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Social penetration refers to a process of
relationship bonding whereby individuals move
from superficial communication to more intimate
communication
Social intimacy involves more than physical intimacy;
other dimensions of intimacy include intellectual
Penetratio and emotional, and the extent to which a couple
Theory share activities
The social penetration process, therefore,
necessarily includes verbal behaviors (the words we
use), nonverbal behaviors (our body posture, the
extent to which we smile, and so forth), and
environmentally oriented behaviors (the space
between communicators, the physical objects
present in the environment, and so forth).
Relationships progress from nonintimate
to intimate.
Assumptions Relational development is generally
of Social systematic and predictable.
Penetratio
Relational development includes
Theory
depenetration and dissolution.
Self-disclosure is at the core of
relationship development.
The Onion
Analogy
Social Penetration Theory is grounded in
several principles of Social Exchange Theory
Relationships can be conceptualized in
Social terms of rewards and costs.
Penetration Taylor and Altman: (1) Rewards and costs
Theory have a greater impact early on in the
relationship than later in the relationship,
and (2) relationships with a reservoir of
positive reward/cost experiences are better
equipped to han- dle conflict effectively.
Social Exchange Theory (SET) is based on the notion that
people think about their relationships in economic terms.
Social Exchange theorists argue that people assess their
relationships in terms of costs and rewards .
Costs are the elements of relational life that have
Social negative value to a person, such as the effort put into a
relationship and the negatives of a partner.
Exchange Rewards are the elements of a relationship that have
Theory positive value.
The Social Exchange perspective argues that people
calculate the overall worth of a particular relationship by
subtracting its costs from the rewards it provides
WORTH = REWARDS - COST
Humans seek rewards and avoid punishments.
Humans are rational beings.
The standards that humans use to evaluate
Assumptions costs and rewards vary over time and from
of Social person to person.
Exchange The assumptions Social Exchange Theory
Theory makes about the nature of rela- tionships
include the following:
Relationships are interdependent.
Relational life is a process.
Behavioral Sequences
Power
Fate Control
Effective Matrix
Dispositional Matrix
Exchange
Structures
Relational Dialectics Theory (RDT) maintains
that relational life is characterized by ongoing
tensions between contradictory impulses
People are not always able to resolve the
Relational contradictory elements of their beliefs, and
Dialectics they can hold inconsistent beliefs about
Theory relationships.
We can best explain this vision of human
behavior by contrasting it to two other
common approaches: monologic and
dualistic approaches.
Relationships are not linear.
Relational life is characterized by
Assumptions change.
of Relational
Dialectics Contradiction is the fundamental
Theory fact of relational life.
Communication is central to
organizing and negotiating
relational contradictions.
1. Totality
Elements of
Dialectics:
2. Contradiction
Building the
Tension 3. Motion
4. Praxis
Autonomy and Connection
Contextual Dialectics
• Communication Privacy Management (CPM),
Communication which helps us sort through and explain the
complexities of privacy and disclosure.
Privacy
Management • Explain the process that people use to manage
Theory the relationship between concealing and
revealing private information.
• CPM as a macrotheory because its boundaries
include a large variety of interper- sonal
relationships, including groups and
organizations.
Humans are choice makers.
Assumptions of Humans are rule makers and rule
Communication followers.
Privacy
Management Humans’ choices and rules are
Theory based on a consideration of
others as well as the self.
• depends on three privacy rule
management processes: privacy
Privacy Rule rule characteristics, boundary co-
Management ordination, and boundary
Processes turbulence
one of the processes in the
Boundary privacy rule management
Coordination system; describes how we
manage private information
Boundary turbulence exists when the
rules of boundary coordination are un-
Boundary
clear or when people’s expectations for
Turbulance
privacy management come into conflict
with one another.
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