The Good Knight Child Empowerment Network teaches children and families about the ten psychological tactics (deceptions) that criminals use to lure children into dangerous situations like gangs, drugs, and abuse. The program educates children so they can identify these tactics and protect themselves and others from falling victim to criminal predators. It provides free educational materials to help children mentor their peers and satisfy community service requirements.
The Good Knight Child Empowerment Network teaches children and families about the ten psychological tactics (deceptions) that criminals use to lure children into dangerous situations like gangs, drugs, and abuse. The program educates children so they can identify these tactics and protect themselves and others from falling victim to criminal predators. It provides free educational materials to help children mentor their peers and satisfy community service requirements.
The Good Knight Child Empowerment Network teaches children and families about the ten psychological tactics (deceptions) that criminals use to lure children into dangerous situations like gangs, drugs, and abuse. The program educates children so they can identify these tactics and protect themselves and others from falling victim to criminal predators. It provides free educational materials to help children mentor their peers and satisfy community service requirements.
their families aware of the ten basic psychological deceptions that criminals use to lure them into unsafe situations, such as drug use, gang violence, abduction, molestation and sometimes to their death. Agenda Background of the Network Definition of a Criminal Predator Statistics Useful Tools & Resources Education and Prevention Basic Program Mentor Program What it has evolved to at Good Knight Castle Questions
Background The Good Knight Child Empowerment Network, Inc. (the "Network"), a 501(c)3 non-profit public service organization, was founded in 1985 by a group of retired law enforcement and military officers. The three co-founders were Edward Jagen retired Washington, D.C. Police Major Crimes Investigator, Dennis V.N. Mac Carthy, retired U.S. Secret Service (deceased) and Admiral Elmo R. Zumalt, Jr, retired U.S. Navy (deceased) whose philosophy was If you want peace, prepare for war. The Network is dedicated to empowering children and adults to become champions, active citizens and protectors through education. Through the use of a multi-cultural knighthood theme, the Program entrusts "Good Knights" with a quest to protect others by preventing crimes and violence against children. Good Knights learn to protect themselves, their friends and their families by learning the ten basic deceptions that negative individuals use to lure children into gangs, drug use, abuse, crime and violence. These are the same deceptions that are used on children through the internet, telephone or in person. The children are then asked to go out and teach what they have learned to others within their community, using a FREE copy of the Good Knight DVD or VHS program that can currently be obtained through www.goodknight.org. All children become mentors, teachers of others. The progam may also be used by high school students to satisfy their community service requirements for graduation. The Good Knight Program has been featured in Parade Magazine and on America's Most Wanted, 48 Hours, the Today Show and many news shows. The Network has received numerous awards and commendations including the President's Service Award Silver Medal for Public Safety. Identifying Child Sexual Offenders Looks Are Deceiving Child Sexual Predators can be anyone. Look for the deceptions not the stranger. There are 10 psychological deceptions used by predators on the internet, over the phone or face to face. Criminal Predators Definition The criminal predator is any individual, man, woman or child who victimizes, plunders, or destroys, especially for one's own gain. Criminal predators gain the trust of their intended victims by using one or a combination of ten basic psychological deceptions. These deceptions have successfully been used on the internet, telephone and face to face to manipulate innocent children and adults into abusive situations, gangs, drug use and crime and violence. SOLUTIONteach everyone these ten basic deceptions and you expose the modus operandi of all predators. U.S. Dept. of Justice Statistics 7 out of 10 girls and 3 out of 7 boys will be victimized before they reach age 18 551,000 sexual offenders have been released and are registered throughout America. Only 10% of sexual offenders are ever caught and convicted. 90% of sexual offenders are never caught which means that over 7 million avoid detection and are seeking unaware victims. Two out three violent sex offenders in jail victimized someone under 18 years of age 44% of all rape victims are under 18 years of age Within 3 years of release, 8% of rapists are re-arrested for rape and 27% re-arrested for another violent offense Crimes against children have gone up 444% since 1986 By the Numbers 100% of registered offenders have been convicted of some type of sexual offense 97% of registered offenders are male 90% of child sex offenders had a relationship with the victim prior to the offense 88% of victims of registered offenders are female with nearly half being 12 to 14 years old 85% of sexual assaults on children occur in the home of the victim or the attacker 76% of offenders are under age 50 Victim/Suspect Relationships 35% 22% 21% 7% 7% 4% 3% 1% Friend/Neighbor Parents (all) Other Relative Mother's Boyfriend Boyfriend/GirlFriend Stranger Teacher/Coach Clergy National Sex Offender Public Registry Map Sex Offenders Sex Offender Compliance & Enforcement in Maryland Education & Prevention The Department of Justice recommends that community notification programs include an education component Registration and public awareness is just part of the solution Incarceration of offenders and monitoring post release costs hundreds of thousands of dollars per offender per year. Education and prevention awareness save tax dollars!!! Understanding Predator Psychology National statistics indicate that 90% or more of child sexual offenders make themselves known to their victims prior to the offense being committed. A survey of registered offenders in one Maryland county indicates that the number is 96% The only way to beat the predator to the crime scene is by educating all children with the ten psychological deceptions predators use to gain control over their victims. Understanding Predator Psychology Child sexual offenders try to control their victims through the following psychological deceptions: Authority, Bribes, Crisis, Danger, Ego, False Caring, Games, Help, Idol, Jobs. The Good Knight ABCs of Protection film helps parents, educators and children be aware of how an individual will set up on them through live action depiction of the deceptions and interactive animation.
