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Building Communication Skills Using TA: Lecture 1. Unit II
Building Communication Skills Using TA: Lecture 1. Unit II
Building Communication Skills Using TA: Lecture 1. Unit II
Lecture 1.
1. Unit
Unit II
II
Building Communication
skills using TA
DEI University
Objective of Lecture
1. Social communication
Focus is on relationships
2. Academic Communication
Focus is learning
3. Cultural Communication
Focus is on entertainment
4. Religious communication
Focus is on getting peace
5. Business Communication
Focus is getting desired behavioral outcome
1. Concept of communication in
Business (organizational perspective )
As soon as you move one step from the bottom , your
effectiveness depends on your ability to reach
others ( for getting desired outcome ) through the
spoken or written word. And farther away your job
is from manual work , the larger the organization ,
the more important it will be that you know how to
convey your thoughts in writing and speaking ( without
the need for clarifications ) . In large organizations , the
ability to express himself ( verbal or written ) is perhaps
the most important skills a person can possess
(Peter Drucker.)
Business Communication
( Individual perspective )
Communication is the most important skill in
almost any job. How you communicate your
achievements to others is reflection of your
quality of work. Sure , you must know how to
do the job to accomplish great results but that
only a portion of the professional success .Good
communication skills are required to report your
results to others , persuade colleagues to take
action , and sell your success in Management .
( Don Zatyko )
Communication :Transaction
RATIONAL
EMOTIONAL
MIND
MIIND
3. Adult
1.Parent
2. Child
How
How is
is TA
TA linked
linked to
to Communication
Communication skills?
skills?
We examine facts
Parent /or get facts & analyze
(I am ok or I am not ok)
Further
Further division
division of
of EGO
EGO States
States
Child : Two
1. Free & Natural
2. Adapted or Aggressive or destructive child
1.2
1.2 Ego
Ego styles
styles that
that Communicate
Communicate
P P
A A
C C
Person A Person B
Two
Two Ego
Ego styles
styles that
that Communicate
Communicate
P P
C C
I totally agree with you ( Child comes from giving respect .he may not disagree although his views
are different. In traditional culture , it is normally expected to respect the elders)
Two
Two Ego
Ego styles
styles that
that Communicate
Communicate
P P
C C
P P
Parent (controlling ) : You are totally careless . I can not help every day items
that you misplace .
Styles create Interpersonal relationships
or breaks it
Complimentary : Builds
relationship
Cross : Breaks
relationships
Exercise
Exercise
???
Preparation
Preparation for
for meeting:
meeting: Use
Use Adult
Adult ego
ego state
state
In case you are asked “Can you sell addition 25% this year?
Never say “Yes” if you have not done the analysis.
First ask for clarification whether the boss wants a guess or concrete
answer (Adult)
A Child state would mean some answer to be give to
avoid negative stroke. He may Yes immediately
A Parent response would be “We have never done more
than 110% of target in the past and hence not possible
Preparation
Preparation for
for meeting:
meeting: Use
Use Adult
Adult ego
ego state
state
In case you are asked for some clarification, do not respond if you
do not have facts. Its better to say:-
“I will get back to you”. (Adult)
In case you are asked for some clarification, do not respond if you
do not have facts. Its better to say:-
“I will get back to you”. (Adult)
2. Aggressive Communication
3. Assertive communication
1. Passive Communication
Allowing our own rights to be violated by failing to express our
honest feelings
The goal is to avoid conflict no matter what
Little risk involved – very safe
Make assumption in favor of “yes” without finding
alternatives.
Little eye contact, often defers to others’ opinions, usually
quiet tone, may suddenly explode after being passive too
long.
A Passive Person : Style, tone, voice
“I don’t know why you can’t see that this is the right
way to do it.”
“It’s going to be my way or not at all.”
“You’re just stupid if you think that will work.”
“That kind of logic will sink the company.”
“Who cares what you feel. We’re talking about
making things work here.”
3. Assertive communication
An honest, direct, and Appropriate
expression of one's feelings, thoughts, and
beliefs in an appropriate way showing full
empathy to others need.
Communicating your rights in such a
way that you do not violate another
persons rights/ Ego .Expressing your
needs, wants, opinions, feelings and
beliefs in such a way that is appropriate
to the situation
Indicators of Assertive Communication