The Ugly Truth about

Bullying

Emerson G. Aliswag LPT-BS, PTP, CPT, RN, MSN-AHN

Recognized Resource Speaker in 116 Seminars in
National and International Level
CONFLICT HAPPENS everyday!
Conflict is…
•a normal, inescapable
part of life

•a periodic occurrence in
any relationship

•an opportunity to
understand opposing
preferences and values

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Sources of Conflict

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BULLYING

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Causes of Bullying

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Bullying Begins at Home

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 Types of Bullying
• VERTICAL
• HORIZONTAL

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Forms of Bullying

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GOSSIP as a form of Bullying
• GOSSIP- ang naniniwala
sa sabi-sabi, nwawalan
ng BAIT sa sarili.

• Gossip is unreliable
• “Pag may usok, may
apoy”--- not true

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Cyber Bullying

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 Basic Solution
• Assertiveness over your
rights under the law

• Adherence to ethics and

discipline

• Seek the advise of

immediate superior

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Inform your Parents about it!

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Seek Help thru Teaches and
Guidance Counsellors

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 What are the 5 greatest
achievement in your life?

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 Judging Others (Mathew 7:1-6)
Do not Judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you
judge others, you will be judged and with the same measure you
use it will be measured against you. Why do you look at the saw
dust in your brothers eye and pay no attention to the plank in your
eye? How can you say to your brother “let me take the speck out of
your eye” when all the time you have a plank in your own eye. You
hypocrite! First take the plank in your eye, and then you will see
clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye. “Do not give
what is sacred to dogs; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do,
they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to
pieces”.

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 Love for Enemies
You have heard that it was said, love your neighbor and
hate your enemy, but I tell you, love your enemies and
pray for those who persecute you, that you may be
children of your Father in Heaven. He causes his sun to
rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the
righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who
love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the
collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own
people, what are you doing more than the others? Do
not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your
heavenly Father is perfect.

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 Widow’s Offering (Luke 21:1-3)
• As Jesus looked up, he saw the rich putting
their gifts into the temple treasury. He also
saw poor widow put in two very small copper
coins. “Truly I tell you”, he said, ‘this poor
widow has put in more than all the others. All
these people gave their gifts out of their
wealth; but she out of her poverty put in all
she had to live on.”

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 Questions
Sa personal mong buhay:
1. Sino ang demonyo?
2. Ano ang tukso?
3. Sino si Kristo?

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 Sources

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 Sources

Garmston, R.J. (Summer 2005). “Group Wise: How to turn

conflict into an effective learning process.” Journal of Staff
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Mediation Services. (2003). Foundational concepts for

understanding conflict. Winnipeg, MB, Canada.

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 Recommended Reading

Conger, J. A. (1998, May-June). The Necessary Art of Persuasion.

Harvard Business Review, pp. 84-95.

Eisenhardt, K., Kahwajy, L., & Bourgeois, L. J. (1997, July-August).

How Management Teams Can Have a Good Fight. Harvard
Business Review, pp. 77-85.

Robinson, R. J. (1997, February 6). Errors in Social Judgment:

Implications for Negotiation and Conflict Resolution. Harvard
Business School Publishing, Case Note 897103, pp. 1-7.

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 Recommended Reading

Sussman, L. (1999, January 15). How to Frame a Message: The Art

of Persuasion and Negotiation. Business Horizons, pp. 2-6.

Tannen, D. (1995, September-October). The Power of Talk: Who

Gets Heard and Why. Harvard Business Review, pp. 138-148.

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