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Editor: Laura Douglas-Brown lbrown@thegavoice.com Deputy Editor: Dyana Bagby dbagby@thegavoice.com Web Manager: Ryan Watkins rwatkins@thegavoice.com Art Director: Bo Shell bshell@thegavoice.com Contributors: Melissa Carter, Brent Corcoran, Jim Farmer, Shannon Hames, Topher Payne, Matt Schafer, Steve Warren, Ryan Lee

Until equality is respected everywhere and there is universal acceptance of human rights for all regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, I will continue to speak my mind. I have the freedom to do so and nobody can take it away from me. Every other gay person in the world deserves the same.
Sir Elton John, speaking out against anti-discrimination in the Ukraine, in an opinion column published in the Guardian, a UK newspaper. (Guardian.co.uk, July 1)

NEWS
Drag star Sharon Needles provokes racism debate. Page 21 Mayor Kasim Reed not ready to say I do to gay marriage. Page 22 News in brief: YouthPride moves, drag performer slain, anti-gay counseling student loses. Page 25

BUSINESS

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Homosexuality isnt going anywhere, nor is the support for gay men and lesbians and their rights across the country. You dont like the rainbow cookie picture? Or the two men in a Fathers Day ad? Thats ne. Go right ahead and waste your time and energy ghting a pointless battle.
Newsday columnist Amelia Camurati, chiming in on the controversy after Oreo put a rainbow cookie on its Facebook page in honor of Gay Pride Month, drawing boycott calls from some social conservatives. (Newsday, June 29)

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Joining Hearts dives into 25th year. Page 29 Food Porn: Playing it safe, with spices and sex. Page 31 Theater: Evelyn in Purgatory, Best Little Whorehouse. Page 33 Event: Pure Heat community fest in Piedmont Park. Page 35 Books: New LGBT reads for hot summer days. Page 37 Photos: Trans & Queer Prom. Page 39

I consider myself fortunate to be in the best marriage I know. Its an amazing thing, yet I do have same-sex attractions. Those things dont overwhelm me or my marriage; they are something that informs me like any other struggle I might bring to the table.

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COMMUNITY
Stonewall Month wraps up with Augusta Pride. Page 42 Photos: Evening for Equality, Pride Run. Page 45

Alan Chambers, president of Exodus International, which is dedicated to helping people not act on same-sex attraction, in an interview about why he is distancing the group from those who say they can cure homosexuality. (Associated Press, June 27)

Magic Mike is the purest reection of the It Gets Better sentiment a movie so gleefully homoerotic, it can give a boost to bullied teens everywhere. Magic Mike is for women the same way Playgirl is for women: its sort of an open secret that gay men look, too.
Reviewer Louis Peitzman, asking Is Magic Mike the greatest gay movie ever made? (BlackBook, June 28)

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CALENDAR
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COLUMNISTS
Thats What She Said: Melissa Carters Scrabble scorcher. Page 53 Domestically Disturbed: Topher Paynes marriage milestone. Page 54

fter two months of online balloting and thousands of votes cast, we present your favorites in dozens of categories our third annual Best of Atlanta awards. Weve heard it said that these awards are a popularity contest. That is most definitely and intentionally true. There is one criteria and only one criteria for our Best of Atlanta awards: your votes. In May, during our first round of voting, you told us on a fill in the blank ballot your favorites for awards in categories of Community, People, Places, Pets, Eats, Arts & Entertainment, Shopping & Services, and Nightlife. The top-three vote-getters were named finalists and moved on to the second stage of multiple-choice voting, which lasted through June 25. Some individuals, organizations and companies let readers decide their fate unprompted, while others mounted organized campaigns especially through Facebook to garner votes. We think both approaches are valid, and the fact that a business or group has fans who are devoted enough to vote every day is a great reason to check them out. If youre thrilled to see a place or person you love among the winners, be sure to congratulate them. And if youre sad your favorite choice didnt make the top three, plan to vote early and often, as they say, next year. Either way, plan to join us from 6:30-10 p.m. on Friday, July 6, for our annual Best of Atlanta party a free gathering at Altitude at the W Midtown featuring DJs Vicki Powell and Mike Pope, food and cocktails, and Emcee Melissa Carter presenting our awards at 9 p.m. Congratulations to all of our winners, and thank you to our entire community for making LGBT Atlanta such a great place to live, work, party and play.

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Best Charity Benet Toy Party
Long considered the close of Atlantas so, cial season, Toy Party, put on by For the Kid in all of Us (www.forthekid.org), collects thousands of toys and dollars to provide children with holiday gifts. The Joining Hearts Pool Party (www.joininghearts.org), scheduled for July 21, nabbed second place as it raises funds to support housing for people with HIV. Atlantas HRC Gala Dinner (www.atlantahrcdinner.org), a black-tie event in May which raises money for the national Human Rights Campaign, nished third.

BEST SPORTS TEAM/ ORGANIZATION: Atlanta Bucks Rugby, represented by 2012 MVP Johnathan Kilgore and Team Captain Joe Pennington.

Best Event Atlanta Pride

Atlantas biggest LGBT event is also the most popular with Atlanta Pride (atlantapride.org) claiming rst place by a large percentage. The annual festival, set for Oct. 13-14 this year, features all stripes in the LGBT rainbow proudly waving their ags and enjoying entertainment. Out On Film (www.outonlm.org), the LGBT lm fest scheduled for Oct. 4-11, enters its 25th year with a second place in this category. Atlantas HRC Gala Dinner (www.atlantahrcdinner.org) nished third.

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BEST CHARITY EVENT: Toy Party

Best House of Worship

Atlantas largest supplier of free HIV testing and organizer of the Oct. 21 AIDS Walk Atlanta, AID Atlanta (www.aidatlanta.org) was named the citys best HIV/AIDS nonprofit in 2012. Positive Impact (www.positiveimpact-atl.org), which focuses on mental health services and other support for those impacted by HIV, placed second. Jerusalem House, (www.jerusalemhouse.org), which helps providing housing for low income individuals with HIV, came in third while Joining Hearts (www.joininghearts.org) nished fourth.

Best HIV / AIDS Nonprot AID Atlanta

For the third year, Saint Mark United Methodist Church (www.stmarkumc.org) is our readers top House of Worship. Saint Mark was one of the rst mainstream Atlanta churches to welcome LGBT people and now counts several gay and trans members among its leaders. First Metropolitan Community Church (www.rstmcc.com) nished second and New Covenant Church of Atlanta (www.newcovenantatlanta.com) was third.

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BEST LGBT NONPROFIT: Lost-n-Found

Best LGBT Nonprot Lost-n-Found Youth

Atlantas only organization specically created to provide immediate help for homeless LGBT youth, Lost-n-Found Youth (www.lost-n-found.org) operates housing and a hotline for young people living on or near the streets. Senior organization SAGE Atlanta (www.sageatl.org), a project of the Health Initiative, was second and The Health Initiative (www.thehealthinitiative. org) itself placed third.

Best Sports Team/Organization Atlanta Bucks Rugby

The Atlanta Bucks (www.atlantabucksrugby.org) play hard on the pitch and off. Whether competing against straight teams or donning frocks for their annual charity Purple Dress Run, the Bucks are our readers choice. Atlantas WNBA franchise Atlanta Dream (www.wnba. com/dream) placed second, Hotlanta Softball League (www.hotlantasoftball.org) was third.
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Once again Project Q Atlanta (www.projectqatlanta.com) was named best blog Matt Hennie and Mike Fleming continue to bring their cheeky style of Atlanta events, entertainment and news to the web. Between Women TV (www. betweenwomentv.com) was second and Queer B.O.I.S. (www.queerbois.com) was third.

Best LGBT Blog or Website Project Q Atlanta

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Its been a banner year for Linda Ellis, executive director of The Health Initiative (www. thehealthinitiative.org), who was invited to the Easter Egg Roll at the White House and also received on behalf of the Health Initiative this years Dan Bradley Humanitarian Award at the HRC Dinner. Realtor Barb Rowland (commongroundrealestate.com) placed second and ally Laura Gentle, founder of the Id Give the Shirt Off My Back campaign for the homeless (www.sombcampaign.org), came in third.

Best Female Activist Linda Ellis

Best Male Activist Harlan Smith

Harlan Smith is a research assistant (counselor) for a serosorting HIV intervention study with the SHARE Project, through the University of Connecticut, based in Atlanta. He is also a former employee and current volunteer of AID Atlanta (www.aidatlanta.org), where he was an HIV testing specialist. At AID Atlanta, Smith created the Red Project, a safer sex program, which is still in use today, and was the lead HIV testing specialist for the Evolution Center. Last years winner Chandler Bearden of Positive Impact (www. positiveimpact-atl.org) placed second, Rick Westbrook of the Atlanta chapter of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and Lost-n-Found Youth (www.Lostn-Found.org) came in third, and Georgia Equality Executive Director Jeff Graham nished in fourth (www.georgiaequality.org).

LOCAL ICON: Blondie

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and the subject of the documentary AKA Blondie, (www.akablondielm.com), which tells the story of a complex gure. She is also no stranger to LGBT issues she was once married to a gay man and dates women as well as men. Placing second is favorite politician and straight ally U.S. Rep. John Lewis. Cathy Woolard, the rst gay person elected to ofce in Georgia, placed third.

Best OTP Activist Johnathon Murphy

As owner of LeBuzz (www.thenewlebuzz. com) in Marietta and organizer of the Marietta Rainbow Festival celebrating its third year July 25-27, Johnathon Murphy ensures those not living close to Midtown still can enjoy plenty of LGBT events and parties without a drive ITP. Isaac Kelly, founder of the growing Augusta Pride (www.augustapride.com), placed second and Mike Chadwick of Athens Pride (ugaglobes.wordpress.com) placed third.

BEST LOCAL ATLETE: Ben Cohen

This was a tight race for all nominees, ending in the rst-ever exact tie for GA Voice Best of Atlanta awards. In rst place are Tracee McDaniel, longtime transgender activist and founder of Juxtaposed Center for Transformation (www.thejct.org), and James Parker Shefeld, director of organizational development for The Health Initiative (www.thehealthinitiative.org) and former executive director of Atlanta Pride. Placing second was Giselle Lawn, an active member of Saint Mark United Methodist Church (www.stmarkumc.org).

Best Transgender Activist Tracee McDaniel and James She eld

(www.standupfoundation.com) in Atlanta and regularly visits the city to support local events most recently to throw out the rst pitch at the Atlanta Braves Out in the Stands game and spread the word about his nonprot that combats LGBT bullying and homophobia in sports. Hes also an honorary member of the Atlanta Bucks and rode on the teams oat in last years Atlanta Pride parade. Dave Bellevue of the Atlanta Bucks (www.atlantabucksrugby. org) placed second and Sean Fitzgerald of the Atlanta Rainbow Trout (www.atlantarainbowtrout.com) nished third.

BEST TRANSGENDER ACTIVIST: Tracee McDaniel

Georgian Terrance Hotel, earning him the title this year. Frank Bragg, owner of Radial Cafe (www.radial.us), placed second while Rad Slough, owner of Urban Body Fitness (urbanbodytness.com), nished third.

Best Local Athlete Ben Cohen

Rugger and straight ally Ben Cohen actually lives across the pond, but he founded his international anti-bullying StandUp Foundation

Best Business Person Bill Kaelin

Bill Kaelin of Bill Kaelin Marketing (www.billkaelin.com) is all over Atlanta, marketing events and promoting such clients as gloATL, Scoutmob, 5 Napkin Burger and the

Local Icon Blondie

Hands down a favorite of GA Voice readers, Blondie easily soared to the top as the citys Local Icon. A longtime stripper at the Clermont Lounge who is famous for crushing cans between her breasts, she is also a poet

Atlantas LGBT community has a hero in U.S. Rep. John Lewis (johnlewis.house.gov), who was easily voted to the top spot as both Best Local Politician and Best Straight Ally by GA Voice readers. He was recently honored by Georgia Equality at its Evening for Equality event with the Champion of Equality Award and never fails to speak out on his support of LGBT issues in Congress. Placing second in the Local Politician category was Atlanta City Councilmember Alex Wan (citycouncil.atlantaga.gov/6.htm) while state Rep. Simone Bell (www.simonebell. com) placed third. Laura Gentle (www.sombcampaign.org) placed second as Straight Ally while Juliana Illari, a popular blogger with Blog for Democracy (www.blogfordemocracy.org), placed third.
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Best Local Politician Best Straight Ally U.S. Rep. John Lewis (D-Atlanta)

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Biggest Foe The Republican Party

When it comes to foes, its the Republican Party (www.gop.com) which is deemed to be the biggest enemy to LGBT people. With stances against marriage equality and promises from its presumptive presidential candidate Mitt Romney to repeal the repeal of Dont Ask, Dont Tell, there doesnt seem to be much room for us under the GOP tent. Georgia Gov. Nathan Deal (gov.georgia.gov) nished in second, just a few votes ahead of blowhard and former presidential hopeful and U.S. Rep. Newt Gingrich (newt.org).

