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06-Persuasive Language Hacks
06-Persuasive Language Hacks
Creating “Reality”
When to use these: any conversation, team member, prospect, client, spouse, kids, friends, etc.
Why: You have a responsibility to create reality, communicate your ideas, vision, direction - and resolve any
blocks in the way. Nobody else is learning the skills you’re learning - don’t expect someone else to magically
get on the same page as you.
Rules:
● Don’t get triggered. Stay present. (use the tools and clear fear & resentment charges)
● Project warmth & caring, don’t be antagonistic (unless it’s self-deprecating)
● Always intend to bring about a win-win (not only a win-win logically, they have to KNOW it’s a win)
● Let them “vent / outflow” first if needed (80% of the talking)
● Be curious - almost appearing naive…
● Be willing to be wrong
● Use “you” sparingly
● NEVER make them wrong
● NEVER even insinuate that they MIGHT be wrong
● Make them RIGHT - (let them be right, but in a way that you are also right)
● Make them IMPORTANT
● NEVER “explain yourself”
● ALWAYS make them sound / feel smarter (than you might think they are)
● Reaffirm
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