Child sexual abuse is not a result of a sudden impulse, but is usually planned - this provides an opportunity for intervention and education.
Predators seek opportunity and vulnerability. An unaware child is an easy target. Keep the Lines of Communication Open Teach all children the Good Knight ABCs of Protection and that anyone can be a stranger. Even someone you know. Stranger = judge a person by his/her behavior, not their appearance. Discourage secrets. Good touch, bad touch, no touch where a bathing suit covers. We cant be with our children 24/7 but what we teach kids will protect them forever. Develop a Safety Plan Question your children about activities that occur when you are not present Its OK to say NO Talk to your children everyday and keep the lines of communication open Be suspicious of unusually attentive adults If something does not seem right about a situation - trust your instincts Develop a Safety Plan Screen sitters, childcare providers, and acquaintances
Understand the statistics and use them to make good decisions regarding family safety
Use all tools available registry website for neighborhood awareness and the Good Knight Film reviewed together as a family every 6 months
EDUCATING CHILDREN American Academy of Pediatrics Recommendation
AGE PREVENTION PLAN 18 months Teach your child the proper names for body parts. 3-5 years Teach your child about "private parts" of the body and how to say "no" to sexual advances. Give straight- forward answers about sex. EDUCATING CHILDREN American Academy of Pediatrics Recommendation
5-8 years Discuss safety away from home and the difference between being touched in private parts of the body (parts covered by a bathing suit) and other touching. Encourage your child to talk about scary experiences. EDUCATING CHILDREN American Academy of Pediatrics Recommendation
8-12 years Stress personal safety and give examples of possible problem areas, such video arcades, restrooms, malls, locker rooms, and out-of-the-way places outdoors. Start to discuss rules of sexual conduct that are accepted by the family. EDUCATING CHILDREN American Academy of Pediatrics Recommendation
13-18 years Re-stress personal safety and potential problem areas. Discuss rape, "date rape," sexually transmitted diseases, and unintended pregnancy. Registration Education - Awareness Registration is just one tool among many Predators are very mobile and will travel up to 100 miles to seek a victim Most child sexual predators have never been convicted and are not registered Keep a balanced perspective - avoid extremes. Most people focus on the registered offenders and not the 90% of offenders who are never caught be aware of behavior, not a label! The Good Knight ABCs of Protection forms an invisible shield of awareness around children which lessens their vulnerability to predators Youth who use the Good Knight program to mentor other children have double reinforcement from potential predators Signs of Sexual Child Abuse Unusual interest in or avoidance of all things of a sexual nature Sleep problems or nightmares Depression or withdrawal from family or friends Seductiveness Refusal to go to school Aspects of sexual molestation in drawings, games, fantasies
Signs of Sexual Child Abuse Statements that their bodies are dirty or damaged, or a fear that there is something wrong with them in the genital area Delinquency/conduct problems Secretiveness Unusual aggressiveness Suicidal behavior
If Abuse Occurs Face the issue Take charge of the situation Discuss the problem with your pediatrician who can provide support and counseling Report abuse to your local child protection service agency I.C.E. Identification Use your information resources to identify sexual offenders Compliance Set up a compliance plan that meets community expectations and matches your resources Education Provide the tools necessary to develop a personal safety plan LEARN MORE Center for Sex Offender Management http://www.csom.org/
Stop It Now http://www.stopitnow.com/
The Good Knight Child Empowerment Network http://www.goodknight.org/
Basic Good Knight Program The Good Knight Crime & Violence Prevention Program has its roots in a multicultural knighthood as told in the fairy tale book, A Good Knights Story Fairy tales have been proven by psychologists to wake up the imagination of children so that sensitive information can be taught in a non-threatening manner. This safety program is designed to enlighten individuals, not frighten them Adults and children respond readily to heroic tales or myths that capture their attention and imagination which allows them to identify with the champions of the tale Basic Program Presentation Review the materials in the kit prior to your presentation. This will familiarize you with the ten deceptions so you will be ready to answer questions that youth may ask Remember