PLACES
Best First Date Atlanta Botanical Garden
This year the Atlanta Botanical Garden (www.atlantabotanicalgarden.org) edged Piedmont Park (www.piedmontpark.org) and third place restaurant Apres Diem (www.apresdiem.com) to be the top choice place to take a rst date. The three Midtown establishments have long been the top date choices for gay Atlanta with Piedmont Park and the Botanical Garden switching the top spot back and forth.

BEST BURGER: Farm Burger

Best Asian Best Takeout/Delivery Doc Cheys Noodle House

Having helped establish a bustling dining district in the Morningside neighborhood, Doc Cheys (www. doccheys.com) returns to the winners circle as Best Asian restaurant. With a comfortable ambiance and delicious cuisine, Doc Cheys is a favorite for lunch and dinner, as well as for hosting meals beneting Atlanta Pride. And the food is just as good in the comfort of home, with Doc Cheys also winning Best Takeout/Delivery. Best Asian: Little Bangkok (www.littlebankokatlanta.com) secured second place, with third going to Nam Phuong (www.namphuongatlanta.com). Best Takeout/Delivery: K Squared Meals (www.ksquaredmeals.com) nished in second, followed by Casseroles (www.casserolesatlanta.com).

Best Place to Take Your Conservative Brother-in-Law Blakes On the Park

We created this category to showcase our readers sense of humor, and you didnt disappoint. Popular gay bar Blakes On The Park (www.blakesontheparkatlanta.com) was named best place to take your conservative brother-inlaw maybe he will be swayed by a gaggle of beautiful gay men, or at least picked on by the drag queens. All-male strip club Swinging Richards (www.swingingrichards.com) was the second choice while burly gay bar The Cockpit (http://thecockpit-atlanta.blogspot. com/) was the third option.

Best Place to Take Out of Town Guests Best Place to Take the Kids Georgia Aquarium
The Georgia Aquarium (www.georgiaaquarium.org), with its wall-sized glass windows into an aquatic world, is Atlantas most popular tourist attraction, and GA Voice readers agree. Its also where we gayby boomers love to take our kids in addition to its kid-friendly exhibits, the Aquarium boasts a huge play area and touch tank In Best Place to Take Out of Town Guests, Atlanta Botanical Garden (www.atlantabotanicalgarden.org) placed second and Piedmont Park (www.piedmontpark.org) was third. Zoo Atlanta (www.zooatlanta.org) placed second for Best Place to Take the Kids and Piedmont Park (www.piedmontpark.org) placed third.

EATS
Best Bakery Highland Bakery

Best Burger Farm Burger

The homegrown goodness of Farm Burger (www.farmburger.net) has earned it the blue ribbon in this beefy category. With all-natural, grass-fed meat, the two Farm Burger locations (Buckhead and Decatur) offer burgers that satisfy the appetite and the conscience. Grindhouse (www.grindhouseburgers.com) bulged its way to second place, with third place going to Steak n Shake (www.steaknshake.com).

Highland Bakery (www.highlandbakery) continues to wow readers with its delicious treats and creative menu, repeating as champion in the Best Bakery category. The display cases alone are enough to activate saliva glands, but even the beauty of the pastries does not prepare customers for the deliciousness that awaits their tummies. Alons (www.alons.com) nished a close second, and Southern Sweets (www. southernsweets.com) took third.

Best Bar Food Roxx

When it comes to munching while drinking, theres no place our readers prefer more than Roxx Tavern. While a full-service restaurant, the crowd and ambiance can make any meal feel like a boys or girls night out. Brick Store Pub (www.brickstorepub.com) nished in second place, followed by Burkharts (www.burkharts.com).

Theres no better place to start the day (or possibly recover from a weekend hangover) than Rias Bluebird (www.riasbluebird.com), which repeats as champion in the Best Breakfast category. The food here has gained national acclaim and a permanent spot in the hearts of LGBT Atlantans. Radial Cafe (www.radial.us) and Pot & Pan took second and third place, respectively.
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Best Breakfast Rias Bluebird

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Best Value Eats

In a runaway victory, Eats (www.eatsonponce.net) once again proved itself a reader favorite when looking for good food without breaking the bank. Especially during lean times, we are grateful to be able to get a home-cooked meal for under $10. S&S Cafeteria (www. sscafeterias.com) and Kathmandu Kitchen & Grill (www.kathmandukitchenatlanta.com) took second and third, respectively.
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The weekend specials and endearing menu of Radial Cafe (www.radial.us) made it the fan favorite for brunch spots. The win marks a repeat for the Candler Park restaurant, proving that its commitment to local products are appreciated by LGBT Atlantans. Second place went to Einsteins (www.metrocafes.com/einsteins) with Roxx rounding out the top three.

Best Brunch Radial Cafe

Best Overall Restaurant La Tavola

For the second year in a row, the top prize among restaurants goes to La Tavola (www. latavolatrattoria.com) in Virginia Highland. The upscale eatery offers delectable plates at superbly reasonable prices, and some of the best Italian food in Atlanta. Roxx earned a solid second place, followed closely by Cakes & Ale (www.cakesandalerestaurant.com)

Best Dessert Cafe Intermezzo

The dimly lit dining room in Cafe Intermezzo (www.cafeintermezzo.com) offers the perfect setting for an evening treat, such as any of the iconic sweets found at the Buckhead eatery. Cakes & Ale (www.cakesandalerestaurant.com) edged into second-place nish, just ahead of Southern Sweets (www.southernsweets.com).

Best Late Night Landmark Diner

When the clubs let out and the stomachs are growling for grub, Atlanta partygoers prefer no place other than Landmark Diner (www.landmarkdiner.com). Located alongside the nightlife strip on Cheshire Bridge, the Landmark provides convenience and comfort food as well as plenty of eye candy. R. Thomas (www.rthomasdeluxegrill.net) came in second place, while third went to Taco Cabana (www.tacocabana.com).
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Best Art Gallery Decatur Market & Gallery Best Local Chef Kevin Gillespie (Woodre Grill)
After kicking ass on the Bravo reality show, Kevin Gillespie of Woodre Grill (www.woodregrill.com) earns the crown of Top Chef of gay Atlanta. Not only does Gillespie bring some serious Southern cred to the palate, but the furry hunkster is the dream of many bear fantasies. Kevin Kusinski of K Squared Meals (www.ksquaredmeals. com) earned second place, while Billy Allin of Cakes & Ale (www.cakesandalerestaurant.com) nished third. If youre looking for that priceless painting or piece of jewelry, or a fun night at a gallery opening, Decatur Market + Gallery (www.decaturgallery.com) is your pick. This was a competitive category, though, with only 30 votes separating this and second place Kai Lin Art (www. kailinart.com). Third place is Bill Lowe Gallery (www.lowegallery.com) and fourth place is Jackson Fine Art (www.jacksonneart.com).

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Best Outdoor/Patio Joes on Juniper

Its a three-peat for Joes on Juniper (www.metrocafes.com/joes-juniper), which once again was voted as the cutest spot to enjoy food outdoors. The expansive patio provides a great space for people-watching, which is usually as delicious as any meal on the menu. Roxx garnered the second most votes, and Harbour Bar & Fish House (www.harbourdecatur.com) took third.

Best Mexican No Mas Cantina

Located just south of downtown, No Mas Cantina (www.nomasatlanta.com) was voted as the best place to go when craving some south-of-the-border goodness. The Mexican eatery is a favorite for an everyday dinner, and is popular with gay groups looking for a festive place to hold events. Las Margaritas (www. lasmargaritasmidtown.com) claimed the silver medal, while the bronze went to Los Loros.

Best Local Artist Alli Royce Soble

Eclectic artist/photographer/mixed media specialist Alli Royce Soble (www.alliroycesoble.com) an Atlanta native is your favorite here. Soble is known for her individualistic style, such as exhibiting her work in all sorts of atypical spaces. Finishing in second place was Phillip Bonneau and third was Drew Green.

Best Italian/Pizza The Iberian Pig

For a taste of Europe, our readers need to go no further than The Iberian Pig (www.theiberianpigatl.com) in Decatur. The modern Spanish restaurant serves up cured meats and cheeses, with exquisite attention to style and avor. Its not your traditional pizza joint, but perhaps it is the pizza-like atbread cocas that put Iberian Pig in rst place. One Midtown Kitchen (www.onemidtownkitchen.com) claimed second place, followed by Apres Diem (www.apresdiem.com).

Best New Restaurant The Fifth Ivory

The Fifth Ivory (www.thefthivory.com) has brought a whole new avor to Midtown, fusing Southern hospitality with the camaraderie of an Irish pub. The food, wine and entertainment of a piano bar have made the restaurant an instant favorite. STK (www.stkhouse. com) debuted in second place, with Campagnolo (www.peasantatl.com) coming in third.

Best Vegetarian Cafe Sunower

In a true nail-biter, Cafe Sunower (www. cafesunower.com) claimed the crown as the top spot for the meatless crowd, edging out Radial Cafe (www.radial.us). The Buckhead restaurant turns Caribbean, Asian, Mediterranean and Southwest cuisine into delicious works of art. Third place went to Panahar Bangladeshi & Indian Cuisine (www.panahar.com).

Best DJ Vicki Powell

The top vote getter for a disc jockey to spin infectious records and make you dance all night is Vicki Powell. Vicki is a club/ event xture and has also brought crowds to the popular Sunday Service at Sister Louisas Church of the Living Room & Ping Pong Emporium. In second place is Mike Pope, third Bill Berdeaux and fourth Pat Scott.

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Best Musician Amber Taylor (The Sexual Side E ects)

Its been a huge year for Amber Taylor (www.thesexualsideeffects.com) and the Sexual Side Effects where she is the lead singer and guitarist and her work has not gone unnoticed. Besides numerous local gigs, Amber and company debuted the video of their rst single, All Shell Ever Hurt. Dylan Michael placed second and Amy Andrews of The Lovely Drifters was in third.

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Best Drag King Justin Atlanta

Since 2000, Justin Atlanta (www.facebook.com/justin.atlanta) has been entertaining crowds with his patented high energy performances. A magazine cover boy, terric dancer and winner of the Mr. National MI (Male Impersonator) in 2010, Justin is your choice here, just nosing out second place Devon Liquor by 11 votes. In third is Gunner Down and fourth is Hayden McCord.

Best Live Music Venue Eddies Attic

Even without Eddie at the Decatur hot spot anymore, Eddies Attic (www.eddiesattic.com) remains the top choice to hear live music. Whether its a new band or a reliable crowd pleaser, Eddies is a fun night out, plain and simple. In second place is Cobb Energy Performing Arts Center (www.cobbenergycentre.com) and third Smiths Olde Bar (www.smithsoldebar.com).

Best Drag Queen Ruby Redd

Ruby Redd, a familiar face who has performed all over the city and internationally, is Atlantas favorite drag queen. Among other appearances, Ruby helms the popular Birdcage Bingo and brings down the house with her razor wit. By a mere three votes, however, Ruby edged out second place Nicole Paige Brooks and newcomer Edie Cheezburger came in third.

Bill Kaelin (www.billkaelin.com) launched his own marketing rm in 2009 and has highprole clients across the country. With regular parties and restaurant launches, such as the recent opening of 5 Napkin Burger in Midtown, Bill is your fave in this category. In second is Chris Coleman (www.chriscolemanenterprises.com) and third Barry Brandon.
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Best Actor/Actress Best Playwright Best Writer/Poet Topher Payne
Your fave in these three categories is the ubiquitous Topher Payne (www.topherpayne.com), who writes and acts almost nonstop. Whether hes in high heels tackling one of the Designing Women or doing an about face and playing David Frost, he brings absolute joy to his work. A tireless playwright, he opens another show this week in the ATL the drama comedy Evelyn in Purgatory. Does this man ever sleep? For Best Actor, Timothy Gray nished second and Charles Green came in third. For Playwright, in second place is Johnny Drago and in third place Timothy Gray. For Writer/Poet, Michelle Daniel is your second fave and Amanda Kyle Williams (www. amandakylewilliams.com) third.

