The Road Interview Answers: Sad. I Am Healing. Unappreciated. Confused. Healthy. Materialistic

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The Road Interview Answers

Q.1. What color is the

black blue brown gray green gold

sad. I am healing. unappreciated. confused. healthy. materialistic.

road?

light beam spiritual. The color you imagine is your present mood. For example, if your road is gray you are saying I feel confused.
A.1. I feel _______________. multicolor traumatized. pink purple red white yellow protected. special. excited. innocent. happy.

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Q.2. Is the road smooth,

rough, or mixed? The texture of the road smooth shows present difficulty in life. Fill in this blank with the mixed responses from the right column. rough
A.2. Life _______________.

is easy and pleasant now. has its ups and downs. is difficult now.

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Q.3. Is the road solid,

broken up or insolid between? Your ability to progress in life in-between depends on how firm your footing is.
broken up

am doing well. have some difficulty. struggle all the time.

A.3. I _________________.

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You continue walking and come to a river that must be crossed. The size and width are up to you. You cannot go around it but must imagine a way to cross. Whatever you need to cross the river is already in your mind--- just imagine yourself doing it.

Q. 4. How do you cross the river?

A.4. Concerning intimate or sexual matters, I am ________________.


boat bridge flying jumping riding a horse moderately inhibited. markedly inhibited. extremely inhibited. extremely inhibited. mildly inhibited but trust men.

swimming wading walking on a log walking on rocks

trusting and uninhibited. trusting and uninhibited. mildy inhibited.


mildly inhibited and aware of problems here.

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Q.5. What color is the water?

The color of the water reflects feelings about an intimate or sexual situation. A.5. I am dealing with issues of ________________.
black sadness.

bloody
blue, clear

someones incest.
absolute enjoyment.

blue,murky feeling deceived. fecal gray feeling depreciated confusion.

muddy

feeling deceived.

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Q.6. How fast is the current? The speed of the current indicates how quickly we get involved In relationships.

A.6. When I think of intimacy or sex, I ____________________

fast, white water am impulsive and excited by it. moderate am excited but somewhat cautious. slow I enjoy it and take my time. stagnant I dont enjoy it and feel trapped.

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Q.7. Is there anything in the water? If so, what?
A. 7. and there are feelings __________________.

alligator that I am a victim of someone. twigs, leaves that I am a victim and a part of me

is missing. fish, trout that sex is fun. fish, piranha that I am a victim of someone. snakes of someone being hurt by men.

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You have crossed the river and continue walking. You come to a house. Take a good look at the house. Notice the impression it makes on you.

Q.8. What color is the house?

black

sad. I am healing. unappreciated. confused. healthy. materialistic.

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A.8. Concerning support from others, I feel ___________.

blue brown gray green gold

light beam spiritual.


multicolor traumatized. pink purple red white yellow protected. special. excited. innocent. happy.

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Q. 9. What condition is the house in? A.9. and that my present support is _________. good, without a symbol of victimization* as the obstacle ---- excellent

good, with a symbol of victimization* in the obstacle ----excellent, or so I want others to think, but deep down inside I wonder whether I am fooling myself? I may not want to face realizing how poor my support system from others really is.
* see list next slide

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*Symbols of Victimization In general, a symbol of victimization is any person or thing that is not pleasant in the obstacle section of the interview. For example, the following are symbols of victimization:

a fallen tree ( a very common answer)


an angry dog of other animal

a snake

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Q.9. What condition is the house in? A.9. and that my present support is _________.
used---- good enough to survive in life. worn---- worse than it should be but I am surviving. dilapidated---- very poor, and I wonder how long I will be able to survive emotionally with no one there to support me

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Q.10. Does anyone live there? If so, who? A.10. My self esteem is _________________. family---- good. non-family---- average, and I feel more loved by my friends or associates than I do by my mother and father.

empty house (no one lives there)---- poor and I dont feel loved by anyone.
myself---- truly excellent and I feel unconditionally loved by my father (if the reader is a male) or my mother (if the reader Is a female).

