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The Psychology

of Interpersonal Relationships

Ellen Berscheid
Department of Psychology
University of Minnesota

Pamela Regan
Department of Psychology
California State University, Los Angeles
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Brief Contents

Preface xiii

Part 1 Relationships: The Web of Life 1


Chapter 1 First Relationships 1
Chapter 2 Relationships and Health 31

Part 2 Relationship Science 63


Chapter 3 The Development of Relationship Science 63
Chapter 4 The Concept of Relationship 95
Chapter 5 Varieties of Relationship 131

Part 3 Relationship Initiation and Development 159


Chapter 6 Birth of a Relationship 159
Chapter 7 Relationship Growth and Maintenance 191

Part 4 Relationship Processes 225


Chapter 8 Cognitive Processes 225
Chapter 9 Affective Processes 259
Chapter 10 Dispositional Influences 293

Part 5 Mating Relationships 322


Chapter 11 Love 322
Chapter 12 Mate Selection and Sex 353

Part 6 Relationships Over Time 391


Chapter 13 Satisfaction and Stability 391
Chapter 14 Intervention and Dissolution 425

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Table of Contents

Preface xiii

Part 1 Relationships: The Web of Life 1


Chapter 1 FIRST RELATIONSHIPS 1
Introduction 1
The Human Infant’s Social Inheritance 3
The Evolutionary Perspective 3
The Need to Belong 5
The Human Infant’s Biological Inheritances Facilitative
of Social Interaction 6
The Attachment Behavioral System 6
Other Innate Social Response Systems 16
Social Interaction and Brain Development 24
Nature vs. Nurture: A False Dichotomy 25
The Infant’s Contributions to Relationship Initiation and Maintenance 27
Implications for Society 28
Summary 30

Chapter 2 RELATIONSHIPS AND HEALTH 31


Introduction 31
Relationships and Mortality 33
Social Networks 36
Social Support 37
The Concept of Social Support 38
Social Support and Stress 45
Adverse Effects of Relationships on Health 52
Physical Aggression and Violence 52
Psychological Aggression 54
Bereavement 56
Relationships and Happiness 58
Loneliness 59
Summary 62

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Part 2 Relationship Science 63
Chapter 3 THE DEVELOPMENT OF RELATIONSHIP SCIENCE 63
Introduction 63
Obstacles to the Study of Relationships 64
Societal Taboos 64
Ethical Considerations 67
Methodological and Analytical Challenges 68
The Multidisciplinary Nature of Relationship Science 84
Disciplines Contributing to Relationship Science 86
Psychology 87
Marital and Family Therapy 89
Communication Studies 90
Sociology 90
Anthropology 91
Economics 91
Cultural Differences in Relationships 92
Summary 94

Chapter 4 THE CONCEPT OF RELATIONSHIP 95


Introduction 95
Interaction: The Essence of a Relationship 96
Amount and Kind of Interaction 96
Lack of Interaction 98
Multiple Views of a Current Relationship 101
Symmetry of Influence 101
The Observational Base of Relationship Science 103
Establishing Interdependence 104
Interaction Patterns 111
The Aim of Relationship Science: Identifying Causal Conditions 113
Sources of Interaction Data 114
Self-Reports 115
Observation 116
Archives and Other Public Records 118
General Theories of Social Interaction 119
Social Learning Theory 119
Homans’s Social Exchange Theory 121
Equity Theories 123
Interdependence Theory 124
Summary 129

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Chapter 5 VARIETIES OF RELATIONSHIP 131
Introduction 131
Family Relationships 131
Changes in the American Family 133
Close Relationships 140
Conceptualizations of Closeness 140
Comparisons of Closeness Measures 143
Intimate Relationships 146
Responsivity 147
Other Common Relationship Descriptors 148
Compatible Relationships 148
Healthy Relationships 149
Dimensions Underlying Relationships 150
Relationship Taxonomies 151
Neglected Types of Close Relationship 153
Friend Relationships 153
Relationships with Nonhumans 154
Summary 158

Part 3 Relationship Initiation and Development 159


Chapter 6 BIRTH OF A RELATIONSHIP 159
Introduction 159
Voluntary and Involuntary Interaction: Closed vs. Open Interaction Fields 159
The Beginning: Attention to Another Person 162
Selective Attention 162
Attention and Attraction 166
Affiliation 169
Voluntary Affiliation and Attraction 169
Other Determinants of Voluntary Affiliation 170
Attraction in First Encounters 175
The Attraction Construct 176
Learning Theory Approaches to Attraction 177
General Principles of Attraction 177
Summary 190

Chapter 7 RELATIONSHIP GROWTH AND MAINTENANCE 191


Introduction 191
Causal Conditions Affecting Relationship Development and Stability 192

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General Theories of Relationship Development 193
The Fundamental Assumption 193
Interdependence Theory 193
The Intersection Model 195
The Cohesiveness Model 196
Romantic Relationship Development 197
Romantic Relationship Development: Theory 197
Romantic Relationship Progression: Research 200
Friendship Development 203
Processes Associated with Relationship Development and Maintenance 206
Self-Disclosure: Altman and Taylor’s Social Penetration Theory 206
Trust 208
Commitment 210
Conflict 219
Environmental Factors Influencing Relationship Growth
and Maintenance 220
Social Environmental Factors 221
Physical Environmental Factors 222
Reasons for the Neglect of Environmental Factors 223
Summary 224

Part 4 Relationship Processes 225


Chapter 8 COGNITIVE PROCESSES 225
Introduction 225
Knowing Another Person 225
Expectancies 226
Consciousness and the Mind’s Activities 228
Social Cognitive Psychology 228
Processing Social Information 230
Automatic/Associative Information Processing 230
The Associative Memory System and Regularities in the Social
Environment 231
Controlled/Rule-Based Information Processing 234
First Impressions 236
Social Categorization 236
Principles of Social Categorization 239
New Models of Cognition 243
Relationship Schemas 244
Interaction Scripts 246

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Memory for Relationship Events 248
Account Narratives 250
Major Theories of Social Cognition: Implications for Relationship
Phenomena 251
Theories of Cognitive Consistency 252
The Attribution Theories 255
Summary 258

Chapter 9 AFFECTIVE PROCESSES 259


Introduction 259
The Social Context of Human Emotion 259
Facial Expressions of Emotion 261
The Universality of Emotional Expression Hypothesis 262
Theories of Basic Emotions 265
Observing Emotion in Social Interaction 266
The Social Interactional View of Facial Expression 267
Physiological Arousal and Emotion 268
The James–Lange Theory 268
Schachter’s Two-Component Theory 269
Physiological Arousal in Social Interaction 275
Cognition and Emotion 276
The Concept of Emotion 278
Affect 279
Preferences 283
Mood 284
Cognitive Theories of Emotion 286
Summary 291

Chapter 10 DISPOSITIONAL INFLUENCES 293


Introduction 293
Maleness and Femaleness 294
Biological Sex 294
Theoretical Explanations for Sex Differences 298
Psychological Gender or Sex-Role Orientation 301
Personality 302
Supertraits 302
Personal Motives 306
Self-Monitoring 310
Locus of Control 311
Sociosexual Orientation 312

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Dispositional Affect 313
Interpersonal Belief Systems 315
Adult Attachment Style 316
Rejection Sensitivity 319
Summary 321

Part 5 Mating Relationships 322


Chapter 11 LOVE 322
Introduction 322
Taxonomies of Love 323
Psychometric Approaches to Love 326
Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love 326
Lee’s Colors of Love Taxonomy 328
The Measurement of Love 329
The Prototype Approach to Love 330
Passionate (Romantic) Love 333
Early Theoretical Discourse on Passionate Love 333
Social Psychological Theories of Passionate Love 337
The Measurement of Passionate Love 339
Research on the Nature of Passionate Love 339
The Biochemistry of Passion 342
Companionate Love 346
The Biochemistry of Affection 347
Problematic Aspects of Love 348
Unrequited Passionate Love 348
Obsession 349
Mismatched Love Styles 351
Summary 352

Chapter 12 MATE SELECTION AND SEX 353


Introduction 353
Theoretical Approaches to Mating Relationships 354
Social Context Theories 354
Evolutionary Theories 355
Mate Preferences 357
Self-Perception and Compromise 361
Mate Attraction and Courtship 362
Communicating Romantic Attraction in Initial Encounters 363
The First Date 364
Beyond the First Date 364

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Mate Selection 365
Monogamy 367
Divorce 368
Relational Sex 369
Sexual Attitudes 370
Beliefs About the Role of Sex in Dating Relationships 370
Beliefs About the Role of Sex In Marital Relationships 372
Sexual Attraction 373
Sex Appeal 374
Sexual History 375
Sexuality in Beginning Relationships 376
The First Sexual Encounter 376
Sexual Influence 378
Sexuality in Established Relationships 378
Sexual Frequency and Its Decline Over Time 378
Sexual Satisfaction 380
Sexual Communication 381
Problematic Aspects of Relational Sex 382
Sexual Disinterest 382
Sexual Aggression 383
Sexual Infidelity 384
Sexual Jealousy 387
Summary 390

Part 6 Relationships Over Time 391


Chapter 13 SATISFACTION AND STABILITY 391
Introduction 391
Measuring Relationship Satisfaction and Stability 392
Marital Stability 393
Marital Satisfaction 393
Problems in Identifying Determinants of Satisfaction 395
Marital Satisfaction Over Time 398
Cross-Sectional Studies of Satisfaction 399
Longitudinal Studies of Satisfaction and Stability 399
Factors Associated with Satisfaction 404
Person Conditions 404
Environmental Conditions 408
Relational Characteristics 415

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The Contribution of Satisfaction to Stability 422
Dissatisfied Stable Marriages 423
Summary 424

Chapter 14 INTERVENTION AND DISSOLUTION 425


Introduction 425
Happy and Unhappy Marriages 426
Happy Marriages 427
Unhappy Marriages 428
The Clinical Research Approach to Distressed Relationships 430
Growth of the Field of Relationship Therapy 430
The Research Paradigm 432
Communication Patterns of Distressed Couples 434
Limitations of the Observational Research Paradigm 438
Therapeutic Interventions for Distressed Relationships 440
Contraindications for Therapy 440
Therapeutic Approaches 441
Intervention Effectiveness 445
Preventive Intervention 447
Paths to Divorce and Separation 448
Bereavement 450
Summary 454

Glossary 455

References 471

Credits 531

Index 533

Name Index 545

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Preface

Just a little over two decades ago, at a conference cessfully overcome many of its conceptual and
addressed to interpersonal relationship phe- methodological obstacles and currently is draw-
nomena, our host related to some of us that he ing on and contributing to virtually all areas of
had submitted a course proposal to the dean of psychology—including clinical, counseling, ed-
his college suggesting that the psychology de- ucational, industrial and organizational, devel-
partment offer a relationships course. His pro- opmental, and social and personality psychology,
posal was summarily rejected. At that time, his as well as behavior genetics, cognitive and af-
dean was not the only one who viewed the study fective neuroscience, and psychoimmunology,
of interpersonal relationships as fragmented em- to name just a few.
pirically, immature conceptually, uncohesive the- As a consequence, increasing numbers of
oretically, and lacking in the methodological rigor upper-division undergraduate and graduate stu-
that characterized established lines of inquiry. dents in psychology and many of the other social,
Many, both inside and outside of psychology, be- behavioral, biological, and health sciences are
lieved the relationship field to have the poten- seeking a brief but comprehensive introduction
tial to yield only an inchoate collection of to the field that will inform their own specialized
“interesting” findings and “how to” advice to pursuits within psychology and other disciplines.
college students about their romantic relation- This textbook is intended to provide an inte-
ships. Even within social psychology, the study grated and organized foundation for such stu-
of interpersonal relationships was regarded as dents. It emphasizes the relationship field’s
teetering dangerously on the brink of the outer intellectual themes, roots, and milestones; dis-
edge of “soft psychology.” cusses its key constructs and their conceptual-
Today, no major research university can af- izations; describes its methodologies and classic
ford not to have a relationship course in its psy- studies; and, most important, presents the theo-
chology curriculum. Scholars in virtually all of ries that have guided relationship scholars and
the traditional areas of psychological inquiry produced the field’s major research themes. This
have come to recognize that human behavior text is intended to reflect the fact that relation-
and development take place in the context of re- ship science has proved to be an intellectually
lationships with other people, and thus, in order cohesive and cumulative endeavor, one with vast
to accomplish psychology’s aim of understand- potential to advance progress in most areas of
ing and predicting human behavior, it is neces- psychological inquiry as well as many other
sary to incorporate the relationship context into disciplines.
psychological theory and research. “Contextu- Although relationship science is multidisci-
alism” is in ascendance in psychology, and no plinary, this text is titled The Psychology of Inter-
context is more omnipresent and omnipotent personal Relationships for a number of reasons:
than the relationships in which people are em- Psychology has been and continues to be a major
bedded from the time they are born to the time contributor to the field; psychology is likely to be
they die. The growing recognition of the critical the major beneficiary of the advancement of re-
role that relationships play in human behavior lationship science; the authors are psychologists;
and development is partly due to the fact that and, finally, most relationship courses at present
the relationship field has confronted and suc- are taught within academic departments of

