Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Love Bites Yr 10 2020
Love Bites Yr 10 2020
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• Step 1 Use masking tape to put a line down somewhere in the room. If you cannot use masking tape you might want to use
something else to make the concept of a line.
• On one side of the line: Not OK
• On one side of the line: OK
• On the line: Still deciding
• Step 2 Read out the following statements and ask participants to place themselves on the line depending on whether they
think the statement is OK, NOT OK or they are STILL DECIDING. It is OK for...
• ... me to want to know where my boyfriend / girlfriend is all the time
• ... me to text or call my boyfriend / girlfriend to check up on them
• ... me to listen to my girlfriend/ boyfriend’s opinions
• ... my boyfriend/girlfriend to hang out with their friends without me
• ... my girlfriend / boyfriend to hang out with the opposite sex
• ... my boyfriend / girlfriend to tell me what clothes I can wear
• ... my boyfriend /girlfriend to makes fun of me and call me names
• ... my boyfriend/girlfriend to have my passwords to check up on my phone, facebook etc
• ... me to say NO to hooking up / sex even if we have done it
• ... my boyfriend / girlfriend to get angry and break things and yell at me
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• 1. Physical Violence This involves physical acts such as hitting, slapping, pushing,
kicking, pulling hair, choking, or threatening to harm someone in any way. It could
involve using a weapon or an object to threaten or hurt someone, smashing things or
driving a car dangerously to frighten someone. Hurting someone physically or
threatening to hurt them is a criminal offence.
• 2. Sexual Violence This involves pressuring or forcing someone to do sexual things
that they don’t want to do. If someone tries to manipulate or intimidate a person into
having sex when they don’t want to (if they say ‘you’d do it if you really loved me’ or
‘you’re frigid’), this is still sexual assault.
• 3. Cultural and Spiritual Abuse Includes when your boyfriend/girlfriend shows a
lack of regard, respect and is critical or belittling of your cultural and/ or spiritual
beliefs, values and practices. This includes putting you down in relation to your
accent, keeping you from important cultural events.
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• 5. Emotional Abuse Is about making the person feel hurt or bad by constantly putting them
down or making them feel stupid. It can include emotional blackmail, like threatening to
commit suicide if their girlfriend/boyfriend leaves. It can also be the use of jealousy or anger
to intimidate or to control the other person’s behaviour.
• 6. Financial Abuse Is when one person demands or takes money off the other person in a
relationship, or when one person always pays for everything or is guilt-tripped into paying
for everything.
• 7. Stalking and Intimidation Stalking is when a person constantly follows someone around,
watching them, hanging around their home, work, or school. This can occur before, during
or after a relationship. It also occurs between people who are not in a relationship.
Intimidation includes harassment and behaviours such as making repeated phone calls,
sending repeated text messages, sending repeated e-mails etc.
• 8. Cyber bullying/harassment The use of e-mail, instant messaging, chat rooms, mobile
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• When it comes to hooking up and sex do guys and girls think about
it differently?
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DISAGREE
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INDECENT IMAGES
Child abuse material is anything that depicts a person under 18 engaged in sexual
activity or in a sexual, offensive or demeaning context.
Maximum penalty: 14 years.
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SEXUAL ASSAULT
It is a crime to have sexual intercourse with someone without their permission
(consent) or without caring if they consent or not.
Maximum penalty: Life imprisonment
ATTEMPTED SEXUAL ASSAULT
It is a crime to try to sexually assault someone.
Maximum penalty: 7 years.
If the victim is under 16 years of age the penalty is 14 years.
ATTEMPTED SEXUAL ASSAULT WITH INJURY
It is a crime to injure someone while trying to sexually assault them.