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PALGRAVE TEXTS IN COUNSELLING AND PSYCHOTHERAPY
Series Editors: Arlene Vetere · Rudi Dallos
Relational
Processes in
Counselling and
Psychotherapy
Supervision
Edited by
Ottar Ness · Sheila McNamee · Øyvind Kvello
Palgrave Texts in Counselling and Psychotherapy
Series Editors
Arlene Vetere, Family Therapy and Systemic Practice, VID
Specialized University, Oslo, Norway
Rudi Dallos, Clinical Psychology, Plymouth University,
Plymouth, UK
This series introduces readers to the theory and practice of counselling
and psychotherapy across a wide range of topical issues. Ideal for both
trainees and practitioners, the books will appeal to anyone wishing to
use counselling and psychotherapeutic skills and will be particularly rele-
vant to workers in health, education, social work and related settings.
The books in this series emphasise an integrative orientation weaving
together a variety of models including, psychodynamic, attachment,
trauma, narrative and systemic ideas. The books are written in an acces-
sible and readable style with a focus on practice. Each text offers theoret-
ical background and guidance for practice, with creative use of clinical
examples.
Arlene Vetere, Professor of Family Therapy and Systemic Practice at
VID Specialized University, Oslo, Norway.
Rudi Dallos, Emeritus Professor, Department of Clinical Psychology,
University of Plymouth, UK.
Relational Processes
in Counselling
and Psychotherapy
Supervision
Editors
Ottar Ness Sheila McNamee
Department of Education and Lifelong Department of Communication
Learning University of New Hampshire
Norwegian University of Science and Durham, NH, USA
Technology
Trondheim, Norway
Øyvind Kvello
Department of Education and Lifelong
Learning
Norwegian University of Science and
Technology
Trondheim, Norway
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Contents
1 Introduction 1
Ottar Ness, Sheila McNamee, and Øyvind Kvello
Introduction 1
Organizing of the Book 3
2 Theoretical Foundations of Relational Processes
in Supervision 9
Sheila McNamee
A Pluralist Stance Towards Supervision 10
Supervision as Social Construction 13
Pluralist Supervision 19
References 23
3 Constructing Supervision: Integrating the Professional
and Personal into a Relational Self—An Invitation
to Relational Integration 25
John Burnham and Barbara McKay
Integration and Distinguishing: Towards a Concept
of Relational Integration 25
v
vi Contents
Conclusion 174
References 175
Index 177
Notes on Contributors
ix
x Notes on Contributors
process in 2021, and the return to and valuing of the relational and social
connections we need as the human species.
Øyvind Kvello is Professor of Special Education at the Norwegian
University of Science and Technology (NTNU) and Professor at the
Department of Health and Social Studies University of South-Eastern
Norway. For several years, he worked at Child and Adolescent Psychi-
atry, School Psychology Service, Child Protection Service as well as family
therapist. He has supervised over 100 Child Protection Services and
Nurse Services. He is the author on several books and articles, and
member of the board for different national departments in Norway.
Barbara McKay is the Director of the Institute of Family Therapy,
London. She is a social worker and systemic psychotherapist with experi-
ence of statutory and voluntary organizations. Barbara currently works
with several leadership teams to support change programmes using a
blend of systemic principles and business research. She is interested in
developing networks to expand this approach and she remains in prac-
tice as a therapist, supervisor, coach and consultant while continuing to
be excited and motivated by innovation and creative approaches to what
appear to be intractable problems.
Sheila McNamee is Professor of Communication at the University of
New Hampshire and co-founder and Vice President of the Taos Insti-
tute (taosinstitute.net). Her work is focused on dialogic transforma-
tion within a variety of social and institutional contexts including
psychotherapy, organizations, education and communities. Among her
most recent books are Research and Social Change: A Relational Construc-
tionist Approach, with Dian Marie Hosking (Routledge, 2012), Education
as Social Construction: Contributions to Theory, Research, and Practice, co-
edited with T. Dragonas, K. Gergen, E. Tseliou (Taos WorldShare, 2015)
and The Sage Handbook of Social Constructionist Practice, co-edited with
M. Gergen, C. Camargo-Borges, & E. Rasera (Sage, 2020).
Philip Messent worked in Child and Adolescent Mental Health
Services in London, UK for 30 years before retiring from the NHS in
2017. Since then, he has developed an Independent Practice, working
particularly with young asylum seekers, and alongside staff in the public
Notes on Contributors xi
xiii
1
Introduction
Ottar Ness, Sheila McNamee, and Øyvind Kvello
Introduction
This book is focused on relational processes in supervision for coun-
selling and psychotherapy. The aim is first to introduce a relational
theoretical stance, second to apply that stance to the process of super-
vision and finally to offer practitioners immediately accessible resources
1 standsfor Gender, geography, Race, Religion, Age, Ability, Appearance, Accent, Class,
Culture, Ethnicity, Employment, Education, Spirituality, Sexuality, Sexual Orientation, and
……. Something else that we haven’t thought of yet!!
1 Introduction 5
With all this advice from his wife, Ma keia mau olelo a ka wahine,
still Aukelenuiaiku did not take heaha la ia ia Aukelenuiaiku, he
heed; they were as nothing to mea ole. Hoomau aku la no ia i
him, for he kept on going down ka iho i ke kamakoi, a ma keia
to fish. When Aukelenuiaiku iho hou ana a Aukelenuiaiku, a
came back from his next trip his hoi mai aohe kino i koe i ka
body was scratched and bitten uwau a me ke nahu ia, a pela
all over and his neck was cut in me ka ai i ka uwau ia. [105]A ike
several places. When ka wahine, o Namakaokahai, i
Namakaokahai saw how her ka pau loa o ka ili o ke kane i ka
husband was all cut up, [104]and uwau ia, a me ka hoolohe ole no
how he had disregarded her hoi o ke kane ia ia, ke ao aku,
words of advice, she grew less nolaila, haalehe ia i ka huhu i ke
angry of him and transferred all kane, a lilo kona huhu i na
her anger to her cousins, Pele kaikaina, ia Pele a me Hiiaka.
and Hiiaka.
