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PAI_Newsletter_July_2020
PAI_Newsletter_July_2020
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New Dates for PASG Conference in Belgium: 22–23 April 2021 pg 4
Emerging Research: Review of UK research and practice in
parental alienation pg 5
The Bothersome Father: Paradox in the land of equality pg 6
My Story of Great Drama pg 7
Book Review of Parental Alienation: Science and Law by
Dr. Demosthenes Lorandos and Dr. William Bernet pg 12
July 2020 T A B L E O F C O N T E N T S Volume 5 • Issue 4
Feature Article
6 The Bothersome Father: Paradox in the land of equality
Paulo Chavarria
Columns
7 My Story of Great Drama
Terje Torgersen
12 Book Review of Parental Alienation: Science and Law by Dr. Demosthenes Lorandos
and Dr. William Bernet
Reviewed by Abe Worenklein
14 Recent Publications
Compiled by Robert Ferrer
Departments
20 Contact Information for PASG Officers and PAI editors
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E D I T O R I A L
An International Affair
By Mandy Matthewson
YET AGAIN THE WORLD has changed considerably since the last PAI. Over 10 million people have
had or have COVID-19; countries are in various states of lockdown in an attempt to slow down the spread
of the pandemic; and there are protests all over the world because tragically some people need to be told
that black lives matter.
I am proud to say that the July PAI is truly an international affair. We have articles and columns from con-
tributors all around the globe.
PASG 2020 in Brussels is now going ahead in 2021. The new dates are announced in this issue of the
PAI. Also, in the July edition, Dr Angela Morgan provides an update on her research. Dr Morgan and her
colleagues were successful recipients of a PASG research grant earlier in the year. Their research will be
an important development in parental alienation research and practice in the UK.
Mary and Chris have another excellent intervention column focused on the best interest of the child and
early intervention for parental alienation. Robert has provided a comprehensive list of new publications.
I hope this time, I’ve managed to get the hyperlinks working.
We have a feature article from film maker, Paulo Chavarria. Paulo has been working hard to create a
documentary on the experience of fathers trying to maintain a relationship with their children after family
separation. Paulo has encounter unexpected barriers to completing his work. He discusses this in his
article.
This brings me to an important announcement: in the July PAI we have the first of a new column dedi-
cated to targeted parents. This column is by and for targeted parents. The aim of the column is to provide
targeted parents with an opportunity to share their experiences of coping with being alienated from their
children. The focus will be on sharing strengths, knowledge, resources and coping strategies. The column
will also be posted on the Resources page of the PASG website. The first story in the targeted parent
column is from Terje Torgersen.
We are seeking an editor for the targeted parent column. The targeted parent column editor will be respon-
sible for sourcing contributions to the column and will work in collaboration with me to edit the column.
Thurs 22 – Fri 23
April 2021
WE’RE PLEASED TO CONFIRM new dates for the PASG prevention-theme conference.
It will be on the same basis as it was before the pandemic postponed it. This is how it looks now:
On these new dates, expect to find the same rich program of speakers – all well-known in their own lands –
with panel and audience discussion. We will look at the scope of prevention, obstacles to prevention,
prevention in practice, and prevention ideas people will take back home.
There will be an additional smaller PASG event after the conference on Sat 24th April.
EVIDENCE SHOWS THAT most professionals working in UK family law have little knowledge on effective
interventions for parental alienation. A review of UK research and practice in parental alienation was there-
fore needed. This research was awarded a grant by the international Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG)
in February 2020. The research is being led by Dr Angela Morgan of the University of Wolverhampton and
founding member of the University’s Violence Against Women and Girls Research Cluster (VAWGRC), which
she has led for 5 years since its inception. The research is being delivered collaboratively with two external
partners, Dr Nahid Ahmad of NA Research Consulting and Marilyn Webster of Prime Resolution. The project
aims are 2-fold:
1) To provide guidance for professionals who make recommendations and decisions regarding child
contact, such as child protection social workers, mental health evaluators, Guardians ad litem and
family court judges; and
The project comprises a literature review and a scoping study of clinical and therapeutic practice. The literature
review covers three main areas of research: 1) legal responses to parental alienation, 2) the role of mediation
in addressing parental alienation, and 3) promising therapeutic interventions which have evidenced effective-
ness. The scoping study will survey relevant organisations in the UK across the statutory, voluntary and private
sectors. Combined, these methods will map (and gap) current UK provision for those experiencing parental
alienation. The findings will be used to produce a catalogue of UK provision for parental alienation.
