FACTS OF LIFE

DR. MAHESH LOHITH K S

ASSOCIATE PROFESSOR & HEAD
DEPARTMENT OF PHYSICS
ATME COLLEGE OF ENGINEERING
CONTENTS

 HUMAN TENDENCIES
 “D”-MANTRAS OF SUCCESS
 INTERPERSONAL TRANSACTIONS
 FACTS OF LIFE
 QUOTES
HUMAN TENDENCIES

DR. MARIO MONTESSORI Sr.

S/O Dr. MARIA MONTESSORI
“THE HUMAN TENDENCIES”
1956
HUMAN TENDENCIES
GIFTS TO HUMAN BEINGS

 INTELLIGENCE
 LOVE
 REASON
 WILL
HUMAN TENDENCIES
HUMAN BEINGS EVOLVED
& ARE ENDOWED WITH

 INTELLIGENCE
 INSTINCTS
 MOVEMENT
HUMAN TENDENCIES
HUMAN TENDENCIES

 EXIST IN EACH INDIVIDUAL

 STIMULATE HIM OR HER WITHIN THE SOCIETY
 UNCHANGING AND INDIVIDUAL
 SURVIVE AND ADAPT (TIME AND ENVIRONMENT)
HUMAN TENDENCIES
ORDER

 TENDENCY OF ORDER HELPS IN UNDERSTAND THE

ONE’S SURROUNDINGS
 KEEP THINGS ORDERED AND IN WELL DEFINED
PLACES
HUMAN TENDENCIES
ORIENTATION

 ABILITY TO ORIENT ONE’S SELF IN NEW SITUATION

 HOW TO FIT INTO A PARTICULAR TIME
 HOW TO ADAPT
HUMAN TENDENCIES
EXPLORATION

 CURIOSITY LEADING TO EXPLORE

 DESIRE TO UNDERSTAND
 LEARN, READ, RESEARCH AND TRAVEL
 RENDERS LIVING BETTER MATERIALLY &
SPIRITUALLY
HUMAN TENDENCIES
COMMUNICATION

 ABILITY OF THE LIVING BEINGS TO UNDERSTAND

EACH OTHER AND AS WELL AS TO BE UNDERSTOOD
 DIFFERENT FORMS: LISTENING, READING, SPEAKING
AND WRITING
 ACTIVITY
HUMAN TENDENCIES
ACTIVITY

 ABILITY TO MOVE WHICH INVOLVES BOTH MIND

AND BODY
 THIS NEEDS FREEDOM
 EX: CHILD IS RESTLESS AND FOR ADULTS IT SEEMS
PURPOSELESS
HUMAN TENDENCIES
MANIPULATION

 TENDENCY TO TOUCH AND TO HANDLE ONE’S

SURROUNDINGS TO GIVE CONTROL OVER AN
ACTIVITY
 CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE
HUMAN TENDENCIES
WORK
 IT IS THE ABILITY TO PUT IN TO REALITY
WHAT THE IMAGINATION SUGGESTS
 MANIFESTATION OF ACTIVITY &
MANIPULATION
 ENABLES INDEPENDENCE, DIGNITY AND
FEELING OF REST
HUMAN TENDENCIES
REPETITION

ABILITY TO DO AN EXERCISE OVER AND OVER
AGAIN

TO REACH PERFECTION

TO EXPERIENCE THE JOY OF INCREASED
CONTROL

TO EXPERIENCE THE JOY OF UNDERSTANDING
ONE’S WORLD
HUMAN TENDENCIES
EXACTNESS

IT IS THE DESIRE TO BE TO PRECISE AND
CONSTANT SO THAT THE THINGS ARE
OBJECTIVE

IT IS NECESSARY TENDENCY TO SURVIVE

TO MAINTAIN STABILITY

TO PREVENT ACCIDENTS
SOUL IS OBJECTIVE AND MIND IS SUBJECTIVE
HUMAN TENDENCIES
ABSTRACTION
 ABILITY TO REASON BEYOND THE LIMITS OF
THE CONCRETE AS WELL AS GENERALIZE
AND INTERPRET
 THIS TENDENCY WILL NOT DEVELOP UNTIL
THERE IS CONCRETE EXPERIENCE
HUMAN TENDENCIES
SELF-PERFECTION
 DEVELOPMENT OF A PERSON TO A POINT
THAT IS SATISFYING TO THE PERSON
HIMSELF

STUDENTS : NOTICE ALL THESE TENDENCIES IN YOUR SELF

AND FRIENDS
TEACHERS : NOTICE IN YOUR STUDENTS
D-MANTRAS OF SUCCESS
ENHANCE THE Ds OF SUCCESS
 DEDICATION
 DEVOTION
 DETERMINATION
 DELIVERY
 DONATION
TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
 The interactions between people give rise to the
Social Transactions,
 People respond and interact with each other
depends on their ego states.
 The transactions routed through ego states of
persons can be classified as complementary,
crossed and ulterior.
TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
EGO STATES
 ERIC BERN – A PIONEER IN TA
 MADE COMPLEX INTERPERSONAL
TRANSACTIONS UNDERSTANDABLE
 RECOGNIZED HUMAN PERSONALITY – THREE
EGO STATES
 PARENT, ADULT AND CHILD EGO STATES
TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
EGO STATES
 PARENT
NURTURING : PLEASANT QUALITIES
CRITICAL : CORRECTIVE BEHAVIOR
 ADULT : LOGICAL RATIONAL WAY OF CONTACTING
REALITY
 CHILD
NATURAL (FREE) CHILD : SPONTANEOUS, INTUITIVE,
CREATIVE, PLEASURE SEEKER
ADAPTIVE CHILD : COMPLIANT, CONFORMING TO
THE WISHES OF OTHERS
TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS

 COMPLEMENTARY
TRANSACTIONS
(PARALLEL)

NON COMPLEMENTARY
TRANSACTIONS
(CROSSED)

BEST : ADULT TO ADULT MODE, I AM OK AND
YOU ARE OK
FACTS OF LIFE


EVERY PERSON – IMPERSONATES -
A GOD AND A DEVIL IN SELF
 GOOD DEEDS – GOD

EVIL DEEDS – DEVIL

EXPRESSION DEPENDS ON TIME AND ENVIRONMENT
 REGULATE THE DEVIL AND NURTURE THE GOOD
DEEDS
FACTS OF LIFE
EMOTIONS

JOY - EXPRESS

ANGER - SUPPRESS

DESPERATE – DO NOT GIVE UP
 FRUSTRATION – RETRY TO SUCCEED

SAD – SHARE

DEPRESSED - ACCOMPANY
QUOTES

“TAKE RISKS IN YOUR LIFE”

IF YOU WIN YOU CAN LEAD

IF YOU LOOSE YOU AND GUIDE!

: SWAMI VIVEKANANDA
QUOTES

“ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU WEAK,

PHYSICALLY, INTELLECTUALLY AND
SPIRITUALLY, REJECT IT AS POISON”

: SWAMI VIVEKANANDA
QUOTES

“THE GREATEST SIN IS TO THINK

YOURSELF WEAK”

: SWAMI VIVEKANANDA
QUOTES

“THE WORLD IS NOT OBLIGATED TO FIT INTO

OUR MAPS OF LIFE”

“WE ARE THE VICTIMS OF OUR LIMITING LOGIC”

: SWAMI SUKHABHODANANDA
QUOTES

“NOTING HAPPENS UNTIL SOME THING

MOVES”
: ALBERT EINSTEIN