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How Trauma E!ects Your Money

Leave a Comment / Accountability, Boundaries, Grace, Guest Post / By Heather
McAbee / July 25, 2022

Have you ever wanted to uplevel your income and cannot figure out why
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 “I’m not worthy.”
I grew up with an abusive, alcoholic father until the age of 12. We never
knew who was coming home from work each day. Would he be angry and
throw things around or would he be charming and charismatic? Sometimes
his mood would change from hour to hour. My dad continually called me
stupid and told me I was not good enough. If I received a grade of 98%,
rather than applaud, he would criticize and ask me why I did not get 100%. I
was made to feel like I was “bad” for any small mistake.

So, I took on the role of being a perfectionist, perfectly. I stayed at most of

my jobs for six years at a time. Excelling in my career, working my way up
from the bottom to the top in extremely short periods of time became my
mode of operation. However, even at the top of the company ladder, I was
undervalued and underpaid in my position. Several employers had to hire
three people to take my place when I left the company.

I had an alcoholic boss who would keep me on pins and needles as to

which persona would “show up” to work that day. Was he going to be nice
or was he going to be angry at me for something I did not do? I started
tracking every conversation via email, just so I had proof that I was doing
what I had been asked to do.

I felt a little bit like I was going “mad” wondering if I had misunderstood his
requests somehow. My mind was chaotic and my stomach constantly hurt.
How did this continually happen?
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 Reliving our trauma
I was constantly finding ways to re-enact my relationship with my dad. The
underlying theme I began to notice was I am not worthy. Not worthy of
love, not worthy of feeling protected and safe in a relationship, not worthy
of money.

By erasing the belief that I am not worthy, so many things in my life began
to change, money being just one of them. As I began to dig deeper, I
noticed there are so many layers to feeling worthy of money, including our
parents’ view of money, experiences we had as a child that shaped the way
we view “rich” people, the way we view people who love money, and our
own personal power in relationship to creating and achieving the financial
freedom that we desire.
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 When change happens inside, change
happens outside
I grew up in a household on an unemployment budget, eating corn meal
mush for dinner and wearing my older sister’s green corduroy roller skate
patch pocket Goodwill pants that were tapered down to fit me once she
outgrew them. Now I own a gorgeous home with a view, a rental home and
a vacation home while continuing to build a financial picture beyond our
wildest imagination.

Realizing your potential, being a natural leader, feeling confident in what

you are doing and how you are generating income and managing your
finances is vital. I’d love the opportunity to discuss your personal needs for
upleveling your beliefs, your income, and your life!

Please join me for a discussion in the Redefining Love Community about

How Trauma E!ects Your Money on Zoom on Friday, July 29, 2022, 9:30am.

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Heather McAbee is a Certified Resonance Repatterning

Practitioner. She is trained in proven techniques to
repattern trauma responses in the brain that are no
longer serving a healthy purpose in your life. Prior to
becoming a healer, Heather worked as a construction
controller for 20 years, managing accounts up to $10
million. She has a passion for teaching others how to
overcome their trauma so they can accept the blessing of
wealth into their lives.

Visit Heather’s website at www.shiftingsands4health.com.

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