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Module 2 Asking Good Questions Empathy Confrontation Hand Out
Module 2 Asking Good Questions Empathy Confrontation Hand Out
How?
enables talk about feelings and/or process.
What? lead to facts and information.
Purposes of Open Ended Question
To begin an interview
To encourage client elaboration
To elicit specific examples
To motivate client to communicate
Open Ended Questions are great for:
Starting the information gathering part of the
session
Keeping the client talking
Guidelines for Asking Questions:
Examples….
Purposes of Closed-Ended Question
Pity:
* does not necessarily prompt one
to act for the benefit of the one
being pitied.
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What is EMPATHY?
“being with’”
A. seeing someone else’s situation from his
perspective
B. sharing his emotions, including, if any, his
distress.
‘It means very little to know that a
million Chinese are starving unless you
know one Chinese who is starving.”
John Steinbeck
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Sympathy
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Affective- involves an emotional
response or connection to the
counselee’s affect.
Relational connection
John 4 - woman at the well
living with a man who was not her
husband
Mark 10
rich young ruler
Guidelines in Confrontation:
1. Confrontation is a skill that can assist clients
to increase their self-awareness.
2. increases the counselor's level of
understanding as well as helping the client form
a more realistic perspective of incongruous
perceptions.
3. It can be used to highlight discrepancies that
clients have previously been unaware of,
overlooked or avoided.
4. used after rapport has been developed
between client and counsellor.
5. is not always required.
Benefits of confrontation:
-It can be very enlightening,
empowering and connecting when
done appropriately.