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psychology. It is not difficult to foresee that there ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
will someday be departments of relationship sci-
ence that will bring together scholars from all the A number of people contributed to this endeav-
contributing disciplines, but such developments or. In particular, we thank Melissa Waltman (Uni-
must await a loosening of the financial constraints versity of Minnesota) for her time and careful
that currently afflict higher education. As a mul- attention to detail. We also thank our reviewers,
tidisciplinary field, relationship science covers who generously contributed their expertise:
vast terrain and presents a challenge to instructors Daniel J. Canary, Ph.D.
who generally are themselves interested in only Professor
certain subsets of relationship phenomena. By Arizone State University
providing the student with a broad and compre- Margie Geasler, Ph.D.
hensive foundation in relationship science in the Professor Emerita
course text, we hoped to free instructors (includ- Western Michigan University
ing ourselves) from the necessity of presenting
Jenny Gutbezahl, Ph.D.
this foundation in lecture or through supple-
Professor
mentary readings, thereby affording them the op-
Harvard University Extension School
portunity to emphasize their own disciplines.
Finally, we should note that although this text Benjamin R. Karney, Ph.D.
assumes that the reader has had an introducto- Associate Professor
ry course in psychology, it does not assume a University of Florida
strong background. Many students currently Edgar C. O’Neal, Ph.D.
earning degrees in other disciplines have taken Professor
only an introductory psychology course (some- Tulane University
times in the distant past). Students in relation- Phillip R. Shaver, Ph.D.
ship courses are, we have discovered, nothing if Professor, Department Chair
not eclectic. It is not unusual to have students University of California at Davis
from psychology and sociology alongside those
Jeff Simpson, Ph.D.
from business, nursing, pharmacy, mortuary sci-
Professor
ence, theater, family practice, social work, and
Texas A & M University
anthropology. We have tried to make relation-
ship science accessible to interested and moti- Ann L. Weber, Ph.D.
vated students in these disciplines as well as to Professor of Psychology
upper-division undergraduates and graduate University of North Carolina at Asheville
students in psychology.

xiv PREFACE
PART 1
RELATIONSHIPS: THE WEB OF LIFE

Chapter 1 First Relationships


INTRODUCTION and the shape of our eyes, our mental capabilities
and our physical infirmities, as well as a host of
In the afterword to his play Angels in America, other attributes known to be strongly genetical-
Tony Kushner (1993) wrote: “The smallest indi- ly determined, reflect the mate selection princi-
visible human unit is two people, not one. . . . ples discussed in Chapter 12, “Mate Selection
From such nets of souls societies, the social world, and Sex.” Charles Darwin (Figure 1.1) was the
human life springs” (p. 307). Quite literally, first to urge scientists to identify the laws that
human life springs from human relationships.
Modern reproductive technology not with-
standing, most of us were conceived the old-fash-
ioned way. Thus, all of us owe our very existence
to a relationship that once existed between a man
and a woman. The sexual mating relationship
has been written and sung about more than any
other because it often is accompanied by love,
frequently of the “romantic” variety, which has
captivated philosophers, poets, novelists, and
other artists for centuries—perhaps even
throughout human history, some anthropologists
(Jankowiak & Fischer, 1992) and psychologists
now maintain (Hatfield & Rapson, 1987). This
topic is discussed in Chapter 11, “Love.”
From the perspective of relationship science,
each of us represents a specific manifestation of
the laws of mate selection. The color of our hair FIGURE 1.1 Charles Darwin.

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govern mate selection. In The Origin of Species by serious birth defects. Researchers now suspect
Means of Natural Selection: The Descent of Man, and that these immediate consequences of life in the
Selection in Relation to Sex (1871/1952) he argued: mother’s womb may be just the tip of the ice-
berg. Evidence is accumulating that the effects
No excuse is needed for treating this subject in some of gestational life may not reveal themselves until
detail; for, as the German philosopher Schopen- years later. Conditions in the womb may pro-
hauer remarks, “The final aim of all love intrigues,
gram how the brain, liver, heart, and other or-
be they comic or tragic, is really of more impor-
tance than all other ends in human life. What it all
gans function in midlife (Nathanielsz, 1999). As
turns upon is nothing less than the composition of a consequence, some developmental psycholo-
the next generation. . . . It is not the weal or woe of gists have concluded that the prenatal period
any one individual, but that of the human race to may be the most consequential period of a per-
come, which is here at stake.” (p. 578) son’s life (Thompson & Nelson, 2001).
During the gestational period our dependen-
From the moment of our conception, we be- cy on another person—the degree to which we
come dependent on others for our continued ex- are affected by another’s behavior—is as great
istence. Most directly, we become dependent on as we ever will experience. This is one reason the
our mothers. Because a mother, in turn, is de- mother–child relationship is viewed by many as
pendent on others for support during her preg- the prototype, the very best example, of a close
nancy, we, too, are indirectly dependent on those relationship, as discussed in Chapter 5, “Vari-
others. For example, low birth weight is a pri- eties of Relationship,” and why most people view
mary cause of infant death, and birth weight has maternal love as the prototype of what love really
been shown to be a function of the support our is (Fehr & Russell, 1991). The extreme depen-
mother receives—or fails to receive—from her dency of humans on the mother during gesta-
family, her mate, and others during our gesta- tion is perhaps most vividly reflected in the fact
tion period (Feldman, Dunkel-Schetter, Sand- that if the mother decides to terminate a preg-
man, & Wadhwa, 2000). nancy, the fetus almost surely will die. She may
The human’s gestation period is one of the do so to save her own life or for other reasons,
longest of all species. If a woman dies during some of which vary from culture to culture and
pregnancy—by disease, accident, domestic vio- country to country. For example, females face a
lence, suicide, or other means—it is likely that relatively high risk of dying before birth if their
the baby, too, will die. If she suffers from mal- mother is a citizen of China or India or one of the
nutrition, the infant may be born with a host of many other countries where females are less cul-
physical infirmities. If she drinks alcohol, espe- turally valued than males. Population experts at
cially during the months of gestation when the the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences estimate
brain is rapidly developing, we may be afflicted that almost one-third of girls are missing because
with fetal alcohol syndrome—the cerebral hemi- of gender-based abortions (Beech, 2002).
spheres will be smaller than normal and the cor- A newspaper article, “China’s ‘Dying Rooms’:
tex covered with an abnormal layer of tangled Cries Finally Heard ’Round the World,” illus-
cells and fibers (Blakemore, 1998). If a pregnant trates the plight of many female infants (Hilditch,
woman contracts AIDS, the baby may be born 1995):
afflicted with that disease, and if she ingests co-
Mei-ming has lain this way for 10 days now; tied up
caine or heroin, the baby may be born chemical-
in urine-soaked blankets, scabs of dried mucus
ly addicted and suffer the pain of withdrawal at growing across her eyes, her face shrinking to a
birth or die. If she ingests nicotine, the baby may skull, malnutrition slowly shriveling her 2-year-old
arrive prematurely and may be especially vul- body. The orphanage staff call her room the ’dying
nerable to ear infections and a host of other dis- room,’ and they have abandoned her for the very
eases. If she takes the acne drug Accutane, the same reason her parents abandoned her shortly
baby may be born with a number of even more after she was born. She is a girl.

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When Mei-ming dies four days later, it will be of ming and the thousands, perhaps millions, like
sheer neglect. Afterward, the orphanage will deny her all over the world illustrate. Some infants
she ever existed. She will be just another invisible inherit a relationship web that involves few
victim of the collision between China’s one-child people and is impoverished in quality. For an
policy and its traditional preference for male heirs.
increasing number of infants in the United
She is one of perhaps 15 million female babies who
States and other countries, their social inheri-
have disappeared from China’s demographics since
the one-child policy was introduced in 1979. tance does not include their fathers. As a result,
it also does not include their paternal grand-
parents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. Moreover,
Unlike many other animals that are born
their mother, more than most mothers, is like-
relatively mature and independent, without a
ly to be poverty-stricken. According to the U.S.
mother to care for it, or a father, or someone—
census (1999), families with a female head of
anyone!—to care whether it lives or dies, the
household in the richest country in the world
human infant will not survive. Fortunately, most
had a poverty rate of 30% and comprised the
human infants are born into a ready-made web
majority of poor families. Poverty is associat-
of interpersonal relationships that provide them
ed with substandard housing, homelessness,
with the essentials of life.
inadequate childcare, unsafe neighborhoods,
and poor schools. Impoverished children are at
risk for a wide range of problems, including
THE HUMAN INFANT’S detrimental effects on brain development and
SOCIAL INHERITANCE intelligence, low academic achievement, defi-
cient socioemotional functioning, develop-
Our first life-sustaining relationship web is our mental delays, behavioral problems, and
social inheritance or, as the early psychological physical illnesses (e.g., McLoyd, 1998). Two-
theorist and evolutionist James Mark Baldwin thirds of poor mothers report that they suffered
(e.g., 1897) called it, our “social heredity.” As with severe violence at the hands of their childhood
other kinds of inheritances, some infants are born caretaker, and almost half report that they were
richer than others. Some of us are born into a sexually molested in childhood; in turn, their
large network of socially, economically, and psy- children are more likely to be sexually abused
chologically secure people for whom our birth than other children are (Browne & Bassuk,
was an occasion for celebration and joy. Many of 1997). Thus, whereas some infants inherit a rich
them arranged to be in close proximity when we relationship web, many others inherit one that
drew our first breath. Roused from sleep in the is indifferent or actively hostile to them.
middle of the night or called from work or play,
they abandoned their activities to be present at
our birth, and many celebrate that day with us THE EVOLUTIONARY
each year. Even before we were born, some had PERSPECTIVE
already showered us with gifts and contributed
to our welfare through donations of time, ener- In contrast to the infant’s social inheritance,
gy, money, and other resources to furnish our which ranges from very rich to very poor, almost
nest, to clothe us, to provide toys to amuse us, all humans are born with an exceedingly rich bi-
or even to fund our later education. Before they ological inheritance that helps them make the
ever laid eyes on us, they helped ensure not only most of their social inheritance. Interest in the
that would we survive, but we would survive as evolutionary development of the human’s innate
happily and healthily as possible. predispositions to respond to specific features of
In contrast to those infants born with a silver the social environment has increased in recent
relationship spoon in their mouths, others are years. Evolutionary psychologists and develop-
not so fortunate, as the short, painful life of Mei- mental psychologists are in agreement that

FIRST RELATIONSHIPS 3
human infants are born with sufficient biological duced, and contributed to the biological make-
equipment to almost immediately interact with up of present-day humans, whereas those who
the people they find around them and to do their could not form relationships with others died.
part in developing and sustaining the relation- Such theorists argue that our dependence on
ships they need in order to survive. Often re- other people has been a fundamental fact of the
ferred to as “the social animal,” the human is one human condition since the evolution of Homo
of the most social creatures in the animal sapiens began. Brewer and Caporael (1990) are
kingdom. among those who argue that the small cooper-
Most psychologists believe that the human’s ative group has been the primary survival strat-
social nature was programmed into our biolog- egy characteristic of the species from the
ical makeup over evolutionary time. For any beginning of human time to the present day.
species to survive, its members need, at mini- According to these theorists, social organiza-
mum, to find food, avoid injury, reproduce, and, tion “provided a buffer between early hominids
at least for the higher animals whose young tend and the natural physical environment, includ-
to be born immature, rear the young. Although ing protection from predators, access to food
the exact date is subject to perennial debate, the supplies, and insulation from the elements”
emergence of Homo sapiens is evident in the fos- (p. 240). If the social group constituted the se-
sil record beginning at least 250,000 years ago, lection environment for human evolution at the
which coincides with the time certain primates individual level, then
left the forests of Africa, which were shrinking
in size, for the plains, where food was scarce the species characteristics that we would expect to
and they were easily visible to predators. The be biologically built in would be those associated
brains of these humanlike primates increased with human sociality—propensities toward coop-
dramatically in size in a relatively short period erativeness, group loyalty, adherence to socially
of time, presumably as a result of the strong se- learned norms, and fear of social exclusion.
lection pressures produced by their extremely (pp. 240–241)
harsh environment (see Plutchik, 1980). Not
only were those primates with larger and more Caporael’s (1997) analysis of the probable
powerful brains more likely to survive, so too role in human evolution of such group config-
were those who banded together with others to urations as dyads (two-person groups),
improve their food-finding chances and to de- work/family groups, and larger groups con-
fend against predators. Those early humans cludes that “dyads are the most ancient core
who could not form relationships with their configuration” (p. 284). In addition to such
companions for food and defense purposes and functions as mating and ensuring infant sur-
to mate and rear their young probably didn’t vival, the dyad is important to the infant’s de-
survive to contribute to the genetic heritage of velopment of skills fundamental to all social
present-day humans. As a consequence, it seems interactions (Burgoon, Steen, & Dillman, 1995).
likely that the human’s social nature is “wired” For example, within their early dyadic rela-
into our biological makeup in ways we are only tionships infants mirror their partner’s actions
beginning to understand. and learn to synchronize their behavior with
Consideration of early humans’ survival their partner’s (e.g., taking turns). Mimicry of
challenges has led many theorists to propose our interaction partner ’s postures, facial ex-
that evolutionary psychology should be based pressions, and other behaviors—unconscious-
on the premise that the most important feature ly performed—appears to continue into
of human evolutionary history was—and still adulthood, and it has been shown to facilitate
is—selection for small group living; that is, hu- the smoothness of interactions and to increase
mans who possessed features that facilitated the partners’ liking for each other (Chartrand &
their interactions with others survived, repro- Bargh, 1999).

