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Psychological Theories: A) B) C) D) E) F) G)
Psychological Theories: A) B) C) D) E) F) G)
c) Me-self I-self
Psychology is the scientific study of how people behave, think, and feel.
It includes topics, such as how the brain works, how our memory is
organised, how people interact in groupings and how children learn about
the world.
The self as cognitive construction
Online dictionaries define the term cognitive as ‘’relating to, being or
involving conscious intellectual activity, such as thinking, reasoning, or
remembering’’
Self theories argue that it is natural for humans to form theories about
themselves, both as a single entity and as a group, to make meaning of
one’s existence and experience.
Jean Piaget
Was a swiss clinical psychologist known for his pioneering work in child
development.
Middle to later childhood- the self is described in terms of trait like constructs.
(e,g: smart, honest,friendly, shy)
But beyond emerging adulthood (ages 28-33) the visions of a possible-self become
more realistic, is still optimistic.
William James and the
Me- self,: I- self
‘’the art of being wise is knowing what to overlook’’
Me-self is the self that is the object. It is the self that you van describe, such as
your physical characteristics, personalities , social role, or relationship, thought,
feelings.
James called it Empirical self. The Empirical is defined as ‘’based on, concerned
with or verifiable by observation or experience rather than theory or pure logic’’
The dimensions of me- self include:
It is who you are in reality- how you think, feel or act at present
The importance of alignment
According to Rogers, ‘’If the way that I am (the real self) is aligned with the way that I
want to be (the ideal self), then I will feel a sense of mental well-being or peace of
mind.
In other words, when your real self and Ideal self are very similar you experience
CONGRUENCE.
When there is a great inconsistency between your ideal and real selves or if the way
you are is not aligned with what you want to be, then you experience a state Rogers
called INCONGRUENCE.
your essential characteristic that never ever changes and sticks with
These traits shape who you are(how you think, feel, or behave)
TRUE VS FALSE SELF
FALSE SELF
Winnicot expressed that the False Self is the product of early experience.
The false self is put up to defend and protect the core from these realities and
prevent it from any changes.
Winnicot asserted that when the child is constantly expected to follow rules, a
false self develops.
Healthy False Self- feels that it is still connected with the true self, it can be
compliant without feeling guilty that it abandoned its true self.
Unhealthy False Self- an individual who may seem happy and comfortable in
his or her environment but actually feels forced to fit in and constantly needs to
adjust his or her behavior to adapt to the social situation is said to have an
unhealthy false self.
TRUE SELF
True self flourishes in infancy if the mother is positively responsive to the
childs spontaneous expressions.
True self is part of the infant that feel creative, spontaneous and real.
True self is is a sense of being alive and real in ones mind and body, having
feelings that are spontaneous and unforced. This experience of aliveness is
what allows people to be genuinely close to others and to be creative.