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71 Behaviour Response Prompts
71 Behaviour Response Prompts
71 Behaviour Response Prompts
Response Prompts
Supporting you to feel more calm and
confident when addressing challenging
behaviours restoratively.
A quick intro
Responding to challenging behaviour calmly and restoratively in the heat of the
moment is tough! My aim through these prompts is to support you in feeling more
calm heading into your classroom, and more confident in having something up your
sleeve even if you are met with a big “I wasn’t even doing anything, they were!!”
Please remember that every single situation is so nuanced, so you have to choose
what works best for that student, on that day. Also be mindful that non-verbals will
always trump what we are saying. It’s all in the delivery, so before approaching your
students about their behaviour, be sure to regulate so you can respond, rather than
react.
hey there!
I'm Claire.
I am passionate about providing you with the actionable support
you need to reduce, respond to, and resolve challenging
behaviours holistically and effectively.
www.the-unteachables.com
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Responding to initial
behaviour challenges
try:
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Responding to blame
or pushback
try:
12/ “Yes I can see other students are also talking, what should we
all be doing right now?”
13/ “Why do you think I might be speaking to you first and not
them?”
14/ “I will be addressing them, but right now I am talking to you.”
15/ “Why might I be talking to you specifically?”
16/ “Whose learning am I talking about right now?”
17/ “I will be speaking to them/addressing them in a moment,
but what might I need from you right now before I move on to
do that?”
18/ “Can you control what they do? Whose behaviour can you
control then? Yes, your own.”
19/ “Whose behaviours are you responsible for?”
20/ “Whose behaviours aren’t you responsible for?”
21/ “What are you responsible for right here in this class?”
22/ “What might I need from you right now?”
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Taking the discussion
out of the moment
try:
23/ “I’m going to go and teach the rest of the lesson now, I can see
you need a bit of space. I will talk to you about this after.”
24/ “Okay this discussion is going to need more time than what we
have right now, so I am going to continue teaching the lesson and I
will speak to you after.”
25/ “Let’s continue this talk after the lesson, when I can give you my
full attention.”
26/ “I’d love to talk to you more about this, please stay back after. It’s
not a punishment, I just want to make sure we are on the same
page because I am quite worried about you at the moment.”
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Starting the conversation,
checking-in, and gaining buy-in:
try:
27/ “Are you ok?”
28/ “Is everything okay? You didn’t seem your usual self.”
29/ “Today was a bit of a tough one?”
30/ “What were you thinking and feeling at the time?”
31/ “What was happening for you at the time?”
32/ “Is there anything I need to be aware of?”
33/ “Do you feel picked on during lessons? I am really sorry if that is
the case. I’d love to hear you out so we can understand each other
better.”
34/ “Can you explain to me what was going on for you during the
lesson?”
35/ “That was a very difficult lesson/situation, can you explain why
that might be?”
36/ “Did something happen outside of the lesson?”
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Unpacking the behaviour
and raising accountability
try:
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continued...
try:
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Making a plan and
resolving the behaviour:
try:
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continued...
try:
64/ “Next time you're feeling like this, what would be a better
choice?”
65/ “Next time you're feeling like this, is there anything you need
from me so you can make a better choice?”
66/ “Can I suggest a strategy? Would that be ok?”
67/ “I am going to be calling home and just letting them know what
we discussed and what the challenges were today, I will also let
them know just how well you did in resolving this!”
68/ “What is the plan for our next lesson?”
69/ “Can you repeat the plan for me just so I know that we are both
on the same page?”
70/ “You should be proud of how you have reflected today.”
71/ “We all struggle with things from time to time, how we work
through them and resolve them is what matters.”
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You’ve got this!
contact:
Claire@the-unteachables.com
www.the-unteachables.com
IG: @the.unteachables