Best Niche Bar Best Place to Meet Men Atlanta Eagle

No bar caters to its crowd the way the Atlanta Eagle (www.atlantaeagle.com) welcomes leather enthusiasts, bears, BDSM explorers, and more. From pageants to monthly bar nights for numerous leather organizations, the Eagle leads all in bringing kink to the club. Although known as a leather bar, The Eagle has always been hospitable to all comers, and was also recognized by readers as the Best Place to Meet Men. Best Niche Bar: Second place went to Marys (www.marysatlanta.com) with The Cockpit (www. thecockpit-atlanta.blogspot.com) nishing third. Best Place to Meet Men: Burkharts (www. burkharts.com) irted its way to second place, with Marys (www.marysatlanta.com) rounding out the top three.

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Best Place to Meet Women My Sisters Room

Saving itself from the brink of extinction last year, Actors Express (www.actorsexpress. com) has rebounded with a robust year, full as is always the case with a heavy dose of LGBT fare. This season alone weve seen Spring Awakening and Next Fall onstage. In second place was OnStage Atlanta (www. onstageatlanta.com) and in third is Process Theatre (www.theprocesstheatre.org).

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touch, serving up strong drinks and a warm smile at the neighborhood bar. The silver medal in cocktail slinging went to Eddy Herrera of Burkharts (www.burkharts.com), with the Atlanta Eagles Tony Jackson (www.atlantaeagle. com) taking the bronze.

cocktails at the always vibrant Whisky Park bar in the lobby, or attending a gay function in the ballroom upstairs, nowhere does chic like The W. Seocnd place went to The Livingston (www.livinstonatlanta.com) and the Lowes Hotel (www. loweshotels,com/Atlanta-hotel) came in third.

(www.modeltatlanta.com) used its charm to earn second, and The Cockpit (www.thecockpit-atlanta.blogspot.com) took third.

Best Dance Floor Jungle

The king of the dance clubs this year is Jungle, which attracts some of the biggest DJs to Atlanta each month. The Atlanta Eagle (www.atlantaeagle.com) nished a strong second, followed closely by The Heretic (www.hereticatlanta.com).

Best Drag Show The Armorettes

The campy kindness of The Armorettes (www.armorettes.com) has kept the long-time drag troupe a favorite among gay Atlantans. With their regular drag shows and Easter Drag Races, the Armorettes raise thousands of dollars for AIDS charities each year. The girls of Dragnique clawed their way to second place, with Bingo with Ruby Redd taking third place.

Every night is Ladies Night at My Sisters Room (www.mysistersroom.com), which reclaimed its top spot as the Best Place to Meet Women. The long-time lesbian bar has been reinvigorated with new energy, and continuously proves its commitment to showing lesbians can party with the best. Second place went to Marys (www.marysatlanta.com) and LeBuzz (www. thenewlebuzz.com) nished in third.

Best Karaoke Best Neighborhood Bar Marys

The reigning champion defends its title once again, as Marys Mary-oke (www. marysatlanta.com) returns to the victors circle in the Best Karaoke category. The tipsy crooning at Marys has endured as a Gay-T-L institution, making the East Atlanta bar a mustvisit venue, which is why readers also selected Marys at the Best Neighborhood Bar. Best Karaoke: Burkharts Blue Monday (www.burkharts.com) sang its way to second place, with Balls Deep at the Atlanta Eagle (www.atlantaeagle.com) deep-throated its way to third. Best Neighborhood Bar: The Model T

Best OTP Bar LeBuzz

When readers are looking for a vacation from the intown scene, LeBuzz (www.thenewlebuzz. com) is worth the drive. Second place went to Savannahs Club One (www.clubone-online. com) and third place went to Club Argos (www. facebook.com/clubargos) in Augusta.
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Michael Adkins of The Model T (www. modeltatlanta.com) is the man with the golden

Best Hotel Bar The W Midtown

For a sexy night out in the city, our readers get their prettiest for The W Midtown (www. watlantamidtown.com). Whether its meeting for

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Best Theme Night Sunday Service at Church

With DJ Vicki Powell on the turntables, the faithful ock to Sunday Service at Church (Sister Louisas Church of the Living Room and Ping-Pong Emporium) in the Sweet Auburn district. It sometimes feels sacrilegious to have such a good time on the Lords Day, but as we all know, the seventh day was made for partying. The Manshaft party (www.themanshaft.blogspot.com) nabbed second place, while Roll Back at the Atlanta Eagle (www. atlantaeagle.com) earned third place.

Best Overall Bar Burkharts

This years top prize among bars and pubs goes to the venerable Burkharts (www. burkharts.com), where strong drinks, drag shows and questionable karaoke rule the night. The Ansley Square staple has helped north Midtown remain one of the gayest areas in the city, and is adored by readers. The Atlanta Eagle (www.atlantaeagle.com) and Marys (www.marysatlanta.com) nished second and third, respectively.

Best Chiropractic Service Midtown Life Studio

Need your back whipped into shape or help working out that neck crick? Your fave place to do so is Midtown Life Studio (www.midtownlifestudio. com), which also offers massage. The team of Dr. Greg, Laura and Glenn has proven to be a potent combination. Runner-ups are Sherwood Chiropractor Center (www.sherwoodchiropracticcenter.com) and Sandy Chiropractor (www.sandychiro.com). Best Gift Store: Your next favorites are Heliotrope (www.heliotrophehome.com) and then Melrose on Ponce (www.melroseonponce.com).

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Best Bank Wells Fargo
Its everywhere all over Atlanta these days Wells Fargo (www.wellsfargo.com) is your favorite place to store your funds and manage nancial decisions. That the establishment is one of the most gay-friendly around is an added bonus. In second is SunTrust (www.suntrust.com), third is BB&T (www.bbt.com) and fourth is Fidelity Decatur (www.lionbank.com)

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Best Hotel The Georgian Terrace Best Dermatologist Dr. Mack Rachal
An Atlanta landmark, The Georgian Terrace (www.thegeorgianterrace.com) has Southern hospitality in spades, world class facilities and the famous Livingston Restaurant and Bar, literally across the street from the Fox Theatre. The hotel is worth checking out even if you live in Atlanta. Second place is the W Midtown (www.whotels. com/Atlanta) and third Loews Atlanta (www.loewshotels.com).

Best Clothing Store Boy Next Door

For the latest in seasonal fashions, Boy Next Door (www.boynextdoor.biz) is a longtime favorite. Gay men ock there en masse to nd the sexiest and trendiest fare around. In second is Saks Fifth Avenue (www.saksfthavenue.com) and Drew Lewis (www. drewlewis-atl.com) nished next.

Best Bookstore Best Gift Store Brushstrokes

With a wide selection of bestsellers, old favorites and gifts for the most spoiled recipient, Brushtrokes (www.brushtrokesatlanta.com) is your top choice as bookstore and gift store. New this year have been the stores author appearances, hosted by neighboring gay bar Mixx. Best Bookstore: In second is Barnes and Noble (www.barnesandnoble.com) and third Charis Books and More (www.charisbooksandmore.com).

Best Co eehouse Starbucks at Ansley Mall

According to our readers, theres no better local place to grab some java than the Ansley Starbucks (www.starbucks.com/ store/14958/). The coffee is reliable and the joint is always hopping with people perfect for a meeting or to just curl up on the laptop. Second place is Java Monkey (www. javamonkeydecatur.com) with third going to Dancing Goats (www.facebook.com/ dancinggoatscoffeebar) in Decatur and fourth to Kavarna (www.kavarnadecatur.com).

The well-respected Dr. Mack Rachal (www.midtownmed.com) is part of the staff at Midtown Medical Associates as well as Piedmont Hospital and Crawford Long. Known for his punctual visits and lack of waiting time at his ofce, he nosed out second place Georgia Skin Specialists (www.georgiaskinspecialists.com) by seven votes. In third is Olansky Dermatology Associates (www.olanskydermatology.com).

Best Florist Twelve Flowers and Boutique

Now in business for 16 years, owner John McDonald has made Twelve Flowers and Boutique (www.twelveatlanta.net) a great place to stop for a wide array of owers for weddings and all sorts of special events. The store has turned oral art into something highly unique yet personal. Second place went to Foxgloves & Ivy Floral Design Studio (www.foxgloves.biz) and third is Maud Baker (www.maudbaker.com).

Best Gym LA Fitness

The best place to stay in shape or get whipped into shape is the reliable LA Fitness (www.latness.com), which has locations literally all over the Atlanta metro area. The gym has stayed current to keep the gay men and women coming. Urban Body Fitness (www. urbanbodytness.com) and Core Body Fitness (www.corebody.net) round out your top picks.
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Best Hair Salon Helmet
With its stable of some of the most likable and talented stylists in town, Helmet (www. helmethairworx.com) is the place you want your hair done right. Its Midtown location might be the hub but there are four other locales as well. Crimpers Hair Salon off Cheshire Bridge (www.crimpersatlanta.com) was your next favorite followed by Axiom on Piedmont. (www.axiomsfm.com).

Best Tanning Salon Toucan Tan

From tanning beds to spray tans that make you look like you spent two weeks at a beach, Toucan Tan (www.toucantan.com) is tops for that bronze, sexy look. Besides its Midtown location, Toucan has two other suburban locales. Simply Sun Tanning (www.simplysuntan.com) is in second place and third is Palm Beach Tan (www.palmbeachtan.com).

Best Real Estate Agent Justin Ziegler

Also known for his leadership with LGBT organizations, Justin Ziegler (www.commongroundrealestate.com) is fairly new to real estate but has made a quick impression. Friendly and enthusiastic, he knows his stuff and co-owns the Common Ground Real Estate team. Second place is Patti Ellis (www.teamellis.biz), who is an outspoken advocate for her gay son, and third goes to Jo Gipson (www.atlantaintown.com/ agent/jo_gipson). Joyce Kitchens, Randy New and Jeff Cleghorn ght for their clients and causes, including LGBT equality. Following them in second is Greg Nevins of Lambda Legal (www. lambdalegal.org/about-us/staff/gregory-r-nevins) and Atlanta Eagle attorney Dan Grossman (www.dangrossmanlaw.com).

Best MD Dr. Scott Parry

Intown Primary Cares Dr. Scott Parry (www.intownprimarycare.com) is the doctor you want to see most. Hes pleasant, conveniently located, has a of slew LGBT and nonLGBT clients and his ofce always makes time for walk-in needs. In second place is Georgia Reproductive Specialists (www.ivf. com) and third Dr. John Perry.

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Best Veterinarian Briarcli Animal Clinic
Briarcliff Animal Clinic (www.briarcliffanimal.com) was our readers top choice to take the kids for their regular check-ups and emergency issues. Pets Are People Too (www.vcahospitals.com/pets-are-people-too-chamblee) nished second and Buckhead Animal Clinic (www.vcahospitals.com/buckhead) was third.

Best Home Dcor Mitchell Gold + Bob Williams

For the best in quality home furnishings, Mitchell Gold + Bob Williams (www.mgbwhome.com) is your favorite shop according to your votes. Inventory is updated quickly and the tastes run from modern to traditional. Its followed by Horizon Home (www.horizonhomefurniture.com) in second and Bobby Berk Home (www.bobbyberkhome.com) third.

Best Pharmacy Ansley Kroger

Besides being in a location that is super easy to nd, the Kroger store at Ansley Mall (www. Kroger.com) has knowledgeable and personable pharmacists who make the wait for prescriptions go by painlessly. Your next top favorites are Absolute Care (www.absolutecarehealth.com) and BioScrip (www.bioscrip.com).

With two locations, one in Amsterdam Walk and Decatur, Worthmore (www.worthmorejewelers.com) is LGBT Atlantas fave jeweler. With an endless supply of watches, bracelets and earrings, as well as wedding or commitment rings, its no surprise. Second place is Decatur City Jewelers (www.decaturcityjewelers.com) and Colorstones (www.b-e-a-d.com).

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Best Pet Store/Supplies Best Pet Grooming/Boarding Best Pet-Friendly Event The Pet Set

Best Liquor Store Tower Beer, Wine and Spirits

Tower (www.towerwinespirits.com) has everything you could ever want in a liquor store as well as alcohol you probably didnt realize you wanted or needed until shopping. Besides a Buckhead location, Tower can also be found in Doraville. In second place is Greens on Ponce (www.greensbeverages.com) and in third is Ansley Wine Merchants (www.ansleywine.com).

