The document discusses the Law of Developmental Motivation and the difference between deficiency motivation and developmental motivation. [1] Deficiency motivation occurs when people are motivated by what is missing in their lives, which leads to always wanting more and never feeling satisfied. [2] Developmental motivation means that people see themselves as already complete and whole, and are motivated by growth and change not due to lack but as part of natural human development. [3] Practicing developmental motivation allows people to feel fully alive and free to grow without seeing themselves as deficient.
The document discusses the Law of Developmental Motivation and the difference between deficiency motivation and developmental motivation. [1] Deficiency motivation occurs when people are motivated by what is missing in their lives, which leads to always wanting more and never feeling satisfied. [2] Developmental motivation means that people see themselves as already complete and whole, and are motivated by growth and change not due to lack but as part of natural human development. [3] Practicing developmental motivation allows people to feel fully alive and free to grow without seeing themselves as deficient.
The document discusses the Law of Developmental Motivation and the difference between deficiency motivation and developmental motivation. [1] Deficiency motivation occurs when people are motivated by what is missing in their lives, which leads to always wanting more and never feeling satisfied. [2] Developmental motivation means that people see themselves as already complete and whole, and are motivated by growth and change not due to lack but as part of natural human development. [3] Practicing developmental motivation allows people to feel fully alive and free to grow without seeing themselves as deficient.
There exists a profound truth in the understanding of human behavior: only unsatisfied needs motivate! There also exist two types of motivation: developmental motivation and deficiency motivation. Both fulfill unsatisfied needs. However, one leads to a satisfying life: the other, to a life of discontent. Understanding and practicing developmental motivation is crucial to experiencing wellness. It was huge trap. When we motivate ourselves from this mind-set, we can never know life satisfaction. Why? Because we’ll always suffer from the dreadful disease called “more.” What was wrong was my motivating mind- set. I was motivating myself from what was missing in my life. I may have satisfied a want, but my mind-set was never satisfied. I was always focused on wanting more – on striving, not arriving. Maslow- Deficiency vs. Developmental Motivation Maslow theorized two different kinds of motivation: Motivation to satisfy a Deficiency, and Motivation towards Growth. He believed that at the core of every neurosis was an unfulfilled need. If a person did not have a way to meet their basic needs for safety, belonging, love and respect, that person would create a neurotic symptom to attempt to satisfy in some way this unmet need. Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs The perceived lack will expand. Something will always be missing. What’s deficient in your life will become your calling card, your life experience. Enter the great non-negotiable Law of Development Motivation. The essence of the law is this: I am complete but not finished. This is the statement of powerful truth. You are complete, whole, and fully alive right now! You need no more for life to be happy. You can be completely fulfilled with what is now. Of course we’re not yet finished. Even though we are complete, growth, change, and becoming are part of life. Our physical body constantly replaces itself with new cells. Our mental capacities grow. Our spiritual reality provides a constant source of renewal. We grow and change naturally – by choice, not from lack. We are complete now, yet our natural development calls for further growth. This shift in thinking is critical. Lacks become impossible. When we can see the inevitability of growth and change, we begin to become motivated by our dreams not our deficiencies. We feel fully alive because lack is no longer part of our thinking process. We no longer see ourselves as deficient. We are free to grow and change – but not because we are incomplete. Instead, we seek growth and change because we are internally motivated to give, to serve, and to love. This is the Law of Development Motivation. It changes the way we perceive achievement and view life. Our greatest perceived need is physical survival. The second greatest perceived human need is psychological survival. The third is spiritual survival. There is a hierarchy of the perceptions: physical, psychological, and spiritual. Body, mind, spirit. In that order. Satisfied needs, be they physical, psychological or spiritual, do not motivate. Only unsatisfied hungers move people. This is one of the most powerful understandings we can have of ourselves and of others. “When we can see the inevitability of growth and change, we begin to become motivated by our dreams, not our deficiencies. “We are free to grow and change - but not because we are incomplete . Instead, we seek growth and change because we are internally motivated to give , to serve and to love”. “But the mere fact that we have unsatisfied needs does not mean we are deficient”.
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