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Season of Life Chapter 10
Season of Life Chapter 10
Not one friend he can reveal his true self and share his deepest most intimate thoughts Men want the women to work on relationship. Men want no responsibility toward working on a relationship. Boys feel like they must put forth a faade. No relationship is worth an intament relation. We can talk about sports, social network, movies, TV, sexual exploits, but I can not talk abut feelings This encourages you to always hide your self. If you are hiding things you can give your full self Modeling a man - In order to be a man, you need to see a man Relationships matter more thank anything else On 9/11 the people on the plane that made phone calls: They did not brag on themselves, call their broker, smile on wealth, no false masculinity They called someone they had a relationship with and said "I love you"
Accepting Responsibility
You can not be the man you should be if you act on the 3 zero tolerance rules: 1. No Alcohol, No Drugs, No acting selfishly with girls, looking for self satisfaction You must think of others first. All of the above are self seeking. You are responsible for your decisions and choices. Do not place the blame on environment, situation, hard times, desires, or any other factor except self. Take responsibility for the choices and decisions you make. Do not play the blame game. Cut out the "victim" mentality
Even if people walk out on you and you loose things in your life, you still have to accept responsibility on actions
No one grows up in a perfect family life. Do not look for excuses How do you help a boy who's father has walked out on him? Patience and perseverance
Leading Courageously
Impact coaches lead by affirming their players Coaches give players the opportunity to be better along with the encouragement. Impact men make on boys by either affirming them or shaming them. Give players an opportunity to expend maximum effort. Instill in players a "No Regret" attitude How do you want players to look back on you? Would they call on you for guidance or comfort? It takes great courage to lead in the right direction. Stick to the right values Go against the flow. The flow is what is best for me or I. Go against that concept. To teach this concept it has to be modeled by coaches. My children learn more from seeing what I do. Hold kids responsible for their decisions. Let them know that everyone is watching them. Leaders should stick to the right values.
Or you can just walk around acting like you're better than everyone else, arrogance, indifference
Empathy
Life is Hard Looking at others are realizing life is hard for me and life is hard for others. You did not get here on your on. People have labored to help you be who you are today. You can't go through this world about your own self-existence, self-concern, and all self-focus stuff. When we play for a cause we must contemplate the end. When you die what do you want to leave behind The number one need for humanity to see and feel the world through the eyes of others. If you can not see this you are nothing more than an animal. - self preservation and power You must understand the amount of suffering of others. Bad things are happening in this Nation on a regular basis. Mainly because of a lack of concern for others and a major emphasis on self. What do the players need, not what they deserve. players to learn, what do my teammates need from me?