4 CHAPTER 1
The Need to Belong tress and protest to the end of a relationship,
sometimes even to the end of an unsatisfying re-
Social psychologists Baumeister and Leary (1995) lationship, as discussed in Chapter 9, “Affective
posit that over evolutionary time, the human de- Processes,” and Chapter 14, “Intervention and
veloped a fundamental motivation for interper- Dissolution.”
sonal attachments—a need to belong. They Evidence that interpersonal concerns strong-
theorize that the human’s need to belong is man- ly influence how our minds store and process in-
ifested in a drive to form and maintain at least a formation also supports the thesis that people
minimum number of lasting, positive, and sig- have a need to belong. For example, Gardner,
nificant interpersonal relationships. These theo- Pickett, and Brewer (2000) experimentally
rists believe that in order to fulfill our need to demonstrated that people who were subjected
belong, we must satisfy two criteria: First, we to brief rejection experiences in a simulated com-
must engage in frequent and affectively pleasant puter chat room, as contrasted to those who re-
interactions with at least a few other people; and ceived acceptance, subsequently showed
second, those interactions must take place in the selective memory for social events over individ-
context of a temporally stable and enduring ualist events in a diary they read. Thus, “social
framework of each partner’s concern for the other hunger” appears to influence the mind in the
partner’s welfare. Baumeister and Leary main- same ways as other biological drive states such
tain, “Interactions with a constantly changing se- as those for food, water, and sex—by increasing
quence of partners will be less satisfactory than attention and retention in memory of drive-
repeated interactions with the same person(s), relevant information, as discussed further in
and relatedness without frequent contact will Chapter 8, “Cognitive Processes.” Some psy-
also be unsatisfactory” (p. 497). In sum, these the- chologists have argued that during evolutionary
orists believe that the need to belong can be sat- development, the human mind was shaped to
isfied only by frequent interaction combined with deal with the recurring social problems our an-
persistent caring. cestors faced. One recurring social problem, ac-
A great deal of evidence supports Baumeister cording to Cosmides and Tooby (e.g., 1989), is
and Leary’s thesis. Many studies show that we that some people fail to fulfill their agreements
humans form social relationships easily. People (“I’ll gather firewood tomorrow if you get it
in virtually every society typically belong to today”). Cosmides (1989) hypothesized that the
small, primary groups that involve face-to-face human brain evolved in such a way that we are
interactions. Moreover, social psychologists have able to quickly and accurately detect social
found that people prefer to like rather than to cheaters. As a consequence, it seems that we do
dislike others even when disliking them may sat- much better solving a problem in logic when the
isfy other intrapsychic needs (Newcomb, 1968). solution leads to the identification of a social
In addition, many studies demonstrate that cheater than we do when the identical logical
changes in an individual’s belongingness status problem is framed in a nonsocial way, for exam-
reliably produce emotional responses. Increases ple, as a mathematical puzzle.
in belongingness—such as entry into a desirable In sum, many evolutionary models empha-
group, the beginning of a new friendship, or the size the significance of the human’s social envi-
promise of a new romantic relationship—are ronment over evolutionary time in forming the
often associated with positive affective states such biological features of present-day humans. In
as joy and happiness. Conversely, decreases in their review of the evolutionary psychology lit-
belongingness usually are associated with nega- erature, Buss and Kenrick (1998) assert that
tive affect; for example, rejection by a group or by
one’s friend or lover often produces feelings of evolutionary psychology places social interaction
sadness, depression, anger, or fear. Moreover, and social relationships squarely within the cen-
people universally appear to respond with dis- ter of the action. In particular, social interactions

FIRST RELATIONSHIPS 5
and relationships surrounding mating, kinship, for it is presumably in response to the demands
reciprocal alliances, coalitions, and hierarchies are of that environment that the instinctive behav-
especially critical, because all appear to have ior developed. This is one reason why etholo-
strong consequences for successful survival and gists, who study animal behavior, usually study
reproduction. From an evolutionary perspective, animals in the wild, not in the laboratory.
the functions served by social relationships have
With a few exceptions (e.g., Elman et al., 1999),
been central to the design of the human mind.
(p. 994)
most psychologists adopt Hebb’s definition of in-
stinctive behavior. Further, most agree with Har-
low and Mears (1983) that unlearned responses
THE HUMAN INFANT’S (1) typically follow developmental maturation
stages in orderly fashion; (2) tend to be extreme-
BIOLOGICAL INHERITANCES ly persistent over time, sometimes throughout life;
FACILITATIVE OF SOCIAL and (3) are influenced by many different variables
INTERACTION and thus tend to be complex in nature.
The first studies to reveal the existence of in-
Several of the biological features human infants nate response systems to certain social stimuli
inherit from their evolutionary ancestors facili- were conducted with nonhuman primates, our
tate social interaction. We might expect this be- closest relatives in the animal kingdom. Hebb
cause forming relationships with others was (1946) demonstrated that nonhuman primates
critical to the survival of the species. It is diffi- possess a spontaneous and unlearned fear re-
cult to identify uniquely social innate response sponse system; that is, they exhibit agitated fight
systems because virtually all of the infant’s in- and flight behaviors to certain stimuli they have
nate biological properties facilitate social inter- never seen before. One social stimulus that reli-
actions in some way (see Siegel, 1999). However, ably activates their fear response system is the
some innate response systems appear to be par- sight of an anesthetized, and thus unresponsive
ticularly facilitative of social interaction and re- and seemingly lifeless, conspecific (a member of
lationship formation. the same species). The adaptive value of fear re-
Psychologists have been interested in identi- sponses to a seemingly dead fellow primate
fying the human’s innate behavioral response seems obvious: Whatever was responsible for its
systems (present at birth and thus unlearned) at death may be lurking in wait for another victim,
least since William James (1893) addressed the so preparation to fight or flee has survival value.
subject. Even psychology’s premier environ-
mentalist and the father of behaviorism, John B.
Watson (1914), gave full treatment to instincts,
The Attachment Behavioral System
which he described as complicated, concatenat- Perhaps the most important and clearly social of
ed behaviors unfolding serially to appropriate the innate response systems is the attachment be-
stimulation. Donald Hebb (1958) later defined havioral system. The first experimental report of
instinctive behavior as “complex species- such a system appeared in 1958 when Harry Har-
predictable behavior: at a higher level than re- low (Figure 1.2) published a seminal article in
flex behavior, not requiring special conditions of American Psychologist titled “The Nature of Love.”
learning for its appearance, but predictable sim-
ply from knowing that we are dealing with a par-
Harlow’s Love System
ticular species in its ordinary habitat” (p. 110).
“In its ordinary habitat” is an important phrase Harlow observed that although the word “love”
because in order for instinctive behavior to be has the highest reference frequency of any word
expressed, the animal usually must be observed cited in Bartlett’s Familiar Quotations—reflecting
in the environment in which the species evolved, its importance in the lives of humans—

6 CHAPTER 1
Laboratory, where Harlow worked, was desper-
ate because its monkeys were dying of tubercu-
losis, a disease that had been imported from India
along with some of the monkeys. Not only were
monkeys dying, but laboratory personnel were in
constant danger of contracting this contagious
disease as well. To reduce their dependence on
imported monkeys, the lab directors decided to
establish a breeding colony. A small number of
disease-free infant monkeys were selected to be
bred later; to keep them free of disease, the re-
searchers isolated them from their mothers and
from each other. The procedure of raising the in-
fant monkeys alone in hygienic wire cages was
successful in keeping them physically healthy.
However, the researchers subsequently discov-
ered that not only had they eliminated disease
from their infant monkeys, but they also had
eliminated their ability to mate! When introduced
to their prospective mates, the monkeys re-
sponded with trembling and fear. The monkeys’
FIGURE 1.2 Harry Harlow. solitary rearing had produced healthy bodies but
unhealthy minds. Harlow and his colleagues
tried to repair the damage they had done but dis-
psychologists had almost completely ignored the
covered they could not easily remedy the deficits
subject. At that time, psychologists concentrated
in these monkeys’ social behavior.
on physical needs:
To learn more about this unanticipated and un-
fortunate effect of the monkeys’ solitary childhood,
The basic motives are, for the most part, the pri-
Harlow again separated neonatal monkeys from
mary drives—particularly hunger, thirst, elimina-
tion, pain, and sex—and all other motives, their mothers 6 to 12 hours after birth, suckled them
including love or affection, are derived or secondary on tiny bottles, and housed them once again in soli-
drives. The mother is associated with the reduction tary cages. (Infant mortality using this procedure
of the primary drives—particularly hunger, thirst, was only a fraction of what it would have been had
and pain—and through learning, affection or love the infants been raised by their monkey mothers.)
is derived. (Harlow, 1958, p. 673) Harlow subsequently noticed that when the fold-
ed gauze diapers used to carpet the floor of the in-
Despite the fact that love is important to humans fants’ cages were replaced periodically for sanitary
of all ages in all kinds of relationships, most of the purposes, the monkey infants violently protested.
quotations in Bartlett referred to romantic love To Harlow, the monkeys’ attachments to their gauze
between a man and a woman, leading Harlow diapers seemed reminiscent of the human infant’s
to protest, “These authors and authorities have attachment to a favorite blanket or cuddly toy. This
stolen love from the child and the infant and gave Harlow the idea of constructing two kinds of
made it the exclusive property of the adolescent surrogate mothers for the infants, one made of soft
and adult” (p. 673). cloth and the other of wire (Figure 1.3). Half of the
Harlow’s studies of the love of an infant for surrogate mothers of each type lactated milk and
its caretaker, usually its mother, came about by half did not. Harlow found that the infant mon-
accident. The University of Wisconsin’s Primate keys disdained their wire mothers, even when they

FIRST RELATIONSHIPS 7
fear and danger. The frightened or ailing child
clings to its mother, not its father; and this selec-
tive responsiveness in times of distress, disturbance,
or danger may be used as a measure of the strength
of affectional bonds. (p. 678).
To experimentally test his “safe haven” hypoth-
esis, Harlow exposed his infant monkeys to fear
stimuli and found that those with cloth mothers
ran to her for comfort, but those with wire
mothers tended to ignore her even when they
were fearful.
Harlow (1958) demonstrated that infant mon-
keys possess, quite literally, an “attachment” sys-
tem—an innate predisposition to physically
attach themselves to a soft, warm, and furry body.
Importantly, Harlow showed that the “reward”
FIGURE 1.3 Wire and cloth “mothers.” of food was not responsible for the monkeys’
preference. In his original article, Harlow illus-
were a source of milk, but loved their cloth trated his findings with poems and photos of var-
mothers—even when their cloth mothers didn’t ious animals and their infants. For example,
supply food. How did Harlow know the infants beneath the photo of a crocodile baby and its
loved their cloth mothers? They approached and mother (Figure 1.4), he said:
clung to “her”; they rubbed their faces against her Here is the skin they love to touch
face and their bodies against her body; and they It isn’t soft and there isn’t much
showed great distress when they were separated But its contact comfort will beguile
from their upholstered “mom.” Love from the infant crocodile. (p. 678)
Harlow concluded that infant monkeys pos- About the snake, he said:
sess an innate predisposition to prefer soft moth-
ers. He speculated that contact comfort has long To baby vipers, scaly skin
Engenders love ’twixt kith and kin.
served the animal kingdom as a motivating agent
Each animal by God is blessed
for affectional responses. For obvious ethical rea- With [the] kind of skin it loves the best. (p. 677)
sons, Harlow’s studies were conducted with
macaque monkeys rather than with human in- And of the rhinoceros, Harlow wrote:
fants. Although the macaque is more mature than The rhino’s skin is thick and tough,
the human infant at birth and grows more rapid- And yet this skin is soft enough
ly, Harlow asserted that its basic affectional re- That baby rhinos always sense
sponses, such as nursing, contact, clinging, and A love enormous and intense. (p. 677)
visual and auditory exploration, are not funda- In sum, Harlow asserted, all infants need con-
mentally different from those of the human infant. tact comfort. He may have been more right than
As a result of his experiments, Harlow (1958) he could have known at the time. Neurophysi-
claimed that an important, perhaps primary, ologist Olausson and his associates (2002) have
function of nursing is to ensure frequent and in- discovered that among the different kinds of
timate body contact of the infant with the moth- nerve cells in the skin that register different tac-
er. Moreover, Harlow hypothesized: tile sensations such as temperature and pain,
One function of the real mother, human or subhu- there are a few that register only gentle touches
man, and presumably of a mother surrogate, is to and caresses. Moreover, these nerve cells appear
provide a haven of safety for the infant in times of to be “wired” to regions of the brain associated

8 CHAPTER 1
evacuated children from London and other
highly populated cities to the country to pro-
tect them from German bombings. In these mass
evacuations, children of all ages and back-
grounds were torn from their caretakers and
families (Figure 1.6). Bowlby noticed that many
of the children who had been separated from
their loved ones subsequently exhibited a vari-
ety of psychological disorders, and he became
interested in the effects of disrupted child–-
mother bonds on psychopathology and on
human development in general (see Bowlby,
1973a).
FIGURE 1.4 Mother and baby animals.

with the experience of pleasant emotion. These


twenty-first-century neuroscientists comment,
“The profound importance of such a system for
human well-being has long been suggested, at
least since the classical study of baby monkeys
who show affection for a surrogate mother in re-
sponse to tactile comfort” (p. 3).

