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by Bridestory | Des 26, 2015 | 7:30 in Relationship Tips

We all know the famous saying of 'love hurts'. We hear it in songs and we see it being played out in
movies. We have been preconditioned into thinking that loving someone means getting hurt, that it
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involved, that our heart must be aching because what we have is the Chat
 BRIDESTORY APPhere to tell you that this isn't so. Why? Because when a person has a
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perception that loving someone equals being in pain, the relationships they then end up in will
always and forever will be the source of their unhappiness. It is very important to understand that
love does not hurt. Pain is the last thing anyone would ever want to inflict upon someone they love.
Love does not hurt. Loneliness hurts, rejection hurts, and losing someone hurts, but love doesn't
hurt. Love isn't supposed to come with emotional, physical or verbal abuse, it simply cannot exist
amongst any of these things.

Love does not hurt you. A person who does not know how to love hurts you. Do not allow people
who do not know how to love you, change the definition of love for you. When you settle for less,
you will get hurt. When you spend more time crying than you are smiling in your relationship, you
will get hurt. Understand that it is not love that comes with pain but loving someone who is
incapable of giving love in the first place.

Yes, you may feel sadness and pain every now and then in your relationship but the only reasons
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 you should be feeling those emotions are when you are missing your partner, when your tears are
tears of happiness, when someone or something is getting in the way of you being with your
partner, and when you see your partner unhappy with something that's going on in their lives.
These are the only reasons you should feel any pain. A person who truly loves you will never allow
himself or herself to do something they know will hurt you. If for whichever reason the person
you're with does something hurtful, the moment you communicate your feelings will be the moment
they immediately try to change. That is love.

Change the perception that you may have from love being painful to love being all that is wonderful.
Love is happiness, acceptance, joy, excitement, growth, passion and complete freedom to be
yourself. Do not deprive yourself of the real deal when it comes to love. The moment we start
believing that love does not in fact go hand in hand with pain is the moment we will settle for the
best and only the best. And ladies, that is what all of us truly deserve.

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