that this is a multi-cultural knighthood. When setting the stage/room for your presentation feel free to include clothing and props representative of your culture, i.e. Knights of the Round Table dress in armor and carry swords, Hawaiian and African protectors dress in tribal wear, Oriental culture may dress in Samari garb, Western American culture may dress as Davy Crocket or Daniel Boone. Always keep in mind that your imagination is your only limitation! It helps to project that to the youth you are teaching. If you are comfortable they will feel free to open their minds! Basic Program For your first few presentations follow the Presenters script found in the kit The more you present, the more comfortable you will be and your own pertinent ad-lib will come through making the program yours Talk about knights, their noble qualities, protection, etc. The presenters script gives a good base to start with. Use the script to segue into showing the film on DVD or VHS With young audiences of 3-6 it is helpful to stop the film after every deception for discussion Older audiences of 7 and up can watch it in its entirety After film is over ask for a volunteer to come up and tell what the A deception is. Have them say its name and explain how it is used. Do this for every deception
Basic Program With older audiences you may want to ask two or more kids to break up into groups, assign a deception to that group and then have them come up in front of the class and act out the deception. Always ask them How else could this trick be used? For example, in the film the A trick depicts a man posing as a security guard. Ask them what other types of authority are there? Teachers, coaches, ministers, police men, older kids, etc. Make sure they understand the definition of the words used - i.e., Ego, Whats ego mean? Basic Program You can use items such as lollipops or stickers as incentives for them to watch the movie carefully so that they can get up in front of the class and tell one of the deceptions after the movie to win a prize. Always end with a knighting ceremony. You dont need a sword to knight just touch your hand to their shoulder and say Sir ___ or Lady___. Do you promise to keep yourself safe? Do you promise to teach what you have learned to others to keep them safe also? You are now a Good Knight. Congratulations! Mentor Program The Mentor Program requires an adult site coordinator that teaches the program to a class of youth 5 th grade through college. If you can, a good base to start with is 50 kids. If you do not have that many do as many as you can Every youth in the class sits through a presentation by the site coordinator and learns the program for themselves and becomes Good Knight Youth Mentors. Each youth mentor then goes out to present the program their way and pledges to teach a minimum of 10 other children, peers or adults. Students accrue community service hours for every hour spent learning, planning and implementing the Program Example: we have groups of 50 fifth graders who learn the program from a site coordinator then pair up to team teach others. Some have gone on to teach their entire school one class at a time. Mentor Program The Good Knight Crime & Violence Program is a grassroots initiative that counts on volunteers to pass this lifesaving message of protection on, and on, and on. One site coordinator who follows the formula of a base of 50 youth who promise to teach 10 others, will be responsible for getting this message out to a minimum of 550 youth. That is quite an accomplishment for approximately 3 hours of time invested Presentations at the Good Knight Castle & Museum in Maryland Good Knights at the Castle bring the classics and stories in current consciousness to life For example: our volunteers dress as characters from the Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Knights of the Round Table, Fairy Tale classics like Cinderella and Snow White, Narnia, etc. Our Newest Presentation Method (and bestwe think!) MAGIC! All volunteers at the Castle perform magic in various levels from Master Magicians, Apprentice Magicians to our youngest magician who is 4 years old (yes, anyone can do magic!) We have found that magic is the very best segue into the viewing the ABCs of Protection film Good Tricks to Bad Deceptions We perform 15-30 minutes of basic magic tricks and then ask the kids How did you like those tricks? They were a lot of fun, Right? Well, what is another word for tricks? If they dont know youll tell them deceptions. Ask if theyve ever watched TV and/or heard of a child who has become missing. Explain that there are people in the world that use bad tricks to lure children into dangerous situations and that they are about to see just how that happens. We then show the film and end the program with more magic that the kids help with. Questions?