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Conflict and Time Amcham HANY
Conflict and Time Amcham HANY
Management
STRESS
• Work
• Family
• Relationships
• Legal
• Finances
• Health/illness
• Environment
• Living Situation
Signs of Job Stress
• Take a break!
• Take a mental break!
– Use your imagination…
– Use a calming phrase
• Use humor
• Let go of what you can!
• Learn your limits
Values Differ
Assumptions/Perceptions
Sources of Conflict
• Destroys Morale
• Polarizes Groups
• Builds Cohesiveness
Ask yourself
How Important Is The Relationship?
How Important Is The Incident?
How Will I Feel If I do/don’t Confront?
What is the Likely Outcome?
Coping Strategies
Negotiation Skills
Diagnosis
Ability To Determine The Nature Of The
Conflict
Initiation
Influencing Someone From Changing
The Behavior
Listen
Hear the Other’s Point of View
Elements Of The
Conflict Model
Avoidance Lose/Lose
Accommodating Lose/Win
Competing Win/Lose
Compromise Draw
Collaboration Win/Win
What Does This Mean
Manage Manage
Your Work
Yourself
Environment
Manage Your
Relationships
Manage
Yourself
How to Manage Yourself
• Set Goals
• Make your goals SMART
• Plan your success
• Evaluate priorities
• Use “To Do” Lists Every Day
• Analyze your current use of time and set goals to
improve
Manage
Yourself
Why Do We Need to Set Goals?
Projects
Relationships
Health Education
Religion/Spiritual Social
Manage
Yourself ?What are SMART goals
Clear statement of what needs to be
achieved
A-B-C-D Values
• A Goals: High Value
• B Goals: Medium Value
• C Goals: Low Value
• D Goals: Delegate
As Simple As A-B-C-D!
Manage
Yourself To Do Lists
• Done daily
• Prioritized based on your goals
• One combined list instead of multiple lists
• Kept in plain sight
• Taken with you whenever you leave
The To-Do Book
Manage
Yourself
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Manage
Work Manage your work environment
Environment
1. Subordinates
2. Fellow workers
1) Working Files
2) Reference Files
3) Archive Files
4) Disaster Files
Manage
Relationships
Manage relationships
• Delegate More
6 4 K 8 3 7 10 Q 2 9 J 5 A
6 4 K 8 3 7 10 Q 2 9 J 5 A
6 4 K 8 3 7 10 Q 2 9 J 5 A
6 4 K 8 3 7 10 Q 2 9 J 5 A
2. MIDDLE
– Outline the task with the person, including their
authority
– Be clear about the results you want
(Invest the time to write them down)
Manage
Relationships Delegate
2. MIDDLE (continued)
– Write results as a SMART goal
– Allow the other person the satisfaction of contributing
his or her own ideas
– Check for understanding by asking the other person to
summarize and ask for questions
– Set procedures and checkpoints that are mutually
agreeable
Manage
Relationships Delegate
4. AFTER
– Follow-up at checkpoints
– Give positive and constructive feedback
– Make yourself available
– Accept risk—avoid perfectionism
– Limit standards to what is acceptable and
expect a learning curve
Manage
Relationships Delegation Exercise
Round
Round 23
• Work in groups of three to Round 1
practice delegating
• Three different roles
– Delegator
– Employee
– Observer
• Three rounds:
– Each person changes
role in each round
Manage
Relationships Learn to Say No
One way to make sure that your schedules are kept on
time is the ability to say no to new and untimely
commitments.