Best Spa Blue Medspa

Blu Medspa (www.bluemedspa.com) is the place to go for relaxation and plain pampering, the kind most of us cant get at home. Its been called one of the top 55 spas in the country by Conde Nast Traveler and those whove been inside understand why. Second place went to Natural Body Spa (www.naturalbody.com) and third Urban Body Spa and Salon (www.urbanbodystudios.com).

Best Lawyer/Legal Services Kitchens New Cleghorn, LLC

With a team of law professionals that is almost unsurpassed, Kitchens New Cleghorn (www.knclawrm.com) is your top choice.

The Pet Set (www.thepetset.com) was the favorite place for our readers to get their pet supplies and pet care. Between its two locations, the store offers daycare, grooming, supplies and boarding. Its Photo Day even took rst spot in our readers hearts for Pet-Friendly Event. For Best Pet Store, chain store PetSmart (http://www.petsmart.com) was voted second and City Dog Market (www.shastalamafafafa.com/shastastage/cdm/) third. For Best Grooming/Boarding, Piedmont Bark (www.piedmontbark.com) was second and The K-9 Coach (www.k-9coach.com) came third. For Best Pet-Friendly Event, Bark in The Park was second and PALS Spokespet contest Pet Cotillion (www.palsatlanta.org) was third.

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Sharon Needles pokes holes in Atlantas LGBT community

RuPauls Drag Race star provokes debates over race, art
By Dyana Bagby dbagby@thegavoice.com Love you nigger. When Sharon Needles, winner of season four of RuPauls Drag Race, used those words to autograph a photo of herself after an April performance in Nashville, she ignited a controversy that followed her to Atlanta late last month. Out of drag, Needles is a white gay man. The autograph recipient identifies as a queer woman of color. For critics, including the small group of activists who protested Needles June 27 performance at Atlanta gay bar Jungle, the contrast makes Needles a racist who had no right to use the slur. For Needles and her fans, its part and parcel of an artistic approach built around being provocative and pushing boundaries. For both sides, the conflict reveals deep divisions over race and identity within the LGBT community. Passions ran high during Needles Atlanta appearance for both critics and supporters. Two activists invited to meet with the drag star before the show stormed out after Needles refused to offer the public apology they wanted, though she did state that she would stop using the intensely controversial word. But while they were supported by several other protesters who lined up outside the gay bar to challenge the show, inside the club, more than 300 people cheered Needles as she performed a provocative number to Beautiful People by Marilyn Manson that included tearing up a Bible, pouring vodka and dollar bills into a blender, churning them up, drinking the concoction and then spewing it into the crowd. At the end of the show, most of the crowd also agreed to shout Hail Satan at Needles bequest. Yet before the show ended, Needles donated more than $1,000 to Lost-n-Found, an Atlanta organization for homeless LGBT youth. Prior to the show, Needles management asked for a meeting with protest organizers, attended by Enakai and Maura Ciseaux. The media was also invited to sit in. Aaron Coady, aka Needles, said he has removed the racial slur from Sharon Needles vocabulary and personally apologized to the Ciseauxs. But when they asked for a public

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Left: Sharon Needs performed June 27 at Atlantas Jungle night club. Though she avoided using racial slurs during her act, she tore up a Bible, saluted Satan and blended up a wad of tips with what appeared to be vodka. Above: Some 15 protesters stood outside the club from 9:30 10:30 p.m. with signs that said, Racists: Sashay Away! among other things. (Photos by Bo Shell)

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apology, perhaps in the form of a written statement, Coady refused, saying if he were to do so he would do it on his own terms. Coady defended Sharon Needles as a clown who wants to shine light on the darkest parts of our society and then laugh at those dark parts of who we are so we are no longer afraid of them. If people educated themselves on the type of work I do and didnt just judge it by my costume choices and simple screen shots on Tumblr and really investigated why I use the imagery I use, Im really more on their side than they think, Coady said after the Ciseauxs walked out of their meeting with him. Sharon is an example of current social anxieties who is designed wholeheartedly to put government to question, mock concept of wealth... We also do things that question power of language, Coady said. The character is intended to mock these things [people] really are afraid of and mock these things that control our society...and try to put a comedic twist to it, he said. But I understand it is not designed for ev-

eryone or isnt consumed the way that I want it to, Coady said. I definitely understand how it can be misinterpreted. Sometimes I dont even trust my own work. Sometimes I am not sure which direction [I am going] and I am constantly growing and evolving. The recipient of the autographed photo of Needles is Catiriana Reyes of Philadelphia, who identifies as a queer radical faerie and is friends with several Atlanta LGBT people. She is helping organize a national boycott of Sharon Needles. A few years ago in Kentucky I led a protest against Shirley Q Liquor [a white drag performer who does blackface] and that really showed me how our community is divided on race, Reyes said. Reyes posted the photo of Sharon Needles on her Facebook page, asking her friends what to do. She also posted a note on the topic, stating in part, Knowing how charged that word is and using it for shock value screams racism. The first thing that a

Talking about racism

racist says is that I am not a racist. We have all heard this before. In an interview, Reyes said she wasnt prepared for the backlash she received for posting the photo of Needles. Its difficult to see all the people saying bad things about me that I forged it, it wasnt her handwriting. They are trying to attack my character, Reyes said. But Reyes also said she felt empathy for Needles because the drag star has been a victim of violence by those who disagree with her persona. I dont think acts of violence are helpful, Reyes said. But this shows that for 20-30 years when we dont talk about racism and just pretend its not there, things dont get better. Im glad our community is starting to talk about the racism inherent in our community so we can start to change it, she added. Brent Star, an Atlanta drag personality who went to the Sharon Needles show at Jungle, said he believes as Needles fame grows, she will have to realize the words she uses are more likely to grab attention. I dont think that the over-the-top, pushthe-envelope artist Sharon Needles is racist nor prejudiced, but with her new fame, shes learning how to curb her enthusiasm and I hope shell be a little more careful with her choice of Please see NEEDLES, continued on Page 26

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Atlanta mayor to meet again with activists on gay marriage

Reed not ready to say I do after first conversation
By Laura Douglas-Brown and Ryan Watkins lbrown@thegavoice.com Atlanta Mayor Kasim Reed would like to meet again this month with a group of LGBT advocates who want him to endorse full marriage rights for same-sex couples. The mayor suggested the second meeting after a discussion held June 27 at City Hall. I would compare it to somebody coming out, that he has got to take time to think about what is meaningful to him. This was an educational process and he was very open and it was a very warm and friendly discussion, said Ken Britt, one of the activists who met with Reed, after the June meeting. In fact he has offered to have a follow up session in July to talk more about this. Reed has been under increasing pressure to voice support for marriage equality after President Barack Obama announced his support in May. Gay teacher and activist Charlie Stadtlander started a Facebook page after Obamas announcement titled, Mayor Reed, Its Time to Evolve on Marriage Equality. The June 27 meeting was attended by Stadtlander; Britt, a longtime gay politico who is running for Georgia House; attorney Lawrie Demorest of Alston & Bird; Pastor Dennis Meredith of Tabernacle Baptist Church; and attorney Doug Brooks, who is married and has children. The meeting at City Hall was not open to the press and Reed did not give interviews after it ended. Those who attended described the meeting as candid and positive, but said Reed did not announce a change in his position on marriage equality during the gathering. The mayor had a productive meeting and he looks forward to further discussions with the LGBT community, Reese McCranie, Reeds deputy director of communications, said in a written statement. In interviews at City Hall immediately after the meeting, all of the gay attendees described the conversation as productive and open. Britt said that while Reed did not say that he plans to announce support for gay marriage, his impression was that the mayor will eventually reach that position. One thing he did say that I think we are all taking with us is that tolerance is a two-way street and we really have to give him some time to continue on his journey to think about this, Britt said. I think he will come out on the other side in the right place. Stadtlander said the mayor stressed that his current lack of support for gay marriage is a

Atlanta Mayor Kasim Reed stressed in a June conversation with activists that his opposition to marriage equality is based on personal beliefs rather than political strategy. (Photo by Dyana Bagby)

personal issue and is not based on political considerations. According to Stadtlander, Reed made it clear this is a very personal issue for me and it is something that when I get there you are going to know that I really am there, and that it is not political. Stadlander said he believes supporters of marriage equality should continue to advocate to Reed in a way that recognizes that the mayor has been there with us and continues to be there with us. Meredith said he left the meeting with a more positive outlook on the mayor and I think he is probably more there than he is representing. I think he was very open and very honest, Meredith said. I think it was an excellent meeting. Reed, a LGBT ally during his terms in the state House and Senate, supports civil unions but created controversy during his 2009 mayoral bid when he declined to support full marriage rights for gay couples. In the wake of Obamas announcement, Reed said he was still struggling with the issue of supporting full marriage equality. While I am still wrestling with my own personal beliefs on the issue of marriage, I deeply appreciate the contributions gays and lesbians make to our city every single day and I remain committed to Atlantas vibrant and diverse LGBT community, Reed said.

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YouthPride moves to house in West End, also home to Christian addiction ministry?
YouthPride, the troubled Atlanta LGBT youth agency, has moved to a house located at 955 Washington Place in Atlantas West End neighborhood, according to its website. YouthPride was evicted from its Edgewood Avenue home on June 1 for non-payment of rent and posted a series of delayed openings before nally announcing the new address June 21. Executive Director Terence McPhaul refused an interview June 21 at the new location. He and board members continue to decline interviews on the status of the organization, which has been mired in a nancial and leadership crisis since December 2011. Questions from GA Voice in the wake of the agencys pleas for donations revealed the YouthPride board had not met in more than a year and did not have the ve members required by the organizations bylaws. Leaders now refuse to speak publicly about YouthPride, so whether the agency is now in compliance is not known. The YouthPride website lists the agencys hours as Monday through Friday, 3-8 p.m., and Saturday, 3-6 p.m. Fulton County property tax records show 955 Washington Place is owned by Rodney K. Turner, who is pastor of Mount Vernon Bap-

Suspect arrested in slaying of Atlanta drag queen; Dunwoody police seek other possible victims
Dunwoody police have arrested Christopher Williams, 20, of Stone Mountain in the killing of Roberto Calderon-Guzman, 28, known to many in Atlantas nightlife community as drag artist Noxy Cassandra Calderon. Williams is charged with murder and possession of a rearm while committing a felony and is currently being held in the DeKalb County Jail, said Sgt. Mike Carlson of the Dunwoody Police Department. Noxy Cassandra Calderon was shot and killed on Friday, June 22, in her apartment at Peachtree Place Apartments on Peachtree Place Parkway. On Noxy Cassandra Calderons Facebook page, she identies as female. Carlson said the motive was robbery and that Williams was targeting transsexual sex workers that he sought out on backpage.com. Dunwoody police say they also know of at least one other transsexual person who was allegedly attacked by Williams in DeKalb County and are asking others who are victims to come forward by calling Det. Jesus Maldonado at 678-382-6925. We know of two victims right now. It appears the other victim was robbed on Wednesday prior to our victim. We dont know why he shot our victim, Sgt. Carlson said. Dyana Bagby

YouthPrides apparent new home is a house in the West End area of Atlanta. (Photo by Dyana Bagby)

tist Church in Atlanta. Turner has a history of working with AIDS ministries and is founder of Product of the Power Ministry, Inc. , according to his online biography. In non-prot corporation records led with the Georgia Secretary of State in March, the ministrys address is listed as 955 Washington Place. Product of the Power is dedicated to a biblical approach to breaking through the power of sin and addiction, according to its website. Laura Douglas-Brown & Dyana Bagby

Anti-gay counseling student loses lawsuit against university

Jennifer Keeton, a former graduate counseling student who sued Augusta State University for expelling her because her beliefs went against ethical guidelines for being a school counselor, had her lawsuit dismissed on all counts in federal court. The ruling, by U.S. District Court Judge J. Randal Hall on June 22, said Keeton had no claim to argue that the university was biased against her because of her religious beliefs including homosexuality is immoral. As a graduate student in counseling who hoped to be a counselor in secondary schools, Keeton would have to follow the ethical guidelines of being a counselor that included not allowing personal beliefs interfere with judgment. Halls ruling upholds the 11th Circuit Court of Appeals ruling on a lower court case that also ruled Keetons lawsuit was unfounded. Dyana Bagby

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Drag Race winner ignites race debate

NEEDLES, continued from Page 21 words, Star said. However, Im more hurt and offended at just knowing that racism does exist within our own community. How do we expect to get support and respect from the straight world when we cant love ourselves? Star added. Comments on the GA Voice Facebook page, website and YouTube page show a definite debate over what is over the top and what is art although the comments are overwhelmingly in support of Sharon Needles. That guy [Enakai Ciseaux] is a complete idiot that does not understand anything about art or anything about how fucked up censorship is. Hes basically saying Hey Sharon, some people dont get it and are offended, so if you dont change what you do then youre an asshole. Does he not understand that uptight churchfolk have probably done the exact same thing to Madonna, and all his other little gay-pop-idols, for being too sexually provocative? Does he think they should have compromised their art over that? wrote jksteiner1974 in the comment section of a video of the discussion between Needles and Ciseauxs. Wrote Kathryn Whitmore of Texas on the GA Voice website: I dont know which is worse... having a prominent figure in a community be a terrible role model for her community by using harmful archaic language... or seeing a community divide itself yet again when its primary goal is spreading a message of love and support of one another.

