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Brinda Ashok
Family Coach
ABLEXPERTS
Each time when fish was shifted
Sage said one thing to the fish

What did the sage say?

Answer:

“You can live in this situation also”

 PROFILE OF A CHILD
0 - 5 - observes

5 – 10 – Practice

10 – 15 – Act

15- 18 – They start Living the Character

18 – 27 – “Character” ( Consequences)
“Personality” refers to
the specific thoughts,
feeling and behaviours
that make every
person and every child
unique.
 Gen Z
Gen Y
Control / Hold
Inculcating Values:
See what they Value in Life
Inculcate Culture
Inculcate Ethics
Find Ways to do it
(Video, Case study, Incidence…)

Benefit:

Self Disciplined | Mastering the Basics

 “Freedom is
good but in
moderation

Too much of it
is a recipe for
disaster”
 EMOTION IS GOOD.
REMEMBER!
YOUR ACTION IS NOT
RIGHT

Parents – Photo – Celebrity

Correct the Situation
Check the Traits
Accommodate
Accept
Figure out
Plan A, B…..
ONLINE CLASS
What were they doing in the Original classes?
(playing, talking, watching, chatting)

Was he an Ideal student? (Eariler @ PTM, now in

front of you)

Yes, I agree there are issues

More interested activity to less interested, so the lack

of Interest. (Your child not the problem)
 Suggestions:
Accept the Reality -Difficult times – That’s Okay – Let go

Think Long Run –No pandemic can kill your Childs Talent

You don’t get exhausted

Have faith on the System & talk to the Child

Don’t’s

Requesting

Will Power

Nagging/ Shouting
 Tips:
Say No – Assertive & Strong (below 12 good to prevent)

Clear Rule for screen Time ( 2 -3 hr depends)

Rational Consistent Communication (reason behind the rule)

Replace them with Real/ better Activities

Resistance

Talk back
Get Ready
Tantrums for…
Rebellion
 Learn and be strong to
deal it

This period of Transition

will be tough. You Can
and Must
 Correct your child
when is WRONG:

CORRECTION SILENCE APPRECIATION

Methods
Appreciate - 5 sentences | Negative - 1 sentence
 Responsibility Independency
Involve them in all

Sharing of Ready in any

work situation

Benefits:
You both can share interesting things

Understand the Situation of the house

Trust development
 BUILD
CONFIDENC
E IN YOUR
CHILD
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