Bowlby’s Attachment Theory


At about the same time Harlow was conduct-
ing his experiments, British psychoanalyst and
ethologist John Bowlby (1953, 1958; see
Figure 1.5) reported his initial observations of
the human infant’s “bond” with its mother—a
bond that he, too, said was evidenced by the
child’s seeking to achieve and maintain prox-
imity to its mother and by feelings of distress
when separated from her. As for Harlow, it was
Bowlby’s keen powers of observation that led
to his interest in the infant–mother relationship.
During World War II, the British government FIGURE 1.5 John Bowlby.

FIRST RELATIONSHIPS 9
cal inheritance because attachment behaviors
provided survival advantage.
Like Harlow, Bowlby (1973a) observed that
his theory that human infants are born with an in-
nate predisposition to quickly form an attach-
ment to another human was in opposition to
conventional psychological wisdom at the time:

Until the mid-1950s only one view of the nature


and origin of affectional bonds was prevalent, and
on this matter, if on few others, psychoanalysts and
learning theorists were at one. Bonds between in-
dividuals develop, it was held, because an indi-
vidual discovers that, in order to reduce certain
drives, e.g., for food in infancy and for sex in adult
life, another human being is necessary. . . . As Anna
Freud puts it, it is a cupboard love theory of human
relations. (pp. 40–41)

Thanks to Harlow’s and Bowlby’s efforts and


those of their students, by the mid-1970s Bowlby
(1973a) was able to declare that the evidence was
clearly pointing to a different way of looking at
FIGURE 1.6 During World War II, the British human bonding:
government evacuated many children from London
and other highly populated cities to the country to First, it is now well attested that strong bonds can
protect them from bombings. In these mass develop between individuals without any reward
evacuations, children were often separated from being given of the sort hitherto supposed to be es-
sential. Secondly, it is now known that young crea-
their caretakers and families and subsequently
tures show fear and take avoiding action without
exhibited extreme stress and a variety of
pain having played any part whatsoever. Thirdly,
psychological disorders. a study of animals in the wild shows that, if any
species is to survive, its members have to be
equipped to deal with much else besides nutrition
Bowlby (1979) observed that at each phase of
and reproduction or avoiding parts of the envi-
our lives, we humans tend to form strong at- ronment that have already been experienced as
tachments to a few other special individuals. painful: a protection from predators is a top prior-
“The core of what I term an ’affectional bond,’ ” ity. (p. 41)
he said, “is the attraction that one individual has
for another individual” (p. 67). Affectional bonds Bowlby’s attachment theory also helped ac-
are personal and specific (e.g., another individual count for evidence that an infant can develop
will not substitute). As long as our affectional a strong bond to a caregiver, and attempt to re-
bonds remain intact, we feel secure, but when main in close proximity to that person, even in
they are broken—by the death of the attachment instances in which the caregiver has been pun-
figure or by involuntary separation—we become ishing. The proximity-seeking behavior of a
anxious and distressed. “The essential feature of battered child toward an abusive adult care-
affectional bonding,” Bowlby said, “is that bond- giver is a poignant example that attachments
ed partners tend to remain in proximity to one can develop and persevere despite repeated
another” (1973a, p. 39). Bowlby believed that af- punishments from the attachment figure. Eibl-
fectional bonding is built deep into our biologi- Eibesfeldt (1989) notes that “it is known that

10 CHAPTER 1
abused children generally have a very power- likely to be a threat to their survival, to be born
ful bond with their parents and protest, to the with an instinctive proximity-promoting mech-
amazement of the authorities, when they are anism that leads them to stay physically close to
removed from their care and placed in a foster persons who can supply food, shelter, and pro-
home” (p. 78). He also notes, however, that tection from disease and injury. Many animals
child abuse is relatively uncommon and that, who are born immature do possess such a mech-
overall, bonding to a caregiver has had sur- anism, as ethologist Konrad Lorenz (e.g., 1952)
vival value. demonstrated in his famous object-imprinting
Findings of a strong bond between a child and experiments with ducklings and goslings, who
an abusive caregiver or an adult and an abusive have an innate following response to the object
partner were troublesome for psychological they are near when they hatch (Figure 1.7). That
learning theorists, whose reward–punishment object is usually their mother, but the public was
frameworks predict that people approach, or are amused by many experimental demonstrations
“attracted,” only to others who provide them that ducklings also would follow a ball, a per-
with rewards and that they avoid those who are son, or even a pig if that was the first object they
punishing. Some learning theorists attempted to set eyes on. If the duckling follows the object for
incorporate the new findings into their theories, a period of time during its “sensitive period,”
but most such accounts were excruciatingly con- the bond that is formed is irreversible—the duck-
voluted and frequently accomplished little more ling becomes “imprinted” on the object. Etholo-
than to label an individual’s approach to an un- gists subsequently found that the duckling is
rewarding person as “masochistic,” a term that confident and self-assured when its “mother”
describes the behavior but does not explain it. In (whether a duck, a ball, or a human) is present
contrast, attachment theory did provide an ex- but becomes fearful when the mother is absent
planation: specifically, that humans are born with (see Eibl-Eibesfeldt, 1989). Human infants, too,
an innate predisposition to stay in close physi- quickly develop a strong preference to stay in
cal proximity to other members of the species close proximity to a person with whom they are
who can act to protect them from survival threats familiar and who meets certain minimum visu-
(even if, in unusual instances, the caregiver–child al, auditory, or tactile requirements that are typ-
relationship is marked by punishment). ically satisfied by another human.
Bowlby reasoned that it is particularly im- Bowlby classifies any behavior as an attach-
portant for infants, who lack the benefit of learn- ment behavior if it results in the achievement
ing experiences to inform them what or who is or maintenance of proximity between one

FIGURE 1.7 Many infant animals, including ducklings and goslings, possess an innate proximity-
promoting mechanism that leads them to stay physically close to the first object they see when they hatch.

FIRST RELATIONSHIPS 11
FIGURE 1.8 Stressful situations tend to elicit attachment behavior. Here, people reach out for comfort
after the shootings at Columbine High School on April 20, 1999 (left) and the attacks on the World Trade
Center on September 11, 2001 (right).
individual and another: “Whether the behavior unusual, for example, for mortally wounded sol-
is crying, calling, following, clinging, or any other, diers on the battlefield to cry out for their mothers.
if it results in proximity it counts as attachment Bowlby’s (1969; 1973a, b; 1980; 1988) many
behavior” (1973a, pp. 42–43). Thanks to modern- theoretical works spurred systematic empirical
day technology, to the list of proximity-achieving studies of childhood attachment as well as count-
behaviors can be added telephone calls, email, less theoretical elaborations and refinements, ac-
and fax communications that maintain interac- tivities that continue to the present day. Much of
tional proximity to the attachment figure. In ad- this research was facilitated by the development
dition, Bowlby states that attachment behavior is of a standardized procedure for classifying indi-
usually exhibited by a younger, or subordinate, or vidual differences in the quality of a child’s at-
weaker animal toward an older, or more domi- tachment to a caretaker by Bowlby’s student
nant, or stronger one. Mary Ainsworth (Figure 1.9) and her colleagues
Although attachment behavior is especially ev- (e.g., Ainsworth, Blehar, Waters, & Wall, 1978).
ident between the child’s first and third years, The strange situation procedure was construct-
Bowlby argues that attachment behavior charac- ed to be somewhat stressful for the infant (there-
terizes humans at all ages. He states, “So far from by activating the infant’s attachment behavioral
its being regressive, as is sometimes suggested, at- system) because it exposes the infant to persons
tachment behavior is a normal and healthy part of and settings that are “strange” to him or her. It is
human nature from the cradle to the grave” (1973a, usually administered to children around 12 to 18
p. 46). He reached this conclusion on evidence that months of age. The child’s behavior is observed
attachment behavior tends to be elicited at high in a laboratory situation that involves a series of
intensity in situations of alarm (Figure 1.8). Such separation and reunion episodes with the care-
events may occur at any age. Thus, attachment be- giver (Figure 1.10). The episodes begin with the
havior in adults is likely to be evident when the caregiver (usually the mother) and the infant en-
individual is distressed, ill, or frightened. It is not tering an unfamiliar room where the infant plays

12 CHAPTER 1
with toys with the caregiver present. After a brief
period, a stranger enters the room and the care-
giver exits, leaving the infant alone in the room
with the stranger. A short time later, the caregiv-
er returns and the stranger leaves. Next, the care-
giver leaves and the infant is left alone in the
room. Finally, the stranger returns, followed a
short time later by the return of the caregiver.
The strange situation assesses the quality—not
the existence or strength—of the infant’s attach-
ment to his or her caretaker. Although Bowlby
originally suggested that attachments might vary
in strength, by the late 1970s he declared, “To
think of attachment as varying according to its
strength . . . has proved extremely misleading
and has been abandoned by informed workers”
(1979, p. 66). The quality of the behavior pattern
the infant exhibits during the episodes general-
ly is one of three kinds (see Weinfield, Sroufe,
Egeland, & Carlson, 1999): secure, insecure/re-
sistant, or insecure/avoidant.
Children who display the secure attachment
pattern are able to use the mother as a secure
base for exploration in the novel room and, when
FIGURE 1.9 Mary Ainsworth. distressed, actively seek contact with her and are
readily comforted. When the mother is absent,
secure children show confident expectations of
her return. The hypothesis that children are more
likely to explore the environment when they feel
protected by their caregiver’s presence has been
called attachment theory’s secure base hypoth-
esis, and it has received much support.
The secure pattern of behavior appears to be
rooted in reliable care and, especially, sensitivity
and responsiveness to the child’s expressions of
need. There is a great deal of empirical support
for what has been termed attachment theory’s
sensitivity hypothesis—that sensitive care
results in secure attachment (see van IJzendoorn
& Sagi, 1999). For example, Bakermans-
Kranenburg, van IJzendoorn, and Juffer 2003
meta-analyzed over 70 parental intervention
studies that were aimed at enhancing parents’
FIGURE 1.10 The strange situation is designed to positive behaviors, including sensitivity and re-
activate the infant’s attachment behavioral system sponsiveness to the child, and that also used ob-
by exposing the infant to a stranger. The infant’s servational (rather than self-report) measures of
response to the situation allows researchers to assess actual changes in parenting behavior. These re-
the quality of his or her attachment to the caregiver. viewers concluded that the interventions that

FIRST RELATIONSHIPS 13
were effective in enhancing parental sensitivity tion) underestimated the actual strength of their
were also the interventions most effective in en- partner’s love; such underestimation, in turn,
hancing the child’s attachment security. About was associated with less satisfaction with the re-
two-thirds of infants in American middle-class lationship and less optimism for its future than
families exhibit the secure behavior pattern. the partner’s actual feelings warranted. Bowlby
In the insecure/resistant (sometimes called characterized the child’s developing view of re-
anxious-ambivalent) pattern, which characterizes lationships as a mental working model of relation-
about 10% of infants tested, the child is unable to ships—“working,” not final, because Bowlby
use the caregiver as a secure base for exploration. believed that people’s view of relationships
This behavior pattern is characterized by little ex- could change in response to the quality of sub-
ploration even in the mother’s presence, by low sequent relationships.
thresholds for threat, by extreme separation dis- Bowlby’s emphasis on the importance of early
tress, and, upon reunion, by being resistant to relationships in the development of psy-
being comforted by the caretaker. These infants chopathology was consistent with his psycho-
are preoccupied with the caregiver but may an- analytic training and Freud’s belief that many
grily reject her soothing overtures. Such behavior mental disorders could be traced back to the in-
appears to be rooted in inconsistent, hit-or-miss, or dividual’s earliest relationships. A central tenet of
chaotic care; the child’s expectations seem to be attachment theory, then, is that different patterns
that the mother will be available only with vigi- of early attachment have different consequences
lance and the self will be ineffective in eliciting for the individual’s subsequent relationships. For
care (Sroufe & Fleeson, 1988). example, the theory predicts that securely at-
Insecure/avoidant children treat the caregiver tached children become more socially and emo-
much as they do the stranger and are unlikely to tionally competent than do those who are
be distressed when the mother leaves or to seek insecurely attached. The competence hypothe-
contact with her after experiencing the distress of sis of attachment theory has received a great deal
separation. Sroufe and Fleeson (1988) state, “Un- of support. In their longitudinal study of chil-
derlying such a paradoxical response to brief sep- dren whose attachment classifications were as-
aration is a history of [the caregiver’s] chronic sessed at an early age, Sroufe, Egeland, and
emotional unavailability and/or rejection” (p. 32). Kreutzer (1990) report that relative to their inse-
About 20% to 25% of children are classified as cure counterparts, those children who were clas-
avoidant. Thus, about two-thirds of children test- sified as securely attached to their caregivers in
ed are classified as secure and about one-third as their first year of life subsequently coped better
insecure, with the insecure group composed of with developmental transitions, developed su-
two subgroups: resistant and avoidant. perior social skills, were more popular with their
Bowlby theorized that the quality of the peers, were better liked by their teachers, and
child’s early attachment relationship influences had fewer behavior problems.
later interpersonal relationships because from In assessing social competence, developmen-
this first relationship, the child develops a view tal psychologists are sensitive to the fact that the
of what other people are like (e.g., trustworthy, nature of a social interaction depends on the char-
available) and of him- or herself as worthy or acteristics of both partners, not simply one. This
unworthy (e.g., of care). People’s views of them- fundamental fact—that the nature of social inter-
selves as worthy or unworthy have implications action is a function of the properties of both part-
for their future relationships. For example, Mur- ners—underlies all relationships. For example,
ray, Holmes, Griffin, Bellavia, and Rose (2001) when Sroufe and his colleagues (see Sroufe & Flee-
found that dating and marital partners who were son, 1986) paired preschool-age children with dif-
troubled by self-doubt (partly measured by the ferent attachment histories for play, they found
individual’s self-report of attachment orienta- that children with secure histories neither victim-