Catiriana Reyes of Philadelphia received this autograph that ignited the controversy.

The drama over Needles appearance also punctured Atlantas local chapter of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, the drag nun community service troupe. A novice Sister and radical faerie who goes by Aroara Thunder was expelled from the chapter after voicing disappointment that Rick Westbrook appeared on stage as Sister Rapture Divine Cox to accept the $1,000 for Lost-n-Found Youth, where he serves as executive director. Aroara Thunder, whose real name is Jonathan Hicks, was one of about 15 protesters outside. In an international email group for the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, he wrote of his dismay that the Atlanta chapter would be so willing to accept money despite the controversy surrounding Sharon Needles. Sister Dixie Normous, real name John Lunsford, asked that Hicks apologize to Westbrook on the same Sister forum. When Hicks refused, he was expelled. A portion of the exchange on the forum, dubbed DISH by the Sisters: Sister Rapture Divine Cox/Rick Westbrook stated, Ms. Needles has never claimed to be

Drag drama impacts Atlanta Sisters

perfect but is an artist and tries to shine a light on some of the horrors that are in the world. Especially to the marginalized youth that feel there is no one that gets them, which most of us have felt at one time or another. Art is Art, some pretty a lot not...When an apology is offered, it should be accepted in good faith until proven otherwise at least that is my belief. Responded Aroara Thunder/Jonathan Hicks, Defending art that oppresses people of color and minorities is just an assertion of cis-gendered male white privilege. If some straight man was making art about oppressing queers, we would be screaming our fucking lungs out. I refuse to be silent when someone is harming people I love. Period. As a Radical Faerie and as a Sister, I believe whole-heartedly in practicing radical love. I will radically love Aaron Coady with every fiber of my loud, angry, faggoty, femme, fabulous fat body. This does not, and will NEVER mean, that I will show complacency when he is doing fucked up racist things. In an interview, John Lunsford, aka Sister Dixie Normous, who oversees the novice Sisters, said other chapters of Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence supported the Atlanta chapter in deciding to expel Hicks/Aroara Thunder after he did not apologize. He was removed from the organization because of the way he handled his comments [about Rapture Divine Cox], Lunsford said. He chastised that member in a very public forum and we have very specific rules regarding public speaking. Hicks said in an interview he did not believe a Sister email group was a public forum and that he did nothing wrong. A private Sister channel is not the public, he said. Its very unfortunate. Ive been with this organization for over a year and that they would decide to get rid of me so quickly was disappointing.

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Packed annual pool party heats up to help people with HIV
By Shannon Hames A sea of bodies partying poolside in Piedmont Park doesnt usually conjure up the mental image of altruism, but on July 21, the Joining Hearts main event pool party will mark its 25th year of helping people living with HIV/AIDS. The equal beneciaries of the fundraiser are AID Atlanta, the citys largest HIV service provider, as well as Jerusalem House, Atlantas oldest and largest provider of permanent housing for low-income and homeless individuals and families affected by HIV/AIDS. It started out in 1987 as one small black tie gala. Now, we have six different types of events throughout the year. The pool party is our biggest, says Kerry Loftis, president of Joining Hearts. It generates close to 50 percent of all of the funds that we raise for housing people living with HIV. Last year, Joining Hearts fundraising goal was $150,000 for Jerusalem House and AID Atlanta. We actually surpassed that goal and were able to donate $180,000, says a proud Loftis. We raised the bar this year. We set a really lofty goal of $250,000, which is an enormous increase over last year. Times are tough and people need more assistance now so we want to contribute more. We also set it at $250,000 to try and commemorate our 25th year doing this event. The party is notorious for selling out early and this year is no exception. General admission tickets are gone and since capacity cant increase and ticket prices stay consistent, the revenues from the event need to increase by new sponsorship and new patrons in order to meet the new goal. Over the last few years, our corporate sponsors have really increased. Delta Air Lines is a big one that we started working with last year. Weve been able to grow these sponsorships including local businesses like the 5 Napkin Burger, Zocalo, Las Margaritas businesses like that. Loftis has observed that the Joining Hearts brand has been so successful that businesses are now seeking them out for sponsorship of their events. We used to have to go out and try to get sponsors for our events but in the past few years, theyve started to come to us. The Joining Hearts name and brand has attracted a lot of these sponsors. It all boils down to how well were tied to the community. At the end of the day, the community support and the contributions are what drives our donations and attracts sponsors, he says. The pool party this year will have a few special surprises, according to Loftis. Were going to have some local personalities that will be making an appearance at the event. Weve upgraded the VIP lounge this year. In addition to having premium liquors, the Delta ight attendants will be serving cocktails. Theyre very popular with the guests. They will come and wait on our VIPs and they donate their tips to Joining Hearts. We also have a great tradition of having reworks to remember those who weve lost to HIV/AIDS, he says. There is no big, gay pool party without a DJ, so Joining Hearts is bringing in a blast from the past for this anniversary celebration. Some years ago, Don Bishop was a really popular DJ at these parties. We wanted to bring him back and give him an opportunity to spin. He played back in the late 80s and early 90s when the AIDS crisis was really erupting. We want him to bring back some of the old dance music that the guys down here love, Loftis says. In addition to Don Bishop, Joining Hearts has invited DJ Roland Belmares from Los Angeles to spin.

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Last years Joining Hearts raised more than $180,000 for Jerusalem House and AID Atlanta. DJ Roland Belmares (above) returns to spin, closing for local DJ Don Bishop (Party photos by Dan Lax, Belmares publicity photo)

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Joining Hearts Saturday, July 21, 4-11 p.m. Piedmont Park Pool 400 Park Drive, Atlanta, GA 30309 www.joininghearts.org Hes been our DJ on several occasions. We took a survey last year and he was one of the favorites that our patrons wanted to have back for our 25th anniversary so were bringing him back, says Loftis. Were stepping back to that time where we originated in the 1980s and how weve progressed over the years. Were trying to bring back some nostalgia from the past and take us to the pres-

ent day and into the next 25 years. For Jerusalem House and AID Atlanta, the party is more than a trip down memory lane. Its about the survival of the people that they serve. Jon Santos, co-interim executive director of AID Atlanta, explains the importance of these funds. The funds that Joining Hearts gives to AID Atlanta specically go to housing assistance. It helps our clients with rent/ mortgage or utility payments. It lls a gap for about 300 people who directly benet from the fund each year. They have nowhere else to go to when they have to make a decision between paying for medications that will keep them alive or keep a roof over their heads, Santos says. A few years ago, the amount of rent was 15-20 percent less than it is now. When Joining Hearts gives us money, we break it up into 12 months and that helps us administer it so we dont run out of it in the rst month or two, he says. Although admission to the event is sold out, there is one way that is still possible for party-goers to gain entrance. People can still go to our website and become a patron starting at the $250 level. We still have a good ways to go towards the $250,000 goal. If people go to our website to sign up to become a patron or even a corporate sponsor, then they would still be allowed to come to the event as a VIP guest. But they need to do it now, advises Loftis.

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#4: Playing it safe, with spices and sex

Which risks are worth taking?
Is it spiiiicy? a man at the second meeting of the Food Porn Supper Club whined to the server. They were at Stir It Up in Little Five Points and the whiner was determined to find the blandest thing on the menu. Jamaican food is by definition spicy, someone at the table said. But its not all spicy-hot. Robert, host of the club, wanted to tie the whiner up and torture him with Scotch Bonnet chili peppers, the worlds hottest. Nothing annoyed him as much as peoples aversion to spicy food. Hed given up taking most friends to ethnic restaurants along Buford Highway, for example. Even after all the fretting and handwringing, at least half of them ended up actually liking the food. Still, Robert grew tired of feeling like he was leading a dangerous expedition amid savages who lived on red-hot chillies. But he couldnt resist choosing Stir It Up in Little Five Points for the second meeting of the Food Porn Supper Club. He regarded it as the best Jamaican restaurant in Atlanta and, Food Porn is a fictional series by longtime Atlanta food critic Cliff Bostock. Set in real Atlanta restaurants, it chronicles the adventures of Robert, a gay man in search of a husband or at least a good meal. truly, most everything besides the jerk chicken was mildly spicy. Best of all, owner-chef Christopher Williams food was always fresh not served in the steam trays typical of most Jamaican restaurants in Atlanta. About 20 people showed up for the dinner, a number that nearly filled the small main dining room. About half had come to the first meeting, including Brandon, the muscular Emory professor with whom Robert had a date the week before. As people drifted to the table, Brandon waved a gold-wrapped condom at Robert, who, embarrassed, looked away quickly. Then, sitting down, he noticed a condom on

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his plate and on every plate at the table. Okay, whoever brought the condoms, thanks, Robert said, laughing. I brought them, Chase, a hipsterish man of about 25, confessed. Since this is all about food porn, I thought they would be appropriate. As you know, rates of HIV infection are increasing dramatically among young gay men and I didnt come here to discuss HIV and condoms, barked Bud, a middle-aged man seated near Robert. Im just encouraging safe sex, Chase replied. Nobody has a right to tell me what kind of sex I should have, Bud replied. If two guys want to have unprotected sex, its their business. Robert felt a wave of eye-rolling impatience sweep over him, but, before he could start his lecture on community health, food began arriving. His favorite was the classic jerk chicken smoked on the premises with a layer of herbs and flavors that did have a sting just short of fiery. But other dishes, like the brown stew chicken and yellow curry, were milder and just as delicious. While the service, run by Vivian Williams, was incredibly hospitable, dishes did tend to arrive erratically, because the chef prepares just about everything from scratch. It was hard to complain, considering the absurdly low prices.

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THEATER by Jim Farmer

Local gay playwright offers Breakfast Club on teachers

Paynes Evelyn in Purgatory set in world of public education
Essential Theatres triumvirate of new shows this summer includes a world premiere from tireless gay playwright Topher Payne. His latest is Evelyn in Purgatory, which he laughingly calls The Breakfast Club for teachers. Its the story of a group of public school teachers, crammed into a tiny office at the Department of Education, awaiting disciplinary hearings. Theyre being punished, but nobody in charge cares enough to even observe them, says Payne, also a GA Voice columnist. The teachers have no information on how long theyll be there, or what theyre supposed to be doing. So theyre just stuck in the system. But you can only do nothing for so long, so they get to know each other, have screaming fights, start a book club, learn French, and workshop a screenplay. Payne says he grew up a sissy kid in Mississippi and his own experiences helped shape the new play. I went through a couple years of hell in Mississippi public schools, he admits. It was constant. One of the things I wanted to explore in this show was the perspective of the educator in that scenario. Why do some teachers step in, while others choose to ignore the abuse of queer youth by their peers? In this story, it led to a really interLeft: Topher Paynes Evelyn in Purgatory opens July 5 via Essential Theatre at Actors Express. Right: Jeffry Brown plays Sheriff Dodd and Cathe Hall Payne plays Miss Mona in The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, opening July 6 at Onstage Atlanta. (Courtesy photos)

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Evelyn in Purgatory July 5 Aug. 5 Essential Theatre at Actors Express 887 W. Marietta St., Atlanta, GA 30318 www.essentialtheatre.com The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas July 6 Aug. 4 at Onstage Atlanta 2597 North Decatur Road, Decatur, GA 30033 www.onstageatlanta.com years, he says. When I heard an NPR report about the disciplinary process in New York public schools, I thought, Oh, baby. Make that one a play. In a pressure cooker like that, strangers trapped together, the funny stuff gets way funnier, and the conflicts get brutal. The musical The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas has just opened at Onstage Atlanta

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esting story for one of the teachers. The writer says it has been a learning experience to create a straight character talking about their perception of the gay community. It forces me to be empathetic, and really try to understand where other people are coming from, he says. Paynes play won the Essential Theatres Playwriting Award competition, which guaranteed it a production this season. Friends with a lot of teachers, Payne has listened and digested their tales. Ive collected a heap of stories over the

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with a major LGBT contingent. Its director Charlie Miller is gay, its leading man Jeffery Brown is gay, and its Miss Mona herself is a lesbian Cathe Hall Payne. Inspired by the real life chicken ranch in Texas, Whorehouse was a stage musical before becoming a movie with Burt Reynolds and Dolly Parton. Brown stars as Sheriff Ed Earl Dodd, who is having a relationship with Mona, who runs the noted town brothel. Brown says he is nothing at all like the dimwitted sheriff, but Payne feels she can relate a lot to her character. I am cut from that cloth, she says. My grandmother shot my grandfather in the ass these are my folks! Whorehouse is meant to entertain, but is very topical as well, says Brown. He notes the hypocrisy in the musical of politicians railing against the whorehouse but going to it at night. Its says feels the show is a perfect fit. We had a great run with The Great American Trailer Park Musical last summer and we wanted to do something like it, Miller says. Its the first time the musical been performed in Atlanta since Neighborhood Playhouse staged a version a decade ago and the Fox Theatre hosted an awful Ann-Margret touring production just before that. Besides its leading man and woman, Whorehouse stars openly gay DeWayne Morgan as Melvin P. Thorpe, who kicks up his heels in the well-known number, The Sidestep. The cast and crew are happy to be able to stage Whorehouse at their current location. The Suburban Plaza where the company performs is being gutted to make way for the new Walmart in Decatur. Miller says they have known about the situation for a while but were assured they would be able to finish the run. They anticipate being in the space until after the Christmas season, but are actively seeking a new home.