“You are a lot that for a time “Ka poe make iki,
were dead, He poe ai oukou na ka ilo,
You were food for the maggots; He poe iwi kuakea,
You are a lot whose bones were Na ko’u mau makua oukou i
whitened. hoola,
It was my parents that brought He poe oukou a moe ana i lalo o
you back to life, ke kai;
You were a lot that were asleep Ua popo na maka.”
in the bottom of the sea
With eyes all rotted.”
When the uncles heard these Ma keia mau olelo a ua keiki la,
words they became very angry, ua huhu loa na makua. Nolaila,
and all decided to return to hehu mai la na makua i ka hoi i
Kuaihelani, their own land. When Kuaihelani ko lakou aina, a ike
their youngest brother and wife ko lakou kaikaina a me ka
saw that the brothers were about wahine e hoi ana, kaohi mai laua
to depart, they entreated them e noho aole make e hoi, aka, he
not to leave them, but the mea ole ia i ko lakou manao. A
brothers would not listen. After makaukau lakou e hoi, hoi mai la
they were ready for their journey lakou a ka moana, loohia lakou i
they boarded their ship and set ka poino a me ka make, nolaila,
sail for Kuaihelani; but in mid- ua pale hou lakou i lalo o ka
ocean they encountered disaster moana a make iho la. A maanei,
and all sunk to the bottom of the ua pau loa ka olelo no lakou, ua
sea. make aku la, a e olelo kakou no
na mea i koe, no Namakaokahai,
a me Aukelenuiaiku.
Here ends their story for they are A liuliu ko laua noho ana, he
all dead. Continuing that of kane a he wahine, a mahope o
Namakaokahai and keia noho oluolu ana, nonoi aku
Aukelenuiaiku. After they had o Aukelenuiaiku i kana wahine o
lived on in peace and happiness Namakaokahai, penei: “E kuu
for some time, Aukelenuiaiku wahine, ua nui na la i hala ia
said to his wife: “My wife, we kaua o ka noho pu ana, a ua
have lived together now for kokoke e make ma keia aina
many days, and I have become malihini; nolaila, ke nonoi aku
old and about to die in this nei au ia oe, e ae mai oe ia’u e
strange land. I would therefore holo au e ike i na makua o
request of you that you grant me kaua.” [109]
leave to go and see our parents.”
[108]
When Kanemoe saw that the A pau keia mau mea ia laua,
voice of his substitute was strong holo aku la laua a noho i
enough for the purpose, they set Kuaihelani. Elua po, elua ao, hiki
out and journeyed to Kuaihelani. laua i Kuaihelani. Ma ko laua hiki
The trip took up two nights and ana i Kuaihelani, nana aku la
two days. Upon their arrival at laua, aohe ku mai o na hale,
Kuaihelani, they looked over the aohe kanaka maalo mai, aohe
land but failed to see any of the mea kani, aohe maikai o ka aina,
people; they heard no sound of he nahelehele wale no. A ike
any kind; there was nothing good laua i ke kanaka ole, iho aku la
growing on the land, for the land laua i lalo i ka lua o ka moo e
was overgrown with weeds. noho ana, oia o Kamooinanea,
kela kupunawahine o
Aukelenuiaiku, a kakou i olelo
mua ai ma ka hoomaka ana o
keia moolelo.
When they saw that the place A hiki laua i ka lua, kahea iho la
was deserted, they continued to o Aukelenuiaiku: “E
the hole where the great lizard, Kamooinanea e!” Aole he leo i
Kamooinanea, the grandmother olelo mai, nolaila, manao laua ua
of Aukelenuiaiku, spoken of in make. O ke kumu nae o keia
the earlier chapters of this lohe ole o Kamooinanea, ua
legend, lived. When they came hookui ke koa o ka honua me ke
to the mouth of the hole, koa o kona lae, nolaila, lohe ole i
Aukelenuiaiku called: ka leo kahea o ka moopuna o
“Kamooinanea,” but no response Aukelenuiaiku. Ia wa ku ae la o
was heard, so they thought that Aukelenuiaiku a hehi iho la me
she must be dead. kona ikaika loa i luna o ke koa e
pili ana i ka honua a me ka lae o
The reason why Kamooinanea kona kupunawahine, a haihai iho
did not hear the call was la, a waiho wale ke kino o ke
because the coral on her kupunawahine o Kamooinanea.
forehead and the coral of the [111]
floor of the sea had grown
together and she was entirely A ike ia ke kino o Kamooinanea,
covered over, so she was unable ua hele a wiwi, aohe kino, kahea
to hear the call of her grandson iho la o Aukelenuiaiku: “E
Aukelenuiaiku. Kamooinanea e!”
After calling, Aukelenuiaiku
stood up and stamped his feet
down on the coral with all his
might, breaking it into pieces,
and at the same time exposing
the body of his grandmother.
When Aukelenuiaiku looked at
her body, he saw that it was thin
and reduced to almost nothing.
[110]
This is the end of this legend. Oia ka pau ana o keia moolelo.
[33] [112]