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Hello! what a beautiful and radiant smile, i will never trade anything for this
smile, you do not know me, i was surfing through the internet when i saw your
profile i was captivated by your smile, please always keep this smile. please write
back to me i would like to know you more.

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was lonely trying to find some old friends when i saw your gorgeous picture beside
my wall and i could not help but write you to know more about you,

..............may I ask to know you better, i mean tell me where you are from,
where you stay ? are you married ? how old are you ? do you have kids and how
many ? where you work and what do you do on your free time, i will like us to have
time for chat

...sorry for being so inquisitive, i just want us to get together as good friends

I'm a mixed blood though, my mom is Chinese and my dad is America. I was born and
rasied in the United state of America

I am a foreigner who loves the chinese people, because they are kind,caring and
have good heart,Nice to hear from you that China is good.

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i am 50 years old America and i am a soldier by profession currently in Afghanistan
for peace keeping. I have been with the U.S. Army Thunderbird's for 25 years now
and am General here from Nellis Army Base, Nevada. (Bagram Airfield Afghanistan
Camp)

I am a responsible man who once had a lovely family in the states, i lost my wife 5
years ago and i have a daughter who living and studying in a boarding school in the
united state of America

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i will appreciate us being good friends in sincerity, honesty and trust although we
just got to know each other...i will like us to share ideas and discuss about more
issues as we talk more about ourselves, and i believe as time goes on there may be
something great for us in the future ...what do you say?

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So how is the situation of things is over there in regards to the economic standard
and security in your country?

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Thanks alot I assure you that we will be best of friends that people will envy you
and I, all we need to do is to be sincere in our communication as good friends...
Okay.

I am 175cm and weight 79kg...what about you Pretty

I am 175cm and weight 85kg

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What is your favorite music?

I love music... the songs I listen to will usually tell you what kind
of mood I'm in or tell you what's in my heart when words can't begin
to describe who I am. When I'm happy, you'll usually find me singing
and assuming that i know the song. I think music is a gift many people
take for granted. They'll listen just to hear the beat yet won't stop to feel the
power of it's words. Music can be soothing to the soul and can calm the restless
spirit.

The wrong kind of music can also damage one's inner being. A person's
mind will unconsciously listen to the lyrics which will either bring
death/depression upon them or will bring joy to their soul so they might be able to
enjoy life. As a person's mood changes so do the type of music they listen to.
they say when words fail music speaks music is an instrument natural peace, it
helps enhance a peaceful state of mind. only if you're listening to the right song
at the right time.

what are your hobbies, interest, lifestyle and religious believe

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I am a Christian and i like swimming, listening to music, reading, watching
football and playing golf but i have not done any of that in years since i lost my
wife cause all i do now is work, work and work so when i get back i don't have to
think or feel lonely. I am simple and understanding man, i have a shy and quiet
lifestyle.

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How is your life over there ? do you like your job there ? i hope i can get to know
you more though cause i hope to make honest friendship and more with you

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I have been in the camp for 9 months now and i should be retired from here in less
than 3 months and this is why i want to make friends before i leave here it's easy
for me when am out cause i don't have friends or relatives out there except my
daughter and that is also one of the reasons i want to retire soon.

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When am retired, i intend to go in to supplies of copper wires and tractors for
buildings and telecommunications networks so am not idle...i hope to retire soon
cause i want to be able to spend more time with my little girl and also have a
family again " complete family "...i lost my parents when i was young, i have no
siblings and same as my daughter so she leave in the boarding school for now and
all we have is each other.