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EVENTS

by Dyana Bagby

Vision Community Foundation, Traxx Girls team up for first Pure Heat festival

Black Gay Pride to include Piedmont Park festival

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Piedmont Park has long been a popular Sunday destination for Black Gay Pride revelers seeking a break from the hectic party schedule of the annual Labor Day Weekend celebration. Now what began as an organic, informal gathering will become an organized event on the Black Gay Pride schedule. This year, for the first time, there will be a Pure Heat Community Festival in Piedmont Park to include live entertainment, HIV testing, vendors and more. The event will be sponsored by Traxx Girls and the Vision Community Foundation, a program of the Vision Church. Led by Bishop O.C. Allen whose partner, Rashad Burgess, is the CDCs Chief Capacity Branch Director of HIV/ AIDS, STD & Tuberculosis the Vision Church is an affirming congregation that welcomes LGBT worshippers. While it is sure to draw comparisons to Octobers Atlanta Pride, organizers say the Labor Day event will be unique. Atlanta Pride has been doing this for over 15 years and were not trying to piggyback on what they are doing, says Avian Watson, director of communications and sponsorship for Traxx Girls Inc. and Pure Heat Atlanta Labor Day Pride Weekend. Watson is also deputy director of the Vision Community Foundation, a nonprofit organization that works on such issues as helping the homeless, providing HIV testing, mentoring youth and offering a GED program. The foundation also works with Traxx Girls to raise funds for breast cancer research. And this is broader than just Black Gay Pride weekend. This is about community, Watson adds. Last year, an estimated 8,000 people gathered in Piedmont Park on the Sunday of Labor Day weekend, Watson said. Traxx Girls hosted a hospitality tent, giving out free water with a DJ spinning. This year they want to offer more to those in the park. Money raised from the festival will go to the Vision Community Fund to use on its projects, such as helping the homeless, Watson says. Last month, the Vision Community Foundation honored Grammy-winning artist Chrisette Michele for her work with the foundation, especially for helping neighborhoods plant gardens.

Chrisette Michele (left), with Jennifer Holliday, was honored by the Vision Community Foundation last month for her work in helping the nonprofit. (Photo by FreddyO.com)

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Pure Heat Community Festival Sunday, Sept. 2, Noon-8 p.m. Piedmont Park www.pureheatcommunityfestival.com Jennifer Holliday, the original Effie from Dream Girls, was also on hand to celebrate the Vision Community Foundation by singing and sharing her story of struggling with multiple sclerosis. We have fed over 4,000 people, equipped over 1,000 people with their HIV/AIDS status, graduated 10 adults from our GED Program all of which are in their second year of college, mentored and motivated youth, and work with Traxx Girls, Inc. to offset our Breast Cancer Initiative, Watson says of VCF. In addition to food, alcohol and merchandise vendors, there will be live entertainment from a Grammy-winning artist, a gospel showcase, hair competition, J-Sett competition and a DJ battle. House music will be played at the pavilion in the park where there will also be a dance floor. Watson promises the festival would not take away from what has been happening in the park already for years. She hopes it will enhance the experience for people who enjoy Sunday in the park, whether they are from Atlanta or from across the U.S. coming to one of the largest Black Gay Pride events in the nation. We havent strayed away from whats happened at the park. This is for the community and we need the community to step up. We need those who specialize in HIV testing, breast cancer, GED, education, literacy to step up because this is for them, she says. Pride has 20-plus parties and [Sunday in the park] brings together 8,000 people in an unorganized fashion, so why not have the festival and all of us step up together?

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Check out these new LGBT reads for hot summer days

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Rocking and reeling

Too hot to do anything but sit inside? These new offerings from LGBT writers will give you plenty to read whether in the midst of a heat wave, or if youre lucky enough to be on the beach or by the pool.

Hal Leonardss Music on Film series presents books about two movies close to queer readers hearts: The Rocky Horror Picture Show (Limelight Editions, 2012) by Dave Thomson examines what is, to this day, still one of the gayest movie music musicals of all time, cult or non-cult; and Purple Rain (Limelight Editions, 2012) by John Kenneth Muir looks at Princes groundbreaking 1984 movie debut. Punk cabaret diva and first-rate belter Storm Large recounts her life with a bipolar

mother as well as her own sexual awakening and exploration in the memoir Crazy Enough (Free Press, 2012) Film Noir: The Directors (Limelight Editions, 2012), edited by Alain Silver and James Ursini features queer filmmaker Nicholas Ray and the iconic Ida Lupino among its many subjects. Featuring a new epilogue, the paperback edition of Transition: Becoming Who I Was Always Meant to Be (Plume, 2011/2012) by

Chaz Bono is the triumphant story of the most famous trans man of our time. Transitions of the Heart: Stories of Love, Struggle and Acceptance by Mothers of Transgender and Gender Variant Children (Cleis, 2012) edited by Rachel Pepper, consists of 32 essays written by mothers from all walks of life. He Will Laugh (Lethe Press, 2012), Doug Rays powerful debut poetry collection relates the story of how two young men met, fell in love, and the profound impact of the suicide of one of them. Something to look forward to in September prolific lesbian writer (and author of Heather Has Two Mommies), Leslea Newman offers October Mourning (Candlewick Press, 2012), a cycle of poems about Matthew Shepard. Edited by Sarah Moon, with contributing editor James Lecesne, the Y/A anthology The Letter Q (Arthur A Levine Books/ Scholastic, 2012), features more than 60 writers and illustrators corresponding with their younger selves. Written and illustrated (with watercolors) by the late gay writer Clyde Phillip Wachsberger, Into The Garden with Charles (Farrar Straus Giroux, 2012) is a memoir about growing old and falling in love. Picking up where Clint Eastwoods Hoover biopic J. Edgar left off, Darwin Porters J. Edgar Hoover & Clyde Tolson (Blood Moon, 2012), promised to be an investigation into the sexual secrets of Americas most famous men and women. Told in brief, insightful essays, Red Nails, Black Skates: Gender, Cash, and Pleasure On and Off the Ice (Duke University Press, 2012) tells of queer critic Erica Rands experiences in the slippery world of ice skating. Earning her comparisons to Mary Renault, Madeline Millers acclaimed novel The Song of Achilles (Ecco, 2012) retells the Iliad with a queer twist. The debut novel by BoiParty.com codirector and head promoter Justin Like Zirilli, Gulliver Takes Manhattan (Amazon Encore, 2012), tells the story of the titular Gulliver who escapes to New York to make a new beginning, leaving everything behind in L.A. In the historical romance Purgatory (Bear Bones Books, 2012), poet and writer Jeff Mann writes about two young Civil War soldiers, fighting on opposite sides, but falling in love.

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TQ Nations Staches and Lashes Prom

TQ Nation held a Staches & Lashes Trans/ Queer Prom at the Phillip Rush Center on June 23. Dozens of people showed up to celebrate and dance to the beats of DJ Missy & JackDaddi.

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PFLAG Atlanta goes Out with the Stars

PFLAG Atlanta packed Lambert Place on June 23 with its Out with the Stars awards dinner. The Outstanding Work as a Parent award went to Patti and Jeff Ellis, who created www.familyacceptance. com after their son, Adam, came out to them. Also honored was Em Elliott of Georgia Equality and the Georgia Safe Schools Coalition with the Outstanding Work as an Educator Award; Abby Drue and The Ben Marion Institute for Social Justice for Outstanding Work as a Nonprofit; and Jessica Maslanka, an organizer with JustUsATL who was successful in creating the first Gay Straight Alliance at her high school in Monroe. Receiving a special PFLAG Achievement Award for their hard work for many years with PFLAG were Dale and Mary Lynn Myrkle. (Photos by Dyana Bagby)

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By Laura Douglas-Brown lbrown@thegavoice.com With voice shaking, Holly Garner dropped to one knee on the stage at Augusta Pride to ask Brittaney Pulliam a life-changing question: Will you marry me? Since we got together, I knew she was the one for me, said Garner, 27, who arranged the public proposal as a surprise to Pulliam, 21. We already have the wedding planned, she just never ofcially asked me to marry her, added Pulliam, describing their planned ceremony in Savannah. I am very shocked that she actually did it. She is normally a shy person. The heartfelt proposal and declaration of love captured the spirit of the third annual Augusta Pride. The June 23 festival drew an estimated crowd of 10,500, according to organizers, setting a new attendance record while still maintaining a close-knit community atmosphere. The morning began with a parade through downtown Augusta that featured everything from waving drag queens to golf carts decorated with rainbow ags. A few religious protesters were easily drowned out by cheers from Pride supporters who lined both sides of the street to watch the oats and marchers. After the parade, onlookers led into the Augusta Commons to enjoy vendors, food, speakers and entertainers, including headliners Tom Goss, Dee Hemingway, She N She and Josh Zuckerman. I think it was phenomenal, said Augusta Pride President Travis Jenkins in an interview as the festival ended. Our attendance went up by a third, our sales went up by a third, and I think everyone had a great time. Among the throngs who celebrated in sweltering heat were people from all walks of life, including more LGBT young people and more straight allies than in previous years. Im here to support my brother, said Lindsey Kelley, 21, who clapped when a stage emcee asked for all of the straight people in the crowd to identify themselves. There are more [supporters] here this year than last year. Her brother, Kyle Kelley, age 18, came to As cities around the nation celebrated LGBT Pride the last weekend in June, Atlanta observed Stonewall Month with a series of events sponsored or co-sponsored by the Atlanta Pride Committee. In the following pages, take a look back at Stonewall Month events including Augusta Pride, Evening for Equality, the Pride Run, and the Atlanta Braves Out in the Stands night. For photos of earlier Stonewall Month events, including the East Point Possums show, visit www.thegavoice.com the festival with his boyfriend of almost a year, Jamin Summers, 16. Ive been coming since the rst one. Its really cool to see the whole city engaged in it. It is really nice, Kelley said. Added Summers, who was attending his rst Augusta Pride: I didnt know there are this many [LGBT people] in Augusta. I like it. Gay youth werent just wellrepresented in the crowd. With his supportive family in the audience, Sam Wilson, founder and president of the gay-straight alliance at Augustas Greenbrier High School, took to the stage to rally Pride attendees to work together to end discrimination. Homosexuality is not an adult issue. It is not an issue at all, Wilson said. After the 1969 Stonewall Riots, the gay community went from the community that wasnt talked about to the group that wont shut up, and I proudly wear that badge, he said, calling on LGBT young people to now lead the way. This is our generations ght and we are a force to be reckoned with, Wilson said to extended cheers. Festival vendors ranged from LGBT businesses and nonprots to more general vendors who turned out to sell drinks and food to the
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Third annual fest draws thousands to sweltering Augusta Commons

Biggest crowd I have ever seen

jubilant crowd. At the booth for OUTlandish, billed as Augustas gay social network, volunteers gave out temporary tattoos of the groups logo as fast as they could apply them. A lot of people have come out today, so I think we got a great response, said Calli DAndria of nearby Aiken, S.C. Margaret Woodard, executive director of Augustas Downtown Development Authority, welcomed attendees from the Augusta Pride stage. On behalf of the Downtown Development Authority, the city of Augusta and our entire community, we are honored to have you here, she said. This is the biggest crowd I have ever seen. This is awesome. The theme of the 2012 festival was Its Time, with a list that included for a cure, marriage equality, equal rights, love & unity, stop bullying, stand proud. It could also represent how this year was the

time for Augusta Pride to mature and come into its own. This year compared to the rst year total 180, said Isaac Kelly, founder and now past president of Augusta Pride. The size of the crowd is still growing, and not only that, but we also have less resistance from the city. The rst year, our mayor asked [the legal department] if it was ok. This year, he said, This is a great event for the city. I almost cried when I heard that, Kelly said. It is a huge difference. We have got that momentum and it is still going. The growth in Augustas LGBT community mirrors the growth of the citys Pride festival, Kelly said. There are more people coming out in Augusta, there are more people out in their employment, they are out at home We have heard so many success stories, he said. I can safely say that we have actually saved lives.

