Marriage in Islam

Barzan Faizin
 Marriage
(bases of sakinah family)

1. Worship Perspective 2. Legal Perspective

a. UU Perkawinan No. 1 Tahun 1974 pasal.

29.
b. Al-Qur’an Surah An-Nuur:33
1. Hadist of Rasul ‫غب‬
: ‫منرـ‬
‫لاــنكاح سـنتى فـــ‬ c. Hadits Rasul:
‫ليسمنى‬
‫عن سـنتى فـــ‬ d. Marriage law: Wajib, Sunnah, Haram,
Makruh dan Mubah.

“Marriage is part of my sunnah, and

whoever does not follow my sunnah has 3. Social Perspective: family as a smallest
nothing to do with me” society.
Purposes of Marriage

To form sakinah family

(Ar-Rum: 21)

To complete To allow the

worship unlawful

To get a
To prevent
legitimate
immoral acts
offspring
 Pre Merriage

[1] criteria of husband [2] avoiding the ways

& wife to be. Hadits: “A [3]not staying with a Engagement as
person chooses his life to zina (Al-Isra:32): woman who is not narrated by
partner due to four
reasons.
‫وـالـ‬ mahram (Hadits ) : Muslim:
1. Rank 2. Money 3. Beauty ‫ربوا الزـنا إنـهـ‬ ‫قـتــــ‬ ‫الــخطباـحدكـم على‬
‫يـ‬
 4.Taqwa (Virtue). One
should choose who is best ‫خـشـة وـساء‬ ‫كـان اـفـــ‬ ‫ال يخلون احدكم بامرأة‬ ‫خطبة اـخـيهـ‬
in Taqwa (Virtue)” [Sahih
‫سـبيال‬ ‫اال مع ذى محرم‬
Hadith]
 Pillars of Merriage

[3] The presence of

the woman’s guardian 

[4] Offer and

[2] Two male, Muslim
acceptance (ijab
witnesses 
kabul)

[1] the presence of the

couple nikah [5] mahar
 forbidden marriages in Islam

Sirri Muth’ah Sighar

marriage marriage marriage
 Guardians (Wali)

Hakim
guardian

Tahkim
Mujbir guardian
guardian

Nasab guardian
Marriage Adhal guardian
guardian
 Marriage problems

Zihar
Khulu
Li’an
k

Fasak
Ila’ Problems
h
Interfaith marriage in islam?

Muslim women are forbidden from marrying non-

Muslims, see Al-Baqarah 221:
‫وال تنكحوا المشركت حتى يؤمن والمة مؤمنة خير من مشركة‬
‫ وال تنكحوا المشركين حتى يؤمنوا ولعبد مؤمن‬,‫ولو أعجبتكم‬
‫ خير من مشرك ولو أعجبكم‬........

Muslim males may marry a non-Muslim female,

specifically, one from the "People of the Book", which
includes Judaism and Christianity , see (Q.S Al-
Maidah :5).
 Talak and reconciliation

Talak Iddah

Talak: [1] Talak Bain; [2]

Talak Raj’i

[1] pregnant [2] whose Divorced

woman: untill husband dies: 4 woman: 3
she bears baby months 10 days furification or
(al-Bqarah:234) periods (al-
Baqarah: 228)
Reconciliation: [1] without
new marriage; [2] with new
marriage
‫والسالم عليكم ورحمة هللا وبركاته‬