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Dedicated to Selma
Acknowledgement
This book would not have been possible without the kindness and open-
ness of the pupils and teachers at Rosendal School,1 the fathers and fami-
lies connected with the school, and the project coordinators in the different
fathers’ groups who showed interest for my project and opened the door
to the fathers’ groups, where fathers showed me the world from their per-
spective. The fact that someone is willing to share his or her time and place
with someone is a necessity for fieldwork. I am grateful to all the fathers
who trusted me and shared their everyday paradoxes, aspirations, feelings
and vulnerabilities. Without you, this book would not have been possible.
I sincerely hope that I have been able to bring your voices forward in a fair
and wholesome way.
This book is a rework of my PhD thesis, and I wish to thank my previ-
ous advisors: Tekla Canger from Copenhagen University College who,
besides inspiring ideas and comments, has provided me with an important
insight into the teaching profession; Bodil Selmer from the Anthropology
department at Aarhus University who, besides being my co-advisor, has
been a great source of inspiration since I started studying the field of
migration as an undergraduate anthropology student. Moreover, an enor-
mous thanks to Laura Gilliam, my main advisor who has helped me make
my arguments sharper, for including me in her own research as well as
various research groups, seminars, etc. Following, thanks to all my
1
All personal, place and institutional names have been changed due to anonymity and all
interlocutors have agreed to participate in the study. At all times, I followed the ethical stan-
dards advised by the AAA (American Anthropologist Association 2012).
vii
viii ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
1 Introduction 1
2 Social Alertness 41
4 Struggling Along101
7 Mistrusted Masculinity165
8 Concerned Fatherhood201
9 Conclusion 219
References237
Index255
ix
CHAPTER 1
Introduction
“They think I’m violent (…) but I’m a good man; I’m a gardener!” These
are the words of the father Omar, who migrated from Morocco and now
lives with his family in Denmark. I met Omar on a warm June afternoon
in 2015, visiting the fathers’ group of Skovlunden. I had recently started
my research on migrant fathers’ relations to their children’s school, and at
that very moment I was not aware that the mistrust Omar told me about
would turn out to be the central theme of this book and lead me to the
concept of “mistrusted masculinity.” The fathers’ group was placed in the
neighbourhood of Skovlunden, more precisely, in the project-house in
one of the concrete blocks, which together with many similar blocks con-
stituted the housing estate. The fathers of the fathers’ group shared similar
social positions; being fathers with a migrant background and being
Muslim gave the fathers a common point of reference of holding a minor-
ity position in society. Omar, a forty-seven-year-old father of five, joined
the fathers’ group to strengthen the community of fathers in the area and
share and discuss his best advice on fatherly issues. Some of the fathers
needed guidance to successfully navigate the Danish child-institutions;
Omar told me, however, he saw a bigger problem—that the “Danish sys-
tem,” for many, many years, had taken the responsibility away from “the
immigrant man.” Omar thought that both the municipality, the school
and teachers did not show these fathers trust, and that they did not actively
include these fathers in the work concerning their children.
Omar underlined to me how important the father is for the child, how
the child had listened to its father’s voice since it started growing in the
mother’s womb and how psychologists stress the importance of the father
in a child’s life. However, a negative stereotype of a strict, controlling—
maybe even violent—immigrant man had led some teachers to exclude
fathers. “Some [immigrant] fathers shout at their teenagers, these are the
child-rearing tools they know, but it’s meant by love—they do not want to
be laissez-faire. They are not dangerous; they want to be clear parents, but
these fathers are being misunderstood.” Omar continued to tell that
sometimes the child would get the vibe from the teachers that they should
not listen to their father, and exemplified: “It is not your parents who
decide at home. It is not your father who decides. Come, we will support
you in a good and proper way,” reflecting how some teachers have a per-
ception of “the Muslim father” and “Muslim childrearing” as too con-
trolled and backward which conflicts with ideals about democratic
individualism as a key part in the idea of the civilising project of “Danish
child-rearing.” Omar emphasised that it was not all teachers or welfare-
professionals who shared such prejudices, but some did, and when fathers
met such attitudes, they would withdraw, sometimes from anger and
despair, sometimes in fear of “the system.” Omar’s experiences are some
of many experiences of migrant school-fathers, which this book sheds light
on. Based on a fieldwork in a Danish public school, Rosendal School and
various groups of migrant fathers, this book explores the social lifeworlds
of Muslim migrant fathers and their experiences of encounters with teach-
ers and pedagogues.1 These fathers are engaged actors individually gov-
erning their own lives; they are complicit in their own fate and not simply
insignificant and impotent creatures of circumstances (Jackson 2013). Yet,
as we shall see, in addition to the fathers’ own intentions for self-
representation and aspirations for fatherhood, there are complex forces at
work, which has consequences for their fatherhood practices, their involve-
ment in school and in some cases relation to their children.