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Georgia Equalitys Evening for Equality

Hundreds attended the 8th annual Evening for Equality hosted by Georgia Equality, the states largest LGBT advocacy organization, held June 22 at Twelve Hotel at Atlantic Station. Gay and gayfriendly candidates were sprinkled throughout the attendees who gathered for the organizations largest annual fundraiser. U.S. Rep. John Lewis (D-Atlanta) received the Champion for Equality Award and gave a stirring speech about getting into good trouble that had the crowd on its feet. Larry Lehman, executive director of AID Gwinnett/Ric Crawford Clinic, received the Guiding Star Award; Jerry Gonzalez, founder and executive director of the Georgia Association of Latino Elected Ofcials, was awarded the Allen Thornell Political Advancement Award; and Darlene Hudson and Craig Washington, founders of the Bayard Rustin/Audre Lorde Breakfast, were honored with the Community Builder Award.

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in the annual More than 300 participated at Piedmont Park with Pride Run on June 23 lem House and proceeds benetting Jerusa mens division, Atlanta Pride. Winning in the rew Sullivan, 23. as he did last year, was And a Dubcova, 31. The female winner was Katarin , Ron Thompson, In the mens master division ale masters di48, took the title, and the fem la Johnson, 50. vision winner was Pau

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Atlanta Braves host Out in the Stands

On Wednesday, June 27, 2012, the Atlanta Braves hosted the second annual Out in the Stands LGBT fan night. Proceeds from this years event went to international rugby star Ben Cohens antibullying StandUp Foundation. Cohen attended, mingled with fans and threw out the rst pitch of the game. The Braves ticket ofce estimated selling more than 300 tickets. (Photos by Ryan Watkins)

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Saturday, July 7
In honor of Sister Ursula Polaris 54th birthday, grab a Sunset Tea at Burkharts for the weekly summer Sunset Garden Event. A portion of the proceeds go to the Atlanta Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. 7 - 10 p.m. at Burkharts, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, http://on.fb.me/N1ztbw

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GA Voice celebrat uplus our entire comm winners and nominees, entary e party. Complim nity, with our annual fre beats m 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. and wine and liquor fro pe. Dont forget d Mike Po by DJs Vicki Powell an , Cafe Sunower d from Feast Catering the foo Award presentation at and Southern Sweets. de 6:30 - 10 p.m. at Altitu 9 p.m. See you there! 14th Street NE, n, 188 at the W Atlanta Midtow e/LFaLhT GA 30361, http://on.fb.m Atlanta,

Friday, July 13
DJ Lydia Prim starts an evening at Heretic featuring the famed Freemasons. 8 p.m. - 4 a.m. at the Heretic, 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.hereticatlanta.com, http://on.fb.me/McunbH Wassup N ATL hosts their upscale First Friday party with DJs Trouble and Angel X with MC Wild Thang on the mic. 10 p.m. - 3 a.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.wassupnatl.com

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Sunday, July 8
GA Voices best local DJ Vicki Powell hosts her monthly patio party at Church with special guest Stefan Kallweit. 7 p.m. - 12 a.m. at Sister Louisas Church, 466 Edgewood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30312, http://on.fb.me/KKKiP6

Friday, July 6 - Monday, July 9

The Southern Bears presents the 2012 Atlanta Bear Fest, Roman Holiday. The four-day bear/admirer event includes pool parties, bar nights, vendors, concerts, bingo, movies, dinners and more. Most events held at the Courtyard Northlake Marriott, 4083 LaVista Road, Tucker, GA 30083, www.atlantabearfest.com

Saturday, July 7
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Strapped & Dapper is a workshop for Southern, masculine-identied people of color that covers sexual communication, sexual health, money, power and so much more. 7 - 9 p.m. at the Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.thehealthinitiative.org, http://bit.ly/M6a7N5 Thought it will technically be Sunday morning at the members-only Xion when she takes the turntables, DJ Lydia Prim keeps the party going all night long. 3 a.m. at Xion, 2241 Faulkner Road, Atlanta GA, 30324, http://on.fb.me/Me5diq

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Sunday, July 8

Just $10 gets you a bottomless cup of beer at the For the Kid in All of Us Beer Bust. Expect a DJ and a few fun giveaways to help raise funds for the groups signature summer event, Backpack in the Park, on July 28. 1 - 5 p.m. at Joes on Juniper, 1049 Juniper Street, Atlanta, GA 30309, http://on.fb.me/OQwtWO Ladies, get your party going early on Saturday with one part comedy show and one part house party. Ladies at Play hosts LOL with comedy by Julie Osborne Entertainment and follows with house music by DJ Yusef. 6 - 10 p.m. at Aurum Lounge, 915 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.ladiesatplay. com,http://on.fb.me/LN4PGM

Lunch, lounge and be lazy every Sunday afternoon at Silent Sundays at the W Midtown. Expect towel service, cocktail and lunch services and mellow music on the WET pool deck several oors up. 12 - 7 p.m. at the W Atlanta Midtown, 188 14th Street, Atlanta, GA 30361, http://on.fb.me/LoC2Wx

Monday, July 9

Wednesday, July 11
Its Luau night for this months PALS Bingo, hosted by Bubba D. Licious and Brent Star. Doors at 6:30 p.m., program at 7:30 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.palsatlanta.org

Saturday, July 7 - Sunday, July 8

The Sandy Springs Artapalooza, a part of the gay owned and operated Atlanta Foundation for Public Spaces series of festivals, offers local arts and crafts from 150 painters, photographers, sculptors and more. Saturday 10 a.m. - 7 p.m., Sunday 11 a.m. - 6 p.m. at the former Target located at 174 Johnson Ferry Road, Sandy Springs, GA 30328, www.sandyspringsartapalooza.com

Writing With Intent is open to writers of ction and creative non-ction; group offers motivational exercises, constructive criticism and more to keep you on track. 6:30-8:30 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave. NE, Atlanta, GA 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com Contact the organizers in advance before joining the Domestic Violence Survivors Support group hosted by the Health Initiative every Monday. 7 - 8:30 p.m. at the Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.thehealthinitive.org

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Famously one of the biggest parties on the dive bar calendar, Marys hosts its annual Bastille Day Blow-Out. Expect a big crowd for French disco, French cocktails and let them eat cake realness. 9 p.m. - 3 a.m. at Marys, 1287 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, http://on.fb.me/MIV61S

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Tuesday, July 10

Voted GA Voice Best Musician, Amber Taylor and her band the Sexual Side Effects open for Girl in a Coma, who are signed with Joan Jett, at the Earl. Taylor is the trans woman who fronts the band and Texas-based Girl in a Coma has two lesbians in the band bassist Jenn Alva and drummer Phanie Diaz. 9 p.m., The Earl, 488 Flat Shoals Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316. www.badearl.com

Wednesday, July 11

Saturday, July 14
Frisky Monkey, with gay frontman Juan Cezar, joins gay singer/songwriter Guyton Maurice, Meredith MacDonald and Trey Hawkins for an evening of genre-bending music. 8 - 11 p.m. at Kavarna, 707 East Lake Drive, Decatur, GA 30030, http://on.fb.me/LDuX5a

The Atlanta Lesbian & Gay Chamber of Commerce hosts a Business Builder Lunch. 11:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. at Soho in Vinings, 300 Paces Ferry Road, Atlanta, GA 30339, www.atlantagaychamber.org

Thursday, July 12

Help plan the Atlanta Trans March, part of Atlanta Pride in October. 7 - 8:30 p.m. at the Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, http://on.fb.me/QWOnEu Beyond the Short Term: African-American Women Loving Women and Creating Strong Families is a three-part book club on Mignon R. Moores book Invisible Families: Gay Identities, Relationships, and Motherhood Among Black Women. 7:30 - 9 p.m. at Charis Books and More, 1189 Euclid Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com Dance/electronic legend Kaskade brings the big beats and club tracks to Atlanta for the Freaks of Nature tour. 8 p.m. at the Tabernacle, 152 Luckie St., Atlanta, GA 30303, www.tabernacleatl.com The gay-owned Atlanta Foundation for Public Spaces hosts the Chastain Park Summer Movie series every Thursday in July. Tonights feature: Mirror Mirror. Sundown at the hilltop meadow just off Park Drive in Chastain Park, http://on.fb.me/LzOhjM Atlantic Stations Movies in Central Park offers a free, outdoor screening of Grease. Film starts at sundown in Atlantic Station, 1380 Atlantic Drive, Atlanta, GA 30363, www.atlanticstation.com, http://bit.ly/HQxNjT

DJ Escape takes over the turntables at Heretic, with a reduced cover before 11 p.m. 10 p.m. at Heretic, 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.hereticatlanta.com

Holy 90s explosion: Everclear, Sugar Ray, Gin Blossoms, Lit and Marcy Playground join forces for the Summerland Tour 2012. 7 p.m. at Chastain Park Amphitheater, 4469 Stella Drive, Atlanta, GA 30327, www.summerlandtour.net Dunwoodys Stage Door Players present Cole Porters musical High Society, the story of the Lord family as they plan the wedding of their daughter as ex-husbands, nosey reporters and all manor of chaos get in the way. Through Aug. 5. Thursday - Saturdays at 8 p.m., Sundays at 2:30 p.m. at Stage Door Players, 5339 Chamblee Dunwoody Road, Ste. D, Atlanta, GA 30338, www.stagedoorplayers.net Famously one of the biggest parties on the dive bar calendar, Marys hosts its annual Bastille Day BlowOut. Expect a big crowd for French disco, French cocktails and let them eat cake realness. 9 p.m. - 3 a.m. at Marys, 1287 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, http://on.fb.me/MIV61S

Interested in helping improve the lives of homeless or at-risk LGBT youth in Atlanta? Joining Lostn-Founds volunteer training is a good start. Background checks will be required to complete the training class and work with the youth so download the forms, bring $10 and be ready to lend a hand. 2 - 6 p.m. at Positive Impact, 60 11th St., Atlanta, GA 30309, http://on.fb.me/KTylvo, www.lost-n-found.org Atlantas Every Womyn hosts a Spoken Word/Open Mic Poetry Expressions fundraiser for LIft Up Atlanta, a volunteer organization to help the homeless. 7 p.m. at the LIttle 5 Points Community Center, 1083, Austin Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, http://on.fb.me/N4nUnX Bedlam hosts its WackedOutBlackOut Part 4 Party, a clothing-negligible glow-in-the-dark party. Be prepared to get messy as DJ Shane V spins. 9 p.m. - 4 a.m. at XS Ultra Lounge, 708 Spring Street, Atlanta, GA 30338, http://on.fb.me/LEYFV3 Wassup N ATL presents The Ultimate White Party, for grown men who are upscale, but not uptight. Admission is free until 1 a.m. if youre wearing white. 11 p.m. - 5 a.m. at the Georgia Freight Depot, 35 Martin Luther King Jr. Drive, Atlanta, GA 30312, www.wassupnatl.com

Wednesday, July 18
The Big Gay Game Show brings together Atlanta celebs and classic TV game shows for a night of fun and fundraising for Lostn-Found, a service organization committed to Atlantas homeless LGBT youth. 7:30 - 10:30 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.lost-n-found.org
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Thursday, July 19
Join infamous drag personality and GA Voice Best of Atlanta winner Ruby Redd for the truly Dirty Boy Bingo. 10 p.m. at Cockpit, 465 Boulevard, Atlanta, GA 30312, http://thecockpit-atlanta.blogspot.com

