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BS17 L10 The Family II
BS17 L10 The Family II
It must see to it that the young are reasonably well adjusted, so that
they don't cause trouble for society and that they grow up to be
productive in the biological and physical sense
It must provide sufficient satisfaction for parents to keep them well
adjusted so they don't make trouble for society.
Reasons for desiring more or fewer children vary in different societies.
In agricultural societies, especially if land is plentiful, people are likely to
desire large families because children tend to be an economic asset.
In industrial societies, where children are more costly, families tend to
have fewer of them. If the trend toward childless couples continues,
society will have to find some other way to reproduce itself. For the
United States, this may well mean an increase in immigration.
Matching Family Patterns with
Family Function
What family structure best meets these functions?
That's hard to say because it depends on individuals'
psychological development and the technology and
exigencies of the society.
Let's consider the variations of family groups in reference to
modern Western society.
Number of mates
Our society is primarily a monogamous one in which a family group includes a
male and a female. Why?
(1) this family grouping works well for reproduction. Given current technology,
that's the way society reproduces itself.
(2) Children take enormous amounts of time. A one-parent family has a difficult
time meeting either the child's or the parent's psychological needs. As a matter
of fact, a two-parent family has a difficult time meeting the child's and the
parents' psychological needs, especially if both parents are working. This places
two types of pressure on social institutions.
One pressure is for an extension of the family, either by including a third mate or by extending the
family and including grandparents, aunts, or uncles as part of the primary family unit.
The second pressure is for society to develop institutions such as day care to remove part of the
childrearing burden from the family.
Number of mates
(3) the family group consists of a monogamous male and female is for the
psychological adjustment of the individuals. According to some social scientists,
"three's a crowd" is more than just a pat phrase. Individuals have psychological
needs to be accepted and loved, making mates of some type necessary, and
the need for security argues for a single mate. Some individuals might prefer
more than one mate for themselves, but
few would prefer that their mate have more than one mate. The development of
strong friendships outside of marriage often results in strong feelings of
jealousy. Those feelings are in part genetic; most species have developed
instincts that encourage the propagation of the individual genes, and humankind
is no exception.
(4) from society's point of view monogamous relationship provides a mate for
most people because males and females are born in nearly equal numbers.
Selection of mates
Western societies generally allow individuals to select their own
mates. Such a selection process is by no means universal; families
in Eastern societies generally choose mates for their children. The
problem with family selection is the possible incompatibility of mates
and failure to fulfill the psychological function of marriage, although
as some of our Eastern friends point out, given the number of
divorces and unhappy marriages in the West, self-selection doesn't
seem to do such a good job of meeting the psychological functions.
Selection of mates
The advantage of family selection is that it is more likely to fulfill
economic and social stability goals.
Of course [as we saw in Chapter 4] social stability is not necessarily
a goal of society.
Cultural diffusion is also necessary, and one of the reasons Western
societies have adapted better than Eastern societies to changing
technologies and may be that self-selection of mates creates social
instability that allows and generate change.
Family Control and Reckoning of
Descent
Western societies generally are patriarchal and use a bilateral method
the functions of the fam other than the need for the psych logical adjustment
of the mate.
Society does need to fulfill the child rearing function, and it is true that
women bear and nurse children, have evolved both genetically and socially
so that, on average, a woman is better able to deal with children than a man
is, at least until the child reaches the age of about three.
Maternal instincts exist. But this patriarchal reality only suggests that the
male will most likely maintain the uninterrupted income earning activities,
inertia. Male dominance is built into the social and genetic structure of
society. The fact that it is built in does not mean that it cannot, or will not, be