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Am doing fine, My day was quite a little busy one but all thanks to God.

My name is Helen, and You? Well it's a pleasure meeting you here online

So how long have you been here online?

Am a new Free Trial Member here. Am still a Cyber Dating virgin, I said to give
it a try becos I know it has worked out for so many people.

What is your Aim on Match?

My aim of joining here to find a solid friendship that would possibly lead into
something great in future,I want an ideal relationship,well it must be founded on
friendship first. There must also be a certain amount of mutual attraction to begin
with.

I'm a supplying manager the company diversified into supplies, installation and
maintenance of power engineering products mainly generating sets, transformers and
switch gears., I'm presently in Lagos Nigeria right now working. My daughter came
along with me here for this trip, I employed a talented tutor that will be
homeschooling her here while i work, She has made some couple of friends, i bet she
is loving it here.

And if you were asked to use 5 words to describe yourself, what would you say??
As for me... Am Creative, Caring, Honest, Communicative and Passionate..

Tell me about your family...?

I was Adopted by my parent i never knew who my real parent was ....... I am the
only child of my parents. I lost my mom and dad in a car accident last year.I don't
have any more family, The only family I've now is my daughter Nicole, God and my
Soul mate I'm hoping to meet someday soon.

I am 38year old woman I Live In Austin Texas, United States but willing to
relocate when i find the right man for me.

Where are you originally from? I am originally from Cobbitty, New South
Wales,Australia, born there but was raised in the USA....

Do u have a kids and tell me about them and What is there name?
I've one daughter who means the world to me and she is 4 years old, Her name is
Nicole and she means a lot to me & I'm trying to raise her to be one of the rare
breed out there, a gentle women who owns her words, who is independent, self-
confident, knows her worth, loves God, treats people, and especially women and men
& older people with respect, focused, disciplined, be playful, be fun, sense of
humor ~ always and be a warrior with a tender heart.

What do you feel about me when you first saw my picture and read my profile...?As I
came across your profile you seem to posses some sought of magnetic charm that
elicited my interest

My admiration and physical attraction drew forth my immediate response without

hesitation because you appeal to my dreams, desire and taste.My sudden instinctive
response was based primarily on a spontaneous mutual attraction which rendered me
helpless and unable to resist communicating with you immediately, please afford
me the opportunity to know you.

From my point of view, there are a few things that I find attractive and a few
that I find emotionally irresistible about you, you seem straightforward and
sincere..
Actually I must confess that I was impressed by the sincerity of your profile...
And I must say that you really do have a Killer Smile which anyone would
appreciate...

So tell me... Generally in life, what are the few things that keeps you happy??
To me health is very important, If you've got your health, you've got everything. I
Feel Warm deep inside of me whenever I make someone smile, I get Happier whenever I
give praise to God or whenever I help others to appreciate God..

Have you tried this online relationship before or is this your first time?
I decided not to go into any intimate relationship for a while, at least for
while.. You know what I mean.

And what was your last relationship like, how long did it last and Why did it
ended??
I was still Married to My Wife untill she past away 2years ago. But thanks to God
that I was able to overcome the shock..

So what have you learnt from your past Relationships?

I've come to realise that life holds endless possibilities, special times are
better if shared with a good hearted and wonderful people..

Can you pls describe to me the characters & qualities you're looking for in a Man?
Am looking for a Responsible Lady, who is Honest, Kind, Learned, Beautiful at
Heart, Hard Working, Reliable, Communicative, and Committed..

If I may ask, what is your definition of LOVE?

My own definition of LOVE is that Those who don't like it call it Responsibility,
while those who play with it call it Game. And those who don't have it call it
Dream, but I call it DESTINY.

So now are you ready to move on, I mean to start up a new Serious and Committed
Relationship??
Behind every Great Man there is a Good Woman. So am ready to move on to find that
Good Woman for my heart..

