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Interpersonal Communication
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Transactional Analysis
It is a social psychology and a method to improve communication. The theory
outlines how we have developed and treat ourselves, how we relate and
communicate with others, and offers suggestions and interventions which will
enable us to change and grow. Transactional Analysis is underpinned by the
philosophy that:
Berne devised the concept of ego states to help explain how we are made up and how
we relate to others. These are drawn as three stacked circles and they are one of the
building blocks of Transactional Analysis. They categorize the ways we think, feel
and behave and are called Parent, Adult, and Child. Each ego state is given a capital
letter to denote the difference between actual parents, adults and children.
Life positions in Franklin Ernst ‘s OK Modes Model are basic beliefs about self and
others, which are used to justify decisions and behavior.
Criticizing Mode - communicates a "You're not OK" message. When in this Mode you
will believe that others cannot do things as well as you can, or perhaps only certain
chosen people can. If you lead from this position you are unlikely to develop a loyal
supportive team or culture.
Inconsistent Mode - As a leader we might be inconsistent in our style - changing our
behaviour in unpredictable and apparently random ways. This is not helpful for
followers (or leaders).
Interfering Mode - communicates a "You're not OK" message. When in this Mode the
person will often do things for others which they are capable of doing for
themselves. People who find it difficult to delegate might be in this Mode.
Reckless Mode - In this Mode we run wild with no boundaries. Here we express a
"You're not OK" message. At work we tend not to take responsibility for our actions
and are unlikely to progress as we need a great deal of management in order to focus
our energy and keep boundaries.
Joseph Luft’s Johari Window:
1.Open area, open self, free area, free self, or 'the arena‘: what is known by the person
about him/herself and is also known by others .
2. Blind area, blind self, or 'blindspot‘: what is unknown by the person about
him/herself but which others know.
3. Hidden area, hidden self, avoided area, avoided self or 'façade’: what the person
knows about him/herself that others do not know.
4. Unknown area or unknown self: what is unknown by the person about him/herself
and is also unknown by others.
‘Open self/area‘, 'free area‘, 'public area', 'arena‘:
The aim is to reduce this area by seeking or soliciting feedback from others and
thereby to increase the open area, i.e., to increase self-awareness. Team members and
managers take responsibility for reducing the blind area - in turn increasing the open
area - by giving sensitive feedback and encouraging disclosure.
Managers and leaders can create an environment that encourages self-discovery, and to
promote the processes of self discovery, constructive observation and feedback among
team members.
Managers & Leaders: Johari Window is helpful for managers and leaders in
operating methods and integrating management. It improves interpersonal
communication. By increasing the ‘open area’ most of the interpersonal conflict can be
reduced.
✓ Also have a big responsibility to promote a culture and expectation for open,
honest, positive, helpful, constructive, sensitive communications, and the
sharing of knowledge throughout their organization
✓ Encouraging the positive development of the 'open area' or 'open self' for
everyone is a fundamental aspect of effective leadership.
Daniel Goleman’s Concept of Emotional Intelligence in Communication
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In the words of Cooper and Sawaf (1997 28), it is “the ability to sense, understand,
and effectively apply the power and acumen of emotions as a source of human
energy, connection, and influence”.
What is emotion?
The word emotion is derived from the Latin word “emovere” which means the
spirit that moves us. Emotion is the transmitter and recorder of all feelings, thoughts
and actions. Many a time lines are heard like “let emotions not sway your duty
towards your kingdom” in Indian history. The ability to manage feelings and handle
stress has been found to be important for success. Every one experiences emotions at
work.
Feelings can encompass both positive and negative responses. Feelings are
psychologically coupled with emotions, thoughts and behaviors. A feeling wheel
was developed by Dr. Gloria Willcox, of Petersburg, Florida, USA, to help to
identify the layers of underlying feelings. It shows the opposite feeling opposite
ends of the wheel. The emotions mad and powerful are opposing each other at the
wheel. Similarly sad and joyful are at opposite ends. This can be used to expand
the awareness of emotions.
Feeling wheel
Goleman’s Model of EI
Source: Cheniss C & Golemand D. The emotional intelligent work place. John Wily
and Sons. 2001.165.