BELIEFS Beliefs are assumptions, theories, explainations, conclusions, and states of mind which we choose, at some level, as mechanisms to help us make sense out of our experiences. Beliefs often become so ingrained due to repeated situations which seem to prove their legitimacy , that we may confuse them with facts. Belief is the psychological state in which an individual holds a proposition or premise to be true. Superstitious belief or superstition is an irrational belief or practice resulting from ignorance or fear of the unknown. The validity of superstitions is based on belief in the power of magic and witchcraft and in such invisible forces as spirits and demons. BELIEFS Different religious-different beliefs as it is connected to religion perspective. Influence of religion on learning a) physical b)Thinking c) Language d) Customs MALAY INDIA CHINESE celebration It is a must to visit friends and relatives houses. The evening before the celebration, all the family members will gather for dinner Bad luck will come if the plate/bowl used for the celebration is broken. Wears new/fine clothes-baju kurung/baju melayu Then, at night, all the family members will light pelita in front of their house. Bad words are not encouraged to be used during the CNY. Lighting the pelita around the house, 7 days before the Eid Celebration. arrange colorful colored rice into flowers shape in front of the house (night) It is encouraged to wear red cloth and avoid the black color one. Duit Raya is given to children by adults. In the morning of celebration, they have to put sesame oil on their head, which it will be done by the older person in the family. cannot sweep the floor the night before CNY. MALAY INDIA CHINESE PREGNANCY Gossiping and using bad words are not allowed. Cannot sleep during the day and sleeping too much. Cannot eat crab, rabbit, dog and rooster meat. Cannot spike the nail, dig a hole or hit animals. Relatives and neighbor are not encouraged to visit newly born baby as it will cause the baby to be shocked. Cannot use scissor or claw nails. Cannot gives name for the baby before it is born. Cannot go outside the house during dusk. Cannot go outside alone at night. Not allowed to hang clothes Cannot see moon and solar eclipse Cannot slaughter animals Cannot pat mothers shoulder Husband is not allowed to blow anything that will produce a sound. Pregnant woman has to wear a bracelet that call Suulkaappu. Cannot raise hands exceeding the shoulders level. MALAY INDIA CHINESE marriage Cannot go out with partners 40 days before marriage The man will have a visit to his partners house and vice versa. (merisik) It is not encouraged to attend funeral 3 months before and after the marriage. Cannot eat rice with any soup, couple of months before married. The bride is not allowed to join the group when they come to the grooms house. (not polite) Decoration for the wedding should avoid from using white, dark blue, black and green color. Cannot look into the mirror after dusk Only vegetable can be served at the temple during the wedding banquet. The table,chair and bed should be placed in common position not at the edge of the room. Avoid from sunlight (to avoid from skin burned) Beef is prohibited to be served. Even number always be used in wedding MALAY INDIA CHINESE EATING BEHAVIOUR Cannot eat in the chipped plate/bowl. Beef is strictly prohibited Cannot impale the chopstick upward Cannot eat in the dark Eating on the bananas leaf Older person in the family will start to eat before others do. Cannot eat childrens leftover food (parents) Eat vegetables before going to the temple It is impolite to lick the tip of the chopstick Wash plate after eating If someone is fasting for Thaipusam, he/she only can eat food that he/she have vowed before. The chopstick should be placed on top of the bowl after eating. MALAY INDIA CHINESE DEATH All the debt of the dead should be paid before the body will be buried. Picture of the dead should be hang upside-down Applied some make-up and perfume on the corpse It is encouraged to say condolence to the family members Decoration things should be kept from living room. Corpse is wore with good and fine clothes The widow cannot wear colorful clothes, perfumes Family members should walk around the corpse 3 time anti- clockwise Relatives, friends and family members should cry during the funeral Cannot talk loudly even to say zikir or read Al-Quran, when you are to send the body to the graveyard Bribe some rice to the dead as the last give Song will be played when the dead is sent to the graveyard MALAY INDIA CHINESE CONFINEMENT Avoid knocking your toe, because it will affect your uterus (said to be connected to the feet). Avoid squatting, because your uterus will descend. Cannot eat anything cold, like melon, eggplant, spinach. Cannot eat anything windy, like jack fruit. Cannot drink cold water or eat oily foods, as they are bad for blood circulation and cause muscle aches and pains. Cannot leave the bed, move about or leave the house. Cannot read or watch TV as it strains the eyes
Cannot eat seafood if the mother is breastfeedin g, as it will cause vomiting and rashes in the baby.
Cannot eat windy vegetables and fruits, like cabbage, eggplant or grapes. Cannot drink water.
Cannot wash hair for 21 days or bathe for 12 days. Cannot be directly exposed to wind (hot, for example, hairdryer; or cold, for example, air- conditioning). Can only watch TV or read for 15 minutes at a time, so that the eyes are well-rested. Cannot cry. Cannot carry heavy objects (including the baby), over-exert self or walk up and down the stairs. Cannot drink water for the first 20 days, only rice wine (with the alcohol steamed away).
Longhouse taboo (Taboos and superstitions) Many sub-ethnic groups among indigenous tribes in Sabah and Sarawak live in rumah panjang (longhouses) and maintain their traditional spiritual/animistic beliefs.
Longhouse taboo For example, it is believed that bad luck would result if a visitor enters a new longhouse while it is being constructed. Walking under a longhouse is also considered taboo. Longhouse taboo One should also never enter a longhouse without an invitation. The visitor should make his presence known by calling out from the bottom of the steps and after he is invited in, to leave his sandals or shoes outside before entering
Longhouse taboo Once inside the longhouse, he should immediately make his way to the elders room to announce his presence and state his business. Never enter the sleeping quarters of a family without prior consent. Longhouse taboo Walking within the longhouse also has its restrictions and rules. Visitors must tread lightly, ensuring that they never walk over a person.
Longhouse taboo When leaving, visitors are required to partake in a local wine (usually made out of fermented rice), or stop for a chat; as it is believed that visitors who do not pause will take away the wealth of the house with them.