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Marriage and Divorce
Marriage and Divorce
YEAR
1981
1982
1983
1984
1985
1986
1987
1988
MARRIAG
ES
336
349
275
315
355
330
409
422
DIVORCE RATIO
S
45
43
48
57
53
64
44
92
1:7
1:8
1:6
1:6
1:7
1:5
1:9
1:5
MARRIAG
ES
407
414
n.a.
495
598
480
430
497
DIVORCE RATIO
S
75
77
77
83
86
90
126
131
1:5
1:5
n.a.
1:6
1:7
1:5
1:3
1:3
Genesis 2:24
Verse 24:
Therefore shall:
leave, cleave, and
become one
Verse 24
Remain in a state of having
left
Remain in a state of having
cleaved
Remain in a state of having
become one flesh
Leaving Home
Leaving
It includes leaving such close
relationships like the dearest ones of
parents or sports or even liming on the
block.
Even professional or educational dreams
can be put on the back burner
Leaving
Leaving behind
positions as dependent
children, ending
financial dependence
on parents
Leaving behind family
and parental attitudes
Leaving behind inner
wounds and hurts
Cleave
Cleave
In Hebrew it suggest the idea of
being permanently glue
It is unwavering loyalty or
faithfulness to ones marital partner
Become One
Flesh
Ephesians
5:21-22
Submit
Yourselves one
to another in
the fear of God
Wives submit
yourselves to
your own
husbands, as
unto the Lord.
Ephesians 5:25
Companionship
Demonstration of love
Sexual fulfillment
Procreation
Climate for growth and
nurture of children
Five Purposes of
Marriage
1.Companionship
2.Demonstration of
love
3.Sexual fulfillment
Five Purposes of
Marriage
4.Procreation
5.Climate of growth
and nurture of
children
Developing
Successful
Relationships
Developing
Successful
Relationships
Three Things
People Believe
1. I am the Power
2. I am the Truth
3. I am the Right
I am Power
I am Truth
I am Right
Matthew 19:9
An I say unto you, whosoever shall
put away his wife, except it be for
fornication, and shall marry another,
committeth adultery; and whoso
marrieth her which is put away
doth commit adultery.
Leviticus 20:10
And the one that committeth
adultery with another mans
wife, even he that committeth
adultery with his neighbor's
wife, the adulterer and the
adulteress shall surely be put
to death
Marriage is a Covenant
Contract
Covenant
Engages people
Made for a
stipulated period of
time
Are forever
Marriage is a Covenant
Contract
Covenant
Cannot be broken
but if violated,
results in personal
loss and a broken
heart
Witnessed by people
with the state as
guarantor
Witnessed by God
with God as the
guarantor
Spiritually speaking,
There are only two families
Family
Family
Of
Of God
Two Questions
Am I part of
the family of
God?
Is my partner
part of Gods
We are all born into
family?
Satans family, and
must be converted
into Gods family.
How do I become
part of the
Family of God?
The story of Jacob
has the answer.
Jacob was a
thief - stole from his brother
liar - lied to his blind father
runaway - separated forever
from his loving
mother
Lonely, disappointed and
discouraged, he lay on the ground
ALONE!
He left his wives!
He left his children!
He left his cattle!
He wanted to meet His Go
He kneelt in earnest praye
IT WAS MIDNIGHT!
Suddenly a hand grabbed
him!
Was it Esau?
Hour after hour they
wrestled!
Then the Man touched his
thigh.
He became paralyzed!
Lets listen to
their conversation
in
Genesis 32:26-28
Jesus: Let Me
go, for the day
breaks.
Jacob: I will
not let You go
unless You
bless me!
Genesis 32:26
Jesus: What is
your name?
Jacob: Jacob
(deceiver).
Jesus: Your
name shall be no
longer be called
Jacob (deceiver),
but Israel
(victor)!
Genesis
A MIRACLE!
Jacob was
changed!
From thievery to
honesty!
From lying to
truthfulness!
From deceiver to
victor!
My prayer.
Gods Answer.
ITS A MIRACLE!
The drunkard
becomes sober!
The drug-user
becomes an
abstainer!
The smoker
becomes drug free!
The abuser becomes
a care-giver!
If anyone is in
Christ, he is a new
creation; old things
have passed away;
behold, all things
have become new.
2 Corinthians 5:17
Adultery changes
to purity!
Revelry changes
to sobriety!
Gambler becomes
a money-saver!
Hurter is changed
to healer!