1
In Danish pædagoger, which are specially trained social educators mainly working with
social aspects of schooling, the social well-being and development of children.
1 INTRODUCTION 3
A Dangerous Man
Omar’s story reveals many of the themes taken up in the chapters that fol-
low. First and foremost, Omar is a Muslim migrant living in Denmark, and
his narrative tell us how he feels mistrusted due to a certain negative ste-
reotype of “the immigrant man.” These are not-seldom feelings amongst
the Muslim migrant fathers of this book and has to do with rather harsh
political debates on Muslim migrants. For decades, Muslims in Denmark
have faced being othered due to an anti-Muslim-immigrant sentiment,
which was felt most vehemently in the anti-Muslim/Arab aftermath of
9/11 and has further intensified during the Danish cartoon crisis in 2005,
as well as the 2011 Middle Eastern uprisings and the subsequent growth
of ISIS. These events have entangled with terror attacks in bigger European
cities, for which Islamist terror-organisations have taken responsibility.
Such events and the following political debates, highlighting Islam in the
risk of terrorism, have resulted in a broad backlash against the growing
presence of Muslim immigrants and are part of a broader narrative of “us
versus them” which circulates widely in parts of Europe—a narrative which
has excluded huge segments of the Muslim population from feeling that
they are part of society (Bowen 2007, 2016). The problematisation of the
Muslim migrant has been reinforced by neo-nationalist streams in
Denmark as well as throughout Europe, entangled in the debates on mass-
migration. Along these lines we have seen an increasing nation-state rhet-
oric and practice in the Danish welfare system, where a neo-nationalist
security and integration effort has gained ground as part of the war on
terror (Johansen 2013; Pedersen and Rytter 2011). Within this rhetoric,
Muslim men are associated with danger and constructed as a potential ter-
rorist, whereas female- and child-migrants are constructed as safe and “to
be saved” (Abu-Lughod 2013).
Contemporary integration-policy has caused many heated debates and
disputes between political actors on the issues of nationality, Islam/reli-
gion, democracy, “Danishness,” etc. Within these debates Muslim
migrants have been categorised in many ways including “Muslims,”
“Arabs,” “Middle Easterns” or different versions of the “ethnic other,”
for example, people with “another ethnic background” or “non-ethnic
Dane” (ikke etnisk dansk). These classifications are all constructed in oppo-
sition to “Danes” or “ethnic Danes,” leaving an impression of deeply
rooted ethnic differences, characterising how notions of culture and eth-
nicity work in essentialised ways to maintain the dichotomy between “us”
4 A. H. JØRGENSEN
2
“Western countries” include all EU countries as well as Andorra, Iceland, Lichtenstein,
Monaco, Norway, San Marino, Switzerland, Great Britain, Vatican City, Canada, the US,
Australia and New Zealand. “Non-western countries” includes all other countries (Danmarks
Statistik 2020).
3
The article also exemplifies how the category of “non-western” is generally problema-
tised, as well as how it used to define children, who possibly were born in Denmark, and thus
prevent them from belonging to the category of “Danes.”
1 INTRODUCTION 5
4
Hoel (2016, 8), Charsley and Liversage (2015, 2–3), Christensen et al. (2017) and Jaffe-
Walter (2016).
6 A. H. JØRGENSEN
men back into the new post-feminist era, where men are approached as
engendered and engendering subjects.
Most research within the field of migration and gender in Denmark
have investigated masculinities among youth,5 generally omitting adult
men and fatherhood. However, a recent study of migrant men living in a
multiethnic neighbourhood of Denmark (Christensen et al. 2017) con-
cludes that these men struggled with a low-class position in society due to
migration, along with experiences of othering and racism, which further
worked to block labour market opportunities, providing painful challenges
to their male identity. These factors are found to degrade and disqualify
these men as having a “marginalised masculinity” (ibid.) with reference to
gender scholar Raewyn Connell’s theory on “marginalised masculinity”
from 1995 (Connell 2012). Inspired by Marxist sociology, Connell defines
marginalised masculinity as constructed in contrast to the hegemonic,
“correct” superior and dominant masculinity. It is a social mechanism
through which various groups develop the “will to confirm” with a leading
group’s way of being, thereby facilitating class-based domination (Isidoros
and Inhorn 2022, 6). In the American context, this manifests as Afro-
American working-class masculinity being suppressed by the white “hege-
monic” middle-class masculinity, maintaining an institutional oppression
and physical distress that has framed the making of masculinities in black
communities. Although extremely important and ground- breaking,
Connell’s theory has the consequence that we focus on structural power,
with the danger of creating a dualistic and overly fixed picture of masculin-
ity as either hegemonic or marginalised, whereas subordinate men can
only aspire to elements of hegemonic masculinity as the ideal type—which
may not reflect men’s actual social realities and gender relations in practice
(Inhorn 2012). Consequently, I only use Connell’s concept to inform the
discourses around Muslim migrant men, that is, how the construction of
the “non-western man” in political rhetoric and documents reflects a mar-
ginalised form of masculinity, which ought to aspire (and assimilate with)
the hegemonic masculinity of the Danish man and father (Chap. 6). Yet,
Connell’s theory falls short when put to analyse the lived lives of the
migrant fathers of this book. Instead of seeing these fathers’ masculinities
as being “formed” by suppression, I argue for approaching both mascu-
linities and fatherhoods as emergent (Inhorn 2012). The concept of
5
Gilliam (2009, 2017, 2018), Jensen (2007, 2010), Mørck (2006), Soei (2011), Hviid
(2007), Gitz-Johansen (2006) and Staunæs (2004).