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Life hasn't been fair to us too over here ... sorry i can't call you cause we are
not allowed to use mobiles

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i want you to keep our conversation between us cause we are not allowed to talk
with strangers when we are on a mission...but i don't feel you are a stranger to me
that is why i am open with you and i am free too to share my pic with you...some
people might want to add you acting US Army but please don't accept them they are
only spy trying to monitor us...hope you got this? I trust you and i know you can
protect my job, have a good night rest sweetie...see you again later
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hi dear, i like to tell you more about my work and what we do here everyday so that
you will know what we are going through here. There is this evil group of peopled
called al Qaeda or talibans, they plan and attack to other countries around the
world and they also destroy life and property of the people of Afghanistan for
thier own personal interest in order to take control of the cities and country,
they also kidnap foreigners that come here to work, everyday we the US Army go
across the stress for patrol and make sure we stop their plan and secure the people
here before they take control of the cities and country, my work takes most of my
time and working here is like " a storyline in a typical American movie or news "
cause everyday when we go for patrol something happens which most times involves
dead bodies. I can't wait to retired in 3 months time cause i miss my daughter so
much and now i kind of miss you too. It hurts me that i can't here your voice as
long am here cause we aren't allowed to use mobile devices for security reasons.

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I believe in a healthy relationship, I value honesty and trust. i love my daughter
who is 7 years old. She is the most precious and only family i have now, if you
have the opportunity to meet her, i know you will like her

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I want you to know that distance and language is not a problem in a relationship as
i will come and meet you over there...as the saying goes, a journey of 1000 miles
begins with a step, i don't have much time to get out and meet someone new because
of the nature of my job so i am very happy to have you in my life

After some days Chat with Client:

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it�s been a while since we have met on the net, and spent endless

hours, day or night, in these chat, which so often criticized as

impersonal and distant. Only I know how good it makes me feel to know

you, and how good it makes me feel to have this constant exchange of

words and ideas with you.

I don�t think I have ever talked as much with anybody or any so-called few military
friends of mine as I do with you. Some people talk about the risks and dangers of
knowing someone through the Internet, to the point of becoming suspicious of their
own shadows. But I must confess that our contact, even at a distance, has become
really important to me.

I miss chatting with you and sending you mail when i am on duty? But,

more importantly, I feel good knowing you now, that you had a good day, that things
went well for you and all those curiosities that true

friends have about one and another.

This small note is only to confirm my intention of maintaining this almost daily
contact, either by vibrato or WeChat until the day we will meet in person and also
thank social network for making our first contact happen.

I will really appreciate us being good friends with sincerity, honesty,

understanding, caring, kind, lovely and trust. to share ideas and discuss about
more issues as we talk more about ourselves, and i believe as time goes on there
may be something great for us in the future ...What do you think?

Once again thanks for accepting me as your friend and you are indeed

welcome to my world of friendship

You
you are so far and yet so close. You are many miles and so many moons

away and I get lonely just thinking of the distance between us, yet in my heart,
you are just a bit away. When I feel blue, I picture you with me on a moon-lit
night holding hands and planning our great future together.

Please i want you to take note of this, that distance, language, age and culture is
not going to be a barrier between both of us.

With an airplane, all distance are reachable within some hours or days.

when is comes to friendship age does not really matters but what

really matters is maturity and understanding.

We can be able to learn another language within some period time and that is if
will have the willingness and for me, i have the willingness to learn your language
so that we both can communicate fluently.

Culture is a word for people's way of life, meaning the way groups do

things. Different groups of people may have different cultures. A culture is passed
on to the next generation by learning and also Culture is seen in people's writing,
religion, music, clothes, cooking, and in what they do. i believe we can be able to
adapt to some area in each other cultures.

Question for client:=======================================

The world is wonderfully made, i will like to know about the weather condition over
there in your country?

Question for cleint:=======================================

How IS the situation of things over there in regards to the economic standard and
security?

WHEN THE CLITENT OFTEN DEMAND FOR video:=======================================

It Is impossible because the system is synchronized and being monitor

from our military headquarters..

If i should do that with you i will be monitor and look for and I will be punished
because at that moment biodata was recognized in our base

and it can give room to hijacker to hijacker our system.

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INFORMING YOUR CLIENT NOT TO LISTEN OR TAKE PEOPLE WORDS AND ALSO NOT DISCUSS
THINGS ABOUT YOU BOTH TO PEOPLE AROUND HER:

Never allow anyone to deceive you and never use what you heard from

other person's mouth to judge at ones because in a relationship we

ought to be equal and trust ourselves.