Friday, July 13

Join the social networking ladies of Fourth Tuesday for their monthly lesbian happy hour, every second Friday. 6 - 9 p.m. at Mixx, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30324, www.theheathinitiative.org, http://bit.ly/N4t58F

MEGA Family hosts a Maybe Baby seminar for potential LGBT parents. Learn about the many options, costs involved, time frames to consider and how age or geography might factor into your decision. 9:30 - 11:45 a.m. at the Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.megafamilyproject.org

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The Atlanta Steering Committee of the Human Rights Campaign hosts an evening in support of gay Ga. State House District 56 candidate Ken Britt. Suggested minimum donation of $25. 6 - 8 p.m. at 5 Seasons Brewing Company Westside, 1000 Marietta Street, Ste. 204, Atlanta, GA 30318, http://on.fb.me/KRjIVT

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EVENING FOR EQUALITY THANKS:

Benjamin M. Perlman Gary Nelson Bill Fleming Gerald Lowrey C. Michael Bozeman & Jason Wright & Harry Knox Glen Paul Freedman Casey Lawing Gregory R. Nevins Christie Ayotte Harry Harkins Commissioner Jamie Ensley Joan P. Garner Jamie Roberts Drew Plant & Tommy Lee & Bill Golden Jeff Riley Friends of Athens PRIDE & Doug Sturgess Gail Cowie Jeremy Greenup & Jean Spencer Jimmy Paulk Cox Enterprises, Inc. Wells Fargo & Company Gilead Sciences King & Spalding, LLP Making Projects Work, Inc. Waste Management Grady Health System Atlanta Symphony Orchestra St Mark United Methodist Church Atlanta Pride Committee

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2012 EVENING FOR EQUALITY HOST COMMITTEE:

Michael Petty Paul Horning Joy C. Barnes Judge Dax Lopez Ray Deeb Kathleen Womack & Jerry Gonzalez Rep. Keisha Waites Kenneth Britt Rep. Pat Gardner Kenyatta & Jamal Mitchell Rep. Rashad Taylor Sen. Doug Stoner Larry Kosten & Kyle Williams Seth & Nathan Woodard Persily Matt Pieper Michael D. Shutt Steve Koval & Brian Madej Sumner E. Riddick, II & Doug Carl Michael Grover & Nunzio Lupo Tracy L. Elliott

2012 EVENING FOR EQUALITY SPONSORS

AID Gwinnett / Ric Crawford Clinic Boybutante AIDS Foundation AID Atlanta Kitchens New Cleghorn, LLC Koehler & Riddick The Schapiro Group Fenuxe Magazine The Georgia Voice Project Q Atlanta

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PFLAG Atlanta hosts its monthly 3rd Sunday Meeting. 2:45 p.m. at the First Metropolitan Community Church, 1379 Tullie Road, Atlanta, GA 30329, www.pagatl.org

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Monday, July 16

T&F Transitionz: a Project of the Feminist Outlawz is an open forum to discuss gender and facilitating dialogue and activism around social issues led by feminists Buttonz and SJ. 7 - 9:30 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave NE, Atlanta, GA, 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com The Atlanta Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce hosts a prix xe Business Builder Luncheon. $20, cash only, RSVP to louis.a.gary@ampf.com. 11:55 a.m. at Hudson Grille, Brookhaven Station, 4046 Peachtree Road, Atlanta, GA 30319, www.atlantagaychamber.org Beyond the Short Term: African-American Women Loving Women and Creating Strong Families is the second in a three-part book club on Mignon R. Moores book Invisible Families: Gay Identities, Relationships, and Motherhood Among Black Women. 7:30 - 9 p.m. at Charis Books and More, 1189 Euclid Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com

Neko Case and special Hogan play an intimate show for s the Atlanta Botanical Garden den. 8 p.m. at Concerts in the Gar the Atlanta Botanical Garden, 1345 09, Piedmont Ave. NE, Atlanta, GA 303 .org www.atlantabotanicalgarden

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Saturday, July 21
DJ Don Bishop sets the mood for DJ/Producer Roland Belmares to take the stage at Joining Hearts 25 Pool Party. The super-popular (and usually sold out) annual event raises funds for AID Atlanta and Jerusalem House. Open bar. 4 - 11 p.m. at the Greystone and Aquatic Center in Piedmont Park, Atlanta, GA 30309, www.joininghearts.org The B-52s celebrate their 35th anniversary with a tour that, of course, stops in their home state. 8 p.m. at the Fox Theatre, 660 Peachtree Street, Atlanta, GA 30308, www.theb52s.com

Wednesday, July 18

The Atlanta Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce hosts a prix xe Business Builder Luncheon. $20, cash only, RSVP to dr.olt@ integratedchiropractic.com. 11:30 a.m. at Marlows at the Doubletree Hotel, 4156 La Vista Road, Tucker, GA 30084, www.atlantagaychamber.org

Tuesday, July 24

Nicki Minaj blows the roof off the Fox Theatre on the Atlanta leg of her Pink Friday Tour. 7:30 p.m. at the Fox Theater, 660 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.theb52s.com

Thursday, July 19

Wednesday, July 25

Charis and Cliteratis Open-No Mic features writer, performer, musical and educator Ryka Aoki alongside Karen G, Theresa Davis and members of the Art Amok Slam Team. 7:30 - 9 p.m. at Charis Books and More, 1189 Euclid Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com Atlantic Stations Movies in Central Park offers a free, outdoor screening of Forrest Gump. Film starts at sundown in Atlantic Station, 1380 Atlantic Drive, Atlanta, GA 30363, www.atlanticstation.com, http://bit.ly/HQxNjT The gay-owned Atlanta Foundation for Public Spaces hosts the Chastain Park Summer Movie series every Thursday in July. Tonights feature: Letters to Juliet. Sundown at the hilltop meadow just off Park Drive in Chastain Park, http://on.fb.me/LzOhjM

Jungle welcomes hosts its monthly Fantasy Girls Cabaret featuring local performers Savannah Leigh, Summer Knight, Envy Van Michael, Starr Sanchez Sherrington, Nicole Paige Brooks and special guest performer and Ru Pauls Drag Race fan favorite Latrice Royale. 9 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.jungleclubatlanta.com

Wednesday, July 25 Saturday, July 28

The 3rd annual Marietta Rainbow Festival will be a Circus this year. The four-day event hosted by the North Georgia Rainbow Coalition and Lebuzz features special performances from more than 100 entertainers, a vendor area and more at Lebuzz, 585 Franklin Road, Marietta, GA 30067, www.thenewlebuzz.com

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THATS WHAT
Its getting hot in here
A scorching Scrabble game rivals the record heat
The recent temperatures over 100 degrees brought headlines warning people how dangerous such weather can be. The intent was to remind people not to get overheated or dehydrated by spending a lot of time outside. However, no one gave warning about the dangers of being stuck in the air conditioning with your family, and in my case, taking part in an epic Scrabble battle. My mother and I play Words with Friends online, so it made sense that when Katie and I went to visit her last weekend we would lay out the Scrabble board and play face-to-face. My sister, who also plays online, was part of the dining room table competition. The game began without incident. I was the scorekeeper, listening to my mother and sister begin their ritual trash talking, as Katie poured the wine. We each had a turn with an even score, and then it happened: My sister played a non-traditional word that is accepted on Words with Friends. If you dont play Words with Friends, its basically Scrabble without the trademark. When it is your turn the computer lets you know if the word you attempt is accepted, relieving you from having to consult a dictionary. The result is players attempting the most random combinations and hoping something sticks. When words like QI or HM score you points, you have a false sense of intelligent satisfaction. But when you attempt to translate that to an authentic Scrabble board, trouble soon follows. Katie has never played Words with Friends, and was the rst to protest when my sister, Melanie, attempted one of the aforementioned twoletter words. Arguing that the word is accepted online, Melanie grabbed my mothers iPad to prove her point. But Katie argued if the challenged word could not be found in a tattered paperback dictionary we had available, then no points would be awarded. Unfortunately for my sister, the dictionary did not support her efforts. That is where the tension started. As each turn passed, small sarcastic jabs were spoken between Katie and Melanie regarding the authenticity of words being played. My mother and I

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chose to stay out of the ribbing, since our scores at this point were not competitive with theirs. I am not sure it is ever a good idea to begin discussing serious topics in the heat of battle, but maybe family members think it will serve as a distraction from a potential argument already in progress on the game board. Investments. This new debate started out innocently enough, with Katie asking Melanie what conservative investments she thought would bring about the biggest return. But somehow that train of thought led to the advice of decades past that buying property was the most secure place for your money. (Yes, this was in the background as I am simply trying to gure out how to play tiles that included no vowels.) The light-hearted conversation that followed centered on our current housing market. Melanie described disappointment in her property tax calculation based on a home value higher than what she could sell it for, as Katie expressed relief in prot earned from her rental properties. That was about the time my mother complained that the random Central American music channel blaring from a TV in the next room was too loud for her to concentrate. I had a Panama City Beach water bottle nearby to stay hydrated from the heat inside and out, and was excusing myself every 15 minutes to pee. Looking back, I couldnt tell you who won that Scrabble game. By the time the nal tile was mercilessly played, it was long after Moms clock had struck midnight. What I do know is the next time media outlets start warning of the dangers of extreme heat or other natural disasters, maybe they should also include suggestions on how to survive time spent in close quarters with those you love, and ght with, the most.

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DOMESTICALLY
After the truth comes out
A wedding anniversary becomes a milestone for the whole family
This story starts with the ending. Mama and Daddy celebrated their 40th anniversary last weekend impressive by any standard, and even more so when one considers the fact that they were 19 and 20, respectively, when they eloped. Neither statistical odds nor conventional wisdom was on their side, but they grew together and built a life. Not every leap of faith has that kind of payoff. It is a moment worth celebrating. I called with congratulations. Mama said their shared hope is that my sister and I will build equally strong partnerships with our husbands. That was the term she used, Your husbands. Mama made no distinction between her daughters marriage and her sons, and both were lumped in with her own. Marriage equality has been achieved in the Payne family. The beginning of this story happens 12 years prior, on Mothers Day 2000. That was the unfortunately timed Sunday morning when my parents put the pieces together and called me in Atlanta at the crack of noon to ask if I was gay. Ive never been lled in on the details of exactly how that discussion went. When they asked, point blank, what exactly the relationship was between my roommate and me, I conrmed their fears, and the line went dead. The phone was no longer necessary. I was fairly certain I could hear their screams all the way from Mississippi. For my parents, my coming out was the nal infuriating twist in the epic drama of raising a son who they loved without question, but could not begin to comprehend. A bullied fat kid who wore costumes to school and quoted Designing Women episodes. A teenager who got kicked out of two of the best schools in the country, gave up formal education altogether at 17, and decided his career path would be as a playwright and essayist, despite no one making a living doing that since the late 1800s. Theyd tried to accept, even embrace, all of this. But my homosexuality felt like a nal assault on their hopes for my happiness. The only men theyd ever known to be gay were haphazardly closeted and married to miserably optimistic women, or they were outcast from

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their families and living with HIV. In their minds, thats what my future held: misery, then death. After my death, their religion explained, I would be punished for eternity. They were terried. All those years of trying to support their confounding offspring had been wasted. That fear and betrayal manifested as rage. It is the inescapable truth when you come out: A concept youve been grappling with for quite some time, arriving at some measure of self-acceptance, is going to be presented to your loved ones in a single moment. In a bestcase scenario, they will have had suspicions, and done a little prep work of their own. But its going to slap some people in the face. When that happens in your own life, or if it already has, there are two things you need to do. First and foremost, take care of yourself. Surround yourself with people you trust, because youre going to need those folks to remind you of what is true, and what is right. You are still an extraordinary creation, and the only life worth living is one lived in honesty and love. The second, more daunting task: Allow that love to extend to those who react with fear and confusion. Their reaction has nothing to do with you. It is the result of their own expectations and perceptions. Your coming out results in a moment of crisis, as theyre forced to re-evaluate the way they see the world. Let them know youre open to helping them get through that challenge, but not at the expense of your own identity. Some will never come around. Those people are toxic. They are dealing with some demons that have nothing to do with you. But others, after an initial lousy reaction, will commit to rebuilding. The morning I came out was the moment my parents and I nally began to understand each other. We didnt know that at the time. But we worked together, and the result is so much stronger than what was ever there before. Thats how families survive, its how marriages last for 40 years, and ultimately, its how well change the world.