Findings will contribute to the development of guidance and training for family mediators who are members
of the College of Mediators. The research is expected to be completed by September 2020, at which point
dissemination and impact will be shared both within the UK context and internationally through the PASG.
The desire/wishes of the child: A child who has the ability and development to speak for them-
selves may be asked for their preference. This request can be initiated by any party or the judge on
the case. The focus is placed on a child when parents lack the ability to co-parent and resolve their
conflict. Moreover, the courts offer no motivation to learn to co-parent; in fact, the opposite is true
as the legal system encourages the use of other-than-parent fact finding. When a child is asked
to express their wishes to a court, that child is placed in a no-win position and often a parent will
engage in alienation tactics to influence the child’s wishes and desires.
The mental and physical health of the parents: This factor further equips parents who are
unable to co-parent with the right tools to battle. Allegations of inappropriate adult relations, drug
use, and mental instability provide parents the opportunity to build a case against the other parent
and prove that they are not capable of providing an environment that ensures the “best interests of
the child.” The focus is not on which parent can meet the “best interests of the child,” but rather
on dismissing the value of the other parent which will influence the parent-child relationship.
The developmental needs of the child: This includes the evaluation of any special needs a child
may have and determination of each parent’s ability to care for those needs. An alienating parent
alleges that he/she is the only one who is capable of caring for the child and works to convince the
child of this, as well.
Environmental factors surrounding the parent’s home: The quality of education, the safety of
neighborhoods, and proximity to other extracurricular activities is considered. Alienating parents
make claims that the child is in danger based upon where the other parent lives.
Religious and/or cultural considerations: The religious and moral upbringing of the child is
defined as the right of a parent by the court.
The need for continuation of stable home environment relative to other children in the
home: Certainly, sibling relationships have value as do relationships with grandparents and ex-
tended family members. In alienation cases, extended family members are often either engaged in
alienation tactics or the recipient of alienation tactics.
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Note from R. Ferrer: The following collection of articles are from the April 2020 issue of Family Court Review
(FCR). It is a Special Issue (Volume 58, Number 2) published by the Association of Family and Conciliation
Courts (AFCC) on Parent-Child Contact Problems: Concepts, Controversies & Conundrums. These articles
represent the multidisciplinary focus of the upcoming 57th Annual Conference in New Orleans with its theme
“When a Child Rejects a Parent: Are We Part of the Problem or the Solution?”. Although the Conference was
cancelled because of the pandemic this issue of FCR is a compilation of the work and views of many of the
presenters that were scheduled for the Conference. The papers listed below address conceptual and contextual
issues.
Note from R. Ferrer: The article below can also be found in Demosthenes Lorandos and William Bernet (eds).
Parental Alienation - Science and Law. Charles C. Thomas, Illinois. 2020. p. 365-385.
Note from R. Ferrer: Joan S. Meier has been a vocal opponent regarding the concept of Parental Alienation.
The following co-authored article is consistent with her views in that the authors claim that Parental Alienation
lacks a credible scientific basis. It cannot be reliably diagnosed, and often it is used to stymie allegations of do-
mestic violence and child abuse, putting them at serious risk. In the spirit of open debate this article is included
but it is also accompanied by a series of rebuttals and responses.
Note from R. Ferrer: The following three are short responses from Garber, Lorandos, and Robb. Their
responses, including Bernet, are met with a final rebuttal from the authors. They are in the special issue Family
Court Review under “Responses to Milchman, Geffner, and Meier” (Volume 58, Number 2, April 2020).
Note from R. Ferrer: The following two articles are written by our very own Editor-in-Chief, Mandy Matthewson,
Ph.D. Mandy is a senior lecturer in psychology at the University of Tasmania (UTAS) and a clinical psychologist
in private practice. She is the lead researcher in the Family and Interpersonal Relationships Research Lab at UTAS.
She is a co-author of the 2020 publication, Understanding and Managing Parental Alienation: A Guide to Assessment
and Intervention.
PASG Archivist
Robert Ferrer
Urbana, Illinois, USA
r-ferrer@illinois.edu
www.pasg.info