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micro-BODY LANGUAGE - Final
micro-BODY LANGUAGE - Final
To Express Emotion
To convey the Interpersonal Attitude
To present one’s personality.
To accompany the verbal behaviour.
We convey messages non-verbally
through:
Facial Expressions
Eye and visual behaviour
Gesture and body movement
Time and Space
Dress
Physical Characteristics
The three V’s of communication
Visual : 55% of the impact of our communication
comes from our body language.
Voice : 38% is from our voice tone, tempo and
volume.
Words : 7% is from the actual words we use.
WHY BODY LANGUAGE?
All about the image!!!
59% of a first impression is
made up of how we look; the
way we dress; the jewellery
we wear; the way we carry
ourselves. ( Though attire
may have little to do with the
competence but symbolically
our personal presentation
conveys a lot about us.)
Remaining 41% we can
create and sustain through
our words and body language
Are you….
A shuffler who keeps pacing to and fro?
A sprawler who takes up a lot of space around
yourself.
A shifter who keeps moving weight from one foot to
another
A sleepyhead who hardly has energy left to sit, walk
or stand?
The one with an upright posture and project a calm,
composed, confident and competent stature.
Do you keep fiddling with anything handy, scratching,
tapping your foot, kicking your leg, adjusting your
clothes and detract from a positive self image?
POA
Sharpen your sensory acuity
Build Rapport
Sensory Acuity
NLP
Neuro- nervous system through which experience
is received and processed through the five senses
External
Sensory Modalities
Visual
Auditory
Kinesthetic
Olfactory
gustatory
Environment
‘ Feedback ‘ Internal rep
Representational systems- We encode, organize, store
and attach meanings to the perceptual inputs through them.
V
Visual- analyze, angle, aspect,
demonstrate, obvious, outlook, scope,
vision, perception, focus……. A
Auditory- communicate, report, remark,
audible, announce, state…. K
Kinesthetic- active, stress, structured,
pressure, firm, hunch, support…….
Olfactory- essence, sweet, rotten, dusty,
smell….
Gustatory- bitter, Flat, tangy, sour, sharp,
spicy…..
Unspecified- think, understand, decide,
develop, activate, advise, indicate, know,
manage, anticipate, motivate
Build rapport
Eye contact
Smiling
Voice
Posture
Eye contact
Dominant Pleasant
Confident Unconfident
Open Self conceited
Closed Doubt
Disinterested Glove/ Politician
Cautious Dead fish
Posture
Hold your head upright,
have your chest out, and
shoulders back.
Stand upright on your feet
and lean slightly forward..
The way you walk is
important.
You want to convey
confidence and
attentiveness.
12 x 12 x 12 Theory
taking notes
evaluation gestures especially hand to face
leaning forward
use of space in seating so as to avoid barriers
eye contact
Posture
Indifference, boredom:
pacing
hand over nose
eyes closed
brow furrowed
arched eyebrows
frown
scratching in front of ear
rubbing eyes
hand to face gestures (evaluative)
pacing with head down and hands behind back or just
standing—unwise to interrupt a person thus engaged
scratching head
pinching bridge of nose, especially with head lowered
Suspicion, secretiveness:
nail biting
finger movement
sighing
hand wringing
rapid, twitchy movements
clearing throat
tremors, especially knees
heavy breathing
voice strained
lips quivering
rapid eye movement
rigidity
crossed fingers
chewing on things
Defensiveness:
hands in pocket
hands behind back
clenched hands
folded arms (can be reinforced by making fists)
crossed legs
body twisted away, moving away, sitting back
looking at door
head tilted forward, possibly squinting
stalling for time by cleaning glasses, rearranging, etc.
hand rubbing back of neck.
Dominating:
the superior can violate the subordinate's space, and can express
doubt, evaluation, domineering gestures
Defensive
Negative
Nervous
Comfort
Listening
Cross legged gesture
Prefer privacy
Nervous
Defensive
Points to ponder
• Dress well as the office protocol demands. Never forget
to wear a SMILE.
• Greet upfront
• A calm posture, A brisk walk, A straight posture (sitting)
• Be diplomatic and pleasant in answering queries,retaining
your calm face
• Keep your work area spic and span
• Avoid informal gestures like hugging , laughing loudly ,
clapping (while talking), etc.
• Follow the timelines.
• A proper eye contact should be there
• A proper distance has to be maintained, while talking
(especially with women) also avoid being overly helpful.
• Follow order in taking seats
• Be respectful towards all , especially towards ladies
• Avoid sitting in a cross-legged position
• Avoid yawning , nose digging and blowing, audibly
hiccupping, burping and farting
• Avoid looking at the watch every now and then
• Avoid extra body movements , like scratching, being
clumsy while getting up or sitting down
Badmouth about previous employers/professors
(displaying anger)
Use the Power Vocabulary:
Please, Thank You, Excuse me, I am Curious , While…, I
appreciate, I understand what you say, eliminate “but”,
and, sure, I wonder……
Avoid chewing gum or smell like smoke
Avoid Gaffe
Folding your arms or forcing a cough
Swinging your foot or leg