Always believe in our love for each other...Never discuss your personal life with
someone else , be it your friend or family relative, because the world is cruel and
some people are very jealous and they will go extra length to do anything

Dear, please let things about our relationship be within us and let it

be confidential also.

WHEN YOUR CLIENT SEND YOU PICTURE:=======================================

If a thousand painters paint for thousand years, they will never

create a work of art as beautiful as you. your beauty can make a

disable man walk freely. if beauty were time you would be eternity.

the day you were born, i think God must have been sleeping to let

angel like you escape to earth. Light can be defined without sun.

Sweetness can be defined without honey. Fragrance can be defined

without a rose, but beauty cannot be defined without you.

You are so beautiful that I really believe when our creator thought of

beauty, He saw only you. Your eyes aren't just beautiful, they are a

gateway to a world that I want to be part of.

How Beautiful You Are If I could give you one gift, I�d give you my eyes, so you
could see how beautiful you really are. I looked at a sweet, beautiful rose, And
then I looked at you, And I kept looking at you, For the rose isn't as beautiful as
you.

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MY QUALITIES

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I am a very passionate man, and i need a passionate woman to be my partner and also
who can communicate what she desires and has the ability to listen and the ability
to share her heart. I want to share my life with someone who won't be as a
playmate. you need to be ready to make a commitment if the relationship matures. i
have got to know the value of a woman in a man's life.

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I am responsible, supportive, caring and have a loyal and tolerant character very
humble, honest, understanding and truthful. i am a very passionate, physical person
that would want the same in a mate, deeply romantic, hopeful, wise and smart

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7TH TOAST

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I wish I could tell you but I don�t want to scare you away from me, and I would
rather write you and not be with you then to never see you , because writing you
every day is a gift from God that I was blessed with. I guess I will never know how
you feel unless I confess my feelings to you. Who knows - you might feel the same
about me.

I really think I love you . I just don�t know how to tell you. I think about you
every second of every day. When I fall asleep, my dreams are about you. When I wake
up, I look at the empty pillow next to me and wish you were there looking into my
eyes. I wish I could tell you how I really feel. I�m just afraid that it�s too
late...

i know that this might be too forward or fast but i just thought it is better you
knew what i felt and i am sorry if this is not what you wanted

My heart tells me that you are a very nice woman and you are meant to

be cared, loved and pampered with care. your husband must never make
you cry because you are a nice woman with a good and kind heart . I

have always obey the request of my heart because it has never led me

wrongly before and My heart is my guide.

I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as

the relationship I want to build with you I want it to be like no

other you have ever shared in your life or experienced.

This relationship I want to build with you will be filled with substance,
quality,spirituality, love, faithfulness, care, understanding,trust, heart to
assist the relationship in times of

pains, keep secrets. thank God i met you, as you may have known, the

fountain of any relationship must spring up in the mind.

It is very important for me to express to you how much you really mean

to me do not be bothered by distance dear, Distance doesn't permit the

action to be seen, rather, words convey the feelings when distance

hinders. No matter the distance that separates us now, I can assure

you that this gap will be bridged as we really get to know, love and

trust each other every day.

I just want you to know that i have the arms to.You make me feel like. I am the
only man in the world. You are the only woman in the world as far as I am
concerned. You are my heart and soul. I feel as though we are meant to be together,
that we have been brought together by God.

I have always believed that I had a soul mate out there and I know is

you, I see it every time I look into your pretty photos, and I feel it when i am
reading your mail or thinking about you. Baby, my sweet baby, I love you. I was
sent down to earth on mission, a mission to find someone that will complete me.

I never thought that my task would be fulfilled until the very moment I found you.
I had finally found the perfection that I had been seeking for all my life,i love
you so much that i cannot wait to be in your arms darling.

