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Fellowship Enhancing
The other day I was walking in Meijer and noticed a center-aisle display. I
had to smile, because I knew you would never see this stuff in the center-aisle at
any other time during the year. Only around New Years would Meijer go through
exercise equipment loomed over the center-aisle. All of them offered hope that if
you just purchase the equipment, the motivation for working out and getting the
washboard abs and biceps the approximate density of uranium will magically
come along with the price tag. And you know what the sad part about all this is –
we’re gullible enough to believe it. Meijer wouldn’t move all that stuff to the
center-aisle if they didn’t have statistics supporting the notion that locating it there
improves sales. They know that many will be looking to buy, hoping that it will
help keep New Year’s resolutions to exercise more and weigh less.
married couples and 30 married people who started a program on their own.
One year later, 43% of those who went it alone quit compared with only 6% who
after two knee operations. The secret? Workout partners. The woman Eller
wrote about joined a training group. She quotes in the same article Ryan
Lamppa, researcher for the USA Track and Field Road Running Information
Center. Lamppa says he hasn’t heard of one training group that prepares people
It would seem that the key to success in shaping our bodies into lean,
shape.
As Christians, this shouldn’t surprise us. We, possibly more than any other
group, recognize the importance of connection to other people. God made us for
relationship. He cast us in his image – able to love and receive love. To be truly
that we are more likely to succeed when we have someone else along for the
ride. As Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens irons, so one man sharpens
another.” Which makes it all the more perplexing why it is so hard to get church
people to come out to more than just Sunday morning service. You would think
that we‘d realize our faith is augmented and our love deepened when we link
The Apostle Paul had a favorite image that he used to describe the church
as a whole. The image he used clearly illustrated the need we have for one
another as brothers and sisters in Christ. In fact, the image he used presented
between two organisms that is necessary for both to survive and progress. The
image he used was that of a body. Each part of the body needs the other in
order to remain viable and useful. So it is, says Paul, in the church.
In our text for this morning, we look at one of the places where Paul refers
to the church as a body – Ephesians 4:1-16. But before we get too far along,
let’s take a moment to put a backdrop to this text so that we can understand what
the Word of God is speaking to us. It is important to remember that when Paul
be read all in one sitting. Contrary to how we often approach Scripture today,
Paul did not intend his letter to be read in pieces – a verse here and a verse
there. He wrote it as one, well-reasoned, tightly knit message for a church that
was struggling with divisiveness along racial lines. Getting the context of any
to his church.
power and prerogative in salvation. Ephesians 1:4-6 sums it up this way, “For
through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will—to the
praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he
loves.”
Paul then goes on to point out that it was not only Israel whom God chose
before the foundation of the world. He included Gentiles also – those who utterly
rejected God, were dead in their trespasses and separated from God without
hope. Just in case you are wondering, Paul is referring to us here. We are the
ones God revealed his love for by dying on the cross while we were still
Now, let’s not miss the implications here. Until this time the Jews
understood God’s plan to mean he would free them once again from those who
had conquered and now ruled over them – in this case, Rome. All other peoples
were slated for judgment. Just in case you don’t understand what that means, it
purpose was to create in himself one new man out of the two, thus making
peace, and in this one body to reconcile both of them to God through the
peace to you who were far away and peace to those who were near. For
introducing a badly needed corrective in the way Israel thought about God. His
grace is so wide that it covers every square inch of creation, even those who
formerly rejected him and tried to destroy people. All creation belongs to him and
he will not concede even a fraction of it to the enemy. He then prays in chapter
three that his readers will get his drift – that they will follow in the footsteps of
Christ, being so humble in spirit that they seek to serve others, even before
writes his impassioned plea urging us “to live a life worthy of the calling you have
received. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in
love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.”
Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind and all your
ourselves. In becoming the servant of all, we worship God in the most profound
is that our lives become enmeshed, bound together by the bond of the Spirit and
a genuine love. We begin to sense that our success – if you can measure it that
way – in the Christian life is linked to those we share our lives with.
This was what Paul was trying to point out to the Ephesians when he said,
But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it.
This is why it says: “When he ascended on high, he led captives in
his train and gave gifts to men.”
(What does “he ascended” mean except that he also descended to
the lower, earthly regions? He who descended is the very one who
ascended higher than all the heavens, in order to fill the whole
universe.) It was he who gave some to be apostles, some to be
prophets, some to be evangelists, and some to be pastors and
teachers, to prepare God’s people for works of service, so that the
body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and
in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to
the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.
