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Mediator Training - Module 3
Mediator Training - Module 3
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Great Tip:
enlisting
Members of
one party
can sit
together
Seating
suggests
mediator
impartiality
Greeting the
participants
Greet all participants by name
Refrain from small talk or
chatting
Confirm everyones name
again, including the mediators
Thank everyone for their
willingness to participate and
show up
If one party doesnt show, do not discuss
any
Take Note:
Warming up
How to begin? Start off with an easy question; ask the
participants something about themselves. The
question should be a non-contentious issue, and
nothing to do with the actual issues at hand.
Why? This will give you a sense of the participants.
What to do? Avoid allowing participants to slip into the
conflict. If either side suggests they dont want to be
there, let them know that it is voluntary. Gently
suggest they give it a try.
Opening
checklist
Logistics of a
session
Remind everyone of the time frame for the session
If either side balks at the length, suggest a check-in after a few
hours to see how you have progressed
Ask everyone to turn off their cellphones, or other devices
Give information on facilities (i.e. bathrooms)
Take time to sign all necessary forms
EXAMPLE:
Its my understanding that youre here today because you want to
clear the air, and outline each persons roles and responsibilities
more specifically. Is that right?
Listening to each
perspective
A few guidelines:
Explain how the go-round works
Ask open-ended questions
Steer minimally, if at all
Be protective of peoples speaking times
Check, thank, and move on to next person
How to steer
minimally
The mediator creates a mood conducive to participants when
they truly listen
Resist the urge to summarize and reflect until later
Let the words of the participants speak for themselves. No need
to improve upon them in any way
EXERCISE 2
During mediation, participants often have unspoken concerns. One of
them is; how do I know the mediator will really listen to me? How can
the mediator demonstrate they are truly listening to all participants?
State at least 5 key points.
EXERCISE 3
Name at least 3 specific strategies the mediator can try
if one of the participants suggests they dont want to
stay.
EXERCISE 4
Explain the purpose and process of the go-round.
EXERCISE 5
Name at least 5 specific steps the mediator takes to
ensure the right space/environment exists for the
mediation session.
EXERCISE 6
Pick one strategy you would use if a participant goes off
track in a session. State why you would choose this
strategy, and how you would use it.
A LITTLE HUMOUR
End Of Module