Nobody teaches a baby to crawl, nobody teaches birds to fly, nobody

teaches the sun to rise and nobody teaches the fish to swim, the same

is with me nobody teaches me to love you, I just decide to love you

because you are the mother of my unborn kids,You are always in my

heart, here and everywhere, There is no one in the whole world that
makes me feel this way and nobody can ever take your place in my heart

honey.

A ring is round, a well is deep,in your arms i long to sleep in your bed i long to
lie no one else but me and you forever.I must have been born under a lucky star,to
find a woman as nice as you are, I will follow the rainbow to the end if you
promise to remain my wife forever.

15 DISCUSSING ABOUT RELATIONSHIP:======================================

All relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt

shouldn�t be part of being in love. Loving relationships have good

qualities, such as support from your partner, a willingness to communicate, a

desire to compromise and open an honest communication.

When you do not have these fundamental qualities in relationship, that relationship
isn�t likely to grow, and become something that you do

not desire.We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your
loved one does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your
relationship. As we all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in
life for those that we care about. Support can come in many forms, someone lending
an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or something as simple as a
phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives you support when you need
it.

When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be

things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so
both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch
football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that
your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization
with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with
your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If
someone isn�t willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants
and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally
developed enough for you to have your needs met.

Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities

you want to have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is

not secretive, nor are they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For
example, if a partner is married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully
assume if they can lie about big things, they can lie about small things. While you
may not like everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there
in your relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a
relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be

successful, because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the
relationship.
There are many qualities that make relationships good support,

compromise, and open and honest communication is just a few of these

qualities that you may desire in a relationship. Engage only in relationships where
both partners can openly discuss their wants and

needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow and only become
better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they continually fail to
support you, will not compromise, and will

not be honest. These three qualities alone will help you nurture and

TRUST:======================================

You need trust to love, but first, you need to love in order to trust. To love
someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart
and to trust one another.

Love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It

should be given respect and trust, and it should receive that love
back.The best proof of love is trust.True love is the greatest thing
that you can experience; it can weather any storm. Loving, trusting
and respecting each other totally can bring you to true love and
happiness.

It's hard to love and hard to trust, but finding love and finding trust was a gift
from you to me. Relationships should never be taken for granted.

The choice of being with another life is an amazing thing. Trust, loyalty and
respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you love someone if
you don�t have these ingredients you will never succeed.

To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust

him/her first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the
only thing that will never fade until you die, your heart..

Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting
them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you
hold on to.Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them.
Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case
they need some help.

Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special,
think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to cherish her, to fulfill
her dreams, to share with her and most of all, to make her realize how much you
really love her.

Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters
most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.Without romance,
love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring.
Without honesty, love gets unhappy,
and without trust, love gets unstable.

Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be
returned to you to give again and again.You can get advice from family, friends,
and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies - trusts
it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting
with your heart; choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be
loved.

For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart
already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart Distance cannot,
and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust,
commitment, and love.

Jealousy is not a sign of true love; its insecurities that come in the way, because
love has just one important ingredient which is trust and Love means never doubting
anything. It means trusting and being honest
with each other Someone can be as beautiful on the outside as they are
on the inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the
ugliest person in the world.

Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not
proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily
angered. It keeps no record of wrongdoing. It does not delight in evil
but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes
many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and
everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be enough.Love is not
always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and
trust between two people.

Money Happiness is the only thing on earth that cannot be paid by any
diamonds, gold or money.Money and love aren't the same things. The
more you spend money, the less you have, the more you spend love, the
more you get in return.Love doesn't cost money, but it does require
the payment of your heart.A man can inherit a house and money from his
parents, but only the Lord can give him a sensible wife.

Love is when money and materialistic things no longer matter. It's when you're
holding the hand of the woman you love and you feel like
the richest man in the world - you have everything.With money, we can
buy all things, but with love, we find everything that really matters.It isn't
money, fame, or power, no, the greatest adventure in life is love. Power is one
thing; money and power are two things, but love is everything

develop a deeper relationship with your partner.