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We continue forward in our minds journey and come to an open field. A cup is on the ground, and we stop to examine it. It can be of any size and description. Describe the cup. Focus on its looks, condition, and contents. Q.11. What color is the cup?

black blue brown gray green gold

sad. I am healing. unappreciated. confused. healthy. materialistic.

light beam spiritual.


multicolor traumatized. pink purple red protected. special. excited. innocent. happy.

A. 11. When I think about comwhite mitted relationships in my life, I feel _____________. yellow

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Q.12. What condition is the cup in?

A.12. In this relationship I have felt ________.


beaten up---- victimized in this manner. broken---- victimized in this manner. chewed on----used by someone. cracked----victimized in this manner.

dirty----deceived and lied to.


good, in the absence of a symbol of victimization----that this is a truly healthy relationship. good, with a symbol of victimization as the obstacle----like deceiving myself and others into believing that it was a healthy relationship when it really wasnt.

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Q.12. What condition is the cup in? A.12. In this relationship I have felt ________. holes---- as if part of me is missing. rusty---- victimized in this manner and sexually pre-occupied torn----victimized in this manner. weathered----used by someone over time.

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Q.13 Is there anything in the cup?

A.13 I also felt___________________.


alcohol

if single---- commitment towards someone or something alcoholic.


if married or attached----commitment towards someone (not the attached partner or spouse) or something alchoholic. ants----victimized painfully. blood----victimized by family.

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Q.13 Is there anything in the cup? A.13 I also felt___________________.

coffee
if single-- commitment towards someone less than totally honest.

if married or attached----commitment towards


someone else (not the attached person) or something less than totally honest. dirtdepreciated in the relationship.

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Q.13 Is there anything in the cup? A.13 I also felt___________________.

empty
If single----no present commitment to anyone or anything. if attached----no commitment toward anyone or anything other than the attached person. jewelry----the relationship has status and worth. money----the relationship involved money.

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Q.13 Is there anything in the cup? A.13 I also felt___________________. mud----sexually preoccupied and and deceived in the relationship.

semen----sexually preoccupied.
water if single----commitment towards someone or

something.
if attached----commitment towards someone or something other than spouse. worm----sexually preoccupied.

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You continue walking down the road and come to something that prevents you from going forward. This is the obstacle. Q.14. What is the obstacle?

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A.14. The most emotionally important issue I have now involves ____________.
animal, dead bear, angry beer cans black cloud feeling helpless, hopeless,worthless. feeling attacked and hurt. unhappy alcoholism. feeling sad and unfortunate.

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A.14. The most emotionally important issue I have now involves ____________.
briars bridge out bull, angry car accident painful progress. paralysis during a time of transition. fear of an attack by a male. pain of family breakup.

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A.14. The most emotionally important issue I have now involves ____________.
car, going the wrong way car, junked car, out of gas cliff guilt or shame due to our direction. worthlessness. drained, exhausted. hopelessness.

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A.14. The most emotionally important issue I have now involves ____________.
construction site cow, friendly dog, angry dog, friendly working on emotional issues. being used or led. feeling attacked and hurt. needing love.

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A.14. The most emotionally important issue I have now involves ____________.
fence fence, barbed wire flat tire force field keeping feelings inside. imprisoned by painful feelings. self-doubt. hidden anger.

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A.14. The most emotionally important issue I have now involves ____________.
gate group of people guardrail hill of dirt death. feeling judged by others. questioning boundaries. depreciation by a problem.

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A.14. The most emotionally important issue I have now involves ____________.
man, angry me mountain railroad crossing hurt by a man. taking Responsibility. overwhelmed by a huge problem. feeling sidelined temporarily.

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A.14. The most emotionally important issue I have now involves ____________.
rock, boulder a significant unexpected problem hurt or abused by a male. feeling attacked and hurt.

snake

tiger

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A.14. The most emotionally important issue I have now involves ____________.
A tree is tree, fallen tree, standing the most common self-image. feeling a victim of life. controlled by a powerful person.

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A.14. The most emotionally important issue I have now involves ____________.
Wall, general Woman, angry Keeping feelings inside. Hurt by a woman.

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