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Unshakeable Self Confidence
Unshakeable Self Confidence
Unshakeable Self Confidence
Statement of Rights
You may give this book away or use it as a bonus. You may
NOT sell it or change it in any way.
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The person you are is the very essence of your being. This
being might be called your soul, your higher self, or your
authentic self. The label isn’t important – just the
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The more aware of your inner self you are, the more easily
you’ll be able to recognize and honor your strengths. By
“strengths” I mean the things you are naturally good at, or
you’ve become good at through repetition.
First, get a clean sheet of paper and a pen, and begin by writing
down anything you think you may be naturally good at. Don’t
worry if you’re not great at it, just focus on things you can do
marginally well for now. List things that seem to come easily to
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Are you surprised that your list isn’t as empty as you feared?
It’s going to get better!
Look back over your list for a moment. Pay particular attention
to the activities you’ve mastered as you did them over and over.
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Now that you have a clear idea of your strengths, it’s time to
begin affirming your abilities. This may seem like the same
thing, but it’s quite different. Your strengths are things you are
naturally good at, or have become good at. Your abilities are all
about your POTENTIAL.
After you’ve written down everything you can think of, look
over your list and make a checkmark next to the things in which
you’ve experienced success. Even if you were only slightly
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Now look at your list again. Are the majority of the items on the
list checked? I bet they are. Why do you think that’s
important? Because it means that simply TRYING something
(once or more than once) will result in a certain measure of
success. It means you’re not as stupid or ineffective as you may
have thought. If you were even moderately successful at the
items on your list, doesn’t it follow that you could be successful
at other things too? When you really get this, it’s a HUGE
insight.
Now – what if you only have a couple of items checked off, and
the rest are unchecked?
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Over time, you realize that your inner self is not your enemy but
your greatest ally. You begin to understand that any failures or
blockages you experienced were a direct result of the
disconnection from your inner self, and you commit to bridging
the gap you created.
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Make it your mission to trust your inner voice. Again, the more
time you spend getting reacquainted with yourself, the more
quickly you will gain a greater understanding of who you are
and what you really want in your life.
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The stronger the connection you have with your inner self, the
easier you will be able to expand your vision. By this I mean
having the willingness to imagine more for your life.
First, write a description of where you are in your life right now.
Include details about your marital status, friendships, career,
financial situation, health and fitness, and overall happiness.
Note which areas you are satisfied with, and those you wish to
improve.
Then, review the descriptions and ask yourself if you have been
holding back in any areas of your life, and if any of those
situations can be expanded. For example, you might enjoy your
job as an accounting clerk, but you have a secret wish to go
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You don’t have to take action on them right away, but at least be
honest with yourself that you have a desire to accomplish more
in your life. For each area of your life, consider ways to expand
or improve upon them. Remember, you’re just brainstorming
right now, so don’t censor yourself. Just jot down notes and
ideas for what you might like to create in your life eventually.
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Have you ever noticed that confident people are also certain of
their own worth? Not only do they have the confidence to
follow their dreams, they know with certainty that they deserve
the good things they seek.
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The same goes for any bullies you have faced in your lifetime,
any impossible-to-please bosses, critical friends and demanding
spouses.
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The great thing about all of the activities we’ve covered so far is
that they are self-perpetuating. As you build your confidence,
you’ll notice your self-worth increasing also. As you focus on
increasing your self-worth, your confidence will also grow. As
you focus on expanding your vision, you’ll begin to believe in
your capabilities more, and you’ll begin trusting yourself more,
and you’ll feel a deeper connection to your inner self beginning
to blossom - and on and on it goes! Doing any and all of these
activities will result in growth and healing in the other areas too.
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You may be furrowing your brow, wondering what the heck I’m
talking about. Isn’t this the old “act as if” technique? Like
“fake it until you make it”? Not quite.
Can you sense the power in this technique? I assure you, it’s
incredibly effective.
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You can use this very same technique to boost your confidence
through the roof! The other exercises in this report will help
you to increase your self-confidence over the long-term, but this
“becoming” technique can help you feel much more confident
any time you need to.
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After reading this report you may be feeling ready to tackle your
low confidence and change your life in dramatic ways. This is
wonderful and I encourage you to hang on to that motivation for
as long as possible. But I also want to insert a warning here:
motivation has a way of diminishing when challenges appear.
Right now you may feel convinced that you can increase your
confidence and transform every aspect of your life into
something profound and meaningful – and you can. However,
be sure to keep in mind that building your confidence is a
PROCESS.
Here’s the good news: all you need to begin is one tiny seed of
belief that your life can be better, that you can be stronger, and
that you have what it takes to make lasting changes. This one
tiny seed of belief will be enough to give you the courage to
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Commitment
An Open Mind
Persistence
Flexibility
Faith
Thankfulness
Passion
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