14 CHAPTER 1
ized other children nor were the victims of other roughly parallel the three child attachment clas-
children regardless of whom they were paired sifications derived from the strange situation. A
with, but those with ambivalent (i.e., resistant) his- great number of studies have used this classifica-
tories were vulnerable to victimization by other tion method, or one of its variants, to examine the
children and those with avoidant histories were correlates and social consequences of adult at-
prone to victimize unless paired with a more pow- tachment style (e.g., Cassidy & Shaver, 1999; Simp-
erful partner. The pairing of an avoidant child with son & Rholes, 1998), as discussed in Chapter 10,
another avoidant child or with an ambivalent child “Dispositional Influences.” The association be-
quickly led to abusive interactions. Other re- tween the classification an individual receives
searchers also have found that children’s interac- using the adult attachment style self-report
tions are a function of both partners’ attachment method and the classification the individual
classifications. Pastor (1981), for example, found would have received had he or she been observed
that the interactions of securely attached toddlers, as a child in the strange situation is not yet clear.
rated as higher in sociability and positive orien- (This general method subsumes many specific
tation toward their peers, are more harmonious tests and scales.) Another issue concerns the fact
when they interact with each other than with an that although most attachment researchers have
insecurely attached child. regarded individuals as possessing a single “glob-
Most attachment theorists and researchers al” attachment orientation toward all relationships,
have viewed attachment theory’s sensitivity, se- recent evidence suggests that individuals may de-
cure base, and social competence hypotheses to velop many different attachment orientations, each
be universal—applicable to all persons in all cul- tied to a particular type of relationship or even a
tures. Indeed, from their review of the relatively specific relationship within a type (e.g., Cook, 2000;
few cross-cultural studies available, van IJzen- La Guardia, Ryan, Couchman, & Deci, 2000).
doorn and Sagi (1999) conclude that attachment Although most current attachment research,
theory possesses cross-cultural validity. Howev- whether conducted with children or with adults,
er, Rothbaum, Weisz, Pott, Miyake, and Morelli currently focuses on differences among individ-
(2000) have argued persuasively that attachment uals in attachment orientation, both Bowlby and
theory measures are saturated with Western val- Harlow believed that all humans are innately pre-
ues. They observe, for example, that behaviors disposed to form strong attachments to at least
regarded as manifestations of social competence some other people. Attachment, as Harlow ex-
in Western culture, such as self-reliance and au- plicitly stated, is one variety of human love. It ap-
tonomy, are viewed as less desirable in many pears in at least some contemporary taxonomies
Asian cultures, which stress community and in- of varieties of love (e.g., Berscheid, 1985b), and,
terdependence with others. Rothbaum and col- as previously noted, some theorists view attach-
leagues advocate a more context-conscious ment processes as especially important in under-
approach to attachment phenomena and the use standing the dynamics of an individual’s romantic
of measures sensitive to the ways in which at- relationships because they believe that for most
tachment processes reflect the cultural values of adults, a romantic partner becomes an attachment
the society in which the individual is embedded. figure (e.g., Shaver, Hazan, & Bradshaw, 1988), as
In addition to investigating the effects of child- discussed further in Chapter 11, “Love.” In addi-
hood attachment on later relationships, much re- tion to romantic partners, adults also frequently
cent research has focused on the attachment name close friends as attachment figures (see
orientations adults display toward their close re- Mikulincer, Gillath, & Shaver, 2002). Adult at-
lationships—especially their romantic relation- tachment figures share the same characteristics as
ships. This work was stimulated by Hazan and child attachment figures: (1) They are a target of
Shaver’s (1987) construction of an adult attach- proximity maintenance (e.g., separation is resisted);
ment style self-classification scheme intended to (2) they provide a safe haven in times of need (e.g.,

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they provide support); and (3) they provide a As this suggests, the line between temperament
secure base (e.g., facilitating exploration and per- and personality traits is blurred, although, as
sonal development) (see Hazan & Shaver, 1994; McCrae and colleagues (2000) discuss, psy-
Mikulincer et al., 2002). chologists have a long tradition of distinguish-
ing the two. Temperament usually is viewed as
a constitutionally determined predisposition,
Other Innate Social as we have noted, whereas personality traits
Response Systems generally are believed to be acquired patterns
Investigations of innate social response systems of thought and behavior that, developmental-
have focused almost exclusively on attachment. ly, build on temperament (see Rothbart, Ahadi,
Its only rival is temperament, also believed to be & Evans, 2000).
innately determined. As for attachment, indi- In Galen’s Prophecy (1994), Kagan states that
vidual differences in temperament have many the extraversion–introversion dimension de-
implications for social interaction and relation- scribes people who are
ship dynamics. excessively restrained when they meet a stranger,
wary when they confront an unexpected event, or
Temperament cautious when they must act with a risk of possible
failure. Fiction is full of examples that contrast this
The concept of temperament, according to de-
personality with its complement—the sociable, fear-
velopmental psychologist Jerome Kagan (1994), less, bold agent who is unaffected by these every-
“refers to any moderately stable, differentiat- day events. Walter Matthau and Jack Lemmon in
ing emotional or behavioral quality whose ap- The Odd Couple are a well-known movie example.
pearance in childhood is influenced by an (p. xv)
inherited biology, including differences in brain
neurochemistry” (p. xvii). This definition al- Like Galen, most psychologists believe that
lows for the possibility of many different tem- differences along this dimension are largely
peraments. Kagan (1989) has suggested that the innate—that “inhibited and uninhibited children
number of possible temperament traits may be inherit unique neurochemistries that affect their
larger than 6 but less than 60, and one of the thresholds of reactivity to novelty, leading them
early studies of temperament in infants and to react in opposite ways to experiences that are
children identified 9 different temperament di- transformations of the familiar and require a brief
mensions (Thomas & Chess, 1977). Neverthe- period of adjustment” (Kagan, 1994, p. xviii).
less, researchers have focused on only one Rothbart and Bates (1998), who review tempera-
dimension. The dimension that has captured ment theory and research, observe that the tem-
researchers’ attention was first identified by a perament response system is usually “activated
fourth-century physician, Galen of Perganon, under conditions of novelty, sudden or intense
who speculated that some people inherit a ten- stimuli, reactions to danger . . . , social interac-
dency toward “melancholia,” whereas others tions with unfamiliar conspecifics, and condi-
have a constitutional bias toward “sanguine,” tioned responses to punishment” (p. 109). People
or cheerful, behavior. differ not only in their thresholds of response to
Today, Galen’s distinction is frequently called these conditions (with introverts showing lower
the extraversion–introversion dimension (or thresholds than extraverts) but also in the inten-
sometimes the inhibited–uninhibited dimen- sity and duration of their responses.
sion), and it has been identified as one of the An individual’s temperament has many im-
“big five” factors that underlie individuals’ per- plications for his or her social interactions and
sonality differences (the others being agree- close relationships. For example, there is a great
ableness, conscientiousness, emotional stability, deal of evidence that extraverts more frequently
and intellect/imagination; see Goldberg, 1993). and intensely experience positive affect (positive

16 CHAPTER 1
moods, emotions, and feelings) than introverts searchers agree that experience can modify tem-
do (e.g., Costa & McCrae, 1980; Diener & Lucas, perament, much needs to be learned about how
1999). Assembling the many studies that have ex- it does so. For example, a difficult, cranky baby is
amined the association between the experience likely to elicit different care from a parent than a
of positive affect and an individual’s standing on placid, happy baby, and that care may increase
the extraversion–introversion dimension, Lucas or decrease the baby’s distress (van den Boom,
and Fujita (2000) performed a meta-analysis—a 1994). Whether the infant’s temperament leans
quantitative procedure whereby the findings of toward negative or positive affectivity also may
many studies testing the same hypothesis are interact with its mother’s standing on the
synthesized in order to reach a more reliable con- extraversion–introversion dimension to affect the
clusion about the truth of the hypothesis than is pattern of interaction between the mother and
afforded by any one study (see Rosenthal, 1991; her child. Clark, Kochanska, and Ready (2000)
Rosenthal & DiMatteo, 2001). Lucas and Fujita found that highly extraverted mothers exhibited
concluded that extraverts may have a suscepti- more “power-assertive” parenting behavior with
bility to experience pleasant affect and that, in infants high in negative affectivity (associated
fact, pleasant affect may form the very core of ex- with introversion and with “difficult” infant be-
traversion. Like others (e.g., Lucas, Diener, Grob, havior), whereas mothers low in extraversion
Suh, & Shao, 2000; Lucas & Diener, 2001), they were not power-assertive with either easy or dif-
conclude that the mere preference for social ficult children. Thus, just as children paired with
interaction—independent of the degree to which others of different attachment histories exhibit
the social interaction is rewarding—is not the cen- different interaction patterns, the interaction pat-
tral feature of extraversion. Rather, the pleasant- tern that develops in parent–infant relationships
ness of the situation, not whether it is social or is a function of the characteristics of both partners
nonsocial, seems to predict whether extraverts to the interaction—not the parent alone.
will enjoy the situation more than introverts will. The extraversion–introversion temperament
Extraverts and introverts thus seem to differ in classifications and the attachment classifications
their sensitivity to reward. share several features: (1) Each has been treated
Ashton, Lee, and Paunonen (2002) subse- as an individual difference variable; that is, differ-
quently presented evidence that although ex- entially classified individuals exhibit different
traverts and introverts do indeed differ in reward behaviors. (2) Each is believed to be heavily ge-
sensitivity, the essential feature that distinguishes netically determined, although modifiable by ex-
extraverts from introverts is that extraverts enjoy perience. (3) Each is believed to be most clearly
being the object of social attention. Because reward- displayed under conditions of stress and threat. (4)
sensitive people tend to show enthusiasm, en- Each has implications for the individual’s social in-
ergy, and excitement, these qualities often make teractions. Thus, it has been natural to ask
extraverts the center of attention in social situa- whether—and how—attachment and tempera-
tions, and it is their engagement and enjoyment ment are associated with each other. Some re-
of attention—not reward sensitivity in itself— searchers argue that because an infant’s
that distinguishes extraverts from introverts. temperament influences his or her behavior, it
Although most agree that temperament is in- also influences measurements of attachment se-
nate, ambiguity about the nature and number of curity (e.g., Kagan, 1982). Others maintain that
dimensions encompassed by the term “tempera- temperament is largely independent of attach-
ment,” as well as the diversity of meanings ment security because most caregivers are sen-
associated with the terms “extraversion,” “intro- sitive to the needs of infants regardless of the
version,” “inhibited,” and “uninhibited,” have child’s temperament (e.g., Sroufe, 1985). So far,
made it difficult to come to clear conclusions few linkages between measures of temperament
about the biological bases of temperament (see and attachment security classifications have been
Strelau, 1994). In addition, although most re- found (Rothbart & Bates, 1998).

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The Caregiving System gorilla quickly scrambled down the concrete wall
Both Bowlby and Harlow proposed that humans to examine what had fallen into her territory.
are born with several other innate social response They needn’t have worried, for when Binti
systems. For example, Bowlby theorized that hu- reached the boy she gently lifted his injured body
mans innately possess the complement to the at- into her arms and carefully carried him up to her
tachment behavioral system—a caregiving home, where she laid him on the grass and
system, which was loosely comparable to the watched over him until human rescuers arrived.
“maternal love” system proposed by Harlow. Media worldwide publicized Binti’s “heroic” ac-
Although most evolutionary approaches to tions (Figure 1.11), but animal behaviorists in-
human behavior emphasize reproduction, Scott terviewed by USA Today said Binti was just
(1967) notes that “reproduction is not solely a following her motherly caregiving instincts
matter of fertilization” (p. 138) because the off- (Buckley, 1996). Animal experts also pointed out
spring must be nurtured to survive. It seems that long-lived socialized animals, including such
doubtful that an attachment system could have companion animals as dogs and cats, form
evolved without its complement of adult re- attachment bonds with their human caregivers
sponse to the infant’s attachment behavior of call- such that species barriers become blurred and
ing, crying, and otherwise attempting to remain they look upon us humans as “family” (which, of
in proximity to the caregiver. course, we are in the evolutionary sense); they
That primates not only possess a caregiving often exhibit separation distress and reunion re-
system but that it sometimes extends to caring actions with their human caregivers similar to
for members of other species was illustrated those observed between human infants and their
some years ago when a child visiting a zoo leaned caregivers.
too far over a fence and fell into the gorilla pit. The caregiving system, at least as it was de-
One of the gorillas, Binti Jua (Swahili for “Daugh- scribed by Bowlby, has been neglected by at-
ter of Sunshine”) observed the boy’s fall and his tachment researchers (Bell & Richard, 2000;
seemingly lifeless body lying at the bottom of the Berscheid & Collins, 2000), as is illustrated by the
concrete trench that separated the visitors from fact that the Handbook of Attachment (Cassidy &
the gorillas. Onlookers held their breath as the Shaver, 1999) contains only one chapter directly

FIGURE 1.11 Binta Jua gently


cradles a three-year-old boy
who fell into the gorilla pit at
the Brookfield Zoo in Illinois.