1 INTRODUCTION 9
6
Featherstone (2003), Gupta and Featherstone (2015), Nielsen and Westerling (2016),
Miller (2011) and Madsen (2003, 2008).
10 A. H. JØRGENSEN
not only expanded the scope of opportunity for women but also changed
men’s lives. In the American context, Stuart Aitken (2009) examines how
Anglo-American fathers are “becoming-other”—other than their own
father and other than the dictates of patriarchy. This “becoming-other” is
related to what has been termed the “crisis of masculinity,” where the role
of the father as solely the breadwinner, supplier and potentially the patri-
arch is, in many contexts, no longer a culturally celebrated role (ibid.).
Such social and cultural changes have resulted in the phenomenon of
“new” or “modern” fathers: fathers are doing fathering differently com-
pared with just a generation ago, being more family and child-oriented
(Eydal and Rostgaard 2016, 6). Here the Nordic welfare model and the
ideal of gender equality have encouraged fathers to take a greater part in
childcare, and studies find tendencies for some Danish men to venture
into a field of intimate fathering. These “pioneering fathers” (Nielsen and
Westerling 2016, 189) are entering more intimate parts of child-rearing,
which was earlier seen as an area belonging to the mother. This generates
more opportunities for these fathers and a possible split and separation of
the dyadic mother–child relationship, which may result in new common
ground in families (ibid., 205). The studies above generally focus on rela-
tively highly educated, middle-class, majoritised fathers. Thus, “white
middle-class fathers” have dominated the research on fatherhood in
Northern Europe and Scandinavia, whereas migrant fathers’ experiences
of fathering are still a quite unexplored field.7 As a consequence, the afore-
mentioned “new roles of the father” is found to be a phenomenon in
white middle-class families, which may have the effect that such fathers
stand out as progressive and resource-strong, nearly as an ideal type, or
what could be termed as a “hegemonic fatherhood” living out the ide-
alised value of gender equality. One question that arises here is to what
extent this image is due to a lack of research on fathers who do not fit
these specific characteristics.8
7
Liversage (2016, 209), Inhorn et al. (2015, 3), Featherstone (2003), Gupta and
Featherstone (2015) and Hoel (2016).
8
Senior researcher Anika Liversage (2016) is one of the few Danish researchers who has
studied specifically fatherhood among so-called ethnic-minority men. Liversage finds that her
interlocutors, fathers who are first-generation immigrants from Turkey, are more inclined to
understand the roles of men and women in the family as complementary—the role of the
father is closer to the breadwinner’s role; yet it was difficult for some interlocutors to main-
tain this role after emigration, owing to the high rate of un-/underemployment of immi-
grants. Many of Liversage’s interviews were done with divorced fathers who were struggling
1 INTRODUCTION 11
A “Race-Blind Ideology”
This volume is also about the role racism plays in Muslim migrant fathers’
lives. I explore how the fathers of this book, who had darker skin colour,
black hair, or other Middle Eastern, South Asian or African characteristics,
felt that these characteristics “meant something.” Their physical appear-
ance—especially in combination with a low command of Danish, an accent,
an Arab or Muslim name or other Muslim symbols—acquired salience in
their everyday lives. In recent years Nordic scholars have pointed out the
hegemony of Nordic whiteness, examining how assertions of anti-racism
and colour-blindness go hand in hand with the silencing and exclusion of
racialised minorities.9 One of these scholars is anthropologist Peter Hervik,
or failing to be present fathers. However, most of my interlocutors lived in a family, thus not
struggling to “hold on to” their father-role. Despite some of the fathers of this book experi-
enced that their fatherhood practices were circumscribed by challenges posed by their
minority-status and lower-class position, this book tells a multifaceted story of fatherhood
practices, which includes stories of fathers’ aspirations for fatherhood, fatherly agencies and
love of their children, and brings in new nuances to the broad category of Muslim migrant
fathers.
9
Lapin ̧a (2017), Andreassen and Ahmed-Andresen (2014) and Hervik (2015).
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