HUMAN RELATION

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Be with God and you will be happy
Nine ways to make people like you:

• Begin in a friendly way

• Give honest, sincere appreciation
• Arouse in the other an eager want
• Become genuinely interested in other people
• Smile
• Remember that persons name is to themselves the sweetest and
most important sound in any language.
• Be a good listener. Encourage other to talk about hem.
• Talk in terms of the other person interests
• Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.
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Nine ways to bring around people without giving offence:

1. Begin with praise and honest appreciation

2. Call attention to people’s mistakes before criticizing the other
person
3. Talk about your own mistake before criticizing the other person
4. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders
5. Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement
6. Let the other person save his face
7. Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to
8. Use encouragement, make the fault seems easy to correct
9. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest
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Twelve ways to make people think in your way :

1. Show respect for the other persons opinions. Never tell persons that
they are wrong.
2. The only way to get the best of any argument is to avoid it.
3. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically
4. Don’t criticise, condemn or complain
5. Get the other person saying Yes, Yes immediately
6. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking
7. Let the other person feel that the idea is his
8. Try honestly to see things from other persons point of view
9. Be sympathetic with the other persons ideas and desires
10. Appeal to nobler motives
11. Dramatize your ideas
12. Throw down a challenge
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Four ways to analyse worry
1. Get all the facts
2. Weigh all the facts, then come to a decision
3. Once a decision is reached, act
4. Write the answer of the following questions:
– What is the problem?
– What are the causes of the problem?
– What are the possible solutions?
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Six ways to break the worry habit

1. Keep busy
2. Don’t fuss about trifles
3. Use the law of averages to outlaw your worries
4. Cooperate with the inevitable
5. Decide just how much anxiety a thing may be worth and
refuse to give it more
6. Don’t worry about the past
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Four ways to overcome worry
1. Live in a day tight compartments
2. Face the trouble in the following ways:
– Ask yourself what is the worst that can possibly happen
– Prepare mentally to accept the worst
– Try to improve on the worst.
3. Remind yourself to the exorbitant price you can pay for
worry in terms of your health.
4. Apply the law of averages in your favour.
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Eight ways to face criticism and grow strong:
1. Remember that unjust criticism is often a disguised compliment.
2. Do the very best you can
3. Analyse your own mistake and criticize yourself
4. Rest before you get tired
5. Learn to relax at your work
6. Apply the following 4 good working habits
– Clean your desk of all papers except those related to the immediate
problem at hand
– Do things in order of their importance
– When you have a problem, solve it then and there if you hope the
necessary facts to make the decision
– Learn to organize, deputies and supervise.
7. Put enthusiasm into your work
8. Don’t worry about insomnia
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Seven ways to peace and happiness
1. Fill your mind with thoughts of peace, courage, health,
hope and prayer
2. Never try to get even with your enemies
3. Expect ingratitude
4. Count your blessing not your troubles
5. Do not imitate others
6. Try to profit from your losses
7. Create happiness for other