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Evolving Sex Workshop
Evolving Sex Workshop
Evolving Sex Workshop
Workshop
CREATING CLOSER BONDS
Sad News:
ABOUT 80% OF PEOPLE TEND
TO TREAT OTHERS WITH
MORE COMPASSION THAN
THEY DO THEMSELVES
Self-Care Guide
• Keeping yourself healthy is essential in your relationship...in order to
have a healthy stable relationship you must learn to love and take care
of yourself first! Loving yourself is key.
• Making sure you're giving your mind and body the attention it needs
to stay healthy.
• Eating a well-balanced diet
• Getting enough rest/sleep
• Staying physically active/exercising
• Good Hygiene
• Managing stress levels (stress kills)
• Rewarding yourself
• Make passionate love to yourself
The Birds And
The Bees
The vagina is the canal that’s connected to
the uterus, the vagina is stretchable, in a
relaxed state like an inflated balloon in a
relaxed state. During arousal it becomes
larger to make space for objects of
pleasure.This passageway for birth and a
penetrable organ of pleasure during sexual
Vulva Vs Vagina activity, isn’t that interesting? The vulva
refers to the delicious parts of the outside
of the vagina including the outer lips, inner
lips, clitoral glans, clitoral hood, urethral
opening, vaginal opening and mons/pubic
mound. Because of the relationship to the
clitoris this outer region is a hotbed for
orgasmic activity.
No Two Lips Are Alike
• Use a mirror to examine your vulva, remember what you call your
parts
• Experiement with stimulating your clitoral glans. What kind of touch
do you like?
• Try stimulating your perineum (alone or with a partner)
All About His Pecker
• Men get well-acquainted with their penis starting at a young age when the random erections and morning wood
arrives with puberty. Boys have really no issue with masturbation and starting at a young age masturbation
becomes a routine for them. Men are aware of their penis: urethral meatus (pee hole) the head, shaft, testes (balls)
and the perineum (gooch). Features of their penis they quickly discover with veins, length, girth, color of penis,
sperm (cum) they produce. Male sexuality is more explicit and just begins with the penis, many men have a range
of erogenous zones and full-body orgasms usually require that you pay attention to these oft-neglected pleasure
spots. The penis is a sensitive organ that varies from man to man the size, shape, color and thickness just like a
woman’s vulva. The prostate is often compared to the female G-spot and is located between the bladder against the
front wall of the anus. It produces a milky white fluid that helps to carry and sustain sperm. The prostate gland is
in his anus and can be stimulated with a finger or a sex toy (made to stimulate prostate directly). You can also
access the prostate through the perineum (gooch) by massaging with some pressure indirectly gives you the same
kind earth shattering, toes curling orgasms that the prostate provides. The new sex resolution brings out the best
pleasure for everyone! Many straight men and many move are experiment with anal play/anal sex to experience
the mind-blowing orgasms that the prostate provides when penetrated. Many straight couples engage in the male
sexuality to a new level letting him be penetrated and not be called “gay” is the thing of the past. Anal play/ Anal
sex is no longer taboo to either sex it’s all about what feels good in the new sex arua that really matters!
Couples Communication
About Sex
First Goal
How to
List List the things that turn you on in sex, and that you would
Use You can use the "mirror' method in other life situations
Erotic Talk
AKA
'Dirty Talk'
Which Words Turn You On?
Be Honest
Why Do You Need To
Talk About Sex After Ask Questions
Sex
Fantasy-Reality 2. Fantasies you just want to discuss but, not act out
Game
3. Fantasies that turn you off
Kind of old school things work differently and don't always start with desire. Many women,
especially in long-term relationships, didn't feel desire until some erotic talk, cuddling and
touching was underway.
Spontaneous Sex Desire- comes out of the blue. This is what we often see if movies and porn
Responsive Sexual Desire-Starts after something sexy & intimate happens and then you're in
the mood.
The SES/SIS Theory
After your partner is done speaking, summarize of what your partner said just in
your own words.
Repeating back what they said will have you understanding exactly what their
trying to express. (A lot of us take something the wrong way or view it different,
summarizing gets rid of that confusion.)
Oral sex brings honoring to you lover in a more intimate way. Taking your
time in giving oral pleasure should be essential to your love-making. Do
you give oral sex the attention it truly deserves? You can always learn new
oral skills to keep your partner wanting more and returning the favor. Many
women I work with don't care to give fellatio to their men because of their
bad gag reflex or they just don't like it in general. Many men I work with
say they don't want to perform cunniligus on her because she might smell
down there, or they don't like the taste. So many couples are missing out on
oral sex due to excuses that are not good ones at all. These reasons can we
worked around.
Fellatio
Make love to his cock with your mouth like
you will never see it again
Gag Reflex: Use numbing spray for the back
of your throat or use your hand to control the
depth
Make eye contact while making love with
your mouth
More spit the better
The tip of the cock is highly sensitive so when sucking or licking focus
on this area
Fellatio Tips While giving him head make sure you give him something to look at like
and Techniques have your titties out or your ass up in the air
Make intimate sounds as you suck him (letting him know that you're
enjoying yourself too)
Swallow his semen, if you don't do that then have him cum on you
wherever he wants to (your face, tits, stomach or ass)
Cunnilingus
She Deserves Oral Sex
1 2 3 4 5 6
Make sure you explore Tease her inner thighs Slap or spit on her clit Don't focus on the clit Let her know how Talk dirty to her, ask
her whole-body and go slowly through if she comfortable with the whole time explore much you enjoy this, her what her fantasies
building anticipation this process it her vulva (outer lips, tasting her, her vulva is are
and building her arousal inner lips, vaginal entry, beautiful
pubic mound, clitoris
Intimacy
HOW TO BUILD INTIMACY
Importance of Intimacy
Intimacy is like a skill; it can always be taught. The way I view intimacy is
different from how I view sex. Sex is just like a one-night stand, while intimacy is
a deeper connection of love. You must over time pull back those layers like an
onion to seek its true potential.