18 CHAPTER 1
addressed to caregiving (George & Solomon, relative neglect of these systems theorized to be
1999). One reason for the neglect may be that manifested later in life may stem from the same
most attachment researchers are developmental reason Harlow studied monkey infants rather
psychologists and developmental psychologists than human babies: “The human neonate,” Har-
typically study children, whereas caregiving be- low (1958) explained, “is a limited experimental
havior is mostly performed by adults. However, subject because . . . by the time the human in-
social psychologists, who typically study adult fant’s motor responses can be precisely measured
behavior, have extensively investigated the con- (e.g., approach behavior), the antecedent deter-
ditions under which people are likely to help oth- mining conditions cannot be defined, having
ers in distress under theoretical umbrellas other been lost in a jumble and jungle of confounded
than attachment, including the theories of social variables” (p. 674). The “jumble and jungle of
support discussed in Chapter 2, “Relationships confounded variables” increases exponentially
and Health.” with age; as the human grows older, it becomes
Like Bowlby, some adult attachment style the- increasingly difficult to identify which behaviors
orists view the caregiving system as an integral are innate and which have been learned.
part of the attachment system (e.g., Kunce &
Shaver, 1994). Researchers have found signifi-
The Face Perceptual System
cant associations between adult attachment style
classification and caregiving to marital and dat- Harlow’s monkeys exhibited what may be yet an-
ing partners (e.g., Simpson, Rholes, & Nelligan, other innate response system especially targeted
1992; Feeney & Hohaus, 2001). Again, the at- toward other members of the species. Harlow no-
tachment classifications of both the prospective ticed that his infant monkeys were especially
caregiver and the recipient influence whether attentive to their cloth mothers’ faces. The re-
caregiving or rejection will occur in interaction. searchers had made heads for the mother surro-
For example, Westmaas and Silver (2001) mea- gates out of round wooden balls on which they
sured their experimental participants’ adult at- had painted eyes, nose, and a mouth (Harlow &
tachment style and then paired each participant Suomi, 1970). On one occasion, however, an in-
in interaction with a person who, in her answers fant monkey was born before her surrogate moth-
to interview questions overheard by the partici- er was finished, and, pressed for time, the
pant, conveyed characteristics of a specific at- researchers gave its mother an unpainted wood-
tachment style and also revealed she had recently en ball for a face. By the time the researchers got
been diagnosed with cancer. Both the partici- around to giving the mother a painted face, the
pant’s own attachment style and the perceived baby was 3 months old. “Better late than never,”
attachment style of the cancer victim predicted the researchers must have been thinking, but they
whether the participant rejected or supported the were shocked to see what happened when they fi-
victim in their subsequent interaction. nally mounted the ball with a face on the body
In addition to a caregiving system, Bowlby of the infant’s surrogate mother:
posited a “reproductive behavioral system” that
appears in adolescence when sexual mating and The baby took one look and screamed. She fled to
reproduction become possible. The reproductive the back of the cage and cringed in autistic-type pos-
system received little attention from Bowlby and turing. After some days of terror the infant solved
the medusa-mother problem in a most ingenious
even less from subsequent theorists, although
manner. She revolved the face 180° so that she al-
Ainsworth (1989) attempted to elaborate and in- ways faced a bare round ball! Furthermore, we
tegrate such a system with the other systems pro- could rotate the maternal face dozens of times and
posed by Bowlby, as have Shaver and his within an hour or so the infant would turn it around
associates (e.g., Shaver, Hazan, & Bradshaw, 180°. Within a week the baby resolved her unface-
1988). Harlow’s proposal of a “peer love” sys- able problem once and for all. She lifted the mater-
tem also has been almost wholly neglected. The nal head from the body, rolled it into the corner, and

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abandoned it. No one can blame the baby. She had is, the overall configuration of the face, rather
lived with and loved a faceless mother, but she could than its individual features, is perceived and re-
not love a two-faced mother. (p. 164) membered. In perceptually processing a house,
for example, it appears that we mentally break
Attentiveness to faces is characteristic of the house down into at least some of its con-
human infants as well as monkey infants. One stituent parts—its windows, doors, and roof, for
of the most important tasks of the human per- example—which we can recognize later even
ceptual system is recognition of the faces of other when we see those parts in isolation from the re-
humans. Not only do a person’s facial features mainder of the house. In contrast, we have diffi-
provide the maximum number of cues that allow culty recognizing a person’s eyes, nose, or any
us to differentiate one human from another, but other facial feature when it is not attached to his
the face is the richest source of cues to another’s or her face (Farah, Wilson, Drain, & Tanaka, 1998;
feelings and behavioral intentions toward us. As Tanaka & Farah, 1993).
a consequence, when we interact with people, Psychologists do not know why face percep-
we look at their faces—not their arms or feet— tion tends to be more holistic than the percep-
and what we see in their faces influences our in- tion of other kinds of objects. Unlike most other
terpretation of what they say (Hassin & Trope, objects, faces always have the same number of
2000). The belief that “the face is the window to components and the same overall arrangement of
the soul” and the art of “face-reading” date back those components but, as neuroscientist Antonio
to classical antiquity (Fridlund, 1994). Interest in Damasio (1994) observes, faces nonetheless are
people’s attempts to read what is written in the “infinitely diverse and individually distinguish-
faces of others continues to the present day (e.g., able because of small anatomical differences in
see Russell & Fernández-Dols, 1997; Zebrowitz, size, contour, and position of these invariant parts
1997). and configuration” (p. 23). Perhaps holistic per-
Because face perception is of great importance ception most efficiently allows us to distinguish
to humans, some cognitive neuroscientists have these small differences. Another hypothesis, for
hypothesized that our biological inheritance in- which there is mounting support, is that all hu-
cludes a specialized face-processing module in mans are “face experts” and anyone expert in
the brain (e.g., Farah, 2000). Their investigations anything may gradually come to perceive ini-
of whether human face perception employs a dif- tially differentiated stimuli holistically. Diamond
ferent neurological processing system than that and Carey (1986), for example, showed some sim-
involved in the perception of other objects have ilarities between the perception of faces and the
addressed three questions: (1) Do face percep- perception of dogs by dog experts but not by
tion and object perception depend on different nonexperts, and Gauthier, Skudlarski, Gore, and
regions of the brain? (2) Are the systems func- Anderson (2000) have found that the same area
tionally independent? That is, can each operate of the brain involved in face perception is uti-
without the other? (3) Do the two systems process lized by car and bird experts.
information differently? Each of these questions It seems likely that at least some aspects of
has been tentatively answered in the affirmative face perception ability may be innate because
(see Gazzaniga, Ivry, & Mangun, 1998). the recognition and differentiation of faces
Although most psychologists believe face per- seems to occur rapidly. Infants only 30 minutes
ception is “special,” the ways in which it is sim- old will visually track a slowly moving
ilar to or different from the perception of other schematic face stimulus with their head and
objects remains under investigation (Marsolek, eyes farther than they will follow other mov-
1999). One way in which face perception seems ing patterns of comparable complexity, such as
to differ from the perception of other objects is scrambled faces, although such differential
that we tend to perceive faces “holistically”; that tracking appears to decline during the second

20 CHAPTER 1
month of life (e.g., Johnson, Dziurawiec, Ellis, ity to recognize faces narrows and becomes spe-
& Morton, 1991). To account for this decline, cialized in recognizing the kinds of faces the
Morton and Johnson (1991; and see Johnson, environment provides (usually the faces of con-
1999) have proposed a “two-process theory” of specifics), and they lose the ability to easily rec-
infant face perception. These theorists noted ognize types infrequently encountered (although,
that although laboratory studies of imprinting with effort, that ability may be recaptured). In
in baby chicks show that the chicks recognize sum, the innate face perception capabilities of
and develop an attachment for the first con- the human appear to interact with nurture (i.e.,
spicuous object presented to them after hatch- an individual’s experience with the environment)
ing, chicks in the wild invariably imprint on just as it does in many other aspects of brain
the mother rather than on other objects that development.
happen to be present, such as a mouse. Exper- An early appearing preference for the familiar
imentation revealed that chicks possess a neur- over the strange has been shown in virtually all
al system present at birth that supports a primates (see Harlow & Mears, 1983). Thus, it
predisposition to turn toward and approach ob- seems possible that present at birth are not only
jects resembling conspecifics. Like chicks, Mor- neural sensitivities to the probable social envi-
ton and Johnson above suspect, human infants ronment, including the faces of conspecifics, but
are born with some information about the struc- certain evaluative preferences with respect to
ture of faces and a neural system that supports those frequently encountered stimuli as well. In-
attention to conspecifics. They theorize that a fants only 2 or 3 months old display a preference
second neural system, which appears to begin for physically attractive over unattractive faces
to operate in the human infant’s second month (e.g., Langlois et al., 1987). Even infants between
of life, subsequently supports the acquisition 14 and 151 hours old have been found to prefer
of information about the objects to which the (to look longer at) female faces that are attractive
infant attends. Thus, the first system ensures as opposed to unattractive, as judged by adults
that the second system acquires information (Slater et al., 1998). Some evolutionary psychol-
about the particular individual mother in close ogists believe the ability to distinguish between
proximity. Because the two systems have dif- attractive and unattractive faces had, and may
ferent developmental time courses, they dif- still have, survival value. In addition, attractive
ferentially influence behavior at different ages faces have been shown to be more representative
(e.g., a decline in differential tracking). of the average of faces in the species (e.g., Lan-
Pascalis, deHaan, and Nelson (2002) have glois & Roggman, 1990), as further discussed in
shown that as infants gain experience in view- Chapter 6, “Birth of a Relationship.” In adults,
ing faces, their brains begin to focus on the kinds the perception of facially attractive people may
of faces they see most often in the environment be tied into the fundamental “reward circuitry”
and they tune out other types. Infants at ages 6 of the brain (Aharon et al., 2001); whether such a
and 9 months as well as adults were able to dis- connection is innate or learned is not known.
tinguish among human faces, but the 6-month-
old infants outperformed the two older groups in Empathic Accuracy
distinguishing among the faces of monkeys. Be- Because the face is the richest source of cues of
cause primates are most familiar with the faces of a person’s thoughts and emotional state
their own species, they come to distinguish those (Ekman & Davidson, 1994a), attention to an-
types of faces better than other types. For exam- other ’s face is vital to empathic accuracy,
ple, adult monkeys are better able to distinguish usually defined as the ability to decode the
among monkey faces than among human faces. meaning of another ’s behavior (Ickes, 1997).
Thus, humans are born with the innate potential Empathic accuracy is different from sympathy,
to recognize faces, but with experience their abil- which refers to the experience of feeling

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another’s emotional state (see Berscheid & Reis, perform the empathic accuracy task, but this
1998). Empathic accuracy—knowing another’s difference evaporated when participants were
thoughts, feelings, and intentions—is, of offered payments in exchange for accuracy. The
course, vital to survival. authors conclude that men and women may
Developmental psychologists have long been have similar empathic accuracy ability, but
interested in the development of a person’s abil- women generally are more motivated to use it.
ity to perceive and understand another’s Additional research on sex differences in em-
thoughts and emotions. The age at which the in- pathic accuracy is discussed in Chapter 10, “Dis-
fant can recognize and discriminate among dif- positional Influences.”
ferent facial expressions, including those that The predisposition to be attentive to faces of
express emotional states, is a matter of current conspecifics and to accurately interpret the cues
investigation and controversy (see Eisenberg, seen therein is facilitative of smooth, coordinat-
Murphy, & Shepard, 1997). Some investigators ed social interaction, which is associated with re-
have shown that even 10-week-old infants dif- lationship satisfaction, as discussed in Chapter 13,
ferentially respond to their mothers’ sad, happy, “Satisfaction and Stability.” We spend much time
and angry expressions (see Eisenberg et al., p. 79). in social interaction seeking and decoding cues to
Others have shown that at 4 months of age, in- our partner’s thoughts, beliefs, feelings, and in-
fants smile more at smiling faces than nonsmil- tentions, and we usually perform this feat easi-
ing faces (Oster, Daily, & Goldenthal, 1989). By 10 ly and quickly, often unconsciously. The critical
months of age, infants’ tendency to smile appears role that empathic understanding of others’ emo-
to be at least partially dependent on whether a tions and thoughts plays in interaction can be
human audience is present to observe the smile appreciated when we consider the social
(Scanlon-Jones, Collins, & Hong, 1991). By the interactions of children who manifest the
end of their first year of life, infants can decode neurological disorder of autism. Autistic children
emotional information and adjust their behavior do not possess the empathic skills most of us take
in accord with an adult’s facial expression (e.g., for granted. As Simon Baron-Cohen (1995) put it
Klinnert, 1984). In sum, the evidence suggests in his book Mindblindness, autistic children are
that even very young children possess some de- oblivious to the minds of other people. They can-
gree of empathic accuracy. not “read” another person’s nonverbal behav-
Females, however, may be more skilled in iors—a tone of voice, for example, or a raised
empathic accuracy than males. McClure (2000) eyebrow that signal the other’s sentiments and
concludes from a meta-analysis of studies ex- emotional state—and so they often cannot dis-
amining sex differences in facial expression pro- tinguish another person’s joke from a threat and
cessing that there is a female advantage from are prey to many other misunderstandings in so-
infancy through adolescence, with maturational cial interaction. Needless to say, the frustration
neurological factors playing an important early experienced by the parents of these infants is
role and socialization factors subsequently enormous. Autism usually is diagnosed by the
maintaining and even amplifying the initial sex age of 2 or 3 when parents despair over their
difference. With respect to socialization factors, child’s failure to be responsive to them and to
there is a large body of evidence suggesting that others. Autism is an extreme case of a lack of em-
boys and girls receive different types and pathic accuracy.
amounts of information from adults about emo- Ickes and his colleagues regard empathic ac-
tions and emotional expression. Klein and curacy as the basis of an evolved general affilia-
Hodges (2001), however, conclude that sex dif- tive phenomenon that is characteristic of all
ferences in empathic accuracy may be the result creatures (e.g., Ickes, 1997; Ickes, Buysse et al.,
of motivational differences rather than ability. 2000). Buck and Ginsberg (1997), in fact, believe
They found the usual female advantage when that empathy involves “a biologically based,
their participants had no special incentive to spontaneous communication process that is fun-

