yourself pathetic, it never serves your best interest to paint yourself pathetic, it never
serves your best interest to paint yourself as pathetic. Self-depreciation is aa misguide tool for the
AFC and not something that would even occur to an Alpha.