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Psychology: Understanding The Self
Psychology: Understanding The Self
Psychology: Understanding The Self
Personality Theory also used the same term, the I as the one
who acts decide while ME is what I think about my self as an
object.
Other concept of Self: IDENTITY &
SELF-CONCEPTS
IDENTITY
■ Is composed of personal characteristics, social roles and responsibilities,
as well as affiliations that define who one is.
SELF-CONCEPT
■ Is what basically comes to your mind when you are (Oyserman, Elmore,
and Smith 2012)
Self identity and self-concept are not fixed in one time frame, they are also
not fixed for life nor they are ever changing at every moment.
SCHEMA – A mental structures that an individual uses to organize
knowledge and guide cognitive proces and behavior.
COMPONENTS OF SELF:
Hobbies, religion, nationality, and family.
Schema is not limited to examples above, this may also include your
interests, works, name, age, and physical characters.
SELF-SCHEMA – Refers to the impression that you have to yourself and
how they influenced your behavior.
What is the function of self-schema?
■ These categories of knowledge reflects how we expect our self to think,
feel, and act in particular systemor collection of knowledge about who
we are.
CARL ROGER
■ Captured the idea in his concept of SELF-SCHEMA, for him it is our
organized system of collection of knowledge about who we are.
Theories generally see the self and identity as mental constructs, created and
reacted in memory. (Oyserman, Elmore, and Smith 2012)
Several psychologist looking deeper into the mind of the person to theorize
about the self, identity, and concept in turn one’s personality.
The most influential of them is Sigmund Freud. Freud saw the self, it’s
mental processes, and one’s behavior as the result of interaction between the
Id, Ego, and Superego.
One cannot full discount the effects of society and culture on the in
information of self, identity, and self-concept even Freud and other
researcher and theories, try to understand the person by digging deeper into
the mind.
• William James and the Me-self; I-self
“I am who I am.”
If you are who you are, then who are you that makes you who
you are?
“Self is the sense of personal identity and who are we as
individual.”
- Jhangiani and Tarry (2014)
William James (January 11, 1842 – August 26, 1910)
What is Me-Self?
A man’s self is the sum total of all that he can call his, not only his body and
his physic, but his clothes and his house.
- William James -
• Global vs. Differentiated Models
GLOBAL
■ Refers to the general value that a person places on himself or
herself.
DIFFERENTIATED SELF
■ Refers to your ability to separate your own feelings and
thoughts from others.
10 DIFFERENTIATED MODELS OF
SELF
■ Self Conciousness – Is a hightened sense of self-awareness.
■ Self Multiple – Someone’s role is to not stop being his or her
responsibilities and self of sense.
■ Self as Looking-Glass
- Other people serve as a mirror in which we can see ourselves.
- People develop a sense of WHO THEY ARE AND WHAT TO THINK
OF THEMSELVES by watching the reactions of the people in their
“primary group” as well as they meet throughout their lives.
- We ourselves through the eyes of other people even to the extent of
incorporating their views of us into our own self-concept.
i.e: Teenagers are strongly influenced by their peers and will go beyond
conforming to changing their self image to match.
■ Self Structure – The self, as that which can be an object to itself, is
essential a social structure and it arises in social experience.
■ Self as Flower – The self in this view is like a flower, potentially growing
into full bloom.
■ Self as Self-Creative – “Man is nothing else but what he makes to
himself.” Rejecting any traditional, essential idea of human nature, Sartre
adds: “In other words, there is freedom.” To clarify: “You are nothing less
than your life.” combining all your projects, actions, and chores. The self,
in his view, is not an iceberg, nor a passive reflection, bor a flower that
may grow; it is what we make it but it is somewhat atomistic.
■ Self as Onion – This model is indicated by the phrase “hidden depths”
and reflects the notion that one may not really know someone, just the
GOFFMANESQUE presentation of the different selves acting in different
roles and circumstances, which may be camouflage and masks.
■ Self as Identity – Our self concept is our identity It is the concept you
develop about yourself that evolves over the course of your life. This may
include the aspects of your life that you have no control over, such as
where you grew up or the color of your skin, as well as choices you make
in life, such as how you spend time and what you believe.
■ Self as Unicorn – It is party unknown, even unknowable because it is so
below conciousness and in progress.
■ Self as Chameleon – Chameleon because it is multiple, mutable,
adaptable, and selective in presentation. These selves may be
complimentary, contradictory or conflicted.
SELF CONCEPT
■ Is defined as the totality of individual thoughts and feelings having
reference to her/his as an object.
■ Lifestyle, in many ways, is an outward expression of one’s self-concept.
Carl Rogers SELF THEORY
REAL SELF
■ The REAL SELF is who we actually are. Its is how we think, how we
feel, look and act. The real self can be seen by others, but because we
have no way of truly knowing how others views us, the real self is our
self-image
IDEAL SELF
■ The IDEAL SELF is how we want to be. It is an idealized image that we
have developed over time based on what we have learned and
experienced. The ideal self could include components of what our parents
have taught us, what we admire in others, what our society promotes, and
what we think is in our best interest.
• Multiple vs. Unified Self
What is Multiple Self?
■ Multiple selves varies across different interpersonal and
intrepersonal rules and relationships, the attitude and
characteristics we show depends on who are the people we are
interacting with.
■ A psychoanalytic concept of the self as composed of may
different affective, perceptual, and cognitive features.
■ Theories of personality reveal the influence of two themes:
human behavior is determined in past, and some believes
completely, by stimuli in the environment.
What is Unified Self?
■ Unified self is a personality that stays within us, the self we
usually only show to people we trust and whenever we are
alone.
■ Unified self is a means of referring to the “composite”
persona, or to the “self” that contains all of the other personas
that exists within a person’s interactional style.
■ It is the integration of the sub selves into one, however,
integration is a task for the later part of our life.
• True vs. False Self
TRUE SELF
■ The true self is represented by our real feelings and desires .
■ The true self – the child’s real feelings needs desires and thought – is
pushed further and further inside the onion.
■ We still have all of these feelings, needs, desires and thoughts, its just
that the adapted self dominates it.
■ There are many times in our day to day lives when it would be harmful to
us to let our true self dominate. For instance, we don’t bare our deepest
feelings and thoughts while at work. That kind of vulnerability would not
only demonstrate a lack of boundaries but would also open us up to
potential attack from others who might not treat our feeling with
acceptance.
FALSE SELF
■ It is a side of us that has changes its behavior, repressed feelins and
pushed needs aisde in order to survive.
There are two types of false self, the healthy false self and unhealthy false
self.
1. Healthy False Self – It is described as one which allows someone to be
functional in society. It enables politeness and social courtesy even when
we may not feel like it.
2. Unhealthy False Self – It comes from same origin as the healthy
including narcissism and adduction. D.W. Winnicott defines unhealthy
false self as one that fits into society through force compliance rather
than a desire to adapt.
Real life examples of false self are based around certain beliefs
that we take on in order to fit into our world better.
■ If I am pretty, I will be more likeable.
■ If I work hard/achieve more, I will have more value.