What would you say your biggest fear is when it comes to relationships?
Actually I've no fears but I don't like been Lied to, Cheated on, and loosing Trust
in that person whom I've engaged myself with in a relationship.

What common mistakes do you think most people make in there Relationships which you
wouldn't like to make?
Most people bottle up their emotions while some relationships Lacks Good
Communication, Not Keeping their Words & Standards, and Not Following their Inner
Truth.

Do you smoke or take much of Alcohol?

I don't smoke but I know my limit with alcohol, I can only take a glass of Red Wine
once in a while..

What kind of music do you like?

I like all kinds of music, I can listen to most anything,like blues,oldies,jazz,r
and b hip hops.

What's your Religious Believe, and how serious are you in your Religious?
Am a Christian (A Catholic) My Christian Faith is the center of my identity, and
It's the essence of who I am..

Now lets talk about some of the things we like and the things we do for fun as
well...
I like gardening, fishing, sightseeing, taking a long walk, exercise, cooking, and
Sightseeing. The warmer the better, I also love to cuddle, going to Comedy shows
and sporting events.. How about you??

Your words really do sound like a great woman, who is full of Warmness, kindness,
sincerity, openness, understanding, and compassion..

What type of music do you love listening to and do you play any musical
instruments?
I love R&B/Soul Music, Jazz, Oldies, Country, Classical, New Age, Gospel,
Instrumental and I Am good in playing Acoustic Guitar

What's your favorite Colours, Flower, and Pet?

My favorite colours are Green, Purple, Sky Blue... As for flowers, Hollyhock, Lily,
Rose, Marigold, and my pet is Dogs but my daughter likes Birds and yes i love to go
to the Movies...

Name a couple of T.V. shows you love watching?

Family Guy, The Simpsons, Spongrbob, Criminal Minds, Perfect Couples, The Office,
Modern Family, House, American Idol and C.S.I

If you had to choose a sport to watch - Which would it be, Football or Basketball?
Actually I love the both of them but I would prefer Football..

SECOND DAY...........................................................

How're you doing and how was your day?

Am doing fine, just had a very cool lovely day as usual.

Actually I must say that I would really like to know you more better if you don't
mind so as to build an endless relationship with you.

So, I know that it will take time for us to get acquainted come to trust and
respect each other. If you are interested in a serious relationship,one that will
also take time to develop, then I may be your man;)!

Can you tell me what kind of a person you want to grow old with?
someone that is serious, confident, purposeful, persistent, smart, responsible,
honest, modest, kind, flexible, elegant, sociable, communicative, sensitive,
gentle, cheerful, romantic, considered, responsible,someone that still believes in
true love, soul mates, love notes, walks, holding hands, and talking to each
other,That special someone would be attractive, intelligent, sexy, romantic,
affectionate, caring, funny, confident, and family oriented, LOVES KIDS. Sorry, but
they're an important part of my life, and expect the person I'm with to accept
that. Someone who will work at keeping the relationship alive. Want that feeling of
looking forward to seeing each other after work, and when were away from each
other, we cant wait to go home!

What is your zodiac sign and When is your birthday??

My Zodiac sign is arise and my Birthday is Match 21.
So do you believe in love at first sight?
Yes I definitly do.

How Romantic are you?

Am quite romantic, though I might not be 100% romantic but at least I can be 85%
romantic

Do you like Kissing and would you be proud enough to Kiss your Man in public?
Am a very good Kisser and I can never be ashamed to Kiss my partner in public, no
matter who is watching..

What do you think is the secret to a good life?

The only secret to a good life is to have a good teacher and a loving heart.. And
of cos a loving heart is the beginning of all Knowledge...

Do people tell you that you act and look much older than your age or much younger?
I enjoy Sports a lot and I keep fit regularly thats why most people say I look much
younger than my age

So do you consider yourself a happy person?

mmmmm.. Yes & No... Yes becos am Okay with who I am and No becos a part of me is
feeling lonely and empty.