22 CHAPTER 1
damental to all living things” (p. 17). Thus, some handed. Davis and Kraus (1997) performed a
theorists believe that spontaneous communica- meta-analysis of the many studies that have ex-
tion between individuals, especially emotional amined the associations between myriad indi-
communication, is innately determined and fun- vidual difference variables and empathic
damental to life, for it allows people to coordi- accuracy but found only intelligence and a few
nate their activities for their mutual benefit and other related characteristics to be associated with
facilitates bonding with others. this important skill. To explore why replicable
Many studies have shown that people differ individual-difference correlates of empathic ac-
from each other in their degree of empathic ac- curacy are so hard to identify, Ickes and his col-
curacy, and a single individual may show dif- leagues (2000) used a research design they
ferent levels of empathic accuracy at different believed to be optimal for uncovering such dif-
times over the life span. An example of the lat- ferences but found only one “best candidate” for
ter, and its consequences for social interaction, is a predictor of empathic accuracy: verbal intelli-
provided by a biographical account of novelist gence. These investigators warn that it remains to
F. Scott Fitzgerald, author of The Great Gatsby, be seen whether even this finding will survive
and his interactions with his longtime friends tests of replicability.
Sara Murphy and Ernest Hemingway, both of
whom felt that Fitzgerald had become so Language
wrapped up in himself that he could no longer Another innate and uniquely social predisposi-
understand even those closest to him. Frustrat- tion may be the human’s ability to use language
ed with Fitzgerald’s behavior, Sara tried to warn to communicate to others. Use of language long
Fitzgerald of the damaging effects of his lack of has been regarded as the feature that most dis-
empathic accuracy: “I feel obliged in the hon- tinguishes the human from other animals, in-
esty of a friend to write you: that the ability to cluding our close primate relatives. It also is
know what another person feels in a given situ- regarded as especially social—we speak to com-
ation will make—or ruin—lives” (Tomkins, municate to other humans, not to inanimate ob-
1971/1998, p. 129). She was correct. jects. The noted linquist Noam Chomsky (e.g.,
The study of empathic accuracy has had a tor- 1965) proposed that humans are born with an
tured history in psychology (see Ickes, 1997; innate language-acquisition device. Although
Kenny, 1994a), but newly developed techniques Chomsky’s theory that the infant is born with a
are helping to surmount methodological obsta- wealth of innate knowledge that facilitates the
cles. One such technique is the dyadic interac- acquisition of language remains controversial,
tion procedure, developed by Ickes and his his views continue to frame debate and research
associates (e.g., Ickes, Bissonnette, Garcia, & Stin- in the field of language acquisition (see Ritchie
son, 1990). First, participants view a videotape & Bhatia, 1999). At present, a great deal of evi-
of their spontaneous interaction with another dence favors his assertion that the human brain
person and stop the tape when they recall having is prewired to acquire language, at least within
had a specific thought or feeling. Then the video- an early sensitive period (see Pinker, 1994). For
tape is replayed for their interaction partner and example, Elbert, Heim, and Rockstroh (2001)
stopped at each point at which the individual re- conclude from their review of the literature,
ported having had a specific thought or feeling, “There is compelling evidence that neonates,
and the partner reports what he or she believes and even fetuses, are endowed with a remark-
the individual was thinking or feeling at that able sensitivity to phonetic units used in human
point in their interaction. speech” (p. 196); and DeCasper and Spence
Although the identification of the character- (1986) demonstrated that newborns are able to
istics of people who possess empathic accuracy differentiate prose passages they heard in the
has been the aim of much empathic accuracy re- womb during their last 6 prenatal weeks from
search, researchers have come up mostly empty- novel passages. Some language researchers have

FIRST RELATIONSHIPS 23
speculated that there is an early “sensitive pe- and thus responsive to the infant’s social and
riod” during which phoneme discrimination is emotional experiences (see Elbert et al., 2001).
learned easily; at 6 months infants can discrim- Early in its development the brain appears
inate sounds of nearly all languages, but, as is to overproduce neural connections that are sub-
true of face perception, they seem to become sequently reduced in number through disuse.
specialized in discriminating the sounds of their Which connections are retained and which elim-
native language—the sounds their environment inated appears to depend on early stimulation
most frequently provides them to hear—and from the infant’s social and physical environ-
lose the ability to easily discriminate other ment, leading to the cultivation of some neural
sounds. As a consequence, another language synapses and the “pruning” of others (see
usually can be acquired in later life only with Thompson & Nelson, 2001). Greenough and his
considerable effort. colleagues (e.g., Black, Jones, Nelson, & Gree-
nough, 1998; Greenough & Black, 1992) have
found suggestive evidence that the overpro-
SOCIAL INTERACTION duction of synapses is “in expectation of expe-
AND BRAIN DEVELOPMENT riences that will determine their selective
survival” (Greenough, Black, & Wallace, 1987,
Interest in identifying the human’s innate re- p. 552). An “expected experience” is one that is
sponse systems has intensified in recent years typical for the species—certain patterns of vi-
as a result of the emergence in the 1990s of the sual stimulation, for example, such as the faces
field of developmental neuroscience (see of conspecifics. If those expected experiences
Nelson & Luciana, 2001), which examines the with the physical and social environment do not
neurobiological structures and processes un- occur within a relatively restricted early peri-
derlying behavioral development by using od, the unused synapses will not participate in
techniques such as functional magnetic reso- the developing organization of the brain and
nance imaging (fMRI) to study human brain will disappear.
activity in response to controlled stimuli. De- The nature and timing of early experiences that
velopmental neuroscientists already have shat- are influential in shaping the brain’s neural ar-
tered two long-held beliefs. First, it was chitecture are only now being identified, but it is
believed that brain development was wholly presumed that among the most important are
a function of genetically determined rules and those associated with sensitive, nurturant, and
programs invulnerable to environmental in- responsive care from people in the infant’s social
fluence. Second, it was believed that the human environment and that these key experiences must
brain is fully developed at birth. The evidence occur during early periods of sensitivity to stim-
now indicates that human infants are born with ulation (see M. H. Bornstein, 1989). Gunnar (2001)
almost all the brain neurons they will ever has reviewed studies of the developmental effects
have; the brain grows larger because the neu- of an impoverished early social environment on
rons increase in size and the connections, or human infants, such as that experienced by many
synapses, between them increase in number. children in orphanages. Even in settings in which
However, the way these neurons are struc- the child’s nutrition and other physical health
turally organized is not set out in a biological needs are met, and even when the environment
blueprint. Moreover, research findings suggest provides adequate social and physical stimula-
that neural connections in the brain elaborate tion, it appears that the absence of stable rela-
themselves after birth from a rudimentary pat- tionships with consistent caregivers has profound
tern of wiring that only slightly approximates effects on human development. One such effect
the adult pattern (Shatz, 1992) and that neural may be shallowness of later relationships.
plasticity, the ability of the brain to alter its Further evidence of the importance of early
functional organization, is very high after birth relationships comes from studies of “resilient”

24 CHAPTER 1
children who are born and raised in poor envi- Nature vs. Nurture:
ronments yet, despite being exposed to such
A False Dichotomy
adversities as war, poverty, natural disasters,
and family violence, seem to develop normal- It can be seen, as Blakemore and many others
ly and become competent adults nonetheless. emphasize, that the classical controversy of na-
Masten and Coatsworth (1998), who review this ture versus nurture was wrongly framed and
literature, report that the most widely docu- now is in the process of being buried. Findings in
mented predictors of a child’s resilience to ad- developmental neuroscience underscore that the
versity are early relationships with caring, role of experience is neither opposed to, nor sep-
prosocial adults and good intellectual func- arate from, innate influences on the nature of the
tioning—for example, good problem-solving developing brain and mind. Nature and nurture
skills. They conclude, “Resilient children do not interact with each other to influence brain de-
appear to possess mysterious or unique quali- velopment and other outcomes; this position is
ties; rather they have retained or secured im- now taken by almost all developmental psy-
portant resources representing basic protective chologists (see Collins, Maccoby, Steinberg, Heth-
systems in human development” (p. 212). In erington, & Bornstein, 2000).
other words, the same basic protective systems An illustration of how nature and nurture may
found to be important to children living in or- interact to influence a developmental outcome
dinary circumstances also are important to chil- is provided by experiments conducted by Mine-
dren who are not so fortunate and help them ka (e.g., 1987). Rhesus monkeys reared in the wild
overcome their adverse environments. For ex- are always afraid of snakes, but those reared in
ample, proximity to the caregiver is a power- the laboratory rarely are. When Mineka showed
ful predictor of a child’s response to its lab-reared monkeys a videotape of a wild-reared
exposure to the trauma of war or a natural dis- monkey exhibiting a fear response to a snake, the
aster (Garmezy & Masten, 1994). lab monkeys developed an enduring fear of
In sum, there is growing evidence that the de- snakes, but when Mineka showed the lab-reared
velopment of the brain and other biological sys- monkeys a videotape of a wild-reared monkey
tems is a function of an interaction between the exhibiting a fear response to a flower, the lab-
infant’s biological inheritance and his or her so- reared monkeys did not develop a fear response
cial inheritance at birth. In interpreting this evi- to flowers. Reviewing similar studies conducted
dence, most psychologists and neuroscientists take both with nonhuman primates and humans,
an evolutionary point of view. For example, British British ethologist and relationship scholar Robert
neuroscientist Colin Blakemore (1998) describes Hinde (1998) concludes that “in both humans
how, before birth, the genes “rough out” the ar- and rhesus monkeys the fear response to snakes
chitecture of the brain, and how, after birth, the appears to depend both on a relatively stable bi-
infant’s experience with his or her social and phys- ological predisposition and on learning from ex-
ical environment “fine tunes” that circuitry. Blake- perience” (p. 19). The operative word is “both.”
more comments, “The appearance, during Why did the lab-reared monkeys who observed
evolution, of mechanisms by which the strengths another monkey exhibiting a fear response to a
of synaptic connections could be changed as a re- snake (a social experience) subsequently devel-
sult of stimulation, so as to capture information op a snake phobia themselves? It couldn’t have
about the outside world and about individual ex- been their biological predisposition alone,
periences, was surely one of the most important because they had never shown such fear before.
and portentous steps in organic evolution” (p. 55). It couldn’t have been their social experience
That the brain an individual develops is the brain alone, because they did not develop a fear of
the individual needs to survive in the environ- flowers when their fellow monkey responded
ment he or she encounters was indeed a “porten- with fear to a flower. Their snake phobia was the
tous” step in human evolution. result of an interaction between their biological