Remember, Paul is dealing with a group divided along racial lines – a deep
divide that affects even the church today. And he is saying to them, “C’mon guys!
Can’t you see we need each other? God has gifted each of us uniquely so that
we can be useful for the maturity of others. If we are going to be everything God
wants us to be, we have to stop putting up barriers that Christ has broken down
and start using our gifts for mutual benefit. We have to team up! It’s the only
speaks to the way we understand the role of the organized church and those who
The apostle says that Christ is the one who has given certain gifts to
members of his body – for what purpose? To prepare God’s people for works of
service. Last week we said the purpose of our corporate gatherings is to equip
God’s people to carry out God’s mission in the world. Now, I want to think about
Do you realize what that means? The leadership and teachers of this
church have been given to us by God for the very specific task of instructing and
equipping us to carry the Gospel out into the world. God gave us teachers,
preachers, and evangelists specifically for that task. They prepare us for service,
Why? So that the body of Christ can be built up, leading to greater maturity
for all of us and as a body begin to fully, that is completely, mirror the character of
our Lord, Jesus Christ. In other words, God has gifted each member of the body
so that when it is used for the edification of the other members, our fellowship is
enhanced. The end result is that we all increase in our knowledge and
understanding of God and grow more fully into what God intends us to be.
Now, note what is necessary for this process to take place – what is
effort together. Each one of us must bring our gifts to the table and use them to
nurture, encourage and build faith into the life of our brothers and sisters in
Christ.
When I was in the Navy, I used to joke about how I was going to become a
millionaire by writing a book called, “101 Uses for the White Hat.” This is a white
hat – part of the uniform for an American sailor. [Demonstrate the uses] I figured
since pet rocks created a fad and sold well, why not something marginally
useful?
In the United States, we are gullible. Never has the proverb “A fool and his
money are soon parted” been more true than it is in modern America. One
glance at late night television will tell you that. Infomercials abound! And you
know what is fascinating about them? Most of them are geared toward self-help.
Guys like Tony Robbins and Tony Little try to convince us about how miserable
we are in our present circumstances and how we can get ourselves out of the
baldness cures, telephone date lines all promise us the ability to help ourselves
into a more exciting, more meaningful life. It seems we are always looking for a
This is no less true in the Christian community. Browse any Christian living
section in a bookstore and you will find the shelf full of spiritual gurus promising a
new you if you will just follow their plan. You will be for faithful in prayer and
whatever it is you feel you lack in the Christian life. We can grow nearer to God
all by ourselves if we just follow these seven biblical principles for the successful
Christian life.
It seems that we are always looking for that elusive secret – that obscure
catalyst – that will convert our leaden faith into a faith of pure gold. We sense a
need for a deeper, more intimate relationship with God and with our brothers and
Now, I am not saying that reading Christian living books is a waste of time.
Most of them have reasonably good stuff in them worth reading. But what I am
saying is that we keep looking around for this magic key that is going to unlock
the secrets to spiritual growth. The reason the books sell is that they offer us the
hope of a shortcut to Christian maturity – success in the Christian life without all
the mess! A vibrant faith in half the time! We keep hoping that one day we will
stumble upon the magic bullet that will finally make us who we want to be in
Christ.
You want a vibrant faith? Let me share with you the only sure formula for
having one. Ephesians 4:15-16: “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will
in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ. From him the
whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows
and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.” You want to
experience nearness with God? You want to grow deep in faith and love? Then
look at that last phrase again – “as each part does its work.” That’s the secret,
Christ – that is, work to build up the faith of our brothers and sisters in Christ –
community.
I want you to listen to me real carefully here. If feel like your spiritual life is
going nowhere, maybe it’s because you have been trying to do it on your own.
Just you and Jesus! That sounds great, but it’s not the way God describes the
abundant life he offers us through Christ. The life he offers is one of community
– us and Jesus.
Just like an exercise program, we are more successful in the Christian life
and become accountable to another for your spiritual disciplines. Find people
who are serious about their faith and each one do his or her part to build up the
others in faith.
If you want a relevant faith, enmesh yourself in the life of the church. True
evening services, be part of a Bible study during the week. How about joining a
read Scripture, to lead in prayer, to lead or host a Bible study, to visit the sick. If
you want to experience the abundant life that Christ came to give you, you’ve got
The Christian life was never meant to be lived alone. It was meant to be
experienced – its joys and its sorrows – in the embrace of community. We are so
much more likely to stick with it, to live faithfully, when we share our lives and