How artistic and creative are you, are you a lover of Art and Beauty?
Actually, my Job has to do with Creativity.. Am not much of an Artist but am good
in what I do best

Now tell me, Do you like guys with short or long hair?
I like both but if am to pick one then I would go for (short ) Hair..

Would you prefer to go out with a quiet or a talkative person?

I would prefer someone who talks more than I do but not too much where you would
have to tell the person to stop for a second.

So would you be willing to relocate if the right Man eventually come along??
I love traveling and sometimes my job gives me the Chance, so it's Possibly a 50-50
thing... But I would prefer to have her in my house if she don't mind.

How would you feel if the person you were seeing was seeing someone else?
Definitly, it would be painful, and that could possibly lead to jealousy and over
re-action

What would be your idea of a perfect first date with that special person??
I would love a nice meeting at a Cool Restaurant or a Seaside Restaurant, to have
nice time together..

Do you like cooking at home or do you prefer eating in a restaurant, and which
restaurant do you prefer??
I don't normally go out alone to eat, I prefer cooking at home than going to eat in
restaurants..

What's your favorite drinks?

mmmm... I like Energy Drinks, Coffee, Apple juice, and Strawberry Milkshakes

Do you have a favorite restaurant or food?

I don�t really have a favorite restaurant but when i was in Spain i love McDonald
so much cos that is the place i do go and eat, well i don't eat much cos i am not a
picky eater...i love Mexican food i love chicken and beef also

Do you make your bed after you get up in the morning?

When you do the laundry do you fold it and put it away or just leave it in the
dryer?well i do make beds after sleeping on it,I always at night straighten the
covers before I get in.loved to do laundry and i do them for u.

In your kitchen do you have dirty dishes in the sink?

well i don't have cos i do have maid that clean dishes always,Since I�m home alone
most of the time i do cook so that i wont be lazy and i can used that to keep
myself busy, i am a very good cook..

My Hopes and dreams in life is to find my soul mate someday, that�s why i decided
to try the online dating, though am new to this and want to see how things go on
here.
Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's
not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till
the end.

Talking about Career now.... What do you see yourself achieving in the next 5
years..?
I've worked with variety of interesting and intriguing individuals and in few years
to come I hope to grow wide and to increase my professional network.

How do you celebrate the holidays (Christmas)?

I always got excited about Christmas,But if I had to pick something I guess it
would be to have someone to share the day and year with. I think I miss that the
most about Christmas not having someone who loves Christmas and makes it fun.

Do you have a favorite season?

My favorite season is Spring, I like the cool mornings and warm days, the grass
turning green and the flowers blooming, i love summer so much but i don't like
winter that much..

How long have you been in your Career and what is your professional vision??
I've been in my Career for like 20years now and my professional vision is To
provide a leading edge services that will add more value to my skill-set and to
expand my portfolio with undiluted passion of excellence.

Is it important for your Partner to know much about your Job and how much money you
earn?
I could honestly care less about that. Any Woman who has a Job is Hard working,
regardless of what she does or how much she makes..

Do you have a hobby or something you enjoy doing?

I love swimming,playing chess,pool,fishing,camping going out but since i am all
alone i hardly go out cos is not fun to go out all alone.

Which particular song makes you cry whenever you listern to it and you love learing
it over and over??
mmmm... Songs like River Flows In You by Yiruma, Dance with my Father by Luther
Vandross, My heart will go on by Celine Dion, When I See You Smile by Uncle Sam,
Walk on Walk Strong by Tae Kami and Heal the World by Micheal Jackson.

Are you a Christian?

I am a Christian and do go to church, I try to go every week.I know that if the
lord wasn�t in my life that there are days I would just give up but because he is
he keeps me going. Sometime I do the wrong things but I know he will forgive me if
I ask and I do that daily because I believe that the lord listens to my prayers and
he will always take care of me even when I don�t think he is listening..