FIRST RELATIONSHIPS 25
heritage and their experience with their social fluence the infants’ behavior not only during the
environment. The human’s fear of snakes, spi- period they were with their mother but also in
ders, and certain other stimuli is often explained their later social interactions.
by an evolutionary “preparedness theory of pho- The biologically highly reactive monkeys
bias” (Seligman, 1971). Because such stimuli were who were placed with highly nurturant moth-
dangerous to our ancestors, it is believed that ers were gifted with a rich social inheritance.
natural selection favored those persons who pos- Their counterparts were not so fortunate, nor
sessed an innate predisposition that prepared are many human infants, as we have noted. Al-
them to learn very quickly to fear these stimuli, though maltreatment of a child is known to
sometimes after just a single learning trial. greatly increase that individual’s risk of later
The manner in which early social experiences criminality (by about 50%), most maltreated
may modulate gene expression to influence fu- children do not become criminals. Caspi and
ture social interactions also is illustrated by a colleagues (2002) wondered why some mal-
series of experiments conducted by Suomi (1987, treated children later become violent but others
1999). Rhesus monkeys were selectively bred for do not. They hypothesized that a deficiency in
differences in temperamental reactivity (either the action of a gene that helps govern brain neu-
highly reactive or normally reactive) and after birth rotransmitter systems interacts with maltreat-
were placed with foster mothers who varied in ment to influence later tendencies toward
the degree of nurturance they had exhibited with violence. The longitudinal records of men who
their past offspring (either highly nurturant or had been followed from birth to adulthood were
normally nurturant). During the period of cross- examined, and those who had been beaten, mo-
fostering, the normally reactive infants displayed lested, or otherwise maltreated in childhood and
normal patterns of development regardless of those who had not were identified and their
whether their foster mother was highly or nor- genotypes obtained. As other studies have
mally nurturant. In contrast, the mother’s degree found, men who were abused as children were
of nurturance clearly influenced the development significantly more violent than those who had
of highly reactive infants. Highly reactive infants not been abused. However, those who had been
raised by normally nurturant foster mothers maltreated as children and who also possessed
showed deficits in early exploration and strong the deficiency genotype were, as adolescents,
responses to minor environmental disruptions. twice as likely to have been diagnosed with con-
Those raised by highly nurturant mothers, how- duct disorder and convicted of violent crimes,
ever, not only explored their environment more and to exhibit other symptoms of antisocial per-
and displayed fewer behavioral disturbances sonality, than those who also had been mal-
than their normally nurtured counterparts but treated but who did not have the deficiency.
also displayed more exploration and fewer be- Moreover, those who possessed the deficiency
havioral disturbances than did the normally re- genotype but had not been maltreated were no
active infants. Moreover, when the highly reactive more likely to be violent than those who did not
monkeys reared by highly nurturant mothers have it, thus providing evidence of a gene–en-
were moved into larger social groups at age 6 vironment interaction. Along with the many
months, they tended to rise to the top of their studies that have identified gene–environment
groups’ dominance hierarchies, whereas their bi- interactions with nonhuman animals (see Rut-
ologically highly reactive counterparts who had ter & Silberg, 2002), Caspi and associates’ find-
been raised by less (that is, normally) nurturant ings suggest that there may be many genetically
mothers tended to drop to the bottom of their influenced individual differences among hu-
groups’ social hierarchies. Thus, the infants’ bi- mans in sensitivity to specific features of the so-
ological inheritance of differential temperament cial environment, such as abuse.
interacted with their social inheritance of a nor- Some psychologists currently are attempting
mally or highly nurturant foster mother to in- to construct theoretical frameworks within which

26 CHAPTER 1
to view the impact of early social relationships relationships show less evidence of a neurohor-
on brain development. Siegel (1999), for exam- monal stress response when exposed to stressful
ple, reviews a great deal of neurobiological and situations than do insecurely attached infants.
psychological evidence in support of his thesis For example, a study of infants whose tempera-
that the human “mind” (which he views as ments were such that they displayed high wari-
emerging from the activity of brain neurons) de- ness and fear of strange events revealed that
velops at the interface of neurophysiological those who were securely attached to the parent
processes and interpersonal relationships. In ac- who was present during exposure to a stressful
cord with Hebb’s (1949) maxim that “neurons event (e.g., a clown asking them to play) did not
that fire together wire together,” Siegel, like exhibit cortisol elevation, but those who were in-
Blakemore and others, argues, “Experience—the securely attached did show significant cortisol
activation of specific neural pathways . . . directly increases (Nachmias, Gunnar, Mangelsdorf, Par-
shapes gene expression and leads to the mainte- ritz, & Buss, 1996). In sum, evidence is accumu-
nance, creation, and strengthening of the con- lating that early treatment by caregivers may
nections that form the neural substrate of the “program” neurological systems associated with
mind” (p. 14). The primary source of the infant’s emotional experience and regulation.
early experience is its interpersonal relationships,
especially those with its caregivers. Evidence is
The Infant’s Contributions
accumulating that the infant’s experiences in
early relationships interact with gene expression to Relationship Initiation
in shaping neurological circuits within the major and Maintenance
structures of the brain (see Suomi, 1999).
Other information about the ways in which Relationships are not one-way streets. Both part-
early relationships affect developmental out- ners must participate in interaction for a rela-
comes has come from investigations of the asso- tionship to be established and maintained, as
ciation between early relationships and later discussed in Chapter 6, “Birth of a Relationship,”
reactions to stressful events. These studies were and Chapter 7, “Relationship Growth and Main-
generated by findings that infant rat pups who tenance.” Although the caregiver or other adult
were handled early by humans subsequently usually is responsible for initiating and main-
showed less reactivity to stressful situations than taining a relationship with a child, even very
did pups who were not handled (e.g., Meaney et young infants are prepared to play an active role
al., 1985). Subsequent studies showed that rat in relationship initiation and maintenance.
pups who received highly nurturant and sensi- Tronick, Als, Adamson, Wise, and Brazelton
tive care by their mothers (e.g., much licking and (1978) systematically examined infants’ contri-
grooming) later exhibited less severe stress reac- butions to their interactions with their mothers in
tions than those raised by less nurturant mothers a standardized situation. They describe a normal
(e.g., Liu et al., 1997). Moreover, contact with a re- interaction between a 2-month-old infant and his
sponsive mother has been found to reduce stress mother:
reactivity in nonhuman primate infants as well
(e.g., Levine & Wiener, 1988). Strong neurohor- Baby [seated in a highchair in the laboratory] is look-
monal reactions to stress, partially evidenced in ing off to side where mother will come in. He sits
completely quiet, back in his baby seat, face serious,
humans by the release of high levels of cortisol,
cheeks droopy, mouth half open, corners down, but
are believed to adversely affect brain develop-
there is an expectant look in his eyes as if he were
ment and function. waiting. His face and hands reach out in the same di-
Gunnar (e.g., 2000) and her associates, who rection. As his mother comes in, saying “Hello” . . .
have examined the association between cortisol he follows her with his head and eyes as she ap-
reactivity to stress and the infant’s security of at- proaches him. His body builds up with tension, his
tachment, find that infants in secure attachment face and eyes open up with a real greeting which

FIRST RELATIONSHIPS 27
ends with a smile. His mouth opens wide and his completely withdraws, his body curled over, his head
whole body orients toward her. He subsides, mouths down. He does not look again at his mother. . . . He
his tongue twice, his smile dies, and he looks down looks wary, helpless, and withdrawn. As the moth-
briefly, while she continues to talk in an increasing- er exits at the end of the 3 minutes, he looks halfway
ly eliciting voice. . . . He looks up again, smiles wide- up in her direction, but his sober facial expression
ly, narrows his eyes, brings one hand up to his and his curled body position do not change. (pp. 7–8)1
mouth, grunting, vocalizing, and begins to cycle his
arms and legs out toward her. (p. 5) This infant tried to engage his mother in inter-
action but failed. He failed, in this case, because
After a period of play and reciprocal responsiv- the mother was following the experimenter’s in-
ity, the mother struction. In naturalistic situations, the baby may
fail because the mother is tired, busy, distracted,
loses her broad smile, gets up to leave, letting his ill, absent, or otherwise unable to respond to—or
legs [which she had been holding] go. At this he
perhaps even notice—her baby’s invitation to in-
looks beseechingly up into her face, his mouth turns
teract. Social interaction, it is becoming evident,
down, his eyebrows arch, his legs and arms quiet,
and he follows her with his eyes and head as she is necessary to the optimal development of the
moves away. (p. 7) baby’s brain.

This normal pattern of interaction is in contrast


to what is observed when the mother has been in- IMPLICATIONS FOR SOCIETY
structed to enter the room and maintain an im-
passive and unresponsive face: An improved understanding of the develop-
mental significance of the child’s social relation-
The infant is looking contemplatively down at his ships, both with adults and peers, is considered
hands, fingering the fingers of one hand with the by many to be one of the most significant ad-
other. As the mother enters, his hand movements vances psychology has made over the past quar-
stop. He looks up at her, makes eye-to-eye contact ter century (Hartup, 1989; see Hartup & Laursen,
and smiles. Her masklike face does not change. He 1999). Findings pointing to the importance of
looks away quickly to one side and remains quiet,
early relationships, and of providing infants with
his facial expression serious. He remains this way for
adequate experience and stimulation and a safe,
20 seconds. Then he looks back at her face, his eye-
brows and lids raised, his hands and arms startling secure, and supportive environment as the brain
slightly out toward her. He quickly looks down at and other structures develop after birth, have
his hand, stills for 8 seconds, and then checks her face many implications for society. In his review of
once more. This look is cut short by a yawn, with his the many relevant findings, Rosenzweig (1996)
eyes and face turning upward. His fingers pull at the quotes an early report issued by the Carnegie
fingers of his other hand, the rest of his body is mo- Task Force on Meeting the Needs of Young
tionless. The yawn and neck stretches last 5 seconds. Children:
He throws out one arm in a slight startle and looks
briefly at her face. Arm movements are jerky, his Beginning in the 1960s, scientists began to demon-
mouth curves downward, his eyes narrow and par- strate that the quality and variety of the environ-
tially lid. He turns his face to the side, but he keeps ment have direct impact on brain development.
his mother in peripheral vision. He fingers his hand Today, researchers around the world are amass-
again, his legs stretch toward her and rapidly jerk ing evidence that the role of the environment is
back again. He arches forward, slumps over, tucks even more important than earlier studies had sug-
his chin down on one shoulder, but he looks up at gested. . . . Studies of children raised in poor
her face from under his lowered eyebrows. This po- environments—both in this country and else-
sition last for over a minute, with brief checking looks where—show that they have cognitive deficits of
at the mother occurring almost every 10 seconds. He substantial magnitude by eighteen months of age
grimaces briefly and his facial expression becomes and that full reversal of these deficits may not be
more serious, his eyebrows furrowing. Finally, he possible. (p. 22)

28 CHAPTER 1
Researchers have continued to investigate the tal and physical health. These theorists present a
effects of a poor social inheritance, including the model that outlines how risky families may cre-
ways in which it interacts with the child’s bio- ate early vulnerabilities and deficits in the child’s
logical inheritance. Repetti, Taylor, and Seeman control and expression of emotions and in social
(2002) review the wealth of evidence that “risky competence (Figure 1.12). The model outlines how
families”—families characterized by conflict, the effects of these early deficits may cascade
anger, and aggression and by cold and unsup- through early childhood to produce and exacer-
portive relationships that are neglectful of a child’s bate other of the child’s deficits and vulnerabili-
needs—are associated with children’s poor men- ties, such that the risk for adverse health outcomes

Risky Families

Family Social Context Genetic Factors

Risky Family Social Environment

Conflict and Aggression


Cold, Unsupportive, and Neglectful Home

Effects first
observed:

Stress-Responsive Emotion Processing


Infancy Biological Regulatory
Systems

Preschool and
Early
Social Competence
Childhood

Adolescence
Risky Health Behaviors
(substance abuse, risky sexual
behavior)

Adolescence
and Mental Health and Physical Health Problems
Adulthood

FIGURE 1.12 The risky families model. Reprinted from Repetti, Taylor, & Seeman, “Risky Families” (2000),
Fig. 1, p. 331.

FIRST RELATIONSHIPS 29
accumulates through adolescence and adulthood. Finally, the evidence that the human is truly a
In accord with mounting evidence, the model social animal—that our biological systems, in-
highlights the role of early disturbances in bio- cluding our brain, are wired in such a way as to
logical systems involved in reactions to stress. It facilitate the formation and maintenance of rela-
also includes the influence of the poor physical tionships with others of the species—has impli-
and social environments (poverty, high-crime cations for the discipline of psychology. A body of
neighborhoods, inadequate medical care) in knowledge about the behavior of fish would be
which risky families are often embedded and that incomplete at best without reference to the water
contribute to the chronically high stress levels in which fish evolved, are born, live, and die.
family members often experience. It includes, too, Likewise, a science devoted to understanding and
the influence of genetic factors, which themselves predicting the behavior of an animal that evolved,
may be associated with a variety of the child’s is conceived and born, develops, lives, and dies
deficits but which may subsequently interact with within relationships with others must recognize
the child’s immediate family environment and and incorporate the influence of the human’s re-
with the larger environmental factors surround- lationship web (see Kelley, 1983/2002a; Reis,
ing the child and the family to increase the child’s Collins, & Berscheid, 2000).
vulnerability to adverse outcomes.
Apart from the individual tragedy that each
child who fails to receive adequate care repre- SUMMARY
sents, all members of society ultimately pay a
high price for each failure. This is why govern- From the time of our entry into the world at birth, we
live our lives enmeshed in a complex web of inter-
ments in virtually all societies attempt to regulate
personal relationships. Not only are human infants
behavior in close relationships, usually family
born into an existing interpersonal reality (their social
relationships (but with varying success, as dis- inheritance), but they also come bearing an extraordi-
cussed in Chapter 5, “Varieties of Relationship”). nary array of biological gifts that allow them to de-
Findings documenting the importance of the velop and sustain relationships with others in the social
human’s early social experiences in development world. The innate need to belong impels each of us to
have implications not only for society but for every form and maintain lasting interpersonal relationships;
man and woman who is, or plans to be, a parent. the face perceptual system enables us to attend and
Prospective and new parents today do not have the respond to the human face; empathic accuracy allows
luxury of ignorance that parents in the past had us to accurately decipher emotional and behavioral
about the consequences of their parenting practices cues from other social objects; language allows us to
communicate with our species and our partners; and
for the welfare of their children. Knowledge about
the attachment and caregiving systems predispose us
the importance of early relationships to a child’s
to quickly form strong bonds to important others and
development has become available only in the past to engage in behaviors which promote close proxim-
few decades. As a result, educated persons who be- ity. These biological propensities promote social con-
come parents now bear both the burden and the nectedness and enhance health and well-being in
blessing of knowing the possible consequences of infancy, and they continue to play an important role in
their failure to provide the conditions necessary to the development and maintenance of relationships as
their child’s optimal development. they unfold across the life span.

30 CHAPTER 1
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