Name which 3 books that you've read and has really impressed you?
A trilogy called "His dark Materials" by Phillip Pullman. They're the books that
the golden compass film was based on. "The Marrowbone Marble Company" by M Glen
Taylor, and "The Great Gatsby" by F. Scott Fitzgerald.

Has any book or movie made an impact on you?

Yes it has.. As for Movie, It's Artificial Intelligence, Sleepless in Seattle, A
Beautiful Mind, The Pursuit of Happiness, Schindler's List.. And as for Books,
Vengence, The Road, Successful Mind, River run Dry, "Woman" an asset to behold...

Third day..................................................................

**= Would you wait on a person you were seeing or about to date if He joined the
army?
Of cos I can wait as long as the distance takes.. I don't think that will be any
problem for me on that..

**= What would be your Defination of a True Successful Relationship?

a True Successful Relationship is when partners can Trust and Care about each
other, Genuinely enjoy each others company and space to strengthen the
relationship..

**= Have you ever had a one night stand, If yes, how many times and do you regret
it?
Yes but only once and I must say that I really regretted it.. That was a year after
I lost my wife.

**= What would you be doing on an ideal Saturday night?

Go out with your partner, friends, or Stay at home with my little girl, keeping
myself busy with movie and books.

**= Would you mind if your Partner went out to a party without you?
That's fine. Just as long as she knows her limit with alcohol. If I don't allow her
to go out without Me then that means I don't trust her.

**= If you had a whole week to do things with your partner, what would you do?
Book for a Holiday somewhere in Europe or New Zealand, and we'll tour around. Walk
hand in hand on the beach, have dinner at a very nice restaurant, check out some
new stores, light partying.. Cuddle and make love over and over again all day
and night, Enjoy the sunshine, Eat lovely food, and most of all, relax together.

**= So what do you like doing with your Man when it's raining?
I like to be in each others Arms while its raining, cuddling on the couch and
listening to thunderstorm while its raining..

**= What is the first thing that usually comes to your mind before you go to bed
and when you wake up?
The first thing is the thought of sleeping alone and not having a companion to
share words with and keep me warm in bed.

**= Are you a heavy or light sleeper?

Though I love relaxing when am less busy but I dont sleep for too long.

**= While sleep, do you Snore, Steal the covers or Roll around in your bed?
I love covering myself up while sleeping so I do Steal the cover...
**= What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship, right now?
Freedom to do what you want, Have a great time together as long as we respect each
other feelings and opinions...

**= Which do you prefer giving or receiving, and what is the best present you've
ever received?

**= What holiday present would you be expect to receive from your partner?
I'll be happy to get anything, Anything that shows me that she cares.

**= What are some of the little things you appreciate about Life?
When my daughter calls me Daddy, the laughter of children, the sound of the birds,
the air we breath, the sound of night sky and mother nature..

Is religion something you want in your life?

I love the Lord and hope that whomever I have in my life will be someone who knows
and loves him too.

It is more worthwhile and satisfying to improve the world or appreciate the world?
As for me it would be more better to appreciate the World.. With appreciation we
can achieve whatever we dream of...

If your Partner plans a date for Saturday night, but ends up canceling it. How
would you feel?
I would feel Disappointed, becos I'll be hoping that we'll be spending some quality
time together but I'll definitly call to know if everything is Okay

What were your life-changing moments?

When I lost my Parents , I pretty much lost faith.. When I watched innocent people
sufferring in different places, when I relocate, when I fell in love, and Watching
my baby girl being delivered, then holding her in my arms and staring into her
eyes..

Which 3 parts of your body would you love to be massaged most?

I love Massaging my foots, my back, shoulder and arms

And when you encounter a sad moment, what do you do to reduce the sadness?
Usually, I would close my eyes and take a deep breath. But if I'm still upset, I'll
either watch a TV comedy show or listen to a cool music, or